FabSwingers.com forum: Hotel meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A guy messages you telling you he’s in a hotel and horny, will you meet him now? Another messages saying he’s coming to your city in four weeks and he’d like to meet you then. Would you react differently to the two messages? Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I react the same to both

Not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have done both ! I am a slut !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it so hard on here to meet a full bi woman....that my self and my wife can play with....

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By *accaMan
over a year ago

leicester

"A guy messages you telling you he’s in a hotel and horny, will you meet him now? Another messages saying he’s coming to your city in four weeks and he’d like to meet you then. Would you react differently to the two messages? Why?

Guess it depends if you've had any interaction with them already or not.. if not and its just a random message its highly likely theyd not get a response at all.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's a no from me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't meet in hotels so that's easily solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet today...no

Meet in 4 weeks....chance to get to know them...so possibly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You’ve never heard from either of them before, to clarify..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I react the same to both

Not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ve never heard from either of them before, to clarify.."

Oh in that case, No! I am not a slut !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh we get that all the time. "On the island today / tonight / now. Fancy to meet?"

It'll never be a yes from us to such opportunists.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ve never heard from either of them before, to clarify.."

The first I'd say no thanks.

The second I would chat to and see if we get on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh we get that all the time. "On the island today / tonight / now. Fancy to meet?"

It'll never be a yes from us to such opportunists.

Mrs"

Thats why i asked about the secong scenario. Still psssing through but with the ability to plan ahead and provides an opportunity to get to know someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You’ve never heard from either of them before, to clarify..

Oh in that case, No! I am not a slut ! "

Pahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet tonight, would depend on timing if we were actively wanting to meet someone when the message came in, and the profile looks promising. Why not. But it is unlikely.

2nd scenario would be a standard meet request, 4 weeks to figure it out.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Ages ago it would of been a no and a maybe if we chat a bit leading up to it.

These days nahhhh, not interested in entertaining business men in hotels.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Would depend entirely

If it was someone that joined an hour ago with a blank profile no chance

If it was someone established here with a decent profile who seemed interesting then why not?

If I wouldn’t turn them down if they lived 5 miles ago then I assess each message and profile on it’s merits

Location is only an issue if you want regular meets with that individual or couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting range of responses. I was told i was rude last week for replying to the first scenario explaining I didnt fuck random businessmen in hotels, which it seems to me was precisely what he was asking for.

The second scenario led to one of my hottest fab meets. An opportunity to chat and work out something quite specific was key.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

"Interesting range of responses. I was told i was rude last week for replying to the first scenario explaining I didnt fuck random businessmen in hotels, which it seems to me was precisely what he was asking for.

The second scenario led to one of my hottest fab meets. An opportunity to chat and work out something quite specific was key."

You can’t possibly leave it at that..... spill the beans, what did you get upto???

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Only hotel meets I’ve had, have been arranged in advance.So the first situation, no. Second I wouldn’t rule it out if we clicked whilst chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would depend entirey on who and what. I have technically had a hotel meet and would again. But the situation and the person would have to be right. I think it’s easier to meet in a club though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The second scenario led to one of my hottest fab meets. An opportunity to chat and work out something quite specific was key.

You can’t possibly leave it at that..... spill the beans, what did you get upto???"

Well two had contacted me individually who were staying in the same hotel. They didnt know each other but were willing to combine on a plan.

Met one in the bar for drinks. Chatted and flashed to the other (thats his thing) on instruction from first guy.

Went to first guy’s room for a bit of D/s foreplay before going to second guys room where i was blindfolded, restrained and tag teamed for some time.

Gin in the bar afterwards.

Both guys were open about their ID and who they were so I could take some precautions, contacted me well in advance and open to ideas. It was a VERY sexy evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The second scenario led to one of my hottest fab meets. An opportunity to chat and work out something quite specific was key.

You can’t possibly leave it at that..... spill the beans, what did you get upto???

Well two had contacted me individually who were staying in the same hotel. They didnt know each other but were willing to combine on a plan.

Met one in the bar for drinks. Chatted and flashed to the other (thats his thing) on instruction from first guy.

Went to first guy’s room for a bit of D/s foreplay before going to second guys room where i was blindfolded, restrained and tag teamed for some time.

Gin in the bar afterwards.

Both guys were open about their ID and who they were so I could take some precautions, contacted me well in advance and open to ideas. It was a VERY sexy evening."

That does sound super sexy xx

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By *s1212Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Would love to have a hotel meet again.

Do like some notice though.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Why is it so hard on here to meet a full bi woman....that my self and my wife can play with...."

Because you're posting in a thread that has nothing to do with what you're looking for ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ve never heard from either of them before, to clarify..

The first I'd say no thanks.

The second I would chat to and see if we get on. "

The first I would ignore.

The second I would study the profile and any pictures, then chat to see if we got on if I thought it was worth it

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldnt be interested in either tbh,but hate messages expecting same day meets,so that would get an instant delete.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

It's a lot harder than it seems, I'm in hotels all the time but can't get a meet.

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By *atinocouple80Couple
over a year ago

London

We get them all the time, ignore them.

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By *sSweetAsSugarCouple
over a year ago

hardenden

Depending on the guy yes to both. But we would need to chat and have a lengthy social before any possible play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both, totally depends upon my level of horniness....as to whether Im feeling very horny, incredibly horny or immensity horny.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"You’ve never heard from either of them before, to clarify.."

Definitely a no if no communication before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever done hotel meets with someone I already know or have spent time getting to know before we met.

Random meets, not that single guys...or this one anyway,... with a complete stranger, not for me really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh we get that all the time. "On the island today / tonight / now. Fancy to meet?"

It'll never be a yes from us to such opportunists.

Mrs

Thats why i asked about the secong scenario. Still psssing through but with the ability to plan ahead and provides an opportunity to get to know someone."

Highly unlikely we'd say yes unless they're staying for a couple of days. We do social first. If there is a connection then meet again. Not on the same day as we're time limited. But that's just us

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn't feel comfortable or safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't feel comfortable or safe"

Hotels are actually a lot safer than other places such as people's homes, cars or outdoors. They have cameras and there are people around who can hear cries for help.

In a persons car, for example, they could drive you anywhere, do anything to you, and dump you in the middle of nowhere. Far much riskier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what mood I'm in.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I wouldn't feel comfortable or safe

Hotels are actually a lot safer than other places such as people's homes, cars or outdoors. They have cameras and there are people around who can hear cries for help.

In a persons car, for example, they could drive you anywhere, do anything to you, and dump you in the middle of nowhere. Far much riskier."

I'd do a hotel meet only if I'd previously spoken to and met the person, I meant if I'd never communicated with them before then it would be a no.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've had a couple of hotel meets in the past and whilst they were fun it made me feel a bit whorish. I'm looking for regular lovers and that's not going to happen with hotels.....unless Brad Pitt is on here!!

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yepid meet both

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes i would act differently and have. Tbe horny in a hotel rooms ones get ignored. But i have met people in the past who have sent a message like "hi im going to be in your area in a few weeks and searching through profiles yours xame up. I wondered if you would like to meet for a drink" Its not what you say its how you say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travelodge. No.

Hilton or similar. Yes.

Worth a shot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met guy in hotel room was fun 1st cock I’d sucked and wanked

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Wouldn't bother with either. They just want a free prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't feel comfortable or safe

Hotels are actually a lot safer than other places such as people's homes, cars or outdoors. They have cameras and there are people around who can hear cries for help.

In a persons car, for example, they could drive you anywhere, do anything to you, and dump you in the middle of nowhere. Far much riskier.

I'd do a hotel meet only if I'd previously spoken to and met the person, I meant if I'd never communicated with them before then it would be a no."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes i would act differently and have. Tbe horny in a hotel rooms ones get ignored. But i have met people in the past who have sent a message like "hi im going to be in your area in a few weeks and searching through profiles yours xame up. I wondered if you would like to meet for a drink" Its not what you say its how you say it"

well said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Travelodge. No.

Hilton or similar. Yes.

Worth a shot!"

They are always reluctant to reveal the quality of the hotel. So frustrating, lol.

(Disclaimer: still not prepared to meet random businessmen at the drop of a hat)

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"You’ve never heard from either of them before, to clarify..

The first I'd say no thanks.

The second I would chat to and see if we get on. "

Same here!

4 weeks is plenty of time to establish a decent rapport!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Travelodge. No.

Hilton or similar. Yes.

Worth a shot!"

Bloody snob!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

The second scenario led to one of my hottest fab meets. An opportunity to chat and work out something quite specific was key.

You can’t possibly leave it at that..... spill the beans, what did you get upto???

Well two had contacted me individually who were staying in the same hotel. They didnt know each other but were willing to combine on a plan.

Met one in the bar for drinks. Chatted and flashed to the other (thats his thing) on instruction from first guy.

Went to first guy’s room for a bit of D/s foreplay before going to second guys room where i was blindfolded, restrained and tag teamed for some time.

Gin in the bar afterwards.

Both guys were open about their ID and who they were so I could take some precautions, contacted me well in advance and open to ideas. It was a VERY sexy evening."

Sounds amazing!

Why the hell does that never happen to me?

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over a year ago

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

It's a 'no, thanks' to both for me.

I'm a regular-meets kinda woman, and I refuse to be considered as a living, breathing wank-sock

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

That would depend on a lot of things, the one who was coming in 4 weeks so i could maybe get to know him a bit first. I dont meet in hotels though.

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By *uddleanstrokeMan
over a year ago

Bristol / Crete / Glasgow

Well it seems to work one way. When i’m travelling round - invites to my room usually get ignored (whether posted in advance or on night). But when a F sought such a meet (she was on holiday) it was so horny to have her open the hotel room door to me - naked .. and hot ... and a wonderful time was had ; )) .. inc sending pics to her partner ...so strange and hot not ever knowing what she was like clothed!! Or to use a blindfold to add to the fun ;;; ... but yes, Care also required re safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I would hook up. I've done this with couples and single lasses. Why not, when I'm single, I am a whore.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

As with everything....some will some won't

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By *ndonmaleMan
over a year ago

Preston

As the OP said earlier there’s a lot of interesting replies.

I stay in a hotel regularly in Manchester and would love to find friends to meet on my visits.

I try the get to know you beforehand scenario but strangely have had more successes on the meet tonight scenario.

I guess it’s just who’s boxes you tick at the right moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the first option work's but for me if you can plan ahead and get to know each other then it can work. For me I tend to stay in the same areas so social 1st leading to regular fun would be great

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

The first message is from a chancer. He probably messages about 50 - 100 women hoping one will bite.

If I was a woman I may react differently to the second one. I would see if the guy was prepared to spend the 4 weeks getting to know me. I would see if he treated me with respect. I would see if he is just looking for another notch on his bedpost.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I wouldn't feel comfortable or safe

Hotels are actually a lot safer than other places such as people's homes, cars or outdoors. They have cameras and there are people around who can hear cries for help.

In a persons car, for example, they could drive you anywhere, do anything to you, and dump you in the middle of nowhere. Far much riskier."

Also 99.9% of hotels insist you pay with a debit or credit card. The hotel would have the persons name and address.

He would be very stupid to do anything to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As the OP said earlier there’s a lot of interesting replies.

I stay in a hotel regularly in Manchester and would love to find friends to meet on my visits.

I try the get to know you beforehand scenario but strangely have had more successes on the meet tonight scenario.

I guess it’s just who’s boxes you tick at the right moment. "

That’s really interesting. And a complete contradiction to the majority of posts on here. Wonder how much difference there is in behaviour between forum posters and the general fab population?

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I occasionally have to stay in a hotel for work. When the trip is set I'll take a look and see if anyone in the area meets what I'm looking for and sometimes message.

When nothing happens I will put up a "meet today" ad, but have never messaged someone on the day asking.

If the boot was on the other foot I would treat them both with the same 'potential', but it would just leave less time to see if we clicked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top lass lol

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By *ndonmaleMan
over a year ago

Preston

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By *ndonmaleMan
over a year ago

Preston

"As the OP said earlier there’s a lot of interesting replies.

I stay in a hotel regularly in Manchester and would love to find friends to meet on my visits.

I try the get to know you beforehand scenario but strangely have had more successes on the meet tonight scenario.

I guess it’s just who’s boxes you tick at the right moment.

That’s really interesting. And a complete contradiction to the majority of posts on here. Wonder how much difference there is in behaviour between forum posters and the general fab population?"

Would be interesting to find out.

I’d much prefer the getting to know someone and then meet. I’d also be happy to have the socials so that people are comfortable to come back to hotel another time I’m in the area. Unfortunately some folk don’t do hotel meets.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Call yourselves swingers? Come on, what’s not like about sex with a stranger in a hotel?

How erotic, getting ready and then the journey knowing that he’s going to fuck your brains out.

Should be on everyone’s fuckit list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think hotels are a great place to meet .

people about so feel safe , people about to ease any awkwardness, bar to have pre drinks ,flirt , chat and break the ice ,easier to keep it as a social if no connection

i'll always offer to book a hotel , id rather pay for that than entry to a club as a single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem with hotel meets. Had a few and never been any problems.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Wouldn't bother with either. They just want a free prostitute."

Agreed. Much better to fuck a stranger in a club knowing he's paid an entrance fee.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother with either. They just want a free prostitute.

Agreed. Much better to fuck a stranger in a club knowing he's paid an entrance fee."

Depends. Four weeks is enough time to work out whether he just wants a quick fuck, or whether there is a connection and he’s up for something more interesting. See my reminiscences upthread.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Meet now. Nope.

Future.... if I liked the profile and they seemed sound. Get to know each other and then see. Would still be a social tho.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Depends how horny I am to be honest. I have met men last minute in hotel rooms as I fancied some cock. Planning further out might be a bit cooler of a reaction.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

A lot of the posts on here are very judgmental

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Depends how horny I am to be honest. I have met men last minute in hotel rooms as I fancied some cock. Planning further out might be a bit cooler of a reaction. "

Out of interest - were those experiences good? I kind of assume it will be all about them as haven’t planned and aren’t putting themselves out at all..

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I would react the same..delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might meet for a social if we chatted for a bit and it seemed we had something in common, and also if I fancied him of course, but go straight to a stranger's hotel room? No way!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Wouldn't bother with either. They just want a free prostitute.

Agreed. Much better to fuck a stranger in a club knowing he's paid an entrance fee."

Thats a good point never thought about it that way. Not that Ive been to one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably go for it if I liked the profile and was in a rare mood for a quick meet.

There's something deliciously illicit about an impromptu hotel meet.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Depends how horny I am to be honest. I have met men last minute in hotel rooms as I fancied some cock. Planning further out might be a bit cooler of a reaction.

Out of interest - were those experiences good? I kind of assume it will be all about them as haven’t planned and aren’t putting themselves out at all.."

Why would it be all about them? I can't remember having a bad one to be fair. Some of the worst ones I've had have been weeks in the planning, promising the world then fucking off as soon as they cum. Promising hours of oral but just a bit of finger blasting.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Wouldn't bother with either. They just want a free prostitute.

Agreed. Much better to fuck a stranger in a club knowing he's paid an entrance fee.

Depends. Four weeks is enough time to work out whether he just wants a quick fuck, or whether there is a connection and he’s up for something more interesting. See my reminiscences upthread."

My response was to his prostitute comment. Spiderwoman123 got it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Depends how horny I am to be honest. I have met men last minute in hotel rooms as I fancied some cock. Planning further out might be a bit cooler of a reaction.

Out of interest - were those experiences good? I kind of assume it will be all about them as haven’t planned and aren’t putting themselves out at all..

Interesting, and thanks.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Depends how horny I am to be honest. I have met men last minute in hotel rooms as I fancied some cock. Planning further out might be a bit cooler of a reaction.

Out of interest - were those experiences good? I kind of assume it will be all about them as haven’t planned and aren’t putting themselves out at all..

Interesting, and thanks."

The way I look at it is I'm the one getting what I want. I want sex, they are offering it.

I don't understand all these free Prostitute, wank sock comments. If a guy wants to use you like that they will regardless of how much time they invest in arranging a meet with you.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Depends how horny I am to be honest. I have met men last minute in hotel rooms as I fancied some cock. Planning further out might be a bit cooler of a reaction.

Out of interest - were those experiences good? I kind of assume it will be all about them as haven’t planned and aren’t putting themselves out at all..

Interesting, and thanks.

The way I look at it is I'm the one getting what I want. I want sex, they are offering it.

I don't understand all these free Prostitute, wank sock comments. If a guy wants to use you like that they will regardless of how much time they invest in arranging a meet with you. "

You are absolutely right about this part.

"If a guy wants to use you like that they will regardless of how much time they invest in arranging a meet with you"

Theres a lot more lies and deceit involved with the above option.

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By *itania70Woman
over a year ago

Denton

I’d talk right both before meeting and get pics regardless. Don’t just rush out and take pot luck. Even if it’s thst night there’s still time to exchange pics and chats.

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By *itania70Woman
over a year ago

Denton

Sorry for typos

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

"I don't understand all these free Prostitute, wank sock comments. If a guy wants to use you like that they will regardless of how much time they invest in arranging a meet with you. "

I'm sure you're right. But by using my filters and avoiding the 'meet now cus I'm horny' guys, I improve my chances of meeting men who are looking for conversation, laughter and friendship as well as a place to empty their balls. The selfish ones soon stop bothering me, and they move on to easier prey.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I react the same to both

Not interested

Me too (P)

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Depends on my mood really. I may say yes to both but I’d still want to meet in the bar for a drink first. Need to see if there’s a connection.

Doesn’t matter how long you talk to someone you never know what they’re like in bed until your there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never. I prefer the security of clubs.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hey OP

I am actually on your area next week, how you fixed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, never. I prefer the security of clubs. "

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

I'd say no to both. I'm not a hole for passers by to dip into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally make a connection with someone first, then have no problem with meeting in a hotel. I like seeing how straight faced the receptionists can be when you say you've booked a dayuse.

I have never had a hotel booked first and then foumd out if I liked someone, but 4 weeks is enough time to see if there is anything there.

Meet tonight I ignore.

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By *ndonmaleMan
over a year ago

Preston

Like everything some will some won’t.

I’m curious though with those who say no I’m not interested in a stranger from out of town on business (can sometimes be leisure) and then state “only meet locals in clubs”.

I don’t honestly see the difference apart from the venue. For me, I will always have a social beforehand, I have to like the person and surely vice versa.

I’ve visited a club whilst I’ve been away, once I was in nobody knew if I was a local guy or not, albeit I did tell them when we chatted.

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By *rave hunterMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Hey tigerlily xx

Do u remember me from last night xx

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

"Like everything some will some won’t.

I’m curious though with those who say no I’m not interested in a stranger from out of town on business (can sometimes be leisure) and then state “only meet locals in clubs”.

I don’t honestly see the difference apart from the venue. For me, I will always have a social beforehand, I have to like the person and surely vice versa.

I’ve visited a club whilst I’ve been away, once I was in nobody knew if I was a local guy or not, albeit I did tell them when we chatted.

In a club, you have more freedom to drift away from them if you don't like them and still have a decent night. Whilst you still have the right to walk away from a hotel meet, it does put a lot of expectation to perform when you're 1-1 like that.

As to the OP, it would depend entirely on the individual. While we're not looking to specifically meet single guys, we have involved them in our club sessions. If they had a solid profile and ticked our boxes and we were up for a spontaneous meet then we'd certainly consider them

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By *ovinOral69Man
over a year ago

Calp, Spain

The second scenario led to one of my hottest fab meets. An opportunity to chat and work out something quite specific was key.

You can’t possibly leave it at that..... spill the beans, what did you get upto???

Well two had contacted me individually who were staying in the same hotel. They didnt know each other but were willing to combine on a plan.

Met one in the bar for drinks. Chatted and flashed to the other (thats his thing) on instruction from first guy.

Went to first guy’s room for a bit of D/s foreplay before going to second guys room where i was blindfolded, restrained and tag teamed for some time.

Gin in the bar afterwards.

Both guys were open about their ID and who they were so I could take some precautions, contacted me well in advance and open to ideas. It was a VERY sexy evening.

Sounds amazing!

Why the hell does that never happen to me?

It very easily could

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

Wouldn't bother with either. They just want a free prostitute.

Agreed. Much better to fuck a stranger in a club knowing he's paid an entrance fee."

A decent hotel is much more expensive that a club and it still doesn’t mean your going to be any safer in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would do neither... Because I'm not meeting men....

Seriously though I still wouldnt because I like social, build up, friendships FWB style meets with repeats thrown in

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Hotel meets - would you?