FabSwingers.com forum: Long story short..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I've been seeing a girl casually for a few months now, sex is great and we both know we're only having a bit of fun, we're not suited as a couple.

She's very open minded, but somehow I'm finding myself bored...

So here's the dilemma:

1) Hit it on the head now, with no contingency pan

2) Continue unil the next casual girl comes along

I'd like to stress the fact that neither of us are committed to anything, just at a loss, unsure why, lack of chase maybe..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are bored then I suggest 2 is the only option?

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

1 why be in somethin ur not wantin and 2seems bit selfish wantin ur cake and eatin it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would definitely knock it on the head if you are bored - especially as you say - there is no connection for you other than sex. Hope she is not on here though as if I were her, I'd feel a bit insulted you were putting this on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knock it on the head now I'd say. It would be very rude to keep seeing her until someone else is in place, even though neither of you mean anything to the other.

You can't keep seeing someone just because they are a means of regular sex. Well unless you put it plainly to her and she doesn't mind. Say to her, look I find you boring but you're regular pussy and meets are sometimes difficult to come by. Do you mind if we have sex regularly until another woman comes along who is more interesting than you, then ill be off your back, literally. See what she says, you won't be deceiving her in any way then will you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knock it on the head too, no point in hanging about I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup - finish it now

you may not have the feelings you crave but maybe she does and is afraid to open up as secretly she knows you don't feel the same

to continue half hearted in a relationship is both cruel and selfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

time to knock it on the head now. show her some respect and be honest. she deserves that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've been seeing a girl casually for a few months now, sex is great and we both know we're only having a bit of fun, we're not suited as a couple.

She's very open minded, but somehow I'm finding myself bored...

So here's the dilemma:

1) Hit it on the head now, with no contingency pan

2) Continue unil the next casual girl comes along

I'd like to stress the fact that neither of us are committed to anything, just at a loss, unsure why, lack of chase maybe..?"

If it's that casual, and you both seem to know it's not long term just, just fun sex, it could well be her that carries it on until the next man comes along!

It has got to be both ways!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've been seeing a girl casually for a few months now, sex is great and we both know we're only having a bit of fun, we're not suited as a couple.

She's very open minded, but somehow I'm finding myself bored...

So here's the dilemma:

1) Hit it on the head now, with no contingency pan

2) Continue unil the next casual girl comes along

I'd like to stress the fact that neither of us are committed to anything, just at a loss, unsure why, lack of chase maybe..?"

ha ha ha ... i would hit it on the head with the contingency... pan pmsl .... priceless lol

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