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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As i've got a rare free evening I thought I would check out the meets. First one is a couple looking to meet a mature male or two who can accommodate in the North. All boxes checked so I try to message to see exactly where in the North. Cannot message as user has blocked all men. Got to love this site. Is it me? Do people do it for a laugh or are they just stupid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my pet peeves...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are more "look at me" merchants than on Facebook.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"As i've got a rare free evening I thought I would check out the meets. First one is a couple looking to meet a mature male or two who can accommodate in the North. All boxes checked so I try to message to see exactly where in the North. Cannot message as user has blocked all men. Got to love this site. Is it me? Do people do it for a laugh or are they just stupid? "

Maybe they prefer to initiate contact?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As i've got a rare free evening I thought I would check out the meets. First one is a couple looking to meet a mature male or two who can accommodate in the North. All boxes checked so I try to message to see exactly where in the North. Cannot message as user has blocked all men. Got to love this site. Is it me? Do people do it for a laugh or are they just stupid? "

Maybe they would rather do the messaging rather than getting inundated with messages from men who might not be suitable?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fine with that. But why post a meet then? Just message people you like the look of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fine with that. But why post a meet then? Just message people you like the look of."

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fine with that. But why post a meet then? Just message people you like the look of."

Try making a profile as female with no information and you’ll see why many either block all men or like me hide their profile from time to time so that I can reply to messages.

They probably want to initiate contact, far better that way.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Its possible that they put a meet up to notify the men on their friends list and those they've messaged before. Its easier than messaging them all individually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its possible that they put a meet up to notify the men on their friends list and those they've messaged before. Its easier than messaging them all individually.

"

Ah ha..... nailed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now if I just stop and think before venting I would probably come to that conclusion eventually.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Tbf OP some profiles I state even say want to meet men in there bio but block men from messaging also you get some profiles that specifically say that they will find men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbf OP some profiles I state even say want to meet men in there bio but block men from messaging also you get some profiles that specifically say that they will find men. "

I’d imagine a lot of couple lift their blocks when they’re specifically looking, rather than getting loads of messages even though they’re not looking

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Tbf OP some profiles I state even say want to meet men in there bio but block men from messaging also you get some profiles that specifically say that they will find men.

I’d imagine a lot of couple lift their blocks when they’re specifically looking, rather than getting loads of messages even though they’re not looking"

Good point

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Its possible that they put a meet up to notify the men on their friends list and those they've messaged before. Its easier than messaging them all individually.

"

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its possible that they put a meet up to notify the men on their friends list and those they've messaged before. Its easier than messaging them all individually.

Yep. "

Exactly,but all those whinging men won't acknowledge that,because FAB isn't about other people,it's all about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m guilty of this at the moment, but I’ll drop my filters closer to the date of the meet. I’ve found meets get little response until the day before anyway.

Its also an announcement to friends of where I’ll be in case of any of them want to turn up.

In the meantime i can focus on the people im already talking to.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Its possible that they put a meet up to notify the men on their friends list and those they've messaged before. Its easier than messaging them all individually.

Yep.

Exactly,but all those whinging men won't acknowledge that,because FAB isn't about other people,it's all about them "

Tbf I wasn’t whining I was just stating what I saw.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No whinging. I know exactly where I stand on here. Just venting some frustration and getting other peoples thoughts. Its good to see things through other peoples eyes, especially couples. Definitely not whinging though.


"Its possible that they put a meet up to notify the men on their friends list and those they've messaged before. Its easier than messaging them all individually.

Yep.

Exactly,but all those whinging men won't acknowledge that,because FAB isn't about other people,it's all about them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No whinging. I know exactly where I stand on here. Just venting some frustration and getting other peoples thoughts. Its good to see things through other peoples eyes, especially couples. Definitely not whinging though.

Its possible that they put a meet up to notify the men on their friends list and those they've messaged before. Its easier than messaging them all individually.

Yep.

Exactly,but all those whinging men won't acknowledge that,because FAB isn't about other people,it's all about them "

Yet according to you they do it for a laugh or are all stupid?

(your words,not mine)

This seems to be a constant gripe on the forums.

If you can not contact a particular profile,for whatever reason,the profiler isn't stupid,they just don't want to hear from you on that occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No whinging. I know exactly where I stand on here. Just venting some frustration and getting other peoples thoughts. Its good to see things through other peoples eyes, especially couples. Definitely not whinging though.

Its possible that they put a meet up to notify the men on their friends list and those they've messaged before. Its easier than messaging them all individually.

Yep.

Exactly,but all those whinging men won't acknowledge that,because FAB isn't about other people,it's all about them

Yet according to you they do it for a laugh or are all stupid?

(your words,not mine)

This seems to be a constant gripe on the forums.

If you can not contact a particular profile,for whatever reason,the profiler isn't stupid,they just don't want to hear from you on that occasion."

I agree.

If you weren’t whinging you wouldn’t be asking if they’re stupid..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As i've got a rare free evening I thought I would check out the meets. First one is a couple looking to meet a mature male or two who can accommodate in the North. All boxes checked so I try to message to see exactly where in the North. Cannot message as user has blocked all men. Got to love this site. Is it me? Do people do it for a laugh or are they just stupid? "
they maybe are looking for males they've already met or are on their friends list, just posting a meet to see if any of them are interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like I said just venting. Off to sit in the naughty corner for a while remembering to be constantly positive.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Now if I just stop and think before venting I would probably come to that conclusion eventually. "

It's good to get things off your chest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now if I just stop and think before venting I would probably come to that conclusion eventually.

It's good to get things off your chest. "

Bra.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Now if I just stop and think before venting I would probably come to that conclusion eventually.

It's good to get things off your chest.

Bra. "

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"Fine with that. But why post a meet then? Just message people you like the look of."

Or maybe they are already in contact t with more than enough suitable single guys and want to see if any of them message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Double edge sword. Men out number the women over 30to1 in some cities. So women must get hounded like hell. If you find an attractive women, she will be getting over 200 inboxes per day, if shes on a dating app as well, theres an extra 400 inboxes a day. Cant open em all.

Some may prefer to meet in clubs and chat on here, or just search and message people they like

If you want to meet people for sex, clubs are a great option and dating sites like pof, badoo and tinder will find alot more who want sex, casual dating etc.

The paradox is that the dating sites are more open to sex, and the sex sites are craving an emotional connection. And then some just like thr attention, someone may get 75 messages a day on here, but 5 on a dating site, and within this online community begin to feel more valued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, as a straight bloke on here I block all single men, cause getting FAF's off married closeted bi and gay guys who say they are straight makes my skin crawl. I thought no meant no? Just my own experience of this place.

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