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Any other guys experince this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here for while now, on and off really. I know males heavily outnumber females on here and so its hard for most men to get anywhere. What I noticed today was that on all my pictures, which each have been fabbed roughly 30-40 times, its ALL from men lol.

Dont get me wrong, nothing against gays, im flattered a lot of men are attracted to my pics, but not one fab from a female haha. Obviously I dont have the best pics, or a body of a greek god etc, but do any of you other guys get this? I get a little excited to see somethings been fabbed, then click into it and its a guy Its just funny thats all, makes me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me to I've been fabed by men but not many women.and 2 different couples wanted to meetup and when it's time to meet the girlfriends of both can't make it .

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Yep had loads of men fab mine.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

If females started liking pic they would start getting messages from the person who's pic they haved liked as well as all the usual twats

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town


"Been on here for while now, on and off really. I know males heavily outnumber females on here and so its hard for most men to get anywhere. What I noticed today was that on all my pictures, which each have been fabbed roughly 30-40 times, its ALL from men lol.

Dont get me wrong, nothing against gays, im flattered a lot of men are attracted to my pics, but not one fab from a female haha. Obviously I dont have the best pics, or a body of a greek god etc, but do any of you other guys get this? I get a little excited to see somethings been fabbed, then click into it and its a guy Its just funny thats all, makes me laugh "

Are you hinting for the ladies to fab your pictures op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha yeah very true, it seems you get all of the attention you don’t need! Same with winks as well, I’ve onky had a handful of them (I don’t really see the point of them tbh) from couples but loads from guys.

Does anyone actually use winks? I far prefer messaging or just checking who has viewed my profile to get an idea of potentials.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been on here for while now, on and off really. I know males heavily outnumber females on here and so its hard for most men to get anywhere. What I noticed today was that on all my pictures, which each have been fabbed roughly 30-40 times, its ALL from men lol.

Dont get me wrong, nothing against gays, im flattered a lot of men are attracted to my pics, but not one fab from a female haha. Obviously I dont have the best pics, or a body of a greek god etc, but do any of you other guys get this? I get a little excited to see somethings been fabbed, then click into it and its a guy Its just funny thats all, makes me laugh

Are you hinting for the ladies to fab your pictures op? "

Nailed it! It seems to be working so far anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ha yeah very true, it seems you get all of the attention you don’t need! Same with winks as well, I’ve onky had a handful of them (I don’t really see the point of them tbh) from couples but loads from guys.

Does anyone actually use winks? I far prefer messaging or just checking who has viewed my profile to get an idea of potentials. "

Yea, if females have a long list of requirements and I fail to meet 1 or 2, I would send a wink. Its up to the female to decide if Im for her based on my profile and pics without the need to message. Thats how I use the wink function anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for while now, on and off really. I know males heavily outnumber females on here and so its hard for most men to get anywhere. What I noticed today was that on all my pictures, which each have been fabbed roughly 30-40 times, its ALL from men lol.

Dont get me wrong, nothing against gays, im flattered a lot of men are attracted to my pics, but not one fab from a female haha. Obviously I dont have the best pics, or a body of a greek god etc, but do any of you other guys get this? I get a little excited to see somethings been fabbed, then click into it and its a guy Its just funny thats all, makes me laugh "
not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap.

Seem to be catnip for blokes wanting to suck me off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Snap.

Seem to be catnip for blokes wanting to suck me off."

Same. I always get the usual 'you dont know until you try it'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had any messages like that,there are filters where you can stop guys messaging you.....if you want to.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thank god for the fabbing fella’s every day!

Mr B

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town


"Been on here for while now, on and off really. I know males heavily outnumber females on here and so its hard for most men to get anywhere. What I noticed today was that on all my pictures, which each have been fabbed roughly 30-40 times, its ALL from men lol.

Dont get me wrong, nothing against gays, im flattered a lot of men are attracted to my pics, but not one fab from a female haha. Obviously I dont have the best pics, or a body of a greek god etc, but do any of you other guys get this? I get a little excited to see somethings been fabbed, then click into it and its a guy Its just funny thats all, makes me laugh

Are you hinting for the ladies to fab your pictures op?

Nailed it! It seems to be working so far anyway! "

Smooth and clever keep it up op and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The men have to have something to do whilst waiting for the inbox to fill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for while now, on and off really. I know males heavily outnumber females on here and so its hard for most men to get anywhere. What I noticed today was that on all my pictures, which each have been fabbed roughly 30-40 times, its ALL from men lol.

Dont get me wrong, nothing against gays, im flattered a lot of men are attracted to my pics, but not one fab from a female haha. Obviously I dont have the best pics, or a body of a greek god etc, but do any of you other guys get this? I get a little excited to see somethings been fabbed, then click into it and its a guy Its just funny thats all, makes me laugh "

The worst bit is when you can’t tell from the profile name if it’s male or female so you open the profile to find it’s male, and now they think you’re interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of mine are from tv/TVs lol! Gay icon haha! Cheers guys! It’s case of taking your time and not thinking too much into it and taking it with a pinch of salt.There will be timewasters and idiots but some good ones who do meet so have faith

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By *traight up guyMan
over a year ago

Morpeth

Same for me and feel the same, but also with some fems and couples, though in the minority.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

I think a lot of men get fabbed by men. I tend to Fab guys photos quite a bit but I think myself and a few other females would take exception and not like certain pics, I don’t tend to like pictures of people with rude hand gestures for instance so if I saw that I wouldn’t like the pics even if i saw one I liked. IYSWIM.

Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a lot of men get fabbed by men. I tend to Fab guys photos quite a bit but I think myself and a few other females would take exception and not like certain pics, I don’t tend to like pictures of people with rude hand gestures for instance so if I saw that I wouldn’t like the pics even if i saw one I liked. IYSWIM.

Mrs. "

Its all light hearted fun, dont worry I thought id go for a 'bad boy'image with that one and see where it gets me

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

Is it getting you anywhere? I’m not being mean (honestly) but it would put me off personally. I like a nice smile and maybe some flexed muscles. I do like your abs pic but on principle I won’t fab it as your silly pic makes me tut like an old lady haha!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it getting you anywhere? I’m not being mean (honestly) but it would put me off personally. I like a nice smile and maybe some flexed muscles. I do like your abs pic but on principle I won’t fab it as your silly pic makes me tut like an old lady haha!! "

I only put it up today because I was bored I know youre not being mean, its fine! Im not even going to attempt to flex, dont want the women cringing anymore than they probably already are lol. Thanks for the input, appreciate it!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t bother looking

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By *igga_manMan
over a year ago

near Reading


"Me to I've been fabed by men but not many women.and 2 different couples wanted to meetup and when it's time to meet the girlfriends of both can't make it ."

Yup had that also

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

Yep had loads of fabs from men

I dont think ladies bother fabbing but wish there were more genuine ladies on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I had a penny for every time I've been approached by a guy on here wanting my cock....you're right it's a bit annoying when you click a wink n it's a bloke...I think the ladies want us blokes to do the chasing!

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By *ockandrollaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I like fabbing me s pics that are action shots with other woman or couples

If I am reading a woman’s or couples profile I read there veris and click on the me s to see what time of man they like see if I’m in with a chance or not

Then if there’s an action pic I’ll halliky fab it, it’s my way of saying fair play

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Used to have a few public pics bur dont have any now, doesn't make any difference, never quite see the point of a,wink, why not say a message

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By *r UsernameMan
over a year ago

Somewhere in cornwall

I get friend requests and fabs from guys a lot, even when I tell them I'm straight the normal answer is 'thought I'd try anyway'. Don't get me wrong it is flattering but obviously after the attention from the opposite sex haha

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