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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mainly to the men but anyone can join in of course.

Do men find it too forward if a woman asks to meet you on here?

Would you rather do the asking?

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Happy for you ladies to ask

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Equal opportunities should be encouraged.

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

Not at all.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Mainly to the men but anyone can join in of course.

Do men find it too forward if a woman asks to meet you on here?

Would you rather do the asking?"

Generally if a lady contacts us they're usually a fake. We would certainly need to check for verifications, but we have no issue with meet requests from ladies.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Love it when ladies make the move.

It's hard to stand out on here so always nice when you manage too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy if the lady asks....

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

It would be a lot better if the ladies asked first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mainly to the men but anyone can join in of course.

Do men find it too forward if a woman asks to meet you on here?

Would you rather do the asking?

Generally if a lady contacts us they're usually a fake. We would certainly need to check for verifications, but we have no issue with meet requests from ladies.

Cal"

Ok, I'm asking

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


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Ok, I'm asking "

Cool, feel free to drop us a message

Cal x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem at all with the lady asking. I have always done the asking online, after lengthy chat. In the real World they have mostly asked me first.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ll often message first and will ask to meet first as well. Had my better meets from those.

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By *iss Ash42Woman
over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....


"I’ll often message first and will ask to meet first as well. Had my better meets from those."

I think youre lovely..if you are ever in Edinburgh..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll often message first and will ask to meet first as well. Had my better meets from those."

I often message first but rarely ask to meet first, I may now start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any lady is more than welcome to message me.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I bet they love it Ruby, a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love ladies to ask

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Ask away ladies

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’ll often message first and will ask to meet first as well. Had my better meets from those.

I often message first but rarely ask to meet first, I may now start. "

I usually just drop it casually into conversation.

“Well, if you’re ever in town and fancy grabbing a coffee or something stronger, let me know.” No pressure, nice and easy. Like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bit dubious when they do

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

Definitely have no problem with women asking. In fact it's happened that way around more times than me asking on here! I actually quite like it when women make the first move.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Mainly to the men but anyone can join in of course.

Do men find it too forward if a woman asks to meet you on here?

Would you rather do the asking?"

It wouldn't bother me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only had one negative response from being the initiator of a conversation, was told I was clearly either a fake or desperate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I’ve asked previously, I don’t see it as a big deal, at the end of the day if I’m chatting to someone I want to meet I ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet they love it Ruby, a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to say.

"

Yep

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

I've had a Lady message me first for the first time tonight but never had one ask me to meet them.....definetly wouldn't complain if someone was to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I’ve asked previously, I don’t see it as a big deal, at the end of the day if I’m chatting to someone I want to meet I ask. "

Yeah same here. In fairness though it normally takes me a long time to decide I want to meet and they normally get in first. I have no qualms about asking though and don't want to meet a guy that doesn't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mainly to the men but anyone can join in of course.

Do men find it too forward if a woman asks to meet you on here?

Would you rather do the asking?"

No i like it a lot as long as its part of a natural conversation not just a random asker i want to know we get on and have banter before i meet but you my dear passed with flying colours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll often message first and will ask to meet first as well. Had my better meets from those.

I often message first but rarely ask to meet first, I may now start.

I usually just drop it casually into conversation.

“Well, if you’re ever in town and fancy grabbing a coffee or something stronger, let me know.” No pressure, nice and easy. Like me "

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Mainly to the men but anyone can join in of course.

Do men find it too forward if a woman asks to meet you on here?

Would you rather do the asking?"

I would be absolutely fine if a woman asked me for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mainly to the men but anyone can join in of course.

Do men find it too forward if a woman asks to meet you on here?

Would you rather do the asking?"

If you don't ask, you don't get. It honestly doesn't matter as long as chemistry is there from the off.

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Been asked a few times , really is a good thing imo

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By *onabardMan
over a year ago

Warks - Worcs - Gloucs

Any women who want to meet me feel free to ask away, its the 21st Century and all that now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy for the women to ask. It's nice to meet a positive person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mainly to the men but anyone can join in of course.

Do men find it too forward if a woman asks to meet you on here?

Would you rather do the asking?"
please ask away

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