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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My partner set me a task... it’s a guy that I work with and I really wanted to see his dick... so my partner set me a task to see it, not sure how to go about it as the guy I work with doesn’t know we do swinging and I don’t want him to find out that we do but I also don’t want him to think I’m cheating on my partner ?! Any advice

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Yes, don’t play games with people who aren’t swingers, especially people you work with

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes. Don't do it. Sexual harrasment works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, don’t play games with people who aren’t swingers, especially people you work with "

Very much this.

Stuff like this is why Swingers get a bad name.

Sexual harassment at work can get you sacked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not quite that sort of situation ? We are really good mates and have flirty banter

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not quite that sort of situation ? We are really good mates and have flirty banter "

Ok. Reverse the situation, he asks to see your pussy because his partner set him a task. Its ok you're really good mates and have flirty banter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I wonder if I'm on another planet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sometimes I wonder if I'm on another planet "

I think you must be, there's a little green man on your post

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Yes. Don't do it. Sexual harrasment works both ways."

Does it bollucks

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"My partner set me a task... it’s a guy that I work with and I really wanted to see his dick... so my partner set me a task to see it, not sure how to go about it as the guy I work with doesn’t know we do swinging and I don’t want him to find out that we do but I also don’t want him to think I’m cheating on my partner ?! Any advice "

Ask him to teach you how to check your husbands balls for cancer

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes. Don't do it. Sexual harrasment works both ways.

Does it bollucks"

A guy can be sexually harrassed. I don't say he'll be taken seriously.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Yes. Don't do it. Sexual harrasment works both ways.

Does it bollucks

A guy can be sexually harrassed. I don't say he'll be taken seriously."

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"My partner set me a task... it’s a guy that I work with and I really wanted to see his dick... so my partner set me a task to see it, not sure how to go about it as the guy I work with doesn’t know we do swinging and I don’t want him to find out that we do but I also don’t want him to think I’m cheating on my partner ?! Any advice

Ask him to teach you how to check your husbands balls for cancer"

Good call , you could try that .

Or you could just be honest and tell him that you and your partner have a game going on , and your task is to see his cock . He may even let you take a pic to prove you’ve done the task .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice so far

Anyone any other tips ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I just get close and flirty over time and see what the response is, going straight at it could end badly. If your flirting gets little response then you know he won’t be keen.

On the other hand, from personal experience, if he responds like a dog on heat then it’s should take very little time at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner set me a task... it’s a guy that I work with and I really wanted to see his dick... so my partner set me a task to see it, not sure how to go about it as the guy I work with doesn’t know we do swinging and I don’t want him to find out that we do but I also don’t want him to think I’m cheating on my partner ?! Any advice

Ask him to teach you how to check your husbands balls for cancer

Good call , you could try that .

Or you could just be honest and tell him that you and your partner have a game going on , and your task is to see his cock . He may even let you take a pic to prove you’ve done the task .

"

This

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By *odernLoveDublinMan
over a year ago

dublin

Make some sort of bet that involves you having to touch his cock as a forfeit and lose on purpose!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Make some sort of bet that involves you having to touch his cock as a forfeit and lose on purpose!"

Good idea, go up to him and say "I made a bet with my husband that if England won tonight, I'd wank you off and if Croatia win then he'd have to of done it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't shit on your own door step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, don’t play games with people who aren’t swingers, especially people you work with "

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Oh well if you have flirty banter then HR rules and staff codes of conduct don't count. Nobody has ever been disciplined for se ual harassment if there's flirty banter involved.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh well if you have flirty banter then HR rules and staff codes of conduct don't count. Nobody has ever been disciplined for se ual harassment if there's flirty banter involved. "

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Yes, don’t play games with people who aren’t swingers, especially people you work with "

this 1000%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him Your looking fora naked butler while the football's on tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make some sort of bet that involves you having to touch his cock as a forfeit and lose on purpose!

Good idea, go up to him and say "I made a bet with my husband that if England won tonight, I'd wank you off and if Croatia win then he'd have to of done it. "

You win

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We may try the forfeit idea thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This should be in those sexual harassment videos we have to watch annually at work.....

Don’t ask co workers to see thier private parts...

There is one solid rules all swingers should live by....

Don’t ever play with co workers or family

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"This should be in those sexual harassment videos we have to watch annually at work.....

Don’t ask co workers to see thier private parts...

There is one solid rules all swingers should live by....

Don’t ever play with co workers or family

"

Or vegans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This should be in those sexual harassment videos we have to watch annually at work.....

Don’t ask co workers to see thier private parts...

There is one solid rules all swingers should live by....

Don’t ever play with co workers or family

Or vegans "

Vegans are cool....

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"This should be in those sexual harassment videos we have to watch annually at work.....

Don’t ask co workers to see thier private parts...

There is one solid rules all swingers should live by....

Don’t ever play with co workers or family

Or vegans

Vegans are cool...."

Terrible farts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This should be in those sexual harassment videos we have to watch annually at work.....

Don’t ask co workers to see thier private parts...

There is one solid rules all swingers should live by....

Don’t ever play with co workers or family

Or vegans

Vegans are cool....

Terrible farts "

I heard their sweat smells like tofu

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By *oresexMan
over a year ago

South West coast


"Not quite that sort of situation ? We are really good mates and have flirty banter "

This helps the situation, explain to him that hubby has set you a dare he wants to see your face in a pic with a cock, and as this guy is such a good mate he's the only one you trust to ask, it's just a dare not an offer of sex (you can add that it has to be hard or soft depending on your own personal choice) and try to look embarrassed about asking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not quite that sort of situation ? We are really good mates and have flirty banter

This helps the situation, explain to him that hubby has set you a dare he wants to see your face in a pic with a cock, and as this guy is such a good mate he's the only one you trust to ask, it's just a dare not an offer of sex (you can add that it has to be hard or soft depending on your own personal choice) and try to look embarrassed about asking."

Oooh this is also a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner set me a task... it’s a guy that I work with and I really wanted to see his dick... so my partner set me a task to see it, not sure how to go about it as the guy I work with doesn’t know we do swinging and I don’t want him to find out that we do but I also don’t want him to think I’m cheating on my partner ?! Any advice "
just ask him straight out can I see and take a pic of your cock but say please...... It's good manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner set me a task... it’s a guy that I work with and I really wanted to see his dick... so my partner set me a task to see it, not sure how to go about it as the guy I work with doesn’t know we do swinging and I don’t want him to find out that we do but I also don’t want him to think I’m cheating on my partner ?! Any advice "

Lie. Tell your partner you have seen it and it was huge. Task complete.

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