FabSwingers.com forum: Men, I don’t get it..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Something I really don’t understand about men and sex is the number of guys who have sex partners that they ‘don’t fancy’. These are not ‘any hole is a goal’ merchants, I am thinking of popular long standing members of fab who have repeat meets with women they say they ‘don’t fancy’. For me a bare minimum is to fancy the pants off anyone I have sex with. Why are you having sex with women you aren’t attracted to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scratch an itch?

Purely for the mechanical pleasure of sex?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

They like the excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you asked them? Why have they admitted they fuck women they don't fancy?

Puts me off bothering if they're like that!

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By *wo4funmidsCouple
over a year ago

burton

practice makes perfect only joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something I really don’t understand about men and sex is the number of guys who have sex partners that they ‘don’t fancy’. These are not ‘any hole is a goal’ merchants, I am thinking of popular long standing members of fab who have repeat meets with women they say they ‘don’t fancy’. For me a bare minimum is to fancy the pants off anyone I have sex with. Why are you having sex with women you aren’t attracted to?"
those guys who have lots of sex partners are the most lucky ones in the end i think

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I can't speak for those guys OP as I don't fall into that category - personally I wouldn't contemplate getting naked with someone that I didn't have both a physical attraction to, and a level of connection and chemistry with - I just wouldn't find the experience satisfying.

I guess though there are those for whom the physical act is the key regardless of who they are doing it with and it becomes more about the self than a mutual thing. If that works for them and the other person involved is not being hurt by it, or is under no illusions about the arrangement then I guess good luck to them but it's certainly not for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you asked them? Why have they admitted they fuck women they don't fancy?

Puts me off bothering if they're like that!"

Well me too! One in particular seemed very surprised when he told me this and I refused to have sex with him again..I just don’t get it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't speak for those guys OP as I don't fall into that category - personally I wouldn't contemplate getting naked with someone that I didn't have both a physical attraction to, and a level of connection and chemistry with - I just wouldn't find the experience satisfying.

‘Under no illusions’ - hmm I wonder..

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By *enshermanMan
over a year ago

Durham

Even ugly women need loving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are you getting your information from? Are these men publicising the fact that they don’t fancy the women they have sex with? If they are then I doubt they’d be getting the repeat meets you speak of. I wouldn’t have sex with anybody unless I had got to know them first and fancied the pants off them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it either. But then I'm only one guy....

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

They may be popular and long standing, but if they're fucking women they don't fancy then that makes them "any hole's a goal" merchant's in my book. And if they're then telling other people how they don't fancy these women they're fucking, then they're indiscreet arseholes to boot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I noticed plenty of status updates saying... "anything goes"... puts me off for good.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you asked them? Why have they admitted they fuck women they don't fancy?

Puts me off bothering if they're like that!

Well me too! One in particular seemed very surprised when he told me this and I refused to have sex with him again..I just don’t get it."
And i bet he's kicking himself now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah Tigerlily, there's more guys like that on here than on average in the general population...and most guys on here even would not be up for sex with someone they didn't fancy.

There is however a shocking amount of guys on here that seem to take this site and lifestyle far too seriously and therefore will quite literally do it with anyone...man or woman regarless of their often straight status. Even the lads on here will tell you about all the ' Fancy a blowjob ?' texts we get here from these 'straight' guys.

It's a difficult one to understand for us too but I'd be guessing it comes down to some kind of self worth issue, where they genuinely believe any sex is better than no sex. Can't be a happy existence in my opinion, and especially on here when their desperation makes them targets for ridicule and sub human treatment from I suspect a minority of fabbers, who have their own addiction to having their egos boosted by pic fabs and meet requests by those guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp."

Really, well obviously men like this do exist. I’m baffled too. Why the hell would you have sex with somebody you didn’t fancy. I havnt had sex in over two years yet my standards remain the same. I just couldn’t do it.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Porn stars do this all the time

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Because its sex

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"practice makes perfect only joking

nope practice makes permanent only perfect practice makes perfect! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

I don’t get it either but then again I’m not desperate for sex. I would rather go without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if that's a general sweeping statement from a one or two encounters but I can only speak for myself.

I won't meet anyone I don't fancy even if she's dropped her knickers and bending over. I have a few regulars and yes I fancy them. When or if it comes to a point I no longer fancy them then I'd be moving on because the sex after that for them as well wouldn't be the same as before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

I don’t get it either but then again I’m not desperate for sex. I would rather go without."

Exactly, and I do

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

It wouldn't be of any interest to me, I'd rather just have a wank then crack on with my day than have sex with someone I don't fancy.

I'm sure there are plenty of blokes who live by the "a bad shag is better than a good wank" mantra though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to do that if I am not attracted then I do fuck them simple as

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

‘Under no illusions’ - hmm I wonder.."

So would I - and perhaps I should have used a bigger IF to start that sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because its sex "

Would you have sex with a sheep “because it’s sex”. Dear god, I’m shocked, I really didn’t think such people existed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you asked them? Why have they admitted they fuck women they don't fancy?

Puts me off bothering if they're like that!

Well me too! One in particular seemed very surprised when he told me this and I refused to have sex with him again..I just don’t get it."

I don't blame you! I'd always be wondering if I was one he didn't even fancy.

Unless he means he fancies people in different ways. Maybe he wouldn't fuck someone that turns his stomach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It wouldn't be of any interest to me, I'd rather just have a wank then crack on with my day than have sex with someone I don't fancy.

I'm sure there are plenty of blokes who live by the "a bad shag is better than a good wank" mantra though "

Somebody famous once said “sex is a poor substitute for masturbation”. I think it was Karl Marx.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Even ugly women need loving

You are a prince among men (facepalm)

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"They may be popular and long standing, but if they're fucking women they don't fancy then that makes them "any hole's a goal" merchant's in my book. And if they're then telling other people how they don't fancy these women they're fucking, then they're indiscreet arseholes to boot. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

I don’t get it either but then again I’m not desperate for sex. I would rather go without.

Exactly, and I do

Good for you, I like men with standards. I would never meet the kind of guy that sleeps with a girl just because it’s sex and no attraction at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

I don’t get it either but then again I’m not desperate for sex. I would rather go without.

Exactly, and I do

Good for you, I like men with standards. I would never meet the kind of guy that sleeps with a girl just because it’s sex and no attraction at all. "

Brill FAF

In all seriousness, I have tastes my face can’t afford but every now and then a real beauty, in my eyes at least takes a shine to me. All my exes have been stunners, not many of them but I like it that way.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

We are all quite different..

I am not desperate and in fact reject more meets than I accept.

Sex is not a relationship for me ..I have sex with lots of people on here, some I find attractive and some not..

I have relationships with people outside of fab and that's very different..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It wouldn't be of any interest to me, I'd rather just have a wank then crack on with my day than have sex with someone I don't fancy.

I'm sure there are plenty of blokes who live by the "a bad shag is better than a good wank" mantra though "

I think you're right. I often see profiles saying they aren't fussy at all. Some people seem to think 'real swingers' will fuck anyone that asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I noticed plenty of status updates saying... "anything goes"... puts me off for good.

That's not saying they'll fuck anything but more likely any type of meet is acceptable.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Because its sex

Would you have sex with a sheep “because it’s sex”. Dear god, I’m shocked, I really didn’t think such people existed."

I am not sure if your being serious or not??

As a man can you honestly say you didn't believe people could have sex (yes like animals) without any feelings etc..no strings attached/ no attraction necessary.

If you are being serious then I am shocked that you had no idea that 'such people existed'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because its sex

Would you have sex with a sheep “because it’s sex”. Dear god, I’m shocked, I really didn’t think such people existed.

I am not sure if your being serious or not??

As a man can you honestly say you didn't believe people could have sex (yes like animals) without any feelings etc..no strings attached/ no attraction necessary.

If you are being serious then I am shocked that you had no idea that 'such people existed'"

I was joking about the sheep. The rest was serious, I just can’t comprehend why anybody would have sex with somebody they’re not attracted to. I couldn’t kiss somebody I wasn’t attracted to for a start, I’d be all uptight inside. I honestly would rather go without sex for all eternity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are all quite different..

I am not desperate and in fact reject more meets than I accept.

Sex is not a relationship for me ..I have sex with lots of people on here, some I find attractive and some not..

I have relationships with people outside of fab and that's very different.."

I don’t think saying ‘I only have sex with people I fancy’ is anywhere near having a relationship...!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't blame you! I'd always be wondering if I was one he didn't even fancy.

Unless he means he fancies people in different ways. Maybe he wouldn't fuck someone that turns his stomach.

Yeah - they have standards lol! If the women don’t actually make them heave they’ll go there..

I have heard this from several men, not just a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you asked them? Why have they admitted they fuck women they don't fancy?

Puts me off bothering if they're like that!

Well me too! One in particular seemed very surprised when he told me this and I refused to have sex with him again..I just don’t get it.And i bet he's kicking himself now

Pfft. The one I mentioned above has a well worked out shtick. It seems to work well. Maybe some people are less probing than me.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"We are all quite different..

I am not desperate and in fact reject more meets than I accept.

Sex is not a relationship for me ..I have sex with lots of people on here, some I find attractive and some not..

I have relationships with people outside of fab and that's very different..

I don’t think saying ‘I only have sex with people I fancy’ is anywhere near having a relationship...!"

Now you have got me confused lol

I didn't think I was disagreeing with you.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

I’m exactly the same except I am currently at 16 months without because I can’t find someone I want to have sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bottom line is that I have to fancy the woman and the scenario. A plastic bag hand job from an attractive woman ain't going to cut it either. But there seem to be plenty of men willing to fill the space I've vacated.

Ironically they're more likely to get verified, get action at clubs or spas, and generally gain credibility and have success on here. I'm somewhat jealous of them. But couldn't bring myself to do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it is the chemistry that happens between two people who wouldnt ordinarily find each other visually attractive.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Best sex I’ve ever had was someone I wasn’t attracted too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

I’m exactly the same except I am currently at 16 months without because I can’t find someone I want to have sex with."

Well I’m sure that like me, you’re happy to wait for the right one to come along. Whether it’s in a day, week or ten years I’ll wait all the same. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are all quite different..

I am not desperate and in fact reject more meets than I accept.

Sex is not a relationship for me ..I have sex with lots of people on here, some I find attractive and some not..

I have relationships with people outside of fab and that's very different..

I don’t think saying ‘I only have sex with people I fancy’ is anywhere near having a relationship...!

Now you have got me confused lol

I didn't think I was disagreeing with you."

Ok. I thought you were suggesting that my requirement to fancy my sex partners (whatever that might mean for me) was equivalent to wanting to be in a ‘relationship’ with everyone I have sex with..

We have differing views tho - you have sex with people you don’t fancy. I don’t , and don’t want to be with people who don’t fancy me..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes it is the chemistry that happens between two people who wouldnt ordinarily find each other visually attractive."

Visually attractive isn’t the same as ‘fancying’ someone. I fancy people for all sorts of reasons, often kinky ones. How they look is only a part of it.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Best sex I’ve ever had was someone I wasn’t attracted too. "

Genuine question.. how did the 'old boy' stay rigid?

Like mechanically I'm unsure how it all works. I'd expect it and your sack to shrivel and hide if there's no attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it is the chemistry that happens between two people who wouldnt ordinarily find each other visually attractive."

Most of attraction is chemistry, the way someone moves, bites their lip, the way they laugh, subtle body language that we read unconsciously, their smell, it’s all chemistry. I often find I find people more attractive the more I get to know them, that’s the chemistry working, how they look is only a small part of it I think. I have also seen visually gorgeous girls who I can’t stand to be near for the same reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it is the chemistry that happens between two people who wouldnt ordinarily find each other visually attractive."

I think when we say attracted, we meant chemistry. We are talking about guys that will use any hole because it’s there.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Let's remember many people wanted to fuck M Thatcher and currently T May ..

It's nothing to do with attraction lol

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Why do men wank? Because it feels nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's remember many people wanted to fuck M Thatcher and currently T May ..

It's nothing to do with attraction lol"

Lucky I don’t know those kind of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*luckily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I noticed plenty of status updates saying... "anything goes"... puts me off for good.

"
what puts yu on for bad ? Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m meeting one on one, which is rare, I need an attraction and connection.

Most of my play these days though is in clubs and on more than one occasion I’ve played with someone that I wasn’t particularly attracted to, but perhaps the scenario was hot, or they had a particularly nice dick. No strings fun can be just that, it doesnt make someone desperate either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really pleased to see the full range of views here expressed by men, but I still don’t get it. I have good toys, I’d rather sort myself out...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Really pleased to see the full range of views here expressed by men, but I still don’t get it. I have good toys, I’d rather sort myself out..."

I agree with you - I guess ultimately, and this may be seen as the "cop out" answer, do you need to "get it"? Whilst seeing others responses to this and similar threads is interesting and enlightening (sometimes!) we all have different approaches and ways we do things and back to my earlier point, so long as everyone involved is of the same understanding about what is happening then each to their own.

Where it would of course be hurtful and wrong would be if someone wasn't on the same wavelength and were to find out they weren't "fancied" and were just a means to someone else's sexual gratification and nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe for some it's like food. Some people are picky eaters and others will eat anything and everything...guess it comes down to pangs of lust for the physical act for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really pleased to see the full range of views here expressed by men, but I still don’t get it. I have good toys, I’d rather sort myself out..."

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really pleased to see the full range of views here expressed by men, but I still don’t get it. I have good toys, I’d rather sort myself out...

Me too.

You girls are lucky with your vast range of toys. We have to make do with our hands. I know some toys are available for us but on the whole they’re rubbish.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Let's think about the term,

' I am gonna fuck you'.

A number of things can set this thought off...and it's not always, Wow your hot, I wanna make love to you.

Lots of gay men (including myself) will have had experiences of rough sex with the guy saying something like 'fuck you faggot'.

Now I am sure the heterosexual community have equivalents to this..Perhaps I am wrong, but sure someone will enlighten me

Many many same sex liaisons don't involve kissing..think about this..

Sex/attraction is not always straightforward . Love and hate,pain and pleasure.release I love the forums and learn so much from threads like this.

Hearing everyone's different and valuable experiences.

This thread has been a real eye opener for me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe for some it's like food. Some people are picky eaters and others will eat anything and everything...guess it comes down to pangs of lust for the physical act for some."

And sometimes you’ll eat a ham sandwich because it’s on offer and you’re kinda peckish.... but normally aren’t keen on ham sandwiches

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"If I’m meeting one on one, which is rare, I need an attraction and connection.

I think there's a distinct difference between pre-arranged one on one meets and playing with someone in a club though - in a club it's all more "immediate" and of the moment, and things are heightened by the atmosphere etc - so the atmosphere and the scenario can be the attraction more than the person. That said I'd still have to find an element of attraction on some level to someone in a club to play with them - even if it was just an instantaneous thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe for some it's like food. Some people are picky eaters and others will eat anything and everything...guess it comes down to pangs of lust for the physical act for some.

And sometimes you’ll eat a ham sandwich because it’s on offer and you’re kinda peckish.... but normally aren’t keen on ham sandwiches

There's the difference then...I might eat something at a party in order not to offend the host...but politeness has it's limits for me, if the host expected me to eat something the had which wasn't cooked then I would pick the lesser of too evils and say I wasn't feeling well after their sandwiches....better that than say I was put of by their.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to fancy someone before I can have sex with them . It would be a lie to say I've never had sex with anyone I didn't fancy . I have but it was a very longtime ago. I have to have a physical and mental attraction.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

There has to be attraction. In fact, more than that - the elusive ‘spark’. The excitement of sex for me is as much about seeing the woman I am with excited as it is about my own pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By their undercooked chipolata..

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there

I used to not repeat meets, one offs only, but not even that now because I lost myself respect, now I gained my respect back but haven't had sex for 4 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they don’t fancy them?

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Thank goodness for sex toys ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the fact looks are not everything . Sometimes you can receive a pic and at first you are not physically attracted to them . But the more you talk. The more you laugh together . The more you find out what you both have in common . The more you become attracted to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

I don’t get it either but then again I’m not desperate for sex. I would rather go without."

Me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp."

I agree. I don't need to fancy a guy to have sex with them. Personality shines through as does a sense of fun which is far more important to me than looks. And if the guy feels the same that's fine! It's not a fucking dating site!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I’m meeting one on one, which is rare, I need an attraction and connection.

Completely agree, which is how I’ve come to have sex with people I don’t particularly ‘fancy’ in a traditional sense. In the moment though I want to fuck them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without going into too much detail lol, I cannot get physically aroused unless I really fancy the person. I’ve never understood how so many blokes will and can f**k anything with a pulse!

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

I'd rather have a wank to some porn than fuck someone I didn't fancy.

It's not going to happen.

Men, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, a shag is a shag and a tick of the old bed post lol

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By *NACONDA1000Man
over a year ago

buncrana

Because half a loaf is better than no bread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me, a shag is a shag and a tick of the old bed post lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

But then you do fancy them, you are attracted to their personality and sense of fun, in other words there is a chemistry between you. A very small part of attraction is looks. Would you have sex with a guy if you thought he was a complete arsehole just because he was there at the right time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

How big is his dick?

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Somethings can only be got if you have a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

How big is his dick?"

Your ideal size but he’s ugly as sin and the biggest prick you’ve ever met.

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By *ffinfuntMan
over a year ago

liverpool

One hole does plenty

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I’ve had sex with people I don’t fancy.

Sometimes just because I want sex. Sometimes for the sheer badness of it.

But generally I like to fancy someone.

V x

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It's not something I understand, the chemistry is half the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

How big is his dick?

Your ideal size but he’s ugly as sin and the biggest prick you’ve ever met."

I’ll pass on “ugly as sin”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

How big is his dick?

Your ideal size but he’s ugly as sin and the biggest prick you’ve ever met.

I’ll pass on “ugly as sin”

Glad to hear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

How big is his dick?

Your ideal size but he’s ugly as sin and the biggest prick you’ve ever met.

I’ll pass on “ugly as sin”

Glad to hear it

However, if he wasn’t ugly but just not my type so I didn’t fancy him, and had a nice dick or I knew he was a good fuck, I’d probably fuck him in the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male I would never even consider connecting with someone I didn't connect to and like the look of, not really my thing. Maybe I get less meets but the ones I do meet are really good quality, long and very sensuous. Well that's what they tell me lol

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

You don't need to fancy the pants off someone from fab... normally their pants are off already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even ugly women need loving

You are a prince among men (facepalm)"

Damn typo I’m sure you meant he’s a pillock!

lol x

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Maybe they are not telling the whole truth

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down "

What if its a woman the exact opposite of what normally attracts you, you find her physically repulsive. You still could?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe the fact looks are not everything . Sometimes you can receive a pic and at first you are not physically attracted to them . But the more you talk. The more you laugh together . The more you find out what you both have in common . The more you become attracted to them "

And then you fancy them...it isn’t necessarily a visual thing..

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

What if its a woman the exact opposite of what normally attracts you, you find her physically repulsive. You still could? "

Well, I'm not sure. I'd probably let her wank me off though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down "

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

I very much agree with this. It's still an attraction to the person. It doesn't have to be looks.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Alot of guys see ejaculation as a necessary body movement. It's a "number 3". Get it out, then carry on with your day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are the Sex Samaritans

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Alot of guys see ejaculation as a necessary body movement. It's a "number 3". Get it out, then carry on with your day."

Except to get to meet me they’ll have been chatting for a while, had a phone call, met for coffee, appeared reliable and plausible... It’s a lot of effort to get a random new hole to ejaculate in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down "

I think the sweeping generalisations thread is still running...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

" Alot of guys see ejaculation as a necessary body movement. It's a "number 3". Get it out, then carry on with your day.

Ugly girls go easier maybe?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

The saying "Go ugly early, don't go home alone" is a saying for a good reason i assume.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

What if its a woman the exact opposite of what normally attracts you, you find her physically repulsive. You still could?

Well, I'm not sure. I'd probably let her wank me off though. "

Just keep your eyes closed and think happy thoughts

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority. "

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I noticed plenty of status updates saying... "anything goes"... puts me off for good.

Agree. Like men to be fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I noticed plenty of status updates saying... "anything goes"... puts me off for good.

Agree. Like men to be fussy"

Many men on fab would shag Henry Hoover given the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority."

Good point. I get messages from men asking when we can meet. Even with me having no pics or text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marginally better than a wank I suppose, depending on how much effort they have to put in.

I'd imagine it's the same for couples who go to clubs for a 3rd person.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I noticed plenty of status updates saying... "anything goes"... puts me off for good.

Agree. Like men to be fussy

Many men on fab would shag Henry Hoover given the chance"

Literally, in one case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I noticed plenty of status updates saying... "anything goes"... puts me off for good.

Agree. Like men to be fussy

Many men on fab would shag Henry Hoover given the chance

Literally, in one case

Oh...yep, I remember that one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority."

Sex is the reason most people join I think but sex with any fucker with a pulse surely. Each to their own I suppose, I just know I couldn’t do it just for the sake of having sex. There’s much more to it than that for me.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

You don't say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

You don't say..."

I do say, I think I just did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mabe these men might be married and if they fancy who there shaggin chances they may fall for them so if they shag someone they don't fancy it don't put there marriage at to much risk Only my thought

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

It can be and is for lots on here,a fairly simple release. a need to unload sometimes, a physical release .

Nothing complicated .

Whether it's optional is another argument.. Some like it daily,some weekly and others will wait 10 years plus for mr/mrs/ms right (hope I included all)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

No, I really don't!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

I very much agree with this. It's still an attraction to the person. It doesn't have to be looks. "

No,its not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

It can be and is for lots on here,a fairly simple release. a need to unload sometimes, a physical release .

Nothing complicated .

Whether it's optional is another argument.. Some like it daily,some weekly and others will wait 10 years plus for mr/mrs/ms right (hope I included all)"

Who mentioned dinner and wine etc, having to fancy somebody to want sex with them isn’t a complication. Well not in my book anyway.

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By *ockandrollaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Totally agree with the saying for a lot of men on here “any hole is a goal” and thenwhat they say in their veris which is obvs to everyone blatant lies, anyway I’m not lying when I say great breasts NSACHICK

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mabe these men might be married and if they fancy who there shaggin chances they may fall for them so if they shag someone they don't fancy it don't put there marriage at to much risk Only my thought "

You may have a point that people like to keep their distance, even if not married. And I won’t get into ‘you’re good enough to shag but not to be in a relationship because you’re on fab’ debate.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

The same guys who like getting sucked off by a “cock in a frock” but there not gay honest !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its just down to primal instincts for men

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By *r FuckableMan
over a year ago

Stoke

Ha ha.. Maybe that's why I haven't had much look then, time I went for women I don't like

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down "

Try reading Sex At Dawn

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp."

Yes. You dont always need attraction for whatever reasons to have good sex and enjoy it, its just preferable though.

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

Completely agree with all the above. BUT. Let me ask you this... what’s so different to women who can only see the size of your cock? If you’re ‘hung’ you can pretty much get what you want whenever you want it. Normal fellas are almost always second class to these women!!

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

A lot of my guy mates fuck for the sake of it. Maybe it's a lad thing to do, compete with other lads. But I just don't get how you can fuck someone who you don't fancy.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I noticed plenty of status updates saying... "anything goes"... puts me off for good.

Agree. Like men to be fussy

Many men on fab would shag Henry Hoover given the chance"

Nah, he sucks

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

It can be and is for lots on here,a fairly simple release. a need to unload sometimes, a physical release .

Nothing complicated .

Whether it's optional is another argument.. Some like it daily,some weekly and others will wait 10 years plus for mr/mrs/ms right (hope I included all)

Who mentioned dinner and wine etc, having to fancy somebody to want sex with them isn’t a complication. Well not in my book anyway."

Looks like we are in the minority and people just don't get what we are looking for, though I think it is fairly easy to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

I very much agree with this. It's still an attraction to the person. It doesn't have to be looks.

No,its not!"

Ok you use people like pieces of meat. Good for you.

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By *traight up guyMan
over a year ago

Morpeth

Cos otherwise they wouldn't get laid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

It can be and is for lots on here,a fairly simple release. a need to unload sometimes, a physical release .

Nothing complicated .

Whether it's optional is another argument.. Some like it daily,some weekly and others will wait 10 years plus for mr/mrs/ms right (hope I included all)

Who mentioned dinner and wine etc, having to fancy somebody to want sex with them isn’t a complication. Well not in my book anyway.

Looks like we are in the minority and people just don't get what we are looking for, though I think it is fairly easy to understand

It looks like that doesn’t it. I can’t believe we are in the minority on the subject. Oh well, I’ll get back to playing my waiting game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cos otherwise they wouldn't get laid!

I’d much rather never get laid ever again than have sex with a woman I didn’t find attractive. Where does the desire come from? I have to want to please that woman, if I didn’t fancy her I wouldn’t want to please her so the desire wouldn’t be there. It’s madness if you ask me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

Indeed. And who gives a literal fuck if you get it?

Fair play to those that have bothered to listen to replies, but plenty of judgement otherwise

Seriously, should you actually care, the act of sex is a fun one. I do care who I do it with. There has to be *something*. It's just not always fancying the pants off someone. And it's a lot of fun!

Should the day come when I fail to find the fun in sex, and have to make it all about ticking a series of boxes, then I'll be done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 12 messages, 3 winks and 2 friend requests in just 15 minutes! Sorry OP he's not the only one that will fuck anything.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

You don't say...

I do say, I think I just did

Many many many many times! You'll wear your armour out if you're not careful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

You don't say...

I do say, I think I just did

Many many many many times! You'll wear your armour out if you're not careful!

I’m only responding to people who are quoting me. Is that not the idea on a forum or should i just speak once and then ignore any responses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

You don't say...

I do say, I think I just did

Many many many many times! You'll wear your armour out if you're not careful!

Some men are decent human beings.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

You don't say...

I do say, I think I just did

Many many many many times! You'll wear your armour out if you're not careful!

Oh I’ve just cottoned on, you’re suggesting I’m white knighting. Afraid not mate, I just speak my mind, that’s all.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Cos otherwise they wouldn't get laid!

I think we have all heard what you have to say and what you want..

Have you never heard of fantasy, using your imagination etc?

I can close my eyes and suddenly David Beckham's cock is in my gob..

Did you know lots of guys(&women) are thinking about someone else while fucking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not thinking necessarily on here but more my nightclubbing/ pub days and stories from male friends. If she's up for it so is he, fancy or not. I think quite a few men find it easy enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My guess is you don't get it cos yr not a man!

Lots of us men (& I imagine some of you women)don't need attraction to have sex..

Bit baffled as to why that's hard to grasp.

I don’t get it either but then again I’m not desperate for sex. I would rather go without."
I agree

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Im not thinking necessarily on here but more my nightclubbing/ pub days and stories from male friends. If she's up for it so is he, fancy or not. I think quite a few men find it easy enough. "

Of course they do but try telling Mr bulgy Pants!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cos otherwise they wouldn't get laid!

I think we have all heard what you have to say and what you want..

Have you never heard of fantasy, using your imagination etc?

I can close my eyes and suddenly David Beckham's cock is in my gob..

Did you know lots of guys(&women) are thinking about someone else while fucking?

I’m sure they are, not this one tho. Maybe I’m weird I don’t know, I can only speak for myself and I won’t be criticised for it. I havnt criticised anybody else, I just don’t understand it that’s all. Doesn’t mean people are wrong for doing it, I just couldn’t. End of story really.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Cos otherwise they wouldn't get laid!

I think we have all heard what you have to say and what you want..

Have you never heard of fantasy, using your imagination etc?

I can close my eyes and suddenly David Beckham's cock is in my gob..

Did you know lots of guys(&women) are thinking about someone else while fucking?

I can honestly say I have never had sex with someone whilst thinking of someone else!

It just seems that we are all different after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not thinking necessarily on here but more my nightclubbing/ pub days and stories from male friends. If she's up for it so is he, fancy or not. I think quite a few men find it easy enough.

Of course they do but try telling Mr bulgy Pants!"

Why are you trying to single me out, plenty of women have said similar to me too. I have said I couldn’t do it, I have not said others can’t or shouldn’t, what they do is up to them isn’t it. It’s just all a bit desperate for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had 12 messages, 3 winks and 2 friend requests in just 15 minutes! Sorry OP he's not the only one that will fuck anything.

That daffodil tho, phwoar. I would..??

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Cos otherwise they wouldn't get laid!

I think we have all heard what you have to say and what you want..

Have you never heard of fantasy, using your imagination etc?

I can close my eyes and suddenly David Beckham's cock is in my gob..

Did you know lots of guys(&women) are thinking about someone else while fucking?

*claps*

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Im not thinking necessarily on here but more my nightclubbing/ pub days and stories from male friends. If she's up for it so is he, fancy or not. I think quite a few men find it easy enough.

Of course they do but try telling Mr bulgy Pants!"

Don't get personal! Just because we are not all the same as you! It is not a nice trait to show

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Have you asked them? Why have they admitted they fuck women they don't fancy?

Puts me off bothering if they're like that!"
have u never heard of the game pull the pig.... or 1.55am girls lol... it's a fact guys don't care...

U don't look at the mantle peice while poking the fire..

(Just pinched that from a bloke on another thread)

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Have you asked them? Why have they admitted they fuck women they don't fancy?

Puts me off bothering if they're like that!have u never heard of the game pull the pig.... or 1.55am girls lol... it's a fact guys don't care...

U don't look at the mantle peice while poking the fire..

(Just pinched that from a bloke on another thread)"

That's terrible behaviour. I would NEVER do that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you asked them? Why have they admitted they fuck women they don't fancy?

Puts me off bothering if they're like that!have u never heard of the game pull the pig.... or 1.55am girls lol... it's a fact guys don't care...

U don't look at the mantle peice while poking the fire..

(Just pinched that from a bloke on another thread)

That's terrible behaviour. I would NEVER do that!

I think fab forum folk are generally more discerning then the population at large

There's some truly appalling behaviour out there from that vanilla lot

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Im not thinking necessarily on here but more my nightclubbing/ pub days and stories from male friends. If she's up for it so is he, fancy or not. I think quite a few men find it easy enough.

Of course they do but try telling Mr bulgy Pants!

I am

I guess a fuck is out of the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not thinking necessarily on here but more my nightclubbing/ pub days and stories from male friends. If she's up for it so is he, fancy or not. I think quite a few men find it easy enough.

Of course they do but try telling Mr bulgy Pants!

I am

I guess a fuck is out of the question?"

You’re way out of my league

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Im not thinking necessarily on here but more my nightclubbing/ pub days and stories from male friends. If she's up for it so is he, fancy or not. I think quite a few men find it easy enough.

Of course they do but try telling Mr bulgy Pants!

I am

I guess a fuck is out of the question?

You’re way out of my league

Not too worry,it's been a cracking thread, sorry if I offended you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

It can be and is for lots on here,a fairly simple release. a need to unload sometimes, a physical release .

Nothing complicated .

Whether it's optional is another argument.. Some like it daily,some weekly and others will wait 10 years plus for mr/mrs/ms right (hope I included all)

Who mentioned dinner and wine etc, having to fancy somebody to want sex with them isn’t a complication. Well not in my book anyway.

Looks like we are in the minority and people just don't get what we are looking for, though I think it is fairly easy to understand

It looks like that doesn’t it. I can’t believe we are in the minority on the subject. Oh well, I’ll get back to playing my waiting game.

I would rather stick with my standards than have any old cock. If I wanted cock with no attraction then I have a very good selection in my drawers.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

It can be and is for lots on here,a fairly simple release. a need to unload sometimes, a physical release .

Nothing complicated .

Whether it's optional is another argument.. Some like it daily,some weekly and others will wait 10 years plus for mr/mrs/ms right (hope I included all)

Who mentioned dinner and wine etc, having to fancy somebody to want sex with them isn’t a complication. Well not in my book anyway.

Looks like we are in the minority and people just don't get what we are looking for, though I think it is fairly easy to understand

It looks like that doesn’t it. I can’t believe we are in the minority on the subject. Oh well, I’ll get back to playing my waiting game.

I would rather stick with my standards than have any old cock. If I wanted cock with no attraction then I have a very good selection in my drawers. "

I am not sure it has anything whatsoever to do with standards.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Have you asked them? Why have they admitted they fuck women they don't fancy?

Puts me off bothering if they're like that!have u never heard of the game pull the pig.... or 1.55am girls lol... it's a fact guys don't care...

U don't look at the mantle peice while poking the fire..

(Just pinched that from a bloke on another thread)

That's terrible behaviour. I would NEVER do that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

It can be and is for lots on here,a fairly simple release. a need to unload sometimes, a physical release .

Nothing complicated .

Whether it's optional is another argument.. Some like it daily,some weekly and others will wait 10 years plus for mr/mrs/ms right (hope I included all)

Who mentioned dinner and wine etc, having to fancy somebody to want sex with them isn’t a complication. Well not in my book anyway.

Looks like we are in the minority and people just don't get what we are looking for, though I think it is fairly easy to understand

It looks like that doesn’t it. I can’t believe we are in the minority on the subject. Oh well, I’ll get back to playing my waiting game.

I would rather stick with my standards than have any old cock. If I wanted cock with no attraction then I have a very good selection in my drawers.

I am not sure it has anything whatsoever to do with standards."

It’s MY standards

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

It can be and is for lots on here,a fairly simple release. a need to unload sometimes, a physical release .

Nothing complicated .

Whether it's optional is another argument.. Some like it daily,some weekly and others will wait 10 years plus for mr/mrs/ms right (hope I included all)

Who mentioned dinner and wine etc, having to fancy somebody to want sex with them isn’t a complication. Well not in my book anyway.

Looks like we are in the minority and people just don't get what we are looking for, though I think it is fairly easy to understand

It looks like that doesn’t it. I can’t believe we are in the minority on the subject. Oh well, I’ll get back to playing my waiting game.

I would rather stick with my standards than have any old cock. If I wanted cock with no attraction then I have a very good selection in my drawers.

I am not sure it has anything whatsoever to do with standards.

It’s MY standards "

My standards also echo your standards! I'm sure many people don't echo them, but i for one, certainly do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place

Most men won't turn it down

I think you’ll find most men would turn it down, I think the type of men you’re talking about are in the minority.

Maybe out there in the real world your right, but I suspect on here,it's not the case..

I know lots of you don't think this is a sex site.

Sex is the reason I joined and imagine I am not in the minority.

It can be and is for lots on here,a fairly simple release. a need to unload sometimes, a physical release .

Nothing complicated .

Whether it's optional is another argument.. Some like it daily,some weekly and others will wait 10 years plus for mr/mrs/ms right (hope I included all)

Who mentioned dinner and wine etc, having to fancy somebody to want sex with them isn’t a complication. Well not in my book anyway.

Looks like we are in the minority and people just don't get what we are looking for, though I think it is fairly easy to understand

It looks like that doesn’t it. I can’t believe we are in the minority on the subject. Oh well, I’ll get back to playing my waiting game.

I would rather stick with my standards than have any old cock. If I wanted cock with no attraction then I have a very good selection in my drawers.

I am not sure it has anything whatsoever to do with standards.

It’s MY standards

My standards also echo your standards! I'm sure many people don't echo them, but i for one, certainly do!

I didn’t expect that from you

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By *isstemptressWoman
over a year ago

york

Men are from Mars

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe it’s partly differing understanding of what ‘fancy’ means. I think that means you feel an attraction of whatever nature, others seem to define it as meaning visually attracted.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m not getting it.

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