FabSwingers.com forum: Men who say there straight on there profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yet still message me looking for some fun, What's all that about.

Why lie on your profile, jyst be honest

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

It’s because they are “Fab” straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And it's 'their' profile. No charge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men think that others will be put off if they say they are bi/bi curious, so prefer to 'label' themselves as straight. Their profile, their choice.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Some men think that others will be put off if they say they are bi/bi curious, so prefer to 'label' themselves as straight. Their profile, their choice. "
they’re foolish.

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

They're free to use whatever label they choose on their profile...there...I've said it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put bi curious and got bombarded with blocks wanting to blow me and dick pics a plenty.. I now know what it's like for the poor ladies on here

soon changed back.to straight

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Some men think that others will be put off if they say they are bi/bi curious, so prefer to 'label' themselves as straight. Their profile, their choice. "
what about the choice of the other person not wanting anyone bi curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And it's 'their' profile. No charge."

Also 'they're' straight. Ditto.

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By *itguy21066Man
over a year ago

leicester

Personally speaking I prefer the truth, we get quite a few guys who say they are bi and it says straight on their profile.just my outlook but I prefer to meet honest people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put bi curious and got bombarded with blocks wanting to blow me and dick pics a plenty.. I now know what it's like for the poor ladies on here

soon changed back.to straight"

Similar happened to me lol! I’ve kept bicurious on my profile though and just blocked single guys. I figured that if I’m open to meeting TV/TS, I couldn’t claim to be entirely straight! That’s just me though. Everyone is entitled to put down whatever they choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always be upfront and honoust but I can do with out the hassle of men tbh... if I.like.the look of a man I will approach him...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yet still message me looking for some fun, What's all that about.

Why lie on your profile, jyst be honest

X"
omg well its pretty obvious why and honesty never pays cmon you know that

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I would always be upfront and honoust but I can do with out the hassle of men tbh... if I.like.the look of a man I will approach him..."
not from behind, I hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

didn't think to block single guys.. doh!

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I would always be upfront and honoust but I can do with out the hassle of men tbh... if I.like.the look of a man I will approach him... not from behind, I hope. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the complaints about being pestered by guys, especially when you say no single guys on your profile..... but seriously... what do you think women and couples have to put up with every day by comparison..... for all you fellow bi, bi curious, situationaly bi, bi lite and diet bi guys out there . Just get out of the effing closet and at least be honest with yourself and your fellow fabbers.... you might miss a few meets from people who don't like Bi guys but you might win a few ever better ones!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It bothers me not a joy, but I did see one last night who was straight, and every one of his pics was of him sucking a dick, it did make me chuckle

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

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By *humper9erMan
over a year ago

Rocklin

"Yet still message me looking for some fun, What's all that about.

Why lie on your profile, jyst be honest

I've been getting that crap for a while. I am now BLOCKING the a h's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the complaints about being pestered by guys, especially when you say no single guys on your profile..... but seriously... what do you think women and couples have to put up with every day by comparison..... for all you fellow bi, bi curious, situationaly bi, bi lite and diet bi guys out there . Just get out of the effing closet and at least be honest with yourself and your fellow fabbers.... you might miss a few meets from people who don't like Bi guys but you might win a few ever better ones!"

Pretty strong views you have there! Plenty of women have bicurious on their profiles and don’t see themselves as bisexual. Do you have a problem with them not “coming out of the closet” too?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think the sexuality labels this website provides could be improved but as labels go, people usually want to know such information so by saying you’re straight but aren’t, isn’t really fair to those who don’t want bi, for example. I do appreciate though that people can identify as they wish.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As I always say when threads like this come about - the guys that label themselves as straight (to get round the preferences of the "won't meet bi guys" people) but are really bi should realise that by doing so they are actually closing just as many doors as they are opening - as people looking for bi guys either won't be able to find them, or (like me) won't meet them because they have lied.

As for not wanting to get pestered by other men - as an openly bi guy who would welcome well worded messages from other guys, I don't get that many messages for it to be a problem - and if it really is a problem for anyone just set the no single men filter

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Well I e got straight but also have meet men, I like a cock play, but dont do anal, so that's me straight, not curious to fuck a guy just like cocks, dont we all, so that's me play with guys but straight as I'm not curious or gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty strong views you have there! Plenty of women have bicurious on their profiles and don’t see themselves as bisexual. Do you have a problem with them not “coming out of the closet” too?"

My feelings apply all ways, so no different for women would who say they are str8 but aren't.....

I agree completely with those who say the sexuality labels on the site are inadequate, so my view is admit to being bi or bicurious, but then use your profile to describe how you view and interpret your own sexuality, so that your potential partners have an honest choice from the start....

I mean seriously my profile is the Anti-Unicorn I state on there that I'm a 40yr old, hairy, circumcised, married, bi bloke. That ticks most peoples no boxes before I start.

But at least the few people I have chatted with know who and what I am, and where I stand. And I don't have to begin by backtracking and defending untruths and omissions....

Don't mean to be preachy but wouldn't it be nice if this was the one place we could be honest about ourselves?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Well I e got straight but also have meet men, I like a cock play, but dont do anal, so that's me straight, not curious to fuck a guy just like cocks, dont we all, so that's me play with guys but straight as I'm not curious or gay"

If you play with cocks you are at least bi-curious - just because you don't fuck or get fucked by guys doesn't change that - in fact there are plenty of gay guys who don't indulge in anal play of any kind.

How you choose to label yourself is of course your choice entirely but per my previous post you're potentially shooting yourself in the foot by hiding your true sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty strong views you have there! Plenty of women have bicurious on their profiles and don’t see themselves as bisexual. Do you have a problem with them not “coming out of the closet” too?

My feelings apply all ways, so no different for women would who say they are str8 but aren't.....

I mean seriously my profile is the Anti-Unicorn I state on there that I'm a 40yr old, hairy, circumcised, married, bi bloke. That ticks most peoples no boxes before I start.

But at least the few people I have chatted with know who and what I am, and where I stand. And I don't have to begin by backtracking and defending untruths and omissions....

Don't mean to be preachy but wouldn't it be nice if this was the one place we could be honest about ourselves? "

I agree with everything you’ve said. My only issue was I felt you were kind of having a dig earlier at those choosing to use the term bi-curious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Peronaly I think honesty is the best policy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men think that others will be put off if they say they are bi/bi curious, so prefer to 'label' themselves as straight. Their profile, their choice. what about the choice of the other person not wanting anyone bi curious?"

If they are that bothered then perhaps they should ask the question.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

If they are that bothered then perhaps they should ask the question."
the point is they shouldn't have to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you you’re a straight man then I’m definitely faster than Usein Bolt anytime with any money on it.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Like cock but not bi?

Head hurts

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Alas others judge bi men pretty harshly on here. Especially women.

I get plenty of chaps apply to attend my Pan People party with straight on their profile. I'm only interested in people who are open and comfortable with who they are. So it cuts both ways.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

I think this subject has been done to death on numerous occasions. Personally it doesn't bother me as long as they read our profile before sending a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like cock but not bi?

Head hurts"

May I add...Like a cock, wear a blonde wig on his profile pic, but not bi?

Panadol extra?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are that bothered then perhaps they should ask the question.the point is they shouldn't have to..."

If it's something people are extremely bothered about though then they should as it is them that find it an issue.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I'm not judging If ur a man who likes cock in the mouth then ur not straight 100%

I just don't get why u can't search for people who want u rather lie ur way in

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

"Like cock but not bi?

Head hurts

May I add...Like a cock, wear a blonde wig on his profile pic, but not bi?

Panadol extra?"

Classic.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Nobody is that superior that everyone likes u or has ur life choices...

We all have choice..

Ours is ours

Yours is yours

Deal with it

I'm a fat bird. I wouldn't dream of saying I'm slim!!

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Like cock but not bi?

Head hurts

May I add...Like a cock, wear a blonde wig on his profile pic, but not bi?

Panadol extra?

Classic.

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u state ur bi!!!!!

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

"Like cock but not bi?

Head hurts

May I add...Like a cock, wear a blonde wig on his profile pic, but not bi?

Panadol extra?

Classic.

u state ur bi!!!!! "

Who are you referring to.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

You

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

"You"

Why.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"You

Why."
I've just actually looked at his pics lol

Forgive me xx

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

"You

Why.I've just actually looked at his pics lol

Forgive me xx"

I wondered why, and I am TS not a guy. Forgiven. X

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I know. I thought u was being sarcastic. I've put my bins on now lol x

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I’m not worried about how guys label themselves - I’m not going sue them under the Trades Descriptions Act! I’ve had some great meets with guys who describe themselves as straight and some have become good buddies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares how they label themselves the truth comes out in the end

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"Who cares how they label themselves the truth comes out in the end"

Well something definitely comes out lol

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

"Alas others judge bi men pretty harshly on here. Especially women.

I get plenty of chaps apply to attend my Pan People party with straight on their profile. I'm only interested in people who are open and comfortable with who they are. So it cuts both ways."

I'd love to be able to attend one of these days

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

How you choose to label yourself is of course your choice entirely but per my previous post you're potentially shooting yourself in the foot by hiding your true sexuality "

It's not hidden now as it's for all to see here lol

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