FabSwingers.com forum: Inexperience

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi there, I don't have much experience and I know that will put a lot of people off but I wondered if there are people who won't be put off by my inexperience?

I tend to be very honest in my profile so people are aware.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it.... It will put a few people off others will find it attractive.... You are doing the right thing in being honest! Forum posts are a good way of being noticed, join in on some of the chats and express yourself openly and honestly and learn more about the community....

Make sure you are photo verified and go on cam and chat to people in different rooms.... persevere, strike up conversations etc and get a few people to verify you.

Also post regular interesting status updates, but stay away from negative ones and don't beg or sound desperate..... that will put people off! Same applies to forum posts...... don't make whiny statements like 'Why does nobody want to meet single guys' but rather ask positive questions like what is the best way to meet people..... or which is the best club in my area etc... this is a community and you will find there are lots of good kind people who will welcome and help you.

Also look for local social events and meets that you can go to.......

Good luck!

Ps take the time to read profiles carefully before winking or emailing!

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Some people will be put off by your inexperience because a lot of us are here to fulfil fantasies.

Present it in a positive light e.g. quick learner or plenty of ideas just waiting to put them in to practice.

Good luck

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the level of inexperience you describe in your profile will make it almost impossible for to get any interest from a swinging site. You might have more success from a dating site. Also, although honesty is important, there are certain things that are none of anybody else’s business, and it is not a requirement for your sexual history (or lack of) to be disclosed on a profile. Just talk about what you are looking for and what you can offer, act confident, and get out to some organised sicials. Don’t mention anything that could be construed as a negative.

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