FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I in the wrong blocking people who reply to my initial contact with a not interested. Or delete my message without reply. Only asking because a friend on here told me a few were not happy about it. Cheers Andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the wrong. Please yourself not others. It makes for a happier fab life.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Nothing wrong with blocking as a filter, saves wasted time on both sides x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bin the bad & keep the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block whoever you want for whatever reason you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it makes sense to block users who've made it clear they're not interested. It saves you wasting your time viewing/messaging people who don't want to meet you.

Why would you worry what people who aren't interested think? If they've declined your invite, or deleted your message without reply I dont see how they'd be offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I literally got blocked live yesterday half way through reading a profile it went to the blocked page lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the help. They are obviously not interested in me so don't get why they would be annoyed

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Are you worried the fall back from a man blocking on Fab? Do what you want OP. However women on the forums may now think

‘serial blocker’ ha ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our block list is HUGE. Some dont put the correct subject header when sending a message. Others send revolting pictures and assume we will fuck anyone and everyone, certainly not the case. First ilpressions count, a lot of hot guys have wasted their chance in meeting us.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Our block list is HUGE. Some dont put the correct subject header when sending a message. Others send revolting pictures and assume we will fuck anyone and everyone, certainly not the case. First ilpressions count, a lot of hot guys have wasted their chance in meeting us."

So blocking for wrong subject header and I thought I was fussy, well when I allowed people to contact me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't often post on here or approach lots of people. So hardly a serial blocker. Just wondered it I was out of order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block whoever you want for whatever reason you want "

lol my thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should read the profile and write the correct subject header. We get 100s of messages from guys daily so usually a way to see who has taken time to find the key word to send to us to get our attention, s out the guys who just message without reading what we are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing wrong with blocking as a filter, saves wasted time on both sides x"
you'd never catch me blocking

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Thou doth protest too much.....ha ha I’m joking with you but you’re more high maintenance then I was.....love it

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Don't often post on here or approach lots of people. So hardly a serial blocker. Just wondered it I was out of order."

Nah you’re a serial blocker alright

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I don't see any of your given reasons enough to report unless there's been abuse tbh. To block, yes.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not wrong at all op

Saves repeat messaging.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Nothing wrong with blocking as a filter, saves wasted time on both sides x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s up to you if you are happy to close doors. We are automatically saying no thanks to everybody at the moment, but another time another place, we may well be in a position to play with someone we originally rejected. Or our paths might cross at a club. People’s circumstances are fluid, and sometimes it’s fruitful to play the long game.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best button on the site by far

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Best button on the site by far

Block button is a good tool....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get what you did

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I get what you did"

Good glad about that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Returned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get what you did

Good glad about that

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Returned"

brilliant !

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

How would you know someone you blocked were upset about it?

If they're not interested neither are you, surely?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Their updates. Which friends told me about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you worried the fall back from a man blocking on Fab? Do what you want OP. However women on the forums may now think

‘serial blocker’ ha ha ha. "

Who would worry about what forum women think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to me, you're doing the right thing.

They might be hoping for more messages from you so they can moan about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They put it on their updates so others can see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why on earth would anyone care about the human being behind the profile? They're just pieces of meat to fuck and use.

Their feelings don't matter. They should know their value: zero. Unless you want to fuck them then their value increases slightly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lost me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lost me"

Read the thread.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Lost me

Read the thread. "

There you go again -expecting men to be able to read more than 1 line at a time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on earth would anyone care about the human being behind the profile? They're just pieces of meat to fuck and use.

Their feelings don't matter. They should know their value: zero. Unless you want to fuck them then their value increases slightly. "

I agree with this, I think manners are lost on here! I reply even to say no thanks, I'm sure cpls and single females are inundated with messages and to make life simpler imply some rules to filter through the messages..

But yes ultimately the place has become like a meat factory over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t believe anyone would put up a status that says “So ‘n So just blocked us” - naming and shaming isn’t allowed. This thread makes sod all sense.

Oh, and we tend to block people who ask for specific words to be put in a message, smacks of neediness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask to delete my message if they aren't interested and then I just block so I don't message them again , saves time and I can move on lol

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By *issminxandmrcCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

I've just had to block a young guy that again "couldn't be arsed " to read our lies/dislikes etc GRRRRR!!

Then after the telling him 3 times that NO!! I don't do Anal sex on a 1st meet,

Continued to ask "can I cum up that sexy ASS?"

BLOCKED!! ...then the immature sod immediately posted publicly "with my user name" that I'd rudely blocked him WFT!!!????

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Why on earth would anyone care about the human being behind the profile? They're just pieces of meat to fuck and use.

Their feelings don't matter. They should know their value: zero. Unless you want to fuck them then their value increases slightly.

But yes ultimately the place has become like a meat factory over the years."

A man replying with ‘no thanks’? Confused.com

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I've just had to block a young guy that again "couldn't be arsed " to read our lies/dislikes etc GRRRRR!!

Then after the telling him 3 times that NO!! I don't do Anal sex on a 1st meet,

Continued to ask "can I cum up that sexy ASS?"

BLOCKED!! ...then the immature sod immediately posted publicly "with my user name" that I'd rudely blocked him WFT!!!????

Block and report! I think there should be a double block button reserved for such idiots that get a black star against their profile so we know who the idiots are. Good idea or what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on earth would anyone care about the human being behind the profile? They're just pieces of meat to fuck and use.

Their feelings don't matter. They should know their value: zero. Unless you want to fuck them then their value increases slightly.

But yes ultimately the place has become like a meat factory over the years.

A man replying with ‘no thanks’? Confused.com

?? "

Yeah odd isn't it, some actually prefer to know and like people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just had to block a young guy that again "couldn't be arsed " to read our lies/dislikes etc GRRRRR!!

Then after the telling him 3 times that NO!! I don't do Anal sex on a 1st meet,

Continued to ask "can I cum up that sexy ASS?"

BLOCKED!! ...then the immature sod immediately posted publicly "with my user name" that I'd rudely blocked him WFT!!!????

Block and report! I think there should be a double block button reserved for such idiots that get a black star against their profile so we know who the idiots are. Good idea or what? "

They usually get banned and just re-register.... (I was part of a Cpl on here so know this!) See I'm not against blocking just find it used like a swipe button.. I've oddly gotten to know people best by chatting...

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Why on earth would anyone care about the human being behind the profile? They're just pieces of meat to fuck and use.

Their feelings don't matter. They should know their value: zero. Unless you want to fuck them then their value increases slightly.

But yes ultimately the place has become like a meat factory over the years.

A man replying with ‘no thanks’? Confused.com

Yeah odd isn't it, some actually prefer to know and like people"

Odd is not a word I like. I would say ‘unique’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on earth would anyone care about the human being behind the profile? They're just pieces of meat to fuck and use.

Their feelings don't matter. They should know their value: zero. Unless you want to fuck them then their value increases slightly.

But yes ultimately the place has become like a meat factory over the years.

A man replying with ‘no thanks’? Confused.com

Yeah odd isn't it, some actually prefer to know and like people

Odd is not a word I like. I would say ‘unique’. "

It's up to you what words you like!, but perhaps it says more about you and your views we aren't all dogs that f**k anything.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I've just had to block a young guy that again "couldn't be arsed " to read our lies/dislikes etc GRRRRR!!

Then after the telling him 3 times that NO!! I don't do Anal sex on a 1st meet,

Continued to ask "can I cum up that sexy ASS?"

BLOCKED!! ...then the immature sod immediately posted publicly "with my user name" that I'd rudely blocked him WFT!!!????

Block and report! I think there should be a double block button reserved for such idiots that get a black star against their profile so we know who the idiots are. Good idea or what? "

While people can shut down profiles & immediately open a new one it'd be a waste of time.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Why on earth would anyone care about the human being behind the profile? They're just pieces of meat to fuck and use.

Their feelings don't matter. They should know their value: zero. Unless you want to fuck them then their value increases slightly.

But yes ultimately the place has become like a meat factory over the years.

A man replying with ‘no thanks’? Confused.com

Yeah odd isn't it, some actually prefer to know and like people

Odd is not a word I like. I would say ‘unique’.

It's up to you what words you like!, but perhaps it says more about you and your views we aren't all dogs that f**k anything."

Chill out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on earth would anyone care about the human being behind the profile? They're just pieces of meat to fuck and use.

Their feelings don't matter. They should know their value: zero. Unless you want to fuck them then their value increases slightly.

But yes ultimately the place has become like a meat factory over the years.

A man replying with ‘no thanks’? Confused.com

Yeah odd isn't it, some actually prefer to know and like people

Odd is not a word I like. I would say ‘unique’.

It's up to you what words you like!, but perhaps it says more about you and your views we aren't all dogs that f**k anything.

Chill out

He sounds perfectly chilled to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What started out as me looking for a little advice seems to have now turned into a battle. Thanks to all seems most think I'm ok to block. You can all relax and calm down now. Cheers Andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What started out as me looking for a little advice seems to have now turned into a battle. Thanks to all seems most think I'm ok to block. You can all relax and calm down now. Cheers Andy"

You started it so only fair I block you... haha

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Why on earth would anyone care about the human being behind the profile? They're just pieces of meat to fuck and use.

Their feelings don't matter. They should know their value: zero. Unless you want to fuck them then their value increases slightly.

But yes ultimately the place has become like a meat factory over the years.

A man replying with ‘no thanks’? Confused.com

Yeah odd isn't it, some actually prefer to know and like people

Odd is not a word I like. I would say ‘unique’.

It's up to you what words you like!, but perhaps it says more about you and your views we aren't all dogs that f**k anything.

Chill out

He sounds perfectly chilled to me.

Not exactly! He’s making assumptions about me, how little he knows of me. These forums really do amuse me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on earth would anyone care about the human being behind the profile? They're just pieces of meat to fuck and use.

Their feelings don't matter. They should know their value: zero. Unless you want to fuck them then their value increases slightly.

But yes ultimately the place has become like a meat factory over the years.

A man replying with ‘no thanks’? Confused.com

Yeah odd isn't it, some actually prefer to know and like people

Odd is not a word I like. I would say ‘unique’.

It's up to you what words you like!, but perhaps it says more about you and your views we aren't all dogs that f**k anything.

Chill out

He sounds perfectly chilled to me.

Not exactly! He’s making assumptions about me, how little he knows of me. These forums really do amuse me....

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hahaha pot, kettle etc only you made your assumption on the whole of mankind!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Why on earth would anyone care about the human being behind the profile? They're just pieces of meat to fuck and use.

Their feelings don't matter. They should know their value: zero. Unless you want to fuck them then their value increases slightly.

But yes ultimately the place has become like a meat factory over the years.

A man replying with ‘no thanks’? Confused.com

Yeah odd isn't it, some actually prefer to know and like people

Odd is not a word I like. I would say ‘unique’.

It's up to you what words you like!, but perhaps it says more about you and your views we aren't all dogs that f**k anything.

Chill out

He sounds perfectly chilled to me.

Not exactly! He’s making assumptions about me, how little he knows of me. These forums really do amuse me....

hahaha pot, kettle etc only you made your assumption on the whole of mankind!!"

From my research on the forums.

Ok I’ll start another thread about it then ha ha ha ha.

Chill out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What started out as me looking for a little advice seems to have now turned into a battle. Thanks to all seems most think I'm ok to block. You can all relax and calm down now. Cheers Andy"

Still doesn’t explain why anyone would name and shame you OP for blocking them?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Here's the original post, please respond to this and don't argue amongst yourselves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on earth would anyone care about the human being behind the profile? They're just pieces of meat to fuck and use.

Their feelings don't matter. They should know their value: zero. Unless you want to fuck them then their value increases slightly.

But yes ultimately the place has become like a meat factory over the years.

A man replying with ‘no thanks’? Confused.com

Yeah odd isn't it, some actually prefer to know and like people

Odd is not a word I like. I would say ‘unique’.

It's up to you what words you like!, but perhaps it says more about you and your views we aren't all dogs that f**k anything.

Chill out

He sounds perfectly chilled to me.

Not exactly! He’s making assumptions about me, how little he knows of me. These forums really do amuse me....

It's just words on a screen. You did say unique.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm very happy with the advice given thanks. Now calm down and carry on

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

No, You are not wrong in blocking. We don't as long as they are respectful as we are in saying no. If they then block us, so what? You just told them no so no big deal..

Same thing when going to look at a profile & you can't because you for whatever reason are blocked.

Meh,shrugg & move on

S&H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block for a whole host of reasons. No manners, dullness, my fave at the min is blocking guys who think the only criteria that matters is proximity..."We're really close, fancy a fuck?"

Erm...nah! BLOCK

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Your friend told you a few weren't happy? How did your friend know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block whoever you want for whatever reason you want "

It's your experience, run it how you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your Fab life for you to live how you wish. Block whoever you want and don't give it a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block who you like it’s your choice... i bloke all single guys as it’s not what we’re looking for and it says that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your friend told you a few weren't happy? How did your friend know?"

Exactly, asked OP a couple of times in this thread but he’s swerved the question #lookatme

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Who gives a monkeys what a blocked person thinks?

We block people we are never going to want to meet. It's a way of clearing out the chaff. It's no reflection on them as people. They're just not what we're looking for. No sweat.

If they don't like being blocked that's their issue to deal with, not ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I in the wrong blocking people who reply to my initial contact with a not interested. Or delete my message without reply. Only asking because a friend on here told me a few were not happy about it. Cheers Andy"
no there nothing wrong with that but some people do block without a reason which is hash in a way but i do not beleive in blocking people because everyone has the right to have fun in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I in the wrong blocking people who reply to my initial contact with a not interested. Or delete my message without reply. Only asking because a friend on here told me a few were not happy about it. Cheers Andy"
look blocking people is a terrible thing it's a negative but hey you wernt keen on them it's life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile your choice OP.

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By *issminxandmrcCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

"I've just had to block a young guy that again "couldn't be arsed " to read our lies/dislikes etc GRRRRR!!

Then after the telling him 3 times that NO!! I don't do Anal sex on a 1st meet,

Continued to ask "can I cum up that sexy ASS?"

BLOCKED!! ...then the immature sod immediately posted publicly "with my user name" that I'd rudely blocked him WFT!!!????

Block and report! I think there should be a double block button reserved for such idiots that get a black star against their profile so we know who the idiots are. Good idea or what? "

I totally agree 100% yes!! Brilliant idea...To actually "mention a member by user name (is totally out of order and surely against site rules!!)

I had no option but to ask friends to check to see if he'd taken my name off his Status header,as he blocked me!! and so had noway of actually finding out "if" my user name was "STILL" on his profile !!

Personally "naming " and "Shaming"soooo PUBLICLY should "never be allowed" at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just had to block a young guy that again "couldn't be arsed " to read our lies/dislikes etc GRRRRR!!

Then after the telling him 3 times that NO!! I don't do Anal sex on a 1st meet,

Continued to ask "can I cum up that sexy ASS?"

BLOCKED!! ...then the immature sod immediately posted publicly "with my user name" that I'd rudely blocked him WFT!!!????

Block and report! I think there should be a double block button reserved for such idiots that get a black star against their profile so we know who the idiots are. Good idea or what?

I totally agree 100% yes!! Brilliant idea...To actually "mention a member by user name (is totally out of order and surely against site rules!!)

Personally "naming " and "Shaming"soooo PUBLICLY should "never be allowed" at all x

It isn't. Report him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block and delete unsolicited messages daily. 99% are from single men who haven't read our profile, or have and think they'll chance it anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I in the wrong blocking people who reply to my initial contact with a not interested. Or delete my message without reply. Only asking because a friend on here told me a few were not happy about it. Cheers Andy no there nothing wrong with that but some people do block without a reason which is hash in a way but i do not beleive in blocking people because everyone has the right to have fun in life

There's always a reason...and while I don't believe that 'fun' is one of the rights enshrined in any law... I certainly don't have any obligation to provide it for them...

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

We can block someone just from something they post on here, we see it as a safety net, ensuring that we don't accidentally end up chatting to someone who has been bragging about drxgs or fantasies about sxx with family members, just another useful filter really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares what others think. It is your profile and your filing system....use it how you please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block...

When Ive been contracted for the 6th time, after saying “sorry no thank you” or “sorry not interested” and they still come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course not. In someone's not interested then blocking is a great way to stop yourself accidentally trying to contact again and becoming a pest.

If someone isn't interested why the hell do they care if you block them???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, there’s nothing wrong with that mate. Any girl who doesn’t go for men based on your colour, who has deleted your message after reading it or has showed no interest, just block ‘em to save time. Same standards applies to the ladies as well.

Never doubt what you feel is best for your own happiness and enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt worry about others do what is right for you.

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