FabSwingers.com forum: Swingers/ hotwives

By *heHotwifePair OP Couple
over a year ago

South

Do you keep your fab life a complete secret, or do any of your friends know? If so, what was their reaction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's two completely different worlds for us and they don't ever cross over.

Plus our sex life is nobody elses business.

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By *din and his ValkyrieCouple
over a year ago

Valhalla

I have a few close friends that know but that was more when I was a single lady for my own safety.. they where shocked and ask loads of questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you keep your fab life a complete secret, or do any of your friends know? If so, what was their reaction? "
I meet a woman whose kids (adults now) introduced her to the sex site I met her on so all her family knows where we met including her mum and dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely separate. People have enough talk about instead of our business

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Totally separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally separate. "

Snap

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

I keep things schtoom personally, that said; I don't consider myself a swinger really. Just a single dude not adverse to adventure from time to time. A friend at work and his Mrs live the life very transparently ! Keen to regail his weekend adventures with everyone lol

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

My best friend knows and he's the one that talked me into blogging about some of my adventures when I used to meet cuckold couples.

Now that I am part of a couple I don't reveal nearly as much about what I get up to though. He says he is open minded but in reality he struggles to get his head around why a couple would swing together.

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By *utDoSomeMoreCouple
over a year ago

Southport

Ashley has a few friends that know but they're on here anyway so that's different. Otherwise definitely don't want regular friends knowing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only share this with our friends that have a vested interest in swinging. Keeps life far simpler.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interesting topic, must be easy for males and more difficult for couples especially, but I find one of the most erotic dynamics is when a couple introduces a bull into their social life as a friend and he’d be having beers at this bbq knowing what will happen later in the evening ... super erotic !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody knows. My little secret.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"It's two completely different worlds for us and they don't ever cross over.

Plus our sex life is nobody elses business.

Same for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do non swingers(vanilla),tell their sex life to friends and family?

No?

Neither do we.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do non swingers(vanilla),tell their sex life to friends and family?

No?

Neither do we."

some of my friends do and there not swingers?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

A few of our relatives and vanilla friends know we swing. It's not for them but they have no problems with our lifestyle.

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By *..TheCurvyPetrolHead...Woman
over a year ago

Warrington

As a single lady I am in a very lucky position that my mates who are a couple told me about this site last year. They know about meets I have for safety.

I also have a couple of other female friends who know about my lifestyle and there is no judgement.

However; there are definitely some people I will not tell! I have a reputation for being a lovely girl and I don't want to lose it! Haha

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I put ads up in the local central - get lots of enquiries about childminding and guitar lessons which is just a little too kinky for my tastes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally separate ..nobody needs to know,it would be of no advantage to them

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Don’t go out of way to tell people but don’t hide if comes up naturally or anyone suspects ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of friends that know and my sister knows - they all wish they swing but their hubbys aren't interested.

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

"As a single lady I am in a very lucky position that my mates who are a couple told me about this site last year. They know about meets I have for safety.

I also have a couple of other female friends who know about my lifestyle and there is no judgement.

However; there are definitely some people I will not tell! I have a reputation for being a lovely girl and I don't want to lose it! Haha

Any fan of Star Wars is a friend of mine....sorry for going off topic but I couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a soul knows of our “secret little hobby “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I introduced a workfriend to the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's two completely different worlds for us and they don't ever cross over.

Plus our sex life is nobody elses business.

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this is how I feel about it xx

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Salop

We were apparently recognised by someone whilst visiting our favourite club. We were not aware of them at the time. They then anonymously spread the word around the office where G works by leaving notes on peoples desks.

We have always tried to keep our private life private for the sake of our family. It has now meant we are afraid to go to the club again in case the same thing happens.

Needless to say if we ever find out who that person is they could well be in for some GBH.

G&A

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

"As a single lady I am in a very lucky position that my mates who are a couple told me about this site last year. They know about meets I have for safety.

I also have a couple of other female friends who know about my lifestyle and there is no judgement.

However; there are definitely some people I will not tell! I have a reputation for being a lovely girl and I don't want to lose it! Haha

Any fan of Star Wars is a friend of mine....sorry for going off topic but I couldn't resist

Not to mention cars and Lego !! The perfect woman lol

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By *roncock2017Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"It's two completely different worlds for us and they don't ever cross over.

Plus our sex life is nobody elses business.

Yeah definitely two different worlds...a lot of people don’t get it,

So I have both sides of life to enjoy ...but it’s Interesting talking to people and the subject comes up and then see their reaction.. sometimes good sometimes bad so always judging on what kind of vibe & connection I get from somebody to see if i’l let them in into that side of life,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some friends that know. I don’t think anyone has been surprised that knows although we don’t go out of our way to talk anyone. Hubby is much better at keeping it secret, I am just too honest with my friends.

One of my friends found out purely because I wanted to tell her about a great experience I had with a guy who was so good at making me cum. I talked about it before I had even thought about the fact that it might be a bit of surprise. Most people are not judgemental but occasionally you’ll come across someone who is and I don’t want judgemental people in my life so it’s a good filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely separate. People have enough talk about instead of our business "

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

total secret here

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Swinging life is always separated from professional life.

This is one of the reasons why people are unlikely looking for people who are local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told a few close friends they were very was interested on someone's not

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"It's two completely different worlds for us and they don't ever cross over.

Plus our sex life is nobody elses business.

Our thoughts too

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Poole, but up in lincs for a bit

One friend knows. But that's only because shes on here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I am concerned what I do in my private life is my business and no one else’s

Simple

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We keep our swinging antics separate from our everyday lives although it probably wouldn't surprise/shock our friends if they knew.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy thread resurrection Batman....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very interesting topic, must be easy for males and more difficult for couples especially, but I find one of the most erotic dynamics is when a couple introduces a bull into their social life as a friend and he’d be having beers at this bbq knowing what will happen later in the evening ... super erotic ! "

THAT is hot!

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Have told a few close friends, not family though. Generally the reaction is one of non comprehension. One of the wife’s friends quizzes her about it and seems fascinated but wouldn’t do it herself.

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