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Prefer regular meets or different people each time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So does people prefer regular fun with the same people or different people every time.

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

We like a mix - we have made some lovely friends on here who we enjoy playing with. However a good anonymous play can be amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does people prefer regular fun with the same people or different people every time."

Why not both !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does people prefer regular fun with the same people or different people every time."

For us we like to play with our friends but also like to play with new people and hopefully they become friends we can regularly play with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So does people prefer regular fun with the same people or different people every time.

For us we like to play with our friends but also like to play with new people and hopefully they become friends we can regularly play with"

This is quite like us we don’t mind meeting new people but also like freinds.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Most definitely regular.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are just hoping to expand our friendship abit more as weve only managed to meet one lovely couple so far x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to meet different people every time .

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By *ure Fucking NaughtiesWoman
over a year ago

Wonderland

Regular, for me the better you know someone the better fun you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ideally like regular

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We don't meet anyone with the intention of it being a strictly 'one off' occasion but some people either do or say something during the meet that puts us off any future meets or they go a bit weird/possessive afterwards and that has the same outcome. The flip side to this is that when we do click with someone (two single guys in particular) our friendship and fun now goes back over five years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like both.

We arent looking for friendships here anyway as we have each other and the same goes for deep meaningful sex ... we have that with each other.

A mixture of both is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With any luck, regular.

I think I've you've established trust, the sex just gets better and better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has to be regular as the sex just gets better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular meets, build trust and push boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"has to be regular as the sex just gets better "

That is so true x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I prefer regular. I like to be restrained etc, there's no way I could relax and enjoy that with a one off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to sway more towards regular but recently I'm having great fun with a few different people. Maybe having a few different FWB's on a regular basis is the answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer regular. I like to be restrained etc, there's no way I could relax and enjoy that with a one off!"

Yea we totally get that we wouldn’t really trust someone on a first meet to restrain us too xx

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"having a few different FWB's on a regular basis is the answer. "

That would be my ideal!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone."

But you have to meet new people to get good regulars well for people like us fairly new to this x

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Both

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Prefer repeats but also like a new face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone."

It says to me that they are someone who thoroughly enjoys swinging, to the max.

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By *nJ_NW_cplCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Both is good, we enjoy parties where there are people we know and have met several times before, and new people who we are meeting for the first time.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Both really, one off can be spontaneously great fun. As L says regular meets ewith the same person you can have a few drinks with, who are on the same wavelength, who you’d go shopping with and have a fun relationship, adds that little bit more, a higher dimension really.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone."

Yes it does .

It says they enjoy variety , which is in essence what swinging is all about .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like meeting different people who become regulars

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Definitely a mixture of both for us H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind either,but we do find that regular is better as there is more of a relaxed atmosphere . One offs have all been great too though and without having that one off you never know if it will go further for future meets .

It does put us off a little if we see people with play verifications every other day as for us we like to have a bit of connection not into quick drive by fucks lol.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me. I usually only soft play until I know someone really well anyway so regular means I do full play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone.

Yes it does .

It says they enjoy variety , which is in essence what swinging is all about .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone."

And what might that be ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone."

What does it say ?

To me it says that they are a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every regular meet has to start with a first meet.

Why not just meet and if you get on meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular (dream on)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be happy with any meet right now, but it would be nice to have 1 or 2 regulars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone.

And what might that be ??? "
too much spare time maybe

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London


"So does people prefer regular fun with the same people or different people every time."

In an ideal world we'd prefer a handful of people that we could meet up with on a semi-regular basis. Sometimes to socialise and sometimes to mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still trying to overcome the nervousness of meeting new people so I'd have to say regular

Jenny x

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
over a year ago

Marlow

Regular for me , gets better and better each time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the way the feeling and connection builds as you meet more. The desire to please that person becomes stronger and the ability to understand what the other person wants becomes clearer and more achievable.

I would call my regular guys ‘friends’ not just fuck buddies.

I have had some spectacular one offs too though

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By *ealskipperMan
over a year ago

between london and


"I like meeting different people who become regulars "

I’m sure that translates to variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Il try different until i find the fuck of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both. Regulars as people have said to build up trust and naughtiness. I mean tie and restraint need time and trust.

But some other one offs for the excitement and nerves of a new meet.

Plus in order to find regulars it has to start with first meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New people for us..we rarley meet the same people twice..we like the unexpectedness of a new meet and what that brings..can not see the point of meeting the same people over and over..that's a relationship not swinging and will become boring no matter how good the sex is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With any luck, regular.

I think I've you've established trust, the sex just gets better and better. "

Wish I lived in plymouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone.

Yes it does .

It says they enjoy variety , which is in essence what swinging is all about .

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By *icuriouscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

hull

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Love a bit of regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Regular meets are fun because you get to explore the person's body and learn what they love. New people is fun because of the thrill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer repeats...definitely much hornier and sexier and hotter with a man who is getting to know you and your body. My last fwb made me multiple orgasm with just penetrative sex and a random one nighter isn't going to do that...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefer repeats...definitely much hornier and sexier and hotter with a man who is getting to know you and your body. My last fwb made me multiple orgasm with just penetrative sex and a random one nighter isn't going to do that...x"

Is that not then just a relationship and not swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefer repeats...definitely much hornier and sexier and hotter with a man who is getting to know you and your body. My last fwb made me multiple orgasm with just penetrative sex and a random one nighter isn't going to do that...x

Is that not then just a relationship and not swinging "

Not at all ... I am not looking for a relationship, and we only meet every six weeks or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefer repeats...definitely much hornier and sexier and hotter with a man who is getting to know you and your body. My last fwb made me multiple orgasm with just penetrative sex and a random one nighter isn't going to do that...x

Is that not then just a relationship and not swinging

Not at all ... I am not looking for a relationship, and we only meet every six weeks or so."

I see,I suppose we look at it differently with being a couple and in our own relationship together ..swinging is still a learning curve not matter how long you have been at it lol

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Regular! One off doesn't do anything. I won't cum... it's generally rushed or more for show as often a one off is in a club.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"So does people prefer regular fun with the same people or different people every time."

I'd settle for any kind of fun right now !

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Regular can be more experimental with each other as there are trust issues that you simply wouldn't do with a random stranger x

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By *heHotwifePairCouple
over a year ago

South

Both. A regular gives you a connection, trust and a guaranteed good fuck, but new partners are always fun and brings a spark

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"New people for us..we rarley meet the same people twice..we like the unexpectedness of a new meet and what that brings..can not see the point of meeting the same people over and over..that's a relationship not swinging and will become boring no matter how good the sex is "

We are exactly the same .

Familiarity often breeds contempt , so long term regulars not only become pointless , boring , meaningless and more like a relationship , but there’s a level of apathy and not the same respect as time and further meets go by .

New meets offer the spark and adrenaline that go with the not knowing what to expect . Invariably they are very much more in line with what we consider to be a good swinging experience .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New people for us..we rarley meet the same people twice..we like the unexpectedness of a new meet and what that brings..can not see the point of meeting the same people over and over..that's a relationship not swinging and will become boring no matter how good the sex is

We are exactly the same .

Familiarity often breeds contempt , so long term regulars not only become pointless , boring , meaningless and more like a relationship , but there’s a level of apathy and not the same respect as time and further meets go by .

New meets offer the spark and adrenaline that go with the not knowing what to expect . Invariably they are very much more in line with what we consider to be a good swinging experience ."

This

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By *ereagerCouple
over a year ago

Reading


"We like a mix - we have made some lovely friends on here who we enjoy playing with. However a good anonymous play can be amazing!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does people prefer regular fun with the same people or different people every time."

we would like to have regular meets with people we can build up a rapport with xx

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By *elliesCouple
over a year ago

hull

We like to play with different people as we’re not looking to make friends on fab. It’s just that we like to keep our normal life and swinging life separate. We recently played at a club with a great bloke without even knowing his name or him knowing ours. That’s just our way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular fun with just one equally kinky and adventurous minded lady would be just fine......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With any luck, regular.

I think I've you've established trust, the sex just gets better and better. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular would be great. But I'll Stick with different until I find some One who can handle me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't meet anyone with the intention of it being a strictly 'one off' occasion but some people either do or say something during the meet that puts us off any future meets or they go a bit weird/possessive afterwards and that has the same outcome."

Yep! That is exactly how I am. Preference is always for regular.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

All of our meets have been just one offs ,but with nice guys and no regrets ,if they wanted to meet again we would ,can we have both as we might have the chance of a regular meet ,but we dont want to stop the one off ones either could it work if we are all on the same page ?????/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our goal is to find a couple or two for regular get togethers

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By *lack UhuruMan
over a year ago

Leeds

A mixture of both.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

At a club different people, as many interesting experiences as possible

However the ultimate goal would be a regular playmate, someone who shares the same things I like would be

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'd just prefer someone that liked me for me nothing to do with sex and that takes time.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Both.. why not? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like someone regular, but until that happens I'll take what I can get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer regular but have to meet new people to see if you click, some do, some don’t so best of both for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have their ups and downs (no pun intended), if you get on with people socially, there there is no reason why it can’t be more than just a one off. But they do say, the more you know someone the better the sex gets!

Personally if I was with a partner, I would hope we would have a close group of friends we could socialise with as well as play. But maybe have the “new” people meetings at clubs.....

After all, strangers are friends you have just not met yet!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Any would be a result

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By *odg123Man
over a year ago

southampton

A meet would be nice

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I'd just prefer someone that liked me for me nothing to do with sex and that takes time. "

What about pin the tail on the donkey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both... I’m greedy

Regular are more satisfying and adventurous.

One-offs are naughty and sometimes needed too.

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By *xotic indianCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Regular one we can built trust and push our limit and boundaries with .

Meeting and arranging meet on here can be hard work and time consuming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not the fall that kills you; it’s the sudden stop at the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be regular for me

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I'd just prefer someone that liked me for me nothing to do with sex and that takes time.

What about pin the tail on the donkey?"

You've seen right though me. Kinky

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I'd just prefer someone that liked me for me nothing to do with sex and that takes time.

What about pin the tail on the donkey?

You've seen right though me. Kinky "

Check your inbox and pin one on my donkey then

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I'd just prefer someone that liked me for me nothing to do with sex and that takes time.

What about pin the tail on the donkey?

You've seen right though me. Kinky

Check your inbox and pin one on my donkey then "

I thought the saying was " hung like a donkey" not pin a donkey Ryan

I've now made a mess on my carpet Thanks for that

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Its all circumstantial.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both... I’m greedy

Regular are more satisfying and adventurous.

One-offs are naughty and sometimes needed too. "

I'm the same. I've got 2 regular but lately finding good one-offs seems impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd just prefer someone that liked me for me nothing to do with sex and that takes time. "

It can happen. It’s taken ages but I’ve found someone pretty cool and it’s not based on sex. Just hope it continues the way it has.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I'd just prefer someone that liked me for me nothing to do with sex and that takes time.

What about pin the tail on the donkey?

You've seen right though me. Kinky

Check your inbox and pin one on my donkey then

I thought the saying was " hung like a donkey" not pin a donkey Ryan

I've now made a mess on my carpet Thanks for that "

ee aw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a mix of both, each has its pros and they are both equally as fun, just in different ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regular and one offs work for me

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By *erryc20Couple
over a year ago

Mendip Area

Regular works very well for us

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Mix of both especially if regular is hot

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