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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone

I saw this on another ladies profile and I know a family it has happened to.

I certainly will keep the info at the base of our profile and run the tag line every so often

it is to help raise awareness of a MASSIVE campaign by british universities to help reduce the amount of sexual attacks by male students on their female counterparts,

We are all here for fun and are all consenting but unfortunately with the peer pressure of uni life and trying to make new friends, young impressionable girls are being exposed and taken advantage of while away from home.

Searching 'I love consent' or by putting dot org after it does lead you to the official site.

Many thanks

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Absolute drivel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im not consenting to anything

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I'm going to put 'save the pandas' on the bottom of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to put 'save the pandas' on the bottom of mine "

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see how writing it on a profile will help?

We are adults with morals and know right from wrong. This includes university students.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Before I leave the house, I always remind myself not to hunt whales, not to start a genocide and to generally avoid taking hostages. It's just that sometimes i forget by lunch time.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I don't see how writing it on a profile will help?

"

It helps with virtue signalling

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

It helps with the restricted use of bamboo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how writing it on a profile will help?

It helps with virtue signalling"

Oh.

I love not pushing old ladies down the stairs.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"It helps with the restricted use of bamboo "

Everytime we swing, we donate one condom to starving kids in ethiopia

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I don't see how writing it on a profile will help?

It helps with virtue signalling

Oh.

I love not pushing old ladies down the stairs. "

Wow, it's so good that you're a part of the solution and not part of the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you remember where you left the hostages.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I hope you remember where you left the hostages."

Last time, I was busy binding them and writing a ransom list when one of them reminded me that hostage taking is bad. I was like "shit bro, I totally forgot, my bad". Luckily I got away before the police arrived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you remember where you left the hostages.

Last time, I was busy binding them and writing a ransom list when one of them reminded me that hostage taking is bad. I was like "shit bro, I totally forgot, my bad". Luckily I got away before the police arrived. "

I write hostage taking=bad on my hand before leaving the house. Helps every time.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I hope you remember where you left the hostages.

Last time, I was busy binding them and writing a ransom list when one of them reminded me that hostage taking is bad. I was like "shit bro, I totally forgot, my bad". Luckily I got away before the police arrived.

I write hostage taking=bad on my hand before leaving the house. Helps every time."

Good tip bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men don't read profiles to the end anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone

I saw this on another ladies profile and I know a family it has happened to.

I certainly will keep the info at the base of our profile and run the tag line every so often

it is to help raise awareness of a MASSIVE campaign by british universities to help reduce the amount of sexual attacks by male students on their female counterparts,

We are all here for fun and are all consenting but unfortunately with the peer pressure of uni life and trying to make new friends, young impressionable girls are being exposed and taken advantage of while away from home.

Searching 'I love consent' or by putting dot org after it does lead you to the official site.

Many thanks"

Ignore the sarcastic gits

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Before I leave the house, I always remind myself not to hunt whales, not to start a genocide and to generally avoid taking hostages. It's just that sometimes i forget by lunch time. "

Oh so I'm not the only one this happens to then

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Men don't read profiles to the end anyway. "

I lost you after the worrd profiles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone

I saw this on another ladies profile and I know a family it has happened to.

I certainly will keep the info at the base of our profile and run the tag line every so often

it is to help raise awareness of a MASSIVE campaign by british universities to help reduce the amount of sexual attacks by male students on their female counterparts,

We are all here for fun and are all consenting but unfortunately with the peer pressure of uni life and trying to make new friends, young impressionable girls are being exposed and taken advantage of while away from home.

Searching 'I love consent' or by putting dot org after it does lead you to the official site.

Many thanks"

Uni studying are generally fairly intelligent people. They already know what consent means, if somebody is they type of character that will take advantage of a stupidly d*unk girl then they will do it regardless of any online campaign or a few words in the odd profile on the odd swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google -tea consent-for an inadvertently hilarious guide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It helps with the restricted use of bamboo

Everytime we swing, we donate one condom to starving kids in ethiopia "

hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OPS post is a little niave but well intentioned

But there are a hell of a lot of people, primarily men who don't have a fucking clue about consent and the belittling responses to someone trying to raise awareness is, in my opinion, wrong and nowhere near as funny as it's intended to be

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By *un Mike 2019Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I think the OPS post is a little niave but well intentioned

But there are a hell of a lot of people, primarily men who don't have a fucking clue about consent and the belittling responses to someone trying to raise awareness is, in my opinion, wrong and nowhere near as funny as it's intended to be "

Post of th thread so far. It happens, we are sexually aware adults and it may not happen here (although maybe it does) but the fact that there are people out there that do do this is still there. We are in a place where sexual activity is why we are all here and it’s worth sharing at least that sexual maturity and attitude with others, even not in the scene.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I think the OPS post is a little niave but well intentioned

But there are a hell of a lot of people, primarily men who don't have a fucking clue about consent and the belittling responses to someone trying to raise awareness is, in my opinion, wrong and nowhere near as funny as it's intended to be "

Nonsense. Nobody is committing grape because they didn't know it is wrong. They don't give a shit. The same way that someone robbing a grandmas purse isn't doing it because they didn't know stealing was wrong. You wouldn't dream of lecturing black people on carrying knives but you feel perfectly entitled to patronise all men because a tiny percentage commit that crime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OPS post is a little niave but well intentioned

But there are a hell of a lot of people, primarily men who don't have a fucking clue about consent and the belittling responses to someone trying to raise awareness is, in my opinion, wrong and nowhere near as funny as it's intended to be

Nonsense. Nobody is committing grape because they didn't know it is wrong. They don't give a shit. The same way that someone robbing a grandmas purse isn't doing it because they didn't know stealing was wrong. You wouldn't dream of lecturing black people on carrying knives but you feel perfectly entitled to patronise all men because a tiny percentage commit that crime. "

I wouldn't dream of lecturing black men on carrying knives?? How on earth did you come to that conclusion??

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

does it apply to sydney uni as well??

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"does it apply to sydney uni as well??"

No -just their "research" department

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I think the OPS post is a little niave but well intentioned

But there are a hell of a lot of people, primarily men who don't have a fucking clue about consent and the belittling responses to someone trying to raise awareness is, in my opinion, wrong and nowhere near as funny as it's intended to be

Nonsense. Nobody is committing grape because they didn't know it is wrong. They don't give a shit. The same way that someone robbing a grandmas purse isn't doing it because they didn't know stealing was wrong. You wouldn't dream of lecturing black people on carrying knives but you feel perfectly entitled to patronise all men because a tiny percentage commit that crime.

I wouldn't dream of lecturing black men on carrying knives?? How on earth did you come to that conclusion??

"

Since black males are more likely to stab someone and be stabbed, would you like to make posts reminding them not to carry knives?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As with anything it was posted for awareness.

The incident happened to one of my friends daughters, she already had a long term boyfriend and had offered to help another lad out with studying. They both had been on this particular course for 2 1/2 years and helped each other along and we're just great mates and hadn't had anything between them.

The lad then at the end tried to kiss her and at the point she said no then he forced himself upon her.

He then quickly scarpered and unfortunately she was so shocked that she didn't do anything about it and it was only after a coupe of weeks as everybody around her noticed she wasn't her usual character then she broke down.

This happened in her own rented house, not in student accommodation and she felt in letting him in nobody would believe her because it's very hard to prove especially if you don't report, get examined at the time.

She doesn't drink or smoke/take drugs and isn't an outwardly confident person.

Also the only 2 people that know the true events are the ones involved but with the events I know whose side I tend to believe.

I don't mind all the above from keyboard warriors or people's opinions if someone reads this, it highlights what can possibly happen or helps in any way as swinging is fantastic, I admit to enjoy many kinks with some fantastic people but if anyone has a daughter or it does happen to guys also then how would you feel or even if it upsets the person in question and has further dire consequences.

When you look at this site their is a good amount of single ladies of all ages and everyone would love to think it's all done with full responsibility however you can and do hear of a darker side.

It was just purely something I can relate to and in my many years on the site hadn't seen this particular organisation or assistance posted before.

I'm also not what you would class as a do gooder or interfere with whatever anyone wishes to do as individuals we do have the right to our own thoughts and can respond freely

Many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OPS post is a little niave but well intentioned

But there are a hell of a lot of people, primarily men who don't have a fucking clue about consent and the belittling responses to someone trying to raise awareness is, in my opinion, wrong and nowhere near as funny as it's intended to be

Nonsense. Nobody is committing grape because they didn't know it is wrong. They don't give a shit. The same way that someone robbing a grandmas purse isn't doing it because they didn't know stealing was wrong. You wouldn't dream of lecturing black people on carrying knives but you feel perfectly entitled to patronise all men because a tiny percentage commit that crime.

I wouldn't dream of lecturing black men on carrying knives?? How on earth did you come to that conclusion??

Since black males are more likely to stab someone and be stabbed, would you like to make posts reminding them not to carry knives? "

To be honest, I'm out. As I've said before following the mods advice and ignoring people is soneimes the best policy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OPS post is a little niave but well intentioned

But there are a hell of a lot of people, primarily men who don't have a fucking clue about consent and the belittling responses to someone trying to raise awareness is, in my opinion, wrong and nowhere near as funny as it's intended to be

Nonsense. Nobody is committing grape because they didn't know it is wrong. They don't give a shit. The same way that someone robbing a grandmas purse isn't doing it because they didn't know stealing was wrong. You wouldn't dream of lecturing black people on carrying knives but you feel perfectly entitled to patronise all men because a tiny percentage commit that crime.

I wouldn't dream of lecturing black men on carrying knives?? How on earth did you come to that conclusion??

Since black males are more likely to stab someone and be stabbed, would you like to make posts reminding them not to carry knives?

To be honest, I'm out. As I've said before following the mods advice and ignoring people is soneimes the best policy. "

allow people to make twats of themselves

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I think the OPS post is a little niave but well intentioned

But there are a hell of a lot of people, primarily men who don't have a fucking clue about consent and the belittling responses to someone trying to raise awareness is, in my opinion, wrong and nowhere near as funny as it's intended to be

Nonsense. Nobody is committing grape because they didn't know it is wrong. They don't give a shit. The same way that someone robbing a grandmas purse isn't doing it because they didn't know stealing was wrong. You wouldn't dream of lecturing black people on carrying knives but you feel perfectly entitled to patronise all men because a tiny percentage commit that crime.

I wouldn't dream of lecturing black men on carrying knives?? How on earth did you come to that conclusion??

Since black males are more likely to stab someone and be stabbed, would you like to make posts reminding them not to carry knives?

To be honest, I'm out. As I've said before following the mods advice and ignoring people is soneimes the best policy.

allow people to make twats of themselves "

The people that look like twats are the ones who define groups based on immutable characteristics and then feel entitled to lecture 100% of that group for the actions of less than 1%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OPS post is a little niave but well intentioned

But there are a hell of a lot of people, primarily men who don't have a fucking clue about consent and the belittling responses to someone trying to raise awareness is, in my opinion, wrong and nowhere near as funny as it's intended to be

Nonsense. Nobody is committing grape because they didn't know it is wrong. They don't give a shit. The same way that someone robbing a grandmas purse isn't doing it because they didn't know stealing was wrong. You wouldn't dream of lecturing black people on carrying knives but you feel perfectly entitled to patronise all men because a tiny percentage commit that crime.

I wouldn't dream of lecturing black men on carrying knives?? How on earth did you come to that conclusion??

Since black males are more likely to stab someone and be stabbed, would you like to make posts reminding them not to carry knives?

To be honest, I'm out. As I've said before following the mods advice and ignoring people is soneimes the best policy.

allow people to make twats of themselves

The people that look like twats are the ones who define groups based on immutable characteristics and then feel entitled to lecture 100% of that group for the actions of less than 1%. "

Where are the lectures? I see someone raising awareness, many taking the piss, and the odd few supporting the OP's intent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where are the lectures? I see someone raising awareness, many taking the piss, and the odd few supporting the OP's intent.

Just another day on the Fabs forums then

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Where are the lectures? I see someone raising awareness, many taking the piss, and the odd few supporting the OP's intent.

Just another day on the Fabs forums then"

Raising awareness is a means to a end and not an end in itself. Surely the goal is to reduce this crime and I'd support that goal. If you think that posting that kind of stuff achieves that then i seriously question your insight into the problem.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Raising awareness is a means to a end and not an end in itself. Surely the goal is to reduce this crime and I'd support that goal. If you think that posting that kind of stuff achieves that then i seriously question your insight into the problem. "

I give this thread about 5 more posts before it devolves into all out war...

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Raising awareness is a means to a end and not an end in itself. Surely the goal is to reduce this crime and I'd support that goal. If you think that posting that kind of stuff achieves that then i seriously question your insight into the problem.

I give this thread about 5 more posts before it devolves into all out war..."

I don't really have anything more to say. I don't think anyone on the forum wants more grape in the world. I'm just using humour to try and illustrate how ineffective some strategies are because I'd like people to use their efforts wisely. Maybe some people prefer to be busy fools.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where are the lectures? I see someone raising awareness, many taking the piss, and the odd few supporting the OP's intent.

Just another day on the Fabs forums then

Raising awareness is a means to a end and not an end in itself. Surely the goal is to reduce this crime and I'd support that goal. If you think that posting that kind of stuff achieves that then i seriously question your insight into the problem. "

Moot point when I'm sticking to "raising awareness".

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