FabSwingers.com forum: What’s so hot about threesomes?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve been talking to some sexy, imaginative couples this week and am looking forward to some good threesome play. What do you enjoy about threesomes? What are the sensations and interaction subtleties that make them hot for you? Is it the contrast of bodies? Watching a loving couple be turned on as they both play with you? The difference in smells and touch?

Hoping that women AND men will contribute...

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London

More to explore, more to touch and feel. It's like a porno you're watching live while taking part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every dynamic is different. When me and my ex were swinging the allure of an FFM threesome was the sheer eroticism of kissing another woman whilst fucking my ex or vice versa. This blurring of lines was definitely one of the more erotic experiences I had when swinging. It had a naughtiness about it that made it feel transgressive and, as a result, really really kinky.

Now that I'm single I'm definitely interested in joining a couple for a hotwife or cuckold MMF scenario. Now I find the other side of it kinky and transgressive, to fuck another man's wife whilst he listens or watches. To play out a hot cheating scenario right under his nose, really turning them both on with how transgressive they're both being

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

double the pleasure wether your giving or receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me id love to have another lady help pleasure my man and also play with her while he watches. Various dynamics. Very difficult to get a girl who wants that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me id love to have another lady help pleasure my man and also play with her while he watches. Various dynamics. Very difficult to get a girl who wants that

Lucky guy

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Depends who I’m with for me.

Meeting MF couples is the best of both for me.

2 guys as I’m the centre of their attention. Love been spit roasted.

TV and guy, it’s the look on his face having two to please him.

2 TVs is always hot for me. Probably a TV thing

2 Females. Only experienced this once, and enjoyed everything about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been years since iv had more than one person in the room iv truelly forgotten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They either work well or can be a disaster. Depends on the dynamics between the three. Have had a few which have ended in a disaster due to pushy pushy arsehole guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They either work well or can be a disaster. Depends on the dynamics between the three. Have had a few which have ended in a disaster due to pushy pushy arsehole guys"

Sorry to read that. I go for couples where the woman arranges the meet having had some not great experiences myself. Mmf - that’s a bit more of a challenge.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

When Mr and I play with a girl together I really get turned on when we share her.

We both take turns goimg down on her, or go down on her together, then kiss in between, sharing how she tastes off of each other’s lips or fingers.

It’s one of my favourite things to do with him.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Threesomes and moresomes, love them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a FFM and a FFFM with my best mate Lisa. I've posted what we got up to in Fantasies under "my soul mate and fuck buddy"

It hasn't pulled us apart at all and i think may have brought us closer together as a bestest mates. We're always talking about what happened and agree that it was for the best. We always have a safe word that we tell the others that means we walk away from whatever is happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being fully Bi, I've tried mixed threesomes many times - but gave up on them some time ago, because I just find them too much trouble with little satisfaction...

What I want with a woman is very different from what I want with a man, so in a 3-some I just end up having to switch between two mindsets all the time. It's just hard work and no fun!

Add to that that I will probably get on with one of the couple, but not the other...

Add to that that they are a couple and are already familiar with each other's wants and needs so I end up feeling like an outsider in their conversations...

Add to that that they say: "We'll take it in turns pleasing you" - which means "We'll take in in turns doing what we want and ignoring your needs..."

I'd much rather just meet one person and have a really good time, and then both of can us finish up satisfied and happy - that never happens in 3-somes...!

No thanks, too much hassle....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like watching two ladies pleasure each other, and just be able to join in as appropriate.....simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of you are really portraying anything alluring about the potential of three for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being the centre of attention with two men, plus all the extra touching and kissing is exquisite. All too rare an occurrence sadly!

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

Taking turns being the centre of attention does it for me. When you are all sharing each other touching and kissing The fun just doesn’t stop xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me id love to have another lady help pleasure my man and also play with her while he watches. Various dynamics. Very difficult to get a girl who wants that

Probably because there is nothing remotely appealing about that scenario.

Everything you wrote is focused about keeping the guy happy. So where does the single ladies pleasure come in to it.

I can't see many single ladies wanting to be a performing seal just to please your bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blowjobs tend to be more intense when women is also being fucked from behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love being the centre of attention with two men, plus all the extra touching and kissing is exquisite. All too rare an occurrence sadly! "

This is the same for me I love being the centre of attention for two or more guys x

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I think it all depends on what you're expecting, as much as anything - it's about communication. We're clear in our FFMs that we want everyone to be equally involved, all the time - like the Three Musketeers, ...but with just one sword

It seems to work for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get to share and explore our bisexuality with each other by sharing it with others...its enjoyable to be able to push some boundaries and experience things other people often haven't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been talking to some sexy, imaginative couples this week and am looking forward to some good threesome play. What do you enjoy about threesomes? What are the sensations and interaction subtleties that make them hot for you? Is it the contrast of bodies? Watching a loving couple be turned on as they both play with you? The difference in smells and touch?

Hoping that women AND men will contribute..."

Ive been lucky to do this a few times. Keeping the interactions between all 3 connected and fulfilling is hard but if they all are looking to have a fantastic time usually it's me that's joining and I'm responsive to both people as I see it as my job initially to help them have the best experience possible. I think it wouldn't work if the 3rd was greedy or pushy looking to get their needs met first, unless of course that was what had been decided or wanted.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

One of the three (in turn one hopes) gets to be the centre of attention...

More points of contact; there’s another mouth, tongue, fingers - it just turns up the sensual knob to 11...

The ability to pause, become removed from the act slightly and watch for a while...

Ideas, techniques, tips, tricks and kinks flow from two sexual brains rather than one... it’s the ideal way to expand the sexual repertoire... watch and learn

Pushing boundaries becomes almost competitive between players...”oh yeah that’s good, but hold my lube and watch this....”

The ability to rest, lay back, watch, idly masturbate, recover, think of something else to try...

.... and having my cock ridden whilst another pussy is clamped down on my face is just awesome

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have played in various "multiple" scenarios both bi and straight, but my absolute favourite has to be bi MMF where all three people enjoy each other completely and play moves seamlessly without there being an element of "right we've done this to you, now let's move onto that" - when you get "in the moment" with the right partners it can be incredibly hot indeed.

There's nothing quite like playing but not being sure whose hand is touching you at any given moment or just purely sharing giving the pleasure equally.

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By * Yorks GentMan
over a year ago

York / Leeds

As the extra M in a MMF you can indulge voyeuristic desires. Plus the sounds and reactions that come from the more prolonged and intense pleasuring from 2 men

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

In fmf i love having a lady sat on my face as the other sucks me as its best of both worlds but not able to see what the lady sucking is going to do.

Mfm i just love to watch a lady being greedy and enjoying the fact shes got 2 guys horny and gagging to fuck her

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We are always told (by religion, society, whatever) that sex should be a strictly private act between two people. Adding a third person, or more, immediately challenges that.

A third person makes sex MUCH more interesting and pleasurable, especially if the two same-sex people are bi-playful. For women, having two men fucking you is wonderful, for men, having two women to fuck is the same.

Good 3somes always have lots of swapping and they're better bareback.

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By *rEyeSpyMan
over a year ago

Nearby

I love watching, I love being watched, I love fucking, and a good threesome combines those elements perfectly. I love to be the third wheel of a couple, especially going down on the woman while her partners cock slides in and out of her.

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By *uddleanstrokeMan
over a year ago

Bristol / Crete / Glasgow

Experience mainly from FMF .. but some MFM.

I think the main enjoyment came by making sure each person (in turn) got the full attention of the other two (of whatever sex). By having 2 people focusing on giving pleasure to one person - allows all sorts of fun & surprises ; ))

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've enjoyed fmm once and it was utterly amazing. Knowing that you're going to get loads of attention from two horny guys is such a turn on. The horn level is off the scale for everyone.

Ultimately the feeling of being full to the max during DP and the way your body reacts to that....pretty mind blowing.

I'm on a mission to do it again!!

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By *rEyeSpyMan
over a year ago

Nearby

"I've enjoyed fmm once and it was utterly amazing. Knowing that you're going to get loads of attention from two horny guys is such a turn on. The horn level is off the scale for everyone.

Ultimately the feeling of being full to the max during DP and the way your body reacts to that....pretty mind blowing.

I'm on a mission to do it again!!

Willing participant here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few and there amazing .. The best part is seeing the female have so much fun

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