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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???"

They're lazy, tight cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we want bareback

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

They're hoping you'll go "oops. Ah well never mind"

Just make sure you always have them. Or bring it up before they come over. Some think of you don't bring it up they don't have to think about it.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Because we want bareback "

Mummy never taught you "I want never gets"? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because even though they tell you yeah of course we’ll play safe! They still want to chance it and hope you haven’t been prepared and brought some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because we want bareback

Mummy never taught you "I want never gets"? lol "

We need to go bareback!

Better ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???"

Just tell them to piss off then. They’ll soon get the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand."

Shit!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand."

I doubt any sane woman would do that!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand.

I doubt any sane woman would do that! "

imagine only a male would even think it might happen! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand.

I doubt any sane woman would do that! "

Erm...local updates in London suggest otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would never dream of going to a meet with out several!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand.

I doubt any sane woman would do that!

Erm...local updates in London suggest otherwise "

Yet another reason I am glad i live in the frozen north then!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would never dream of going to a meet with out several!"

One is enough, just turn to other side after or give a quick rinse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand.

I doubt any sane woman would do that!

Erm...local updates in London suggest otherwise "

Wasn't me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand.

I doubt any sane woman would do that!

Erm...local updates in London suggest otherwise "

Obviously insane, I wouldn't go to a meet without undamaged condoms! Always say no to bareback

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

They're lazy, tight cunts"

Hihihi you actually put a smile on my face with this replay xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask them if they are bringing condoms before we meet. I always bring some anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand.

I doubt any sane woman would do that!

Erm...local updates in London suggest otherwise

Yet another reason I am glad i live in the frozen north then!! lol "

I have no problem with people playing bareback it's their choice but some of the local updates here make me question age of adulthood...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some are scared to go to the chemist to ask for them.

You can go Boots and use the self service.

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"Because we want bareback "

So basically you want to tell me that you rather do a trip for nothing. Because it will not happen as on the profile it states safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because we want bareback

So basically you want to tell me that you rather do a trip for nothing. Because it will not happen as on the profile it states safe sex. "

I was joking, chill out.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand."

More reason to supply your own.

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"They're hoping you'll go "oops. Ah well never mind"

Just make sure you always have them. Or bring it up before they come over. Some think of you don't bring it up they don't have to think about it. "

That is a wrong thinking, because they are not coming to escorts. And i had enough of guys coming around and wasting a condom for 3 min on a good day ))).

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By *oisineandAlCouple
over a year ago

limerick

Ive never done that, dont think a woman would do that. just as bad as bareback, unless you want a sti.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because we want bareback

So basically you want to tell me that you rather do a trip for nothing. Because it will not happen as on the profile it states safe sex. "

#Passes them their clothes and points to the exit

It shows a lack of respect as they knew that condoms were needed and chose not to bring them. The only bang they’d get is the door on their arse, on the way out!!!

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"Because even though they tell you yeah of course we’ll play safe! They still want to chance it and hope you haven’t been prepared and brought some "

Yes but then again they will just waste their time as we can always say NO, as long as on my profile says only safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are scared to go to the chemist to ask for them.

You can go Boots and use the self service."

" I'm a big boy now, or so they say"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand.

I doubt any sane woman would do that!

Erm...local updates in London suggest otherwise "

Make them blow it up first, to check!!

(Seriously.... who are these nut jobs!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because even though they tell you yeah of course we’ll play safe! They still want to chance it and hope you haven’t been prepared and brought some

Yes but then again they will just waste their time as we can always say NO, as long as on my profile says only safe sex. "

Yep! They just hope that you’ll think fuck it, it’s a one off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily we’ve never had this. We always have some just in case, but every guy mrs has met has brought condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand.

I doubt any sane woman would do that!

Erm...local updates in London suggest otherwise

Make them blow it up first, to check!!

(Seriously.... who are these nut jobs!) "

If it's a tiny needle puncture you would have to probably blow it up and stick it underwater to see, that would be an odd request when meeting someone

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By *iking.beardMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I always do as the normal ones i find too tight sontake myboen bigger ones

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"Because we want bareback

So basically you want to tell me that you rather do a trip for nothing. Because it will not happen as on the profile it states safe sex.

I was joking, chill out."

Sorry, i did not want to make it sound rude or anything. I was just asking a fair general question. So it wasn't an anger thing . I am very relaxed

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"Because even though they tell you yeah of course we’ll play safe! They still want to chance it and hope you haven’t been prepared and brought some

Yes but then again they will just waste their time as we can always say NO, as long as on my profile says only safe sex.

Yep! They just hope that you’ll think fuck it, it’s a one off. "

Yap i assume that is the thinking. :* :* :*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are scared to go to the chemist to ask for them.

You can go Boots and use the self service.

" I'm a big boy now, or so they say""

I'm going to be singing that in my head all day now.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Just check them at the door, no condoms no entry. They dont bring them cos they lazy. If they tested regularly they would have a stash.

Alternatively, have some very thick latex ones especially for them to use. They wont feel a thing.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I make my own out of ricepaper and water soluable glue -a veritable Delia in the bedroom I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand.

I doubt any sane woman would do that!

Erm...local updates in London suggest otherwise

Make them blow it up first, to check!!

(Seriously.... who are these nut jobs!)

If it's a tiny needle puncture you would have to probably blow it up and stick it underwater to see, that would be an odd request when meeting someone "

I’m sure worse has been requested

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???"

And another single male bashing thread..

Not one guy op t hat you have met has never brought condoms.. really ?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes...I had the 'oh I've forgotten to get some' when I first joined, I walked out and after that always took my own. Some also try the 'oh I can't get an erection if I'm wearing one' line to.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand.

I doubt any sane woman would do that!

Erm...local updates in London suggest otherwise

Make them blow it up first, to check!!

(Seriously.... who are these nut jobs!)

If it's a tiny needle puncture you would have to probably blow it up and stick it underwater to see, that would be an odd request when meeting someone "

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

It's when you hear the snap of them pulling it off when you're doggy and they think you won't notice that sickens me to the core.

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"Just check them at the door, no condoms no entry. They dont bring them cos they lazy. If they tested regularly they would have a stash.

Alternatively, have some very thick latex ones especially for them to use. They wont feel a thing."

Hahaha never thought about that, but once i got some very tight ones, and that's done it

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’ve only met a handful of lads who carry them .... hence why my top dresser draw is full of them ....

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

And another single male bashing thread..

Not one guy op t hat you have met has never brought condoms.. really ?"

Yes really, and its not only sigle guys. Its guys that are in a relationship and want bareback. And that is even worst that their gf don't even know that he is bb some random stranger and then sleeps with her.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???"

With the world so equal you should have your own.

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"It's when you hear the snap of them pulling it off when you're doggy and they think you won't notice that sickens me to the core."

But those ones, they should be kicked straight in the balls, and then say it was by mystake.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

With the world so equal you should have your own. "

Do I see an impending torpedo strike?

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

With the world so equal you should have your own. "

By equal you mean balanced, and by that i understand that it should be 50/50. But when non of them brings them i think its not equal anymore. Plus i do not believe in equality but in equity.

Then ther is the other thing if i invite you over i will be suppling them, but if you message me that you want to see me i would assume that you have anything you need, hence the equity part.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

And another single male bashing thread..

Not one guy op t hat you have met has never brought condoms.. really ?

Yes really, and its not only sigle guys. Its guys that are in a relationship and want bareback. And that is even worst that their gf don't even know that he is bb some random stranger and then sleeps with her. "

Then you know from your experience "they don't supply their own"..have you asked them?

From what I've read You have two choices ..

1. Stop meeting guys

Or if. You wanna meet guys

2. Keep buying lots of condoms

No one can answer why they don't only the guy who turned(s) up unprepared could answer the question everything else is conjecture.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Strangely enough, they state safe sex more often than not on their profiles too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You inspired me i just bought some to see how lucky they are

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

Always bring our own because you girls always buy the small ones

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

And another single male bashing thread..

Not one guy op t hat you have met has never brought condoms.. really ?

Yes really, and its not only sigle guys. Its guys that are in a relationship and want bareback. And that is even worst that their gf don't even know that he is bb some random stranger and then sleeps with her.

Then you know from your experience "they don't supply their own"..have you asked them?

From what I've read You have two choices ..

1. Stop meeting guys

Or if. You wanna meet guys

2. Keep buying lots of condoms

No one can answer why they don't only the guy who turned(s) up unprepared could answer the question everything else is conjecture.

"

Fair answer, and you are perfectly right there.

And my post was to pick their brains and see why, assuming that some of them replay to the topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest when I meet guys I always have them anyway. I only like using skyns because I'm intolerant to latex condoms so I chose to provide my own. I welcome guys bringing their own as long as they are latex free

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"Always bring our own because you girls always buy the small ones "

Hahaha and that actually works out better as you guys know what you like hihihi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats a condom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men make far tomany excuses about condoms

dosent fit , to tight , stops my erection , stops me cumming bla bla bla

all rubbish actually

just by big condoms , you'll never even know your wearing it

and lets face it , it cant be to loose ,

bottom line is , if they turn up without any , send them down the shop or petrol garage if the shops are closed or send them on there way

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

And another single male bashing thread..

Not one guy op t hat you have met has never brought condoms.. really ?"

The op hasn't been bashing single males at all, merely made an observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am relieved to say that I've never had a fella turn up for sex with or without the party balloons. So I'm gonna put that down as a win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s like putting a carrier bag over your dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to clarify, that's never had a fella turn up for sex either way. Even though the fab-straight brigade try their best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s like putting a carrier bag over your dick "

What's a sti like ?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Tbh it's not something that's ever bothered me. I always make it clear that condoms will be used. I always have plenty (including latex free and xl). And I'd actually rather use my own because I know they're in date!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh it's not something that's ever bothered me. I always make it clear that condoms will be used. I always have plenty (including latex free and xl). And I'd actually rather use my own because I know they're in date! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We take condoms with us where ever we go. Be it as a couple or as singles.

We also have a boxes full of condoms in each room of our house so there is never an issue.

I must admit it does surprise me the amount of men that go to clubs without condoms etc. They are not hard to get hold off.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Tbh it's not something that's ever bothered me. I always make it clear that condoms will be used. I always have plenty (including latex free and xl). And I'd actually rather use my own because I know they're in date! "

Perfectly logical and wise. Still it's a bit disrespectful to turn up with none on the assumption that the OP will treat you like a man baby or you will do bare back.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"We take condoms with us where ever we go. Be it as a couple or as singles.

We also have a boxes full of condoms in each room of our house so there is never an issue.

I must admit it does surprise me the amount of men that go to clubs without condoms etc. They are not hard to get hold off.

"

Every room? You sure get your money's worth out your property.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You inspired me i just bought some to see how lucky they are "

Not so lucky duped by fakes it seems

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"

I must admit it does surprise me the amount of men that go to clubs without condoms etc.

"

Yes even had a guy ask me if he could borrow one -told him he can rinse mine out when I'm done -let's just put it this way, he had a complete sense of humour failure...

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???"

Guys. Both parties should have some and not left to one side

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By *xxx30Man
over a year ago

york


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???"

I always keep one in my wallet and if I know I'm going for sex I bring a pack of 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are scared to go to the chemist to ask for them.

You can go Boots and use the self service."

I seriously had one guy tell me he was afraid to go buy some. Like he was 15!! I bought some and made him pay for them.

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

Guys. Both parties should have some and not left to one side"

I totally agree with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree both parties should have them , however a do believe the responsibility should side with the guy, he would know what does and doesn’t fit , money should never be a problem there available free and even then 10 mates for £2.49 from home bargains .

I would never play bare with anyone I had just met

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By *xxx30Man
over a year ago

york


"I think some are scared to go to the chemist to ask for them.

You can go Boots and use the self service.

I seriously had one guy tell me he was afraid to go buy some. Like he was 15!! I bought some and made him pay for them. "

He was 15 and you shagged him ??

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

te amount of times we had a walk around the rooms in clubs got connected with a man go into a room and he has no condoms we tell him to go get some then lock the door , if he aint come prepared what has he done before ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I must admit it does surprise me the amount of men that go to clubs without condoms etc.

Yes even had a guy ask me if he could borrow one -told him he can rinse mine out when I'm done -let's just put it this way, he had a complete sense of humour failure..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are scared to go to the chemist to ask for them.

You can go Boots and use the self service.

I seriously had one guy tell me he was afraid to go buy some. Like he was 15!! I bought some and made him pay for them.

He was 15 and you shagged him ?? "

Of course not. I said he was afraid *like he was a 15 year old*.

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By *xxx30Man
over a year ago

york


"I think some are scared to go to the chemist to ask for them.

You can go Boots and use the self service.

I seriously had one guy tell me he was afraid to go buy some. Like he was 15!! I bought some and made him pay for them.

He was 15 and you shagged him ??

Of course not. I said he was afraid *like he was a 15 year old*. "

Ahhh my bad

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I never have that issue but I'm also allergic to latex so have stacks of my own ones

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"

Of course not. I said he was afraid *like he was a 15 year old*. "

He was afraid of the 15 year old cashier

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By *xxx30Man
over a year ago

york


"I never have that issue but I'm also allergic to latex so have stacks of my own ones "

What type do you use then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy. They're hoping you'll allow bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Of course not. I said he was afraid *like he was a 15 year old*.

He was afraid of the 15 year old cashier "

Probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They never have them cos they can’t be arsed to get them it’s as simple as that

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By *allisto2000Woman
over a year ago

Stafford ish


"Because we want bareback

So basically you want to tell me that you rather do a trip for nothing. Because it will not happen as on the profile it states safe sex.

#Passes them their clothes and points to the exit

It shows a lack of respect as they knew that condoms were needed and chose not to bring

them. The only bang they’d get is the door on their arse, on the way out!!!"

Love this post ! Brilliant

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as men are the ones with the willy they should have the main responsibility for them if they know they're needed.

By the same token I would expect myself as a woman to take care of secondary birth control. I wouldn't turn up expecting him to have sorted the pill out for me. We know both things are needed so sort your own end out *chuckle

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
over a year ago

Belpre

Ladies, Always have your own condoms on hand, it's much safer for you that way ! Many guys are hoping you'll become dim witted in the heat of the moment, "Prove them Wrong ; ) !!!"

Guys, don't be ignorant, don't carry your condoms in your wallet, there not designed to be carried that way, your just asking for problems you don't need, nor does your sex partners !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

With the world so equal you should have your own. "

How cheeky is That?!

Your dick, you cover it!

Women take enough precautions to prevent pregnancy so you men ought to do your bit too. Fairs fair!

I personally travel to meet and at my time, expense as well as my petrol / mileage usage. That's showing more than enough effort. If the guy can't even be bothered to provide a condom, I'll leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy. If I'm meeting I ask before if they have any or do i need to bring some. Simple as that!

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???"

It’s like people have said. Guys hoping you’ll say never mind. Just let them play bareback! Although there’s more condims in your house than the Local chemists. Spend enough of my time there.

Glad to see you on the forums BRW

XX

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I have been guilty of that in the pass. Think we don't think. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last 2 women that came to my house never had condoms.

I did so it wasn't a problem

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"The last 2 women that came to my house never had condoms.

I did so it wasn't a problem "

We’re you a Boy Scout?

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last 2 women that came to my house never had condoms.

I did so it wasn't a problem

We’re you a Boy Scout?

XX"

I was, you should see what I can do with a length of rope and knots

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"The last 2 women that came to my house never had condoms.

I did so it wasn't a problem

We’re you a Boy Scout?

XX

I was, you should see what I can do with a length of rope and knots "

Is that an offer? You said you were straight

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a condom handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because we want bareback

So basically you want to tell me that you rather do a trip for nothing. Because it will not happen as on the profile it states safe sex.

#Passes them their clothes and points to the exit

It shows a lack of respect as they knew that condoms were needed and chose not to bring them. The only bang they’d get is the door on their arse, on the way out!!!"

Exactly this

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

lot of guys want to go bareback and they think its there right to if they dont bring rubber, we have told guys to fuck of if cant be bothered to get some protection, for us its a big turn of and tells us there dick heads, how easy is it to get some,

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I ask my meets if they want to use their own or ask if they have preference of type and will bring my own too....

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

good man , we need more like you, plus you get more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last 2 women that came to my house never had condoms.

I did so it wasn't a problem

We’re you a Boy Scout?

XX

I was, you should see what I can do with a length of rope and knots

Is that an offer? You said you were straight

XX"

As long as we don't make eye contact, it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men I meet always bring them, but then I do always discuss it with them beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I end up dealing them out as I seem to be the only one with the latex free ones in my little swinging bag.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"The last 2 women that came to my house never had condoms.

I did so it wasn't a problem

We’re you a Boy Scout?

XX

I was, you should see what I can do with a length of rope and knots

Is that an offer? You said you were straight

XX

As long as we don't make eye contact, it's all good "

Mmmm blindfold me aswell. Now about you been straight babes. Hate to say but.....

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

And another single male bashing thread..

Not one guy op t hat you have met has never brought condoms.. really ?

Yes really, and its not only sigle guys. Its guys that are in a relationship and want bareback. And that is even worst that their gf don't even know that he is bb some random stranger and then sleeps with her.

Then you know from your experience "they don't supply their own"..have you asked them?

From what I've read You have two choices ..

1. Stop meeting guys

Or if. You wanna meet guys

2. Keep buying lots of condoms

No one can answer why they don't only the guy who turned(s) up unprepared could answer the question everything else is conjecture.

"

No 3. Only meet guys who turn up with condoms!!!

I turn up with them; if they do I know they take their health serious. If they don’t turn up with condoms I ‘know’ they bareback. What other reason is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???"

And for fuck sakesanother one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???"

Who made it the guys job to bring condoms, why dont YOU HAve it ready?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

Who made it the guys job to bring condoms, why dont YOU HAve it ready? "

Read the thread through. OP does have them but questioned why guys don’t bring them

(Yes, it’s guys because that’s what the OP has chose to meet).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

Who made it the guys job to bring condoms, why dont YOU HAve it ready? "

Simply manners! It shouldn’t even be a question!

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

Who made it the guys job to bring condoms, why dont YOU HAve it ready? "

Should i even bother with you? If you look thru the thread you will find my answers. But then again i don't thing that someone that thinks like you will get it, but then again you are just a kid i understand you.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Bareback hoping for. Also probably married or girlfriend so don't want to carry one in case she finds.

Could also be a reaction to condom's, I get serious reactions to them.

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I always have condoms at home, so if Iv invited a girl to my house I'll always play safe. If I'm going to a girls house I may not always have a condom, but I expect a girl to keep some at home. If she doesn't have any at her her house then no play onviously

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

I always have them, problem is I always use every last one I have and still have the horn. May have to just go do the supermarket sweep of asda’s condom shelves lol

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"I always have them, problem is I always use every last one I have and still have the horn. May have to just go do the supermarket sweep of asda’s condom shelves lol"

Make the most of it young un . You only get a bucket full

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"I always have condoms at home, so if Iv invited a girl to my house I'll always play safe. If I'm going to a girls house I may not always have a condom, but I expect a girl to keep some at home. If she doesn't have any at her her house then no play onviously "

And that is perfect as you put it, but i am not even joking now most of the guys that message me that they would like to come and have sex with me, they turn up without any condoms. And sometimes i might not have any as i forgot to buy or other reason, but that is why i don't invite anybody over, or if i do invite somebody over i asked them if they can get condoms and i actually give them the money for them. All i am trying to say is that when it happens on regular basis its getting frustrating, and i wish there were more guys like you and others that commented on this thread.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We always have some just in case the guy we are meeting only brings a pack of three

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"I always have them, problem is I always use every last one I have and still have the horn. May have to just go do the supermarket sweep of asda’s condom shelves lol

Make the most of it young un . You only get a bucket full "

Well they are there to be used, so I use them all. I don’t want to ever be that guy that ends up with a condom ring embossed into their wallet haha.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"I always have them, problem is I always use every last one I have and still have the horn. May have to just go do the supermarket sweep of asda’s condom shelves lol

Make the most of it young un . You only get a bucket full

Well they are there to be used, so I use them all. I don’t want to ever be that guy that ends up with a condom ring embossed into their wallet haha."

I meant you only get a bucket full of spunk

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"I always have them, problem is I always use every last one I have and still have the horn. May have to just go do the supermarket sweep of asda’s condom shelves lol

Make the most of it young un . You only get a bucket full

Well they are there to be used, so I use them all. I don’t want to ever be that guy that ends up with a condom ring embossed into their wallet haha.

I meant you only get a bucket full of spunk "

I could fill a bucket after three times haha. Seems that way anyway. I’ve hit the ceiling and pasted the walls before now, probably going to have killed my libido entirely by 30

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By *ealskipperMan
over a year ago

between london and

Where have you gone?? was halfway though my popcorn ans loving your “JK like responses” and then you go and disappear - now its like question time

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

Guys. Both parties should have some and not left to one side

I totally agree with that. "

Thank you. But it's not unheard of that women do exactly the same. So there rests my case. Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We live life on the edge hoping to catch an sti or pay child maintenance for the next 18 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most men I don't favour them, so I get the lady to put it on for me. Make it part of play, but don't hang about once it's on!.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???

And another single male bashing thread..

Not one guy op t hat you have met has never brought condoms.. really ?

Yes really, and its not only sigle guys. Its guys that are in a relationship and want bareback. And that is even worst that their gf don't even know that he is bb some random stranger and then sleeps with her.

Then you know from your experience "they don't supply their own"..have you asked them?

From what I've read You have two choices ..

1. Stop meeting guys

Or if. You wanna meet guys

2. Keep buying lots of condoms

No one can answer why they don't only the guy who turned(s) up unprepared could answer the question everything else is conjecture.

Fair answer, and you are perfectly right there.

And my post was to pick their brains and see why, assuming that some of them replay to the topic.

"

So you thought a guy was going to come on the forums and post that he doesn’t bring condoms to his meets?

Am I reading this correctly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a good deal on eBay for a joblot good quality! Better to be safe than sorry kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand.

I doubt any sane woman would do that! "

Not if she has baby rabies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have a shelf life ya know........ It's so long in between meets........ They break

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???"

Cause they have no respect for anyone. I always carry them, even if im going on a social.....just incase it goes any further. Come on guys, its not that difficult

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???"

They probably don't use them with wifey and then bottle it at the petrol station on the way to you

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand."

Good reason to carry your own then

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I would never turn up without them.

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By *ykeymm8Man
over a year ago

southampton


"Can someone explain me why guys that come around and what to have sex with you never bring a condom ??? How does that work ???"

I always carry lol

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I don't rely on anyone else to protect my health. I do that, with a stock of condoms and lube. What the guy does to protect his health is his business.

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London


"I think it's worse when women offer a condom and they have punctured it beforehand.

More reason to supply your own."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t believe men have to ‘cover’ anything!

If you practice and preach safe sex then you yourself should have to precautions in place. Not left to one person. If I drive to meet you at a hotel that’s my time, fuel and effort too.. why should I be the only one to have a condom?

We’ve both done 50/50 why me?

The fact that you’re reliant on me shows me that you can’t be bothered with protecting yourself and that it just shows laziness on your part.

If s man thinks he can just waddle in BB then they’re delusional anyway. But don’t generalise all males because a select few muppets don’t like condoms.

Everyone should have protection and looking after themselves.

The female wants sex too right?

She wants safe sex too right?

Basically if you don’t pay up for them she dont have sex that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about turning up and finding she’s already put a femidom in place for once!!

Failing that it’s a crisp packet and elastic band. End of.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We always have some just in case the guy we are meeting only brings a pack of three "

Great reply

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Half the comment are . Then singles guy wonder why you dont get any meets. Wake up everyone....safesex means condoms. If you guys want sex then carry condoms with you. Dont expect anyone to provide for you....ffs

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

If he hasn't bought any and i am out of them then all he gets is a bj.

Tbh i rarely meet when horny and in need of sex if i don't have a condom or two... Thats just basics.

Besides if you are someone who plays a lot you should get tested more and get them free from the clinic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get why some guys are acting like it's so unreasonable. It's your dick that's getting wrapped in it so provide it. Yeah you can make arrangements if you don't wanna provide it but she can sure but looking for sex on here without access to condoms is like shopping for a sofa while living in a tent, you're just not equipped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread for building up my block list!!!

to the people who get health is a joint effort.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Great thread for building up my block list!!!

to the people who get health is a joint effort. "

Anyone who gets regular checks will know condoms and lube are handed out free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great thread for building up my block list!!!

to the people who get health is a joint effort.

Anyone who gets regular checks will know condoms and lube are handed out free "

The resources are quickly diminished

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Great thread for building up my block list!!!

to the people who get health is a joint effort.

Anyone who gets regular checks will know condoms and lube are handed out free

The resources are quickly diminished "

You must have a tight clinic i get a massive bag of them lol

Usually more than one bag when you ask for latex free and large ones too

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By *exleyboyMan
over a year ago

Erith

Surely if you were going on a meet its common sense to go with at least one or two condoms. Has the scouts say Be Prepared.

But sadly, there are some people who think its up to other person to bring them.

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By *icolepink89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"I don’t believe men have to ‘cover’ anything!

If you practice and preach safe sex then you yourself should have to precautions in place. Not left to one person. If I drive to meet you at a hotel that’s my time, fuel and effort too.. why should I be the only one to have a condom?

We’ve both done 50/50 why me?

The fact that you’re reliant on me shows me that you can’t be bothered with protecting yourself and that it just shows laziness on your part.

If s man thinks he can just waddle in BB then they’re delusional anyway. But don’t generalise all males because a select few muppets don’t like condoms.

Everyone should have protection and looking after themselves.

The female wants sex too right?

She wants safe sex too right?

Basically if you don’t pay up for them she dont have sex that simple. "

Hey hun, i assume before you made this comments you actually took the time and read thru some of comments on this topic because otherwise you include yourself in the category of lazy people that you just described.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Great thread for building up my block list!!!

to the people who get health is a joint effort.

Anyone who gets regular checks will know condoms and lube are handed out free

The resources are quickly diminished "

I've not tried it myself, but don't suppose anyone would complain if you just popped in and picked up a bag? Anyone tried that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bring some myself. Even been known to chat about preference for type etc before hand.

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