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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This has probably been done many times but here goes. If I asked my boyfriend to have oral sex with a man cause I wanted to see it and he was to agree to please me would that make him bisexual ? And the same if I were to have sex with women for sexual pleasure but felt no attraction to them would that indeed see me classed as bisexual ? Not that anyone is bothered about labels if your happy label it what u want I am just curious so to speak ...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if he does it because you want him to and he doesn't, that doesn't make him a bisexual...

a fool yes

a bisexual no...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its just mutual sexual pleasure.or look at it as tri sexual x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"its just mutual sexual pleasure.or look at it as tri sexual x "

trysexual... love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for reply very constructive..... Cant remember saying he didn't want to do it. There is a difference between not having wanted to do something and not wanting to to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately not - just openminded! i class myself as straight - just enjoy all forms of sexual fun, including being what most, and hence my profiles states, as bi-oral fun! Wouldn't dream of kissing or having anal with a guy, and it never ceases to amaze me the number of couples with bi-fems who state 'won't meet bi guys'! Think the words i'm looking for are 'double and 'standards'! lol. If he's happy, just let him give it a go and see how he feels! You never know - he may just enjoy it!

Oh - and if you need a willing victim!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Thanks for reply very constructive..... Cant remember saying he didn't want to do it. There is a difference between not having wanted to do something and not wanting to to it

"

if he wants to do it... he is bi curious then.

if he does it and doesn't like it... str8.

if he does and wants to keep doing it... bi.

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By *los_guy69Man
over a year ago

Prestonpans

Agreed! I don't like the idea of kissing another guy or anal with another guy but I would love to go down on a couple while they are fucking, or suck a guy with the help of a hot woman.

If it feels right then go for it. If he really doesn't enjoy it then he doesn't have to do it again.

And I don't think you'll have any trouble finding a willing volunteer, me included

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does there have to be attraction for it to be bisexual ?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Does there have to be attraction for it to be bisexual ?"

same as hetrosexual... some can have sex without attraction

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By *los_guy69Man
over a year ago

Prestonpans

I'm not sure about the attraction. I don't find guys attractive in the same way I find women attractive but there is some stuff that I'd love to try with a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess so! For me and a lot of the people i've met it's just another form of sexual activity we enjoy! I'm definately only attracted to women - but since they don't have the required anatomy.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tell be about it he's a right twat .... But he's good in bed so I have sex with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....."I am just curious, so to speak..."

There you go, answered your own question!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Tell be about it he's a right twat .... But he's good in bed so I have sex with him"

enjoy

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By *los_guy69Man
over a year ago

Prestonpans

Have you tried watching bi porn to see if it gets him in the mood?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you tried watching bi porn to see if it gets him in the mood?"

No he's too busy wanking over the gay porn .....

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By *los_guy69Man
over a year ago

Prestonpans

LMAO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say - big fan of the bi stuff - as long as it's mmf! Does raise interest in the 'curious'! And the girls seem to love it!

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore


"Thanks for reply very constructive..... Cant remember saying he didn't want to do it. There is a difference between not having wanted to do something and not wanting to to it

i agree completely,lol

if he wants to do it... he is bi curious then.

if he does it and doesn't like it... str8.

if he does and wants to keep doing it... bi."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as we like to say suck it and see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sound advice!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a gay sex act. But its how he felt about it, that would decide if he was bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once agreed to be sucked off by a bloke so I could fuck his wife.

His wife was a looker and well worth the indignity and a tremendous fuck.

What disturbed me his oral skills were very good, mind you I did have my eyes shut.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I once agreed to be sucked off by a bloke so I could fuck his wife.

His wife was a looker and well worth the indignity and a tremendous fuck.

What disturbed me his oral skills were very good, mind you I did have my eyes shut.

"

and there is HONESTY... applauds the honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definition of bisexual=jùst plain greedy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the thing that makes the person bi sexual is attraction to both sexes, if your doing it to please your partner your not bi at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried watching bi porn to see if it gets him in the mood?

No he's too busy wanking over the gay porn ....."

Well come on down to devon for the weekend and lets see how we get along

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"Definately not - just openminded! i class myself as straight - just enjoy all forms of sexual fun, including being what most, and hence my profiles states, as bi-oral fun! Wouldn't dream of kissing or having anal with a guy, and it never ceases to amaze me the number of couples with bi-fems who state 'won't meet bi guys'! Think the words i'm looking for are 'double and 'standards'! lol. If he's happy, just let him give it a go and see how he feels! You never know - he may just enjoy it!

Oh - and if you need a willing victim! "

I think the words I'm looking for is personal choice..

To the op it's a toughie... I'm not sure, there seems to be a lot of guys who consider themselves "straight" yet are happy to do oral on another man. So to them he'll be straight. Yet, personally if asked the question "my man sucks cock - is he straight?" I struggle to see how tge answer is yes?

Like I said, some will say yes and some no.

I think you should do whatever feels right, have fun and stuff what ever anyone else thinks

D&k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy some bi fun, but don't fancy men the same as women...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP....

Its it more important to stick a label on it than to discuss it, try it and possibly enjoy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i think straight men can suck cock without being bi

I have sucked loads a straight guys cocks and they mine lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find men attractive at all but I do like to suck men every so often.

My main pleasure\sexual turn on is convincing ladyboys\shemales, and I mean the ones where it's hard to tell if they are men at all.

I would love to do anal with a very convincing tranny but I don't think I could do it to a man at all, but I would like to try having a man fuck me to see what it's like.

So all in all I would have to class myself as Bi curious with limits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first experiences with a woman was not cos i was bi and found women attractive i saw it as just part of the fun. I didnt see myself as bi but having said that a few years down the line i do class myself as bi as i find women attractive and want to do it. Its just you both open minded.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If every man could comfortably suck his own cock, every man on the planet would try....several times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i think straight men can suck cock without being bi

I have sucked loads a straight guys cocks and they mine lol xx"

What about bent or curved cocks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If every man could comfortably suck his own cock, every man on the planet would try....several times

"

LOL, and wonder what label they would give themselves, since they are straight but are sucking a cock...

Bi-myself [high five]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"This has probably been done many times but here goes. If I asked my boyfriend to have oral sex with a man cause I wanted to see it and he was to agree to please me would that make him bisexual ? And the same if I were to have sex with women for sexual pleasure but felt no attraction to them would that indeed see me classed as bisexual ? Not that anyone is bothered about labels if your happy label it what u want I am just curious so to speak ..."

And here's me thinking Bisexual meant that I had to buy the sex

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally trisexual is the way forward ..... If it's sexual try it at least once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally trisexual is the way forward ..... If it's sexual try it at least once "

here here if it feels good why not give it a go

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By *XXJAYMan
over a year ago

Warrington


"Personally trisexual is the way forward ..... If it's sexual try it at least once "
It certainly does sound like the way forward. But it might take around 100 years to catch on though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once agreed to be sucked off by a bloke so I could fuck his wife.

His wife was a looker and well worth the indignity and a tremendous fuck.

What disturbed me his oral skills were very good, mind you I did have my eyes shut.

"

All very true - generally I find men are much better at giving oral sex than women are. Men can kiss better too. Kissing is such a turn on for me, it's disappointing when you meet a couple and neither the male or female are interested in kissing you or each other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once agreed to be sucked off by a bloke so I could fuck his wife.

His wife was a looker and well worth the indignity and a tremendous fuck.

What disturbed me his oral skills were very good, mind you I did have my eyes shut.

All very true - generally I find men are much better at giving oral sex than women are. Men can kiss better too. Kissing is such a turn on for me, it's disappointing when you meet a couple and neither the male or female are interested in kissing you or each other!"

U havent kissed me yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All very true - generally I find men are much better at giving oral sex than women are. Men can kiss better too. Kissing is such a turn on for me, it's disappointing when you meet a couple and neither the male or female are interested in kissing you or each other!"

Its so nice to hear another guy talk about kissing guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it feels right go for it sucking cock after is cumd in a wet pussy would be hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If every man could comfortably suck his own cock, every man on the planet would try....several times

LOL, and wonder what label they would give themselves, since they are straight but are sucking a cock...

Bi-myself [high five]"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If hubby saw a bloke in the street and wanted to suck him off, I would say he is bisexual.

As it is, its only ever happened in the heat of the moment during sex, so I just call him a naughty boy!! A horny, naughty boy!!

xx

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By *los_guy69Man
over a year ago

Prestonpans


"If every man could comfortably suck his own cock, every man on the planet would try....several times

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Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If every man could comfortably suck his own cock, every man on the planet would try....several times

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Haha, and none of you would ever leave the house!!!

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind you dogs, can lick their own, they still try and hump anything...

Not making any generalisations about people on FAB

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By *TR8HUNTERMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

i love str8 guys anyone fncy trying lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends ,most of the guys i see are married ,all but a few say they are st8 but dont mind being given a bj by me and watch me swallow supose a mouth is a mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it feels right and all parties agreeable then nothing is taboo or needs labelling.

Labels mean nothing, i get 100's of propositions from guys who prefer to label themselves as str8.

Just get on with having fun and care less about what others think, dont try to put yourself into a box , we are all born unique, always strive to stay that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I hate those labels you get on apples!! Why!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread I feel the odd one out. I cannot envisage any situation where I'd want to do anything sexually to another woman or have one touch me!

It appears to me that some people spend too much time trying to find fancy labels and "excuses" instead of enjoying their sexuality. Every pot has its lid...enjoy!

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