FabSwingers.com forum: If you know

By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

That 95% of your messages won’t get replied to no matter how personalised you make them.. why do you continue to use the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Desperation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope and desperation

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

The 5% that do reply and there is an awful lot of fun to be had with them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That 95% of your messages won’t get replied to no matter how personalised you make them.. why do you continue to use the site?

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Hmm, I like this topic. I am very close to ending my career on the site

Right now, I have two possible meets lined up. However, I feel that this place is horribly oversaturated with overly eager men/fantasists. I can fully understand why a lady wouldnt bother to open my message in a sea of mail. Even I was getting messages from guys before I blocked single makes ffs

What are your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That 95% of your messages won’t get replied to no matter how personalised you make them.. why do you continue to use the site?

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this a fact?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we are men and we are stupid.

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Came off for a year. Come back with new profile. Fab has changed getting too many messages from single blokes.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

The same reason that I wasted a whole day on trying to find someone to commit to a quick social before a private party I’d travelled to Blackpool for.

Loads thought it was a brilliant idea until it actually came to showing up to either and all of a sudden...

Tumble.

One lovely man met me for a coffee but decided not to come. The other 50+ men just didn’t respond to my last message giving them the details and a few messaged others on the party list and did exactly the same thing.

I have no idea why I just didn’t give up hours before I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That 95% of your messages won’t get replied to no matter how personalised you make them.. why do you continue to use the site?

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The other 5%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That 95% of your messages won’t get replied to no matter how personalised you make them.. why do you continue to use the site?

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Hmm, I like this topic. I am very close to ending my career on the site

What are your thoughts?"

Giving up after 3 weeks hardly shows perseverance

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

"That 95% of your messages won’t get replied to no matter how personalised you make them.. why do you continue to use the site?"

I'm hoping that the patient, charming and humorous and chatty gents remain on the site, to use the chat rooms. It's much easier to build up a rapport in the chat rooms, where the conversation is back-and-forth in real time, than by exchanging messages, (you'd need 20 back-and-forth messages to achieve the same thing as can be achieved in 5 minutes, in the chat rooms).

Of course, the ones who get impatient and grumpy about not receiving replies aren't likely to have much more success in the chat rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hope and desperation"

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

Alas we can hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cos its not just about getting your dick wet

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"That 95% of your messages won’t get replied to no matter how personalised you make them.. why do you continue to use the site?

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Same as you. As you have been on here for a year and had only one meet? We all live in hope as to speak.

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

Yet on another site I’ve had a reasonable amount of meets.

For some reason on this I personally find it impossible. Then some people say to me why have I only got 1 veri?!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Yet on another site I’ve had a reasonable amount of meets.

For some reason on this I personally find it impossible. Then some people say to me why have I only got 1 veri?! "

Why have you got one veri?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That 95% of your messages won’t get replied to no matter how personalised you make them.. why do you continue to use the site?

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makes you feel alive and part of something vibrant and interesting

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

"Yet on another site I’ve had a reasonable amount of meets.

For some reason on this I personally find it impossible. Then some people say to me why have I only got 1 veri?!

Why have you got one veri? "

Because I met them in real life?

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Because there is always that one you will connect with and good times will follow. I've been on fabs for about 3yrs and it's been hard going as there are a lot more single men these days. I still use another site which I've used for around 14yrs. Over that time I've made a lot of friends. Some are just chat friends. Others i have a closer connection with. But you just have to stick with it and ignore the idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same reason that I wasted a whole day on trying to find someone to commit to a quick social before a private party I’d travelled to Blackpool for.

Loads thought it was a brilliant idea until it actually came to showing up to either and all of a sudden...

Tumble.

I have no idea why I just didn’t give up hours before I did."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Yet on another site I’ve had a reasonable amount of meets.

For some reason on this I personally find it impossible. Then some people say to me why have I only got 1 veri?!

Why have you got one veri?

Because I met them in real life?"

That’s good. I’d imagine there would be loads of fabbers in London. You’re obviously articulate and have a good profile so it’s just Sod’s law, I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That 95% of your messages won’t get replied to no matter how personalised you make them.. why do you continue to use the site?

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Hmm, I like this topic. I am very close to ending my career on the site

What are your thoughts?

Giving up after 3 weeks hardly shows perseverance "

Im not here to grind out hours of messages for sex, I am not desperate lol. I am here for fun. In saying that I have 6 unread messages and 11winks. How things have changed

......probably all guys loooool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the hope that the remaining 5% of messages will prove to be fruitful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends what you want and what you're here for.

If you just want a shag, you can do that but the quality of person may not be that good.

If you want abit better quality you have to put the effort in and have extreme patience... also don't take it too serious. There's a real world out there.

Feb is a strange place, but you can definitely find what you're looking for.

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Because I have issues and being rejected turns me on and has me desperate for more. Can't get enough of feeling unwanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's lovely to get a message that has obviously been thought about a little and not copied and pasted. I'd hope those messages would get a reply...please don't leave single guys...just be lovely

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