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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi you lovely swinging people.

I'm wondering how many of you like a girl with extra weight?

Im a size 14/16, and a bit of a belly.

Im not bothered by it, although I worry that i might miss out on a great night if he/she has a problem with bigger girls.

Or are there people here who look for a woman like me or bigger?

Has any one else had this thought??

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi you lovely swinging people.

I'm wondering how many of you like a girl with extra weight?

Im a size 14/16, and a bit of a belly.

Im not bothered by it, although I worry that i might miss out on a great night if he/she has a problem with bigger girls.

Or are there people here who look for a woman like me or bigger?

Has any one else had this thought??

xxxx "

Not at all read my profile I find you all sexy, I prefer bigger girls... Have you got big breasts to match? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya. Well not really. Im a 36c. Its a good handful and had no complaint, but wonder if friends are just bias.

Xx

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By *ohn_d57Man
over a year ago

Bedlington


"Hi you lovely swinging people.

I'm wondering how many of you like a girl with extra weight?

Im a size 14/16, and a bit of a belly.

Im not bothered by it, although I worry that i might miss out on a great night if he/she has a problem with bigger girls.

Or are there people here who look for a woman like me or bigger?

Has any one else had this thought??

xxxx "

Hi Barbie_girl if your happy with your self don't worry I'm sure you will have a great time on here as for my self size & age is not a problem as all Ladies are gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi you are the same size as me and i have no probs what so ever xxx

Enjoy xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys.

So I guess what would we consider slim/average/curvy/ample/large??

Personally I think its different for every one right?

xx

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

I prefer a woman with curves, something to get hold of!

As someone else said it is more important you are comfortable with your self.

The only issue I have with weight/size is with the very skinny - I'd be frightened I would break them lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best thing about sites like these is theres someone for everyone

everyone likes different and for every one guy who dont want to meet you there will be ten who do

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By *urvyhornygirlWoman
over a year ago

hull

Hunny 14/16 is not who you who are. Sexiness comes from what's inside and your attitude and approach to things.

Enjoy being you n please just go have fun! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hunny 14/16 is not who you who are. Sexiness comes from what's inside and your attitude and approach to things.

Enjoy being you n please just go have fun! X"
So true. If only you can convince people the truth of what your saying. Gets my vote.

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By *urvyhornygirlWoman
over a year ago

hull


"Hunny 14/16 is not who you who are. Sexiness comes from what's inside and your attitude and approach to things.

Enjoy being you n please just go have fun! X So true. If only you can convince people the truth of what your saying. Gets my vote."

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"Hi you lovely swinging people.

I'm wondering how many of you like a girl with extra weight?

Im a size 14/16, and a bit of a belly.

Im not bothered by it, although I worry that i might miss out on a great night if he/she has a problem with bigger girls.

Or are there people here who look for a woman like me or bigger?

Has any one else had this thought??

xxxx "

From my perspective 14-16 is the new 10-12!

Haven't you noticed when you go shopping there is never any of your size?

At least that's what I'm led to believe as genetically we're all getting slightly larger/taller etc

That's how I explain my waist size and 17+stone frame! lol

You sound perrrrrrfect!

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"Thanks guys.

So I guess what would we consider slim/average/curvy/ample/large??

Personally I think its different for every one right?

xx"

Exactly, each of those descriptions is purfect in someone's eyes, but it's the person within which really counts!

Unless you have multiple heads and limbs and then it might matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im bigger and have no probs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im bigger and have no probs x"

.... and I'm even biggerer (size 20 - 22) and have no probs either!!

As has already been pointed out, sexiness comes from within - if you feel sexy and are confident about yourself and your looks/shape/etc, you ARE sexy.

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By *lirty and fun maleMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Bigger ladies 16 and above are so sexy!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Hi you lovely swinging people.

I'm wondering how many of you like a girl with extra weight?

Im a size 14/16, and a bit of a belly.

Im not bothered by it, although I worry that i might miss out on a great night if he/she has a problem with bigger girls.

Or are there people here who look for a woman like me or bigger?

Has any one else had this thought??

xxxx "

Some like smaller ladies, some like bigger ladies. Some just love ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love big and small ladies xxxx

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Be careful of the trade descriptions act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a size 14 curvy and tall big tits i would look starange if i was a 8/10 in my eyes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a size 14 curvy and tall big tits i would look starange if i was a 8/10 in my eyes . "

in my eyes there is nothing wrong with you at all ya sexy milf xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a size 14 curvy and tall big tits i would look starange if i was a 8/10 in my eyes .

in my eyes there is nothing wrong with you at all ya sexy milf xxxx "
well i feel happy how i am .. And more for you men to get hold of , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a size 14 curvy and tall big tits i would look starange if i was a 8/10 in my eyes .

in my eyes there is nothing wrong with you at all ya sexy milf xxxx well i feel happy how i am .. And more for you men to get hold of , lol "

I would love to lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think most women now days carry extra weight

its just our life styles, people are getting lazier with all the electrical appliances to do everything for us, access to transport to take us everywhere and portion sizes getting bigger

when our grans was younger and women used to wash by hand, sweep the floor and scrub the step the average size for a woman was a size 10 now the average size for a womans a 16, tho im not saying a size 16 is no longer big, it does mean women are getting bigger so i think because its more normal to see bigger womans menas tastes are changing with it and probably find more men liking bigger woman than years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think most women now days carry extra weight

its just our life styles, people are getting lazier with all the electrical appliances to do everything for us, access to transport to take us everywhere and portion sizes getting bigger

when our grans was younger and women used to wash by hand, sweep the floor and scrub the step the average size for a woman was a size 10 now the average size for a womans a 16, tho im not saying a size 16 is no longer big, it does mean women are getting bigger so i think because its more normal to see bigger womans menas tastes are changing with it and probably find more men liking bigger woman than years ago

"

I think I want to marry a woman like your gran hahaha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think most women now days carry extra weight

its just our life styles, people are getting lazier with all the electrical appliances to do everything for us, access to transport to take us everywhere and portion sizes getting bigger

when our grans was younger and women used to wash by hand, sweep the floor and scrub the step the average size for a woman was a size 10 now the average size for a womans a 16, tho im not saying a size 16 is no longer big, it does mean women are getting bigger so i think because its more normal to see bigger womans menas tastes are changing with it and probably find more men liking bigger woman than years ago

I think I want to marry a woman like your gran hahaha x "

what a size 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think most women now days carry extra weight

its just our life styles, people are getting lazier with all the electrical appliances to do everything for us, access to transport to take us everywhere and portion sizes getting bigger

when our grans was younger and women used to wash by hand, sweep the floor and scrub the step the average size for a woman was a size 10 now the average size for a womans a 16, tho im not saying a size 16 is no longer big, it does mean women are getting bigger so i think because its more normal to see bigger womans menas tastes are changing with it and probably find more men liking bigger woman than years ago

I think I want to marry a woman like your gran hahaha x

what a size 10 "

Na scrubbing the step washing the cloths etc etc hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Na scrubbing the step washing the cloths etc etc hahaha "

you just want to see a woman on her knees dontcha

come on admit it *poke*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Na scrubbing the step washing the cloths etc etc hahaha

you just want to see a woman on her knees dontcha

come on admit it *poke* "
I am no scrubber or washing woman I hate all that i let other do that as i am better mucking out the horses , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Na scrubbing the step washing the cloths etc etc hahaha

you just want to see a woman on her knees dontcha

come on admit it *poke* "

Well if the shoe fits haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have the same problem, but im a bloke, so weight is no longer a feminist issue.

oh, and mrs is 14-16 (depends where she shops) and always gest comments/people coming on to her, when we are out, so dont you worry about it.

like has been said, 14 is the new 10, or whatever.

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By *ce-cplCouple
over a year ago

bexhill

14/16 here...absolutely nothing wrong in bigger ladies..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big girl at size 20-22, and whilst have occasional confidence wobble, I enjoy myself and have fun..

think people just just let go and enjoy themselves, big medium or small x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am size 22 having dropped 4 dress sizes and luckily have kept my boobs. Had no issue before on here or when our socially and certainly don't know. All about confidence and knowing what you want. Enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol "

tut tut

do you call large ladies beached whales?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol "

I'm sure you think you're endearing yourself to the larger ladies, boosting the confidence of the needy and insecure, but you've alienated a lot of women I'd wager by your crass comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol

I'm sure you think you're endearing yourself to the larger ladies, boosting the confidence of the needy and insecure, but you've alienated a lot of women I'd wager by your crass comments. "

lol you say it so much better than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi you lovely swinging people.

I'm wondering how many of you like a girl with extra weight?

Im a size 14/16, and a bit of a belly.

Im not bothered by it, although I worry that i might miss out on a great night if he/she has a problem with bigger girls.

Or are there people here who look for a woman like me or bigger?

Has any one else had this thought??

xxxx "

Upto an 18 is good for me above that and i tend not to though.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby


"Hi you lovely swinging people.

I'm wondering how many of you like a girl with extra weight?

Im a size 14/16, and a bit of a belly.

Im not bothered by it, although I worry that i might miss out on a great night if he/she has a problem with bigger girls.

Or are there people here who look for a woman like me or bigger?

Has any one else had this thought??

xxxx "

I'm top end of the scale hun, huge boobs, tum, and ass plus a disability and i don't have any problems, well except real life getting in the way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beat u all, I am a big lady, size 26 with g cups! I have no probs with meets now I got Orr my confidence issues! The guys I have met love my wobbly bits and I am growing to accept their compliments and attention! I like my lovers to be tall and bigger too but have met shorter guys too, I think it's more about the personality than the body, and if u click en it's all good, people who judge others solely on looks and size r shallow and not worth my time! Take me as I am or pass me by!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's all about confidence and loving yourself, i am a size 16/18, my ex husband constantly put me down due to my weight, so am now relishing and enjoying the guys who think i am sexy as hell! still not 100% confident in myself but getting better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like big women a big sexy bum is so sexy and big hips as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a woman like you, but only bigger than a skinny person and smaller than a bigger person than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's all about confidence and loving yourself, i am a size 16/18, my ex husband constantly put me down due to my weight, so am now relishing and enjoying the guys who think i am sexy as hell! still not 100% confident in myself but getting better"

yep, we rubanesques are popular with the men, and women for that matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's all about confidence and loving yourself, i am a size 16/18, my ex husband constantly put me down due to my weight, so am now relishing and enjoying the guys who think i am sexy as hell! still not 100% confident in myself but getting better

yep, we rubanesques are popular with the men, and women for that matter."

Definitely :P

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few years back i joined weight watchers and i was around a size 22, i lost over 7 stone and got to a size 12, since then i have put some weight back on and at the moment i kind of yo yo between a size 14/18 depending on if ive gone back to fat camp or not, at the moment im back on the diet and a size 14, and i can honestly say i didnt get any more mail at a size 12 than i did at a size 22 nor do i get any less now i have gained a bit back

but the fact of the matter is no matter what size you are there will be people who like you and want to meet you and women will always be able to pick and choose more than guys no matter what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol

I'm sure you think you're endearing yourself to the larger ladies, boosting the confidence of the needy and insecure, but you've alienated a lot of women I'd wager by your crass comments. "

They say assumption is the mother of all F ups dont they? lol dont be so sure of anything hun as you dont no me or anything about me except for the judgement that you pass on some forum of iddle tickle tackle lol night night yeah sweet dreams xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol

tut tut

do you call large ladies beached whales?

"

Who me na not me hun those were your rude words not mine lol night night yeah x

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford


"Hi you lovely swinging people.

I'm wondering how many of you like a girl with extra weight?

Im a size 14/16, and a bit of a belly.

Im not bothered by it, although I worry that i might miss out on a great night if he/she has a problem with bigger girls.

Or are there people here who look for a woman like me or bigger?

Has any one else had this thought??

xxxx "

What I really love about this lifestyle is that there's someone for everyone, and everyone is sexy. So it doesn't matter if you're short, tall, fat, thin, disabled, or abled bodied, we're all desirable.

So yes you sound very sexy and there are many men, and women, on here who would love to meet you. I'm a big fan of the larger woman and literally go weak at the knees at all the lovely BBWs on this site, but that's just a preference. And there are many who feel the same.

So get out there girl and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol

tut tut

do you call large ladies beached whales?

Who me na not me hun those were your rude words not mine lol night night yeah x "

yes your right those was very rude words but no ruder than calling a thin woman a stick insect

whys it ok to call a slim woman a stick insect but rude to call a big one a beached whale?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol

I'm sure you think you're endearing yourself to the larger ladies, boosting the confidence of the needy and insecure, but you've alienated a lot of women I'd wager by your crass comments.

They say assumption is the mother of all F ups dont they? lol dont be so sure of anything hun as you dont no me or anything about me except for the judgement that you pass on some forum of iddle tickle tackle lol night night yeah sweet dreams xx "

Assumption? No. Childishly referring to slim women as stick insects is crass and insulting. Calling large ladies "real" women implies slim women aren't.

But hey ho, if you think insulting the ladies here is the way to go: good for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol

I'm sure you think you're endearing yourself to the larger ladies, boosting the confidence of the needy and insecure, but you've alienated a lot of women I'd wager by your crass comments.

They say assumption is the mother of all F ups dont they? lol dont be so sure of anything hun as you dont no me or anything about me except for the judgement that you pass on some forum of iddle tickle tackle lol night night yeah sweet dreams xx

Assumption? No. Childishly referring to slim women as stick insects is crass and insulting. Calling large ladies "real" women implies slim women aren't.

But hey ho, if you think insulting the ladies here is the way to go: good for you! "

Sweetheart you and your side kick from Dudley really are becoming quite a bore now to me to be honest. May I please sugest that the pair of you get a life and stop trawling the forums nit picking like a pair of kackling old mother hens on some form of tryumphant crusade to put people down for having a giggle. Whats up have the fun police gone on strike down your end so you thought you would step in lol

Look get off my case please ladies you dont no me and you dont no what you are talking about regards anything to do with me so please leave me alone yeah and stop stalking me already on here!. I come on here for a laugh and a giggle if some of my posts may offend you then I make NO appologies for that and instead sugest you either get a sense of humour or ignore it and move on and leave me alone already lol wtf. Good bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol

I'm sure you think you're endearing yourself to the larger ladies, boosting the confidence of the needy and insecure, but you've alienated a lot of women I'd wager by your crass comments.

They say assumption is the mother of all F ups dont they? lol dont be so sure of anything hun as you dont no me or anything about me except for the judgement that you pass on some forum of iddle tickle tackle lol night night yeah sweet dreams xx

Assumption? No. Childishly referring to slim women as stick insects is crass and insulting. Calling large ladies "real" women implies slim women aren't.

But hey ho, if you think insulting the ladies here is the way to go: good for you! "

Sweetheart you and your side kick from Dudley really are becoming quite a bore now to me to be honest. May I please ask that the pair of you get a life and stop trawling the forums nit picking like a pair of kackling old mother hens on some form of tryumphant crusade to put people down for having a giggle with coments wrote in a none serious tongue n cheek way. Whats up have the fun police gone on strike down your end so you thought you would step in lol

Look get off my case please ladies you dont no me and you dont no what you are talking about regards anything to do with me so please leave me alone yeah and stop stalking me already on here!. I come on here for a laugh and a giggle if some of my posts may offend you then I make NO appologies for that and instead ask you either get a sense of humour or ignore it and move on and leave me alone already lol wtf. Good bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi you lovely swinging people.

I'm wondering how many of you like a girl with extra weight?

Im a size 14/16, and a bit of a belly.

Im not bothered by it, although I worry that i might miss out on a great night if he/she has a problem with bigger girls.

Or are there people here who look for a woman like me or bigger?

Has any one else had this thought??

xxxx

What I really love about this lifestyle is that there's someone for everyone, and everyone is sexy. So it doesn't matter if you're short, tall, fat, thin, disabled, or abled bodied, we're all desirable.

So yes you sound very sexy and there are many men, and women, on here who would love to meet you. I'm a big fan of the larger woman and literally go weak at the knees at all the lovely BBWs on this site, but that's just a preference. And there are many who feel the same.

So get out there girl and enjoy!"

there speaks a man after my own heart

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi you lovely swinging people.

I'm wondering how many of you like a girl with extra weight?

Im a size 14/16, and a bit of a belly.

Im not bothered by it, although I worry that i might miss out on a great night if he/she has a problem with bigger girls.

Or are there people here who look for a woman like me or bigger?

Has any one else had this thought??

xxxx

What I really love about this lifestyle is that there's someone for everyone, and everyone is sexy. So it doesn't matter if you're short, tall, fat, thin, disabled, or abled bodied, we're all desirable.

So yes you sound very sexy and there are many men, and women, on here who would love to meet you. I'm a big fan of the larger woman and literally go weak at the knees at all the lovely BBWs on this site, but that's just a preference. And there are many who feel the same.

So get out there girl and enjoy!

there speaks a man after my own heart

Wolf

"

Thumbs up from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol

I'm sure you think you're endearing yourself to the larger ladies, boosting the confidence of the needy and insecure, but you've alienated a lot of women I'd wager by your crass comments.

They say assumption is the mother of all F ups dont they? lol dont be so sure of anything hun as you dont no me or anything about me except for the judgement that you pass on some forum of iddle tickle tackle lol night night yeah sweet dreams xx

Assumption? No. Childishly referring to slim women as stick insects is crass and insulting. Calling large ladies "real" women implies slim women aren't.

But hey ho, if you think insulting the ladies here is the way to go: good for you!

Sweetheart you and your side kick from Dudley really are becoming quite a bore now to me to be honest. May I please ask that the pair of you get a life and stop trawling the forums nit picking like a pair of kackling old mother hens on some form of tryumphant crusade to put people down for having a giggle with coments wrote in a none serious tongue n cheek way. Whats up have the fun police gone on strike down your end so you thought you would step in lol

Look get off my case please ladies you dont no me and you dont no what you are talking about regards anything to do with me so please leave me alone yeah and stop stalking me already on here!. I come on here for a laugh and a giggle if some of my posts may offend you then I make NO appologies for that and instead ask you either get a sense of humour or ignore it and move on and leave me alone already lol wtf. Good bye "

oh and timber...a good comic never gets personal

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol

I'm sure you think you're endearing yourself to the larger ladies, boosting the confidence of the needy and insecure, but you've alienated a lot of women I'd wager by your crass comments.

They say assumption is the mother of all F ups dont they? lol dont be so sure of anything hun as you dont no me or anything about me except for the judgement that you pass on some forum of iddle tickle tackle lol night night yeah sweet dreams xx

Assumption? No. Childishly referring to slim women as stick insects is crass and insulting. Calling large ladies "real" women implies slim women aren't.

But hey ho, if you think insulting the ladies here is the way to go: good for you!

Sweetheart you and your side kick from Dudley really are becoming quite a bore now to me to be honest. May I please ask that the pair of you get a life and stop trawling the forums nit picking like a pair of kackling old mother hens on some form of tryumphant crusade to put people down for having a giggle with coments wrote in a none serious tongue n cheek way. Whats up have the fun police gone on strike down your end so you thought you would step in lol

Look get off my case please ladies you dont no me and you dont no what you are talking about regards anything to do with me so please leave me alone yeah and stop stalking me already on here!. I come on here for a laugh and a giggle if some of my posts may offend you then I make NO appologies for that and instead ask you either get a sense of humour or ignore it and move on and leave me alone already lol wtf. Good bye

oh and timber...a good comic never gets personal

Wolf

"

Good job I aint never claimed to be a professional artist then aint it

Woof woof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol

I'm sure you think you're endearing yourself to the larger ladies, boosting the confidence of the needy and insecure, but you've alienated a lot of women I'd wager by your crass comments.

They say assumption is the mother of all F ups dont they? lol dont be so sure of anything hun as you dont no me or anything about me except for the judgement that you pass on some forum of iddle tickle tackle lol night night yeah sweet dreams xx

Assumption? No. Childishly referring to slim women as stick insects is crass and insulting. Calling large ladies "real" women implies slim women aren't.

But hey ho, if you think insulting the ladies here is the way to go: good for you!

Sweetheart you and your side kick from Dudley really are becoming quite a bore now to me to be honest. May I please ask that the pair of you get a life and stop trawling the forums nit picking like a pair of kackling old mother hens on some form of tryumphant crusade to put people down for having a giggle with coments wrote in a none serious tongue n cheek way. Whats up have the fun police gone on strike down your end so you thought you would step in lol

Look get off my case please ladies you dont no me and you dont no what you are talking about regards anything to do with me so please leave me alone yeah and stop stalking me already on here!. I come on here for a laugh and a giggle if some of my posts may offend you then I make NO appologies for that and instead ask you either get a sense of humour or ignore it and move on and leave me alone already lol wtf. Good bye "

Did I say childish?!! My mistake: petulant baby...oh so attractive...not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can we stick to the subject please and not make it personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can we stick to the subject please and not make it personal"

Yes thank you.

Dont matter what shape or size you are man or woman as has already been pointed out on here there are people for every one aint there.

Love is in the air well maybe just a good fucking instead as this is after all a swinging site aint it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 / 16 is NOT big

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi people.

Wow Im loving the comments (apart from the bi*ching), seams im not alone in my quest.

I love the idea of being on a site where I am a very sexual person, and even though us women have odd days where we dont feel 100% sexy there are men out here who do still find us attractive.

I know it sounds odd but I would like to find a man who actualy comments on my love handles and says something along th lines 'dam your handles are sexy, makes me want you more'

Is that just me????

xxx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Hi people.

Wow Im loving the comments (apart from the bi*ching), seams im not alone in my quest.

I love the idea of being on a site where I am a very sexual person, and even though us women have odd days where we dont feel 100% sexy there are men out here who do still find us attractive.

I know it sounds odd but I would like to find a man who actualy comments on my love handles and says something along th lines 'dam your handles are sexy, makes me want you more'

Is that just me????

xxx"

If a man or lady commented on my love handles then it would have the opposite effect on me...lol

I know they are there, I don't need reminding of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi people.

Wow Im loving the comments (apart from the bi*ching), seams im not alone in my quest.

I love the idea of being on a site where I am a very sexual person, and even though us women have odd days where we dont feel 100% sexy there are men out here who do still find us attractive.

I know it sounds odd but I would like to find a man who actualy comments on my love handles and says something along th lines 'dam your handles are sexy, makes me want you more'

Is that just me????

xxx

If a man or lady commented on my love handles then it would have the opposite effect on me...lol

I know they are there, I don't need reminding of them "

I did once get freaked by a guy who told me I had 'lovely titties' in the middle of a meet

I know I'm attractive to men who 'chase' bigger guys and I'm not conscious of my build during a meet.

So, it wasn't so much the sentiment as the terminology that freaked me out.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Hi people.

Wow Im loving the comments (apart from the bi*ching), seams im not alone in my quest.

I love the idea of being on a site where I am a very sexual person, and even though us women have odd days where we dont feel 100% sexy there are men out here who do still find us attractive.

I know it sounds odd but I would like to find a man who actualy comments on my love handles and says something along th lines 'dam your handles are sexy, makes me want you more'

Is that just me????

xxx

If a man or lady commented on my love handles then it would have the opposite effect on me...lol

I know they are there, I don't need reminding of them

I did once get freaked by a guy who told me I had 'lovely titties' in the middle of a meet

I know I'm attractive to men who 'chase' bigger guys and I'm not conscious of my build during a meet.

So, it wasn't so much the sentiment as the terminology that freaked me out."

See I wouldn't mind being told I had 'lovely titties' in the middle of a meet (or even at the beginning or end)

But know exactly what you mean and where your coming from x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol

I'm sure you think you're endearing yourself to the larger ladies, boosting the confidence of the needy and insecure, but you've alienated a lot of women I'd wager by your crass comments.

They say assumption is the mother of all F ups dont they? lol dont be so sure of anything hun as you dont no me or anything about me except for the judgement that you pass on some forum of iddle tickle tackle lol night night yeah sweet dreams xx

Assumption? No. Childishly referring to slim women as stick insects is crass and insulting. Calling large ladies "real" women implies slim women aren't.

But hey ho, if you think insulting the ladies here is the way to go: good for you!

Sweetheart you and your side kick from Dudley really are becoming quite a bore now to me to be honest. May I please ask that the pair of you get a life and stop trawling the forums nit picking like a pair of kackling old mother hens on some form of tryumphant crusade to put people down for having a giggle with coments wrote in a none serious tongue n cheek way. Whats up have the fun police gone on strike down your end so you thought you would step in lol

Look get off my case please ladies you dont no me and you dont no what you are talking about regards anything to do with me so please leave me alone yeah and stop stalking me already on here!. I come on here for a laugh and a giggle if some of my posts may offend you then I make NO appologies for that and instead ask you either get a sense of humour or ignore it and move on and leave me alone already lol wtf. Good bye "

didnt realise i was on your case

all i was doing was pointing out its a bit rude to call thin women stick insects the same as it is to call big ladies beached whales

you say you come on here to have a laugh, how is getting personal about someone funny

i havnt said anything to you that i wouldnt have said to anyone else, i just never see why people think its ok to refer to thin women as things like stick insects, fucking a bag of bones, ironing bored etc yet is anyone says anything rude about a big women all hells breaks loose, if someone called a big woman a beached whale or like shagging a water bed on the forum half the site would be reporting the person

altho you seem to be taking me and my 'side kicks' comments personal its just a observation towards this attitude really

im really sorry you felt the need to get so defensive, not everyone on here is going to agree with you all the time, we all get people questioning what we put at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyhow I like a real woman I can get a grip of between the sheets lol stick insects do nothing for me and I would just want to feed a stick insect not fuck her lol

I'm sure you think you're endearing yourself to the larger ladies, boosting the confidence of the needy and insecure, but you've alienated a lot of women I'd wager by your crass comments.

They say assumption is the mother of all F ups dont they? lol dont be so sure of anything hun as you dont no me or anything about me except for the judgement that you pass on some forum of iddle tickle tackle lol night night yeah sweet dreams xx

Assumption? No. Childishly referring to slim women as stick insects is crass and insulting. Calling large ladies "real" women implies slim women aren't.

But hey ho, if you think insulting the ladies here is the way to go: good for you!

Sweetheart you and your side kick from Dudley really are becoming quite a bore now to me to be honest. May I please ask that the pair of you get a life and stop trawling the forums nit picking like a pair of kackling old mother hens on some form of tryumphant crusade to put people down for having a giggle with coments wrote in a none serious tongue n cheek way. Whats up have the fun police gone on strike down your end so you thought you would step in lol

Look get off my case please ladies you dont no me and you dont no what you are talking about regards anything to do with me so please leave me alone yeah and stop stalking me already on here!. I come on here for a laugh and a giggle if some of my posts may offend you then I make NO appologies for that and instead ask you either get a sense of humour or ignore it and move on and leave me alone already lol wtf. Good bye

didnt realise i was on your case

all i was doing was pointing out its a bit rude to call thin women stick insects the same as it is to call big ladies beached whales

you say you come on here to have a laugh, how is getting personal about someone funny

i havnt said anything to you that i wouldnt have said to anyone else, i just never see why people think its ok to refer to thin women as things like stick insects, fucking a bag of bones, ironing bored etc yet is anyone says anything rude about a big women all hells breaks loose, if someone called a big woman a beached whale or like shagging a water bed on the forum half the site would be reporting the person

altho you seem to be taking me and my 'side kicks' comments personal its just a observation towards this attitude really

im really sorry you felt the need to get so defensive, not everyone on here is going to agree with you all the time, we all get people questioning what we put at some point

"

mwah xxx love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it safe yet ? ? ?

Tad worried to comment on this thread now, scared of being hit by a stray knife, in some 'unfriendly fire'

But getting back to the OP, it harks back the famous word of preference, and boy does that word get uses lots.

I do like to meet ladies who believe themselves to be large. Conversation, and right good larf should also feature in your attraction, not just looks.

And I'm not spinning you the 'being pc' yarn.

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford


"Hi people.

Wow Im loving the comments (apart from the bi*ching), seams im not alone in my quest.

I love the idea of being on a site where I am a very sexual person, and even though us women have odd days where we dont feel 100% sexy there are men out here who do still find us attractive.

I know it sounds odd but I would like to find a man who actualy comments on my love handles and says something along th lines 'dam your handles are sexy, makes me want you more'

Is that just me????

xxx"

The thing is you'll always find unpleasant people in all walks of life, but ultimately most people on here, including myself, look for confidence (not arrogance), intelligence (it's good to connect mentally and be able to converse), and a good sense of humour (great to have fun and laugh at life).

So in the main most don't worry about whether you're this size or that size, but look for that 'spark' and that mysterious 'chemistry' that happens between two people. This overrides everything else and allows us to see the sexy person inside. The rest is just detail.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"14 / 16 is NOT big "

I thought that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See there was me feeling comfortable with my weight now I've lost some but am worried that I am now a stick insect at a size 12, can't bloody win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal preferance is ladies from size 12 to 16. Nothing better than some curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My personal preferance is ladies from size 12 to 16. Nothing better than some curves"

Here here

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By *ichelle n big alCouple
over a year ago

Derbys

My misses is a little curves bit she's never short of offers of cock by alot of guys she's loving it !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont really have a type(although i do have standards!) so i dont have a problem with any size, as a few people have already said, the sexiest thing about any woman is being confident.

the best sex ive ever had hasnt been with who society would call 'attractive' its been with women who are comfortable with themselves and relaxed etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

size 12+ for me everytime, i want to massage flesh not skin and bones x

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By *oupleup4funCouple
over a year ago

Ashton


"Hi you lovely swinging people.

I'm wondering how many of you like a girl with extra weight?

Im a size 14/16, and a bit of a belly.

Im not bothered by it, although I worry that i might miss out on a great night if he/she has a problem with bigger girls.

Or are there people here who look for a woman like me or bigger?

Has any one else had this thought??

xxxx "

Why do you call yourself Barbie Girl if you are size 14+ and you have no self confidence? Get out there and have fun, all sizes for all people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love curves

That is all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you can do hun is be honest with the info on your profile if peeps are interested in you they will get in touch if they don't then so be it! Life is to short to worry about what others think of your size...

I am happy with myself/how I look I don't give a flying f..k if someone thinks I'm too fat/thin/old/young. As they say different strokes for different folks... so why worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's all about confidence and loving yourself, i am a size 16/18, my ex husband constantly put me down due to my weight, so am now relishing and enjoying the guys who think i am sexy as hell! still not 100% confident in myself but getting better"

well you have gained 1 new admirer in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, my old dad always said, "Son, if you're gotta have one, you might as well have a biggun' "

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By *erkshireMan123Man
over a year ago

Devizes

curves every time.. ive never been into "stick women".

curves rock, bring them on ladies

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By *in4sumMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I love curvy women

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

If I find someone sexy I don't lift their collar to check their dress size

...... I might have a sneaky peep at their bra label the next morning tho

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

Ultimately the most important thing is the personality and the chemistry between the people involved.

I have my own personal preferences but have had meets with people outside of my stated 'likes' because I've liked the person, and found them attractive.

Swinging comes in many shapes and sizes. And they're all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been so confident in my size as I am now. Yes there are things that I don't like, my tummy for one, but I am happy with my curves. It really is about confidence and if you feel in yourself that you look good, then that will be projected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say i love the bigger lady. theres just something there that makes me go wow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I find someone sexy I don't lift their collar to check their dress size

...... I might have a sneaky peep at their bra label the next morning tho "

to see if it fits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

curves mmmmmmmmm the bigger the sexier xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi you are the same size as me and i have no probs what so ever xxx

Enjoy xxx "

same here, same size as me and i never had any problems when meeting, certainly never had any complaints

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"Hi you are the same size as me and i have no probs what so ever xxx

Enjoy xxx "

well if you are then those pics on yr profile must be old

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

well im an 18 or though they are a bit big now but not quite a 16 and i love myself. The biggest i was was a size 28 so im very tiny compared to then. Although very large compared to a size 8 or 10 person. I get the same amount of messages whatever size i have been. Although i have never called myself a bbw or curvey on my profile i find the messages i get now tend to say they like curvy women as apposed to the ones that used to say they liked bbws. Whatever size you are you are going to attract people that like that size person. If someone likes very large bbws then they are not going to be attracted to a size 10 person and vise versa. Just be happy and confident with the person you are. If your not happy and confident then only you can change it and noone else. No matter how much someone tells you you are gorgeous you have to believe it yourself

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By *ubbliciousWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I am what you would call a typical BBW. Tall, very voluptuous at a size 22ish but extremely confident. Yes I have body issues from time to time, but doesn't every woman? I know a girl who is absolutely beautiful-tall, slender and graceful looking, but she hates her 'little tits' and being so tall, whereas I'd love an extra inch or two in height!

My profile states I am curvy. Originally it said large but my fella got me to change it, as he doesn't see a big girl when he looks at me, but a curvy queen! As many have already said it is all about the confidence. You will find a whole heap of men on here who like a little extra meat on their women, and as someone I think said, there is someone for everyone. I love it when someone enjoys my body; I'm too busy having fun to worry about what's wobbling or how the guy or girl sees me...after all if he/she had a problem with my size he/she wouldn't have met me in the first place.

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By *ever been kissedMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

gotta luv those humps...

those humps..

those lovely lady bumps

Big girls need loving too (",)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone likes very large bbws then they are not going to be attracted to a size 10 person and vise versa. "

Totally disagree. The mother of my ex-husband's sons was a size 10, I was a size 24 when we met and married. My OH's ex-wife is slim, I'm not.

Playmates I've met here and other sites, going by their photos I'm the biggest they've played with.

Some men only date blondes, others really petite women, but some men just like women, don't have a type per se, more looking for someone with a similar attitude to sex.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"If someone likes very large bbws then they are not going to be attracted to a size 10 person and vise versa.

Totally disagree. The mother of my ex-husband's sons was a size 10, I was a size 24 when we met and married. My OH's ex-wife is slim, I'm not.

Playmates I've met here and other sites, going by their photos I'm the biggest they've played with.

Some men only date blondes, others really petite women, but some men just like women, don't have a type per se, more looking for someone with a similar attitude to sex. "

actually thinking about it i do agree with you cause jays ex wife was 5ft 6 and a size 10. What i think i ment was someone who has looking for bbws on there profile are more than likely not going to message a size 10. Well i know what i mean anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi i'm a size 16-18 and have been bigger and like many say it's how you feel in yourself? although i do ok and not had any complaints (but then would they?) i would like to be smaller maybe size 14-16 not that i would change i would still want to dress up in sexy outfits for our club visits and meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 isn't big. A couple of my exes are 14's and I loved their curves.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I am 6ft and a size 20 and I have wobbly bits.. I maybe the right size for 1 person and to big for another person.. However I am just me...

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am tall with a nice bum. My legs and thighs are ok but my arms are really slim and I am a bit self conscious with my belly at moment

But I am still me though my size has made me not so chatty

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

was watching the prince and the showgirl yesterday and marilyn must have been a size 12-14 when that was made and she looked fabulous! I may look in the mirror and wish my tummy was smaller but i never let it interfere with how desireable i feel! Plenty of men i fancy the pants off think i'm gorgeous so i must be!

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By *esmond70Man
over a year ago

tavistock


"Hi you lovely swinging people.

I'm wondering how many of you like a girl with extra weight?

Im a size 14/16, and a bit of a belly.

Im not bothered by it, although I worry that i might miss out on a great night if he/she has a problem with bigger girls.

Or are there people here who look for a woman like me or bigger?

Has any one else had this thought?? all ladies are lovely and the larger ladies are great x x

xxxx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5'2" and size 18. Never have issues with attention on here. It really does come down to how confident you feel. You have to take a leap of faith that if you have been truthful in your profile that the guys contacting you really do want what you are offering.

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By *tephanieandjohnCouple
over a year ago

telford

just wait and see hun, put a pic up on your profile like my stephs, have a look, xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just wait and see hun, put a pic up on your profile like my stephs, have a look, xx

"

can you turn the light on and take another pic please lol

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"I am 6ft and a size 20 and I have wobbly bits.. I maybe the right size for 1 person and to big for another person.. However I am just me... "

6ft and a size 20! Damn, that's an Amazonian beauty to me. Seen your profile and I think you are very very alluring indeed.

Think it's a shame that soo many women who are absolutely gorgeous feel anything but that due to what society thinks is beautiful..

Such a shame..

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a size 20-22 never no problems with meets

x

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

Mmmmm I can see why Jacqs!

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