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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

interesting evening tonight.

i was planning a nice relaxing night, had msn on and have had a couple of couples contact me for last minute meets, like right now. which requires me getting up, having a shower and travelling.

bearing in mind they have been quite rude before when i have tried to strike up some sort of rapport, they expected me to be grateful for the opportunity and come running.

us single men have lives too, and sometimes we also like to make friends and think swinging is often more satisfying than a bit of wham bang thank you mam.

rant over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you feel better for the rant........... but were you not tempted just a little bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But.... are you going??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

nope, i am sitting in my pants watching tv.

to be honest, i would usually have no problem with it, except for the very arrogant way it was done- like i should be grateful for a late night last minute arrangement.

blimey, think i might be growing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope, i am sitting in my pants watching tv.

to be honest, i would usually have no problem with it, except for the very arrogant way it was done- like i should be grateful for a late night last minute arrangement.

blimey, think i might be growing up"

No u just ave self respect and standards thats all, nowt wrong with saying no

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By *isterPepperMan
over a year ago

Central Swindon


"But.... are you going?? "
Of course he's going. So they may be treating him like a piece of meat, but he can live with that... Right? Piece of tender Sirloin Steak going here if anyone wants it. No mutton chops, but can provide porking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But.... are you going??

Of course he's going. So they may be treating him like a piece of meat, but he can live with that... Right?

Piece of tender Sirloin Steak going here if anyone wants it. No mutton chops, but can provide porking."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you, feel better now. and as hot as the are, how could they possibly compete with sitting in your pants and some lovely home made ice cream?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope, i am sitting in my pants watching tv.

to be honest, i would usually have no problem with it, except for the very arrogant way it was done- like i should be grateful for a late night last minute arrangement.

blimey, think i might be growing up"

You know what.... I respect this lol.

Top Fella

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By *isterPepperMan
over a year ago

Central Swindon


"thank you, feel better now. and as hot as the are, how could they possibly compete with sitting in your pants and some lovely home made ice cream? "
Aah, why didn't you mention the ice cream? I understand now, that's good shiz. I'm about to settle down with spaghetti hoops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"interesting evening tonight.

i was planning a nice relaxing night, had msn on and have had a couple of couples contact me for last minute meets, like right now. which requires me getting up, having a shower and travelling.

bearing in mind they have been quite rude before when i have tried to strike up some sort of rapport, they expected me to be grateful for the opportunity and come running.

us single men have lives too, and sometimes we also like to make friends and think swinging is often more satisfying than a bit of wham bang thank you mam.

rant over lol"

amen brother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thank you, feel better now. and as hot as the are, how could they possibly compete with sitting in your pants and some lovely home made ice cream? "

share the ice cream then . dont be so selfish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

plenty to go round, and i can even take requests to make your favourite. m house is purely an underwear only establishment tonight though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"plenty to go round, and i can even take requests to make your favourite. m house is purely an underwear only establishment tonight though"

dam...i dont wear underwear

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london


"nope, i am sitting in my pants watching tv.

to be honest, i would usually have no problem with it, except for the very arrogant way it was done- like i should be grateful for a late night last minute arrangement.

blimey, think i might be growing up

You know what.... I respect this lol.

Top Fella "

DITO!

So many rants but this is a side often ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good for you chopperlo........personally i would go tell them to take a hike lmao....... one chance and one chance only...... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"plenty to go round, and i can even take requests to make your favourite. m house is purely an underwear only establishment tonight though"

A real rich vanilla ice-cream for me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

good choice, i make mine with proper vanilla pods- so nice.

sorry all, not usually the ranting type, was just incredible it happened twice in one night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"good choice, i make mine with proper vanilla pods- so nice.

sorry all, not usually the ranting type, was just incredible it happened twice in one night "

Home made ice-cream even better!! A man with hidden talents (well this one was lol)........

TWICE in one night..... well you must be doing something right, as your in demand......... but fair play to you for feeling and sticking to what you believe in.......... seems to me that some single guys who aren't into wam bam thank you mam, have the same issues that single women can too!! (and couples?)

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"interesting evening tonight.

i was planning a nice relaxing night, had msn on and have had a couple of couples contact me for last minute meets, like right now. which requires me getting up, having a shower and travelling.

bearing in mind they have been quite rude before when i have tried to strike up some sort of rapport, they expected me to be grateful for the opportunity and come running.

us single men have lives too, and sometimes we also like to make friends and think swinging is often more satisfying than a bit of wham bang thank you mam.

rant over lol"

One word comes to mind...."Fukkum".

It's nice to see that there are some singlies out there with morals and standards!

Too often there are posts on here running single males down, good to see a positive thread for once!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ah we all hav hidden talents, some better hidden than others.

quite right, we all face similar issues regardless of our status or sex i guess.

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

home made ice cream ...i'll be round in a sec! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"home made ice cream ...i'll be round in a sec! lol "

blimey, being so local you could be here any minute. had better hoover up and put some clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"home made ice cream ...i'll be round in a sec! lol

blimey, being so local you could be here any minute. had better hoover up and put some clothes on"

Thought you said it was only underwear in your house tonight........... lol!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"home made ice cream ...i'll be round in a sec! lol

blimey, being so local you could be here any minute. had better hoover up and put some clothes on

Thought you said it was only underwear in your house tonight........... lol!!"

yep, for everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done sir!

The fact is there are decent guys around, and we deserve the same amount of respect as we're always saying the ladies deserve.

The problem, imho, is that not enough ladies and couples are prepared to put a bit of effort into finding the decent ones, too many would rather sit back and moan about all the eejits!!

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"home made ice cream ...i'll be round in a sec! lol

blimey, being so local you could be here any minute. had better hoover up and put some clothes on

Thought you said it was only underwear in your house tonight........... lol!!"

yep, dont get dressed on my behalf lol

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"home made ice cream ...i'll be round in a sec! lol

blimey, being so local you could be here any minute. had better hoover up and put some clothes on

Thought you said it was only underwear in your house tonight........... lol!!

yep, dont get dressed on my behalf lol"

Don't let the bugger turn you down Sprite! Fuck his morals, just turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well done sir!

The fact is there are decent guys around, and we deserve the same amount of respect as we're always saying the ladies deserve.

The problem, imho, is that not enough ladies and couples are prepared to put a bit of effort into finding the decent ones, too many would rather sit back and moan about all the eejits!!"

That's pretty much how I feel as well mate. The whole 'wam bam' stuff got old pretty fast and now if I get a random wink or friend invite from a couple or individual I don't know with their profile listed as 'available tonight' I just can't be arsed.

I don't even know their names, what they sound like etc etc. No point if they can't even be bothered to at least write an informative email

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rudeness is rudeness ..

exists in males, females and couples.

you did what felt right to you

well done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know single guys get a hard time on the swinging scene but really guys you are NOT alone.......I have had TWO short notice cancellations for meets recently from single men.....one even suggested that I could find someone else...doh!!! He may do short notice but I certainly don't....respect works both ways guys....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry, i didnt want to start a debate about how different groups are treated in the scene.

i was just commenting on the arrogant way in which i was treated one evening thats all. i have been lucky enough to meet some wonderful people, some of which are now friends so these positives far outweigh the negatives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wot i cant understand , is that if they dont treat u nice ,, then why do you have them on msn ?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i didnt, i deleted them after the last episode but i failed to block them so they were still able to contact me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good on ya

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton


"plenty to go round, and i can even take requests to make your favourite. m house is purely an underwear only establishment tonight though

A real rich vanilla ice-cream for me!"

Lol, good choice. I always get laughed at when I say my favourite ice cream flavour is vanilla....

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton

BUT SHE LIKES REALLY DIRRRRTYYYYY SEX LOL

MR C

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton

Sorry about the caps lol

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