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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I prefer first meet to be social somewhere public but after that if I like them and a connection i don’t mind inviting to mine if they can’t accommodate (would prefer to alternate!)

So I’m interested to know how much effort you make. Of course the usual tidying and cleaning but do you buy drinks and snacks you wouldn’t normally just in case they want them?

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"I prefer first meet to be social somewhere public but after that if I like them and a connection i don’t mind inviting to mine if they can’t accommodate (would prefer to alternate!)

So I’m interested to know how much effort you make. Of course the usual tidying and cleaning but do you buy drinks and snacks you wouldn’t normally just in case they want them? "

If I was welcoming a gentleman to my den I think providing sambuca and chocolate mousse for sustenance and entertainment as both can be licked from skin. A win win for all involved

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No i dont. Plenty of water and obviously tea coffee and soft drinks. I will feed them if they are staying over but thats rare.

I didnt realize providing all these snacks and cooking for them was such a big thing till i read a thread the other day

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"I prefer first meet to be social somewhere public but after that if I like them and a connection i don’t mind inviting to mine if they can’t accommodate (would prefer to alternate!)

So I’m interested to know how much effort you make. Of course the usual tidying and cleaning but do you buy drinks and snacks you wouldn’t normally just in case they want them? "

I always get drinks and a mixture of snacks at the very least, the snacks can last a few days the drink well that depends. Also a little something for them too and that is normaly well received.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg you have to feed them? I'm doing it all wrong

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Omg you have to feed them? I'm doing it all wrong "
so am I

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No i dont. Plenty of water and obviously tea coffee and soft drinks. I will feed them if they are staying over but thats rare.

I didnt realize providing all these snacks and cooking for them was such a big thing till i read a thread the other day"

I don’t cook for them but it’s still effort I wouldn’t normally go to as I only drink water occasionally tea or coffee but it’s hot. So often get things in that I wouldn’t buy usually to be a good host

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Omg you have to feed them? I'm doing it all wrong "

We can last longer with a few calories... so feed the animals

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer first meet to be social somewhere public but after that if I like them and a connection i don’t mind inviting to mine if they can’t accommodate (would prefer to alternate!)

So I’m interested to know how much effort you make. Of course the usual tidying and cleaning but do you buy drinks and snacks you wouldn’t normally just in case they want them?

I always get drinks and a mixture of snacks at the very least, the snacks can last a few days the drink well that depends. Also a little something for them too and that is normaly well received. "

Ooo you charmer! I’m clearly meeting the wrong guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Omg you have to feed them? I'm doing it all wrong

We can last longer with a few calories... so feed the animals "

Lol very true

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London

Ladies, you look good enough to eat. I wouldn't need snacks!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends. We like to involve a certain amount of role play and serving drinks and snacks or even dinner could be involved.

an evening with a forfeits board game and a bottle of wine can be fun and food with drink is sensible

We've been to people's houses for dinner too.

As with everything it's up to the individual

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It depends on how long they are going to stay. I'd make a bit of an effort - a particular type of beer or coffee for example. You're kind of hosting aren't you? I'd try and rein it in a bit but I like feeding people.

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By *bwplaydateMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

I tend to cook either a roast dinner or invite a few people round from master chef the professionals to cook desert if my meet looks too skinny

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't go overboard but it's good to have some decent drinks and snacks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends on how long they are going to stay. I'd make a bit of an effort - a particular type of beer or coffee for example. You're kind of hosting aren't you? I'd try and rein it in a bit but I like feeding people."

I guess I’m always finding people who don’t or won’t host pees me off

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

If you're hosting of course you look after your guests but by the same token if we're invited to someone else's home it is common courtesy to take them a bottle.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"It depends on how long they are going to stay. I'd make a bit of an effort - a particular type of beer or coffee for example. You're kind of hosting aren't you? I'd try and rein it in a bit but I like feeding people.

I guess I’m always finding people who don’t or won’t host pees me off "

Take your own snacks in your bag! I always carry a flapjack with me and an apple. Meh, people have different ways to 'do' fab. You need to find those that match your way!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're hosting of course you look after your guests but by the same token if we're invited to someone else's home it is common courtesy to take them a bottle."

I guess as i mentioned above i dont really want to host but I can accommodate, and most often the guys I’m attracted to can’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg you have to feed them? I'm doing it all wrong

We can last longer with a few calories... so feed the animals "

I'm suddenly thinking about putting out nibbles

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

I was once made poached eggs and fresh salmon on toast, before going back upstairs for round two. It definitely helped the stamina and produce the jets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was once made poached eggs and fresh salmon on toast, before going back upstairs for round two. It definitely helped the stamina and produce the jets "

Well tiger you were spoilt

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We offer them a drink before sex and afterwards too if they need one but that's it!

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We ordered egg and chips while we were in Chams!

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"I was once made poached eggs and fresh salmon on toast, before going back upstairs for round two. It definitely helped the stamina and produce the jets

Well tiger you were spoilt "

I was and I put one hell of a shift in and produced all mighty jets as a thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was once made poached eggs and fresh salmon on toast, before going back upstairs for round two. It definitely helped the stamina and produce the jets

Well tiger you were spoilt

I was and I put one hell of a shift in and produced all mighty jets as a thank you "

I fancy this now! Eggs and salmon that is! although you do have a spankable nibbly arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arrive in a suit

Is that not enough

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Hubbys going in shorts & t shirt tonight, I of course will look stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact a guy is coming to my home to have sex with my wife should be reward enough. Fucked if I'm going to feed them as well!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I arrive in a suit

Is that not enough "

Oooo if it fits you like David Beckhams fits him, you’re more than enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer first meet to be social somewhere public but after that if I like them and a connection i don’t mind inviting to mine if they can’t accommodate (would prefer to alternate!)

So I’m interested to know how much effort you make. Of course the usual tidying and cleaning but do you buy drinks and snacks you wouldn’t normally just in case they want them? "

I provide me wrapped up in basque, stockings and heels

And maybe a drink

MrsK x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't host anyone on here. However if I did, I'd do drinks but not food. They should be happy just to be having my company

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't accommodate but if I did I'd be happy to provide drinks, they could of course nibble all they like on me

If I'm going to someone's it obviously depends what time of day it is but I don't like to turn up empty handed

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes I always ask what they drink and buy it in if I don't already have it, I also buy snacks but I often forget that I have them in the fridge until after they have left

Sometimes I will even order a takeaway, I suppose I like the date experience

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By *vy_GreenWoman
over a year ago

Soham


"Omg you have to feed them? I'm doing it all wrong "

Only if you keep them chained to the bed for longer than a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg you have to feed them? I'm doing it all wrong

Only if you keep them chained to the bed for longer than a day."

Brilliant! Still must remember to go shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg you have to feed them? I'm doing it all wrong

We can last longer with a few calories... so feed the animals "

Maybe that’s where I’ve been going wrong

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Food is the last thing on my mind if I’m meeting....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to cook either a roast dinner or invite a few people round from master chef the professionals to cook desert if my meet looks too skinny"

Some of our guests have enjoyed the roast we have put on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't host anyone on here. However if I did, I'd do drinks but not food. They should be happy just to be having my company "

Have you ever had verification's bemoaning the lack of nibbles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello I am looking for meet up with ladies and couples I am a straight we could have a good funs

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"I was once made poached eggs and fresh salmon on toast, before going back upstairs for round two. It definitely helped the stamina and produce the jets

Well tiger you were spoilt

I was and I put one hell of a shift in and produced all mighty jets as a thank you

I fancy this now! Eggs and salmon that is! although you do have a spankable nibbly arse "

Haha...It beats half time oranges, both that is oh P.S. I like both

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By *uicyBBW71Woman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Omg you have to feed them? I'm doing it all wrong so am I"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Food is the last thing on my mind if I’m meeting...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer first meet to be social somewhere public but after that if I like them and a connection i don’t mind inviting to mine if they can’t accommodate (would prefer to alternate!)

So I’m interested to know how much effort you make. Of course the usual tidying and cleaning but do you buy drinks and snacks you wouldn’t normally just in case they want them? "

I always put a clean(ish) t shirt on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer first meet to be social somewhere public but after that if I like them and a connection i don’t mind inviting to mine if they can’t accommodate (would prefer to alternate!)

So I’m interested to know how much effort you make. Of course the usual tidying and cleaning but do you buy drinks and snacks you wouldn’t normally just in case they want them?

I always put a clean(ish) t shirt on"

Ewwww

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By *adcat1961Woman
over a year ago

colchester

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By *adcat1961Woman
over a year ago

colchester

What thay want food as well as sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't host anyone on here. However if I did, I'd do drinks but not food. They should be happy just to be having my company

Have you ever had verification's bemoaning the lack of nibbles? "

Not so far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We treat all our guests the same whether vanilla or swinging. Wine, beer etc. We’ve had many a guy over for dinner at our house. In fact the only difference in the way we treat our friends is that we don’t shag our vanilla friends!

Mrs

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By *eviationMan
over a year ago

Brynamman

I always pay at the social coffee tea booze and food too lol

Is it old fashioned or being a gent ? I just do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to my circumstances, I am rarely able to accommodate - and when I do, it is only for quick encounters. I'll offer them a glass of water/diet soda/milk which I usually have in the fridge anyway, but that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg you have to feed them? I'm doing it all wrong so am I

Me too"

And me. I don't plan them to be there so long that they need feeding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was invited over early I de even off to cook

Nice way of braking Ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg you have to feed them? I'm doing it all wrong "

Same here! Nobody has complained yet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer first meet to be social somewhere public but after that if I like them and a connection i don’t mind inviting to mine if they can’t accommodate (would prefer to alternate!)

So I’m interested to know how much effort you make. Of course the usual tidying and cleaning but do you buy drinks and snacks you wouldn’t normally just in case they want them? "
omg yes and lunch for long sessions cmon civilised here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pick the clothes up off of my bedroom floor and spray a bit of Febreze around. Only my long term partner comes to me and he doesn't expect a spring clean before he turns up, thankfully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We treat all our guests the same whether vanilla or swinging. Wine, beer etc. We’ve had many a guy over for dinner at our house. In fact the only difference in the way we treat our friends is that we don’t shag our vanilla friends!

Mrs"

I’m the same, I treat it the same. I enjoy the social aspect as much as the intimate stuff. I’ve cooked for a few and I definitely always have drinks available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way do we accommodate any fabbers. Our life at home is kept totally apart from our "hobby". It's hotel or apartment only for us with costs split. Then our guests can go halves with drinks and nibbles

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By *issminxandmrcCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

Clean tidy home(as usual) Clean fresh bedding(with 2/3 clean fresh bath sheets to lay on and a couple of hand towels (for sweat !! lol)

A large glass of Iced water at each side of the bed!!!

Yankee Candles and Smooth Radio on (in the background)

Aromatherapy Oil for a relaxing back neck & shoulder massage after

Fruit platter to eat in between/after soooo refreshing!!!

Offer coffee/latte etc or a cold drink when they arrive

Make sure they're OK with Dogs(mine are fussy)If not,move them to any room or put them in the garden,until they have left x

Offer a shower!!

Light Lunch if they're hungry

Always like to clean them after with wetwipes and a towel(my meets love this touch and find it very loving (like a GF meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clean tidy home(as usual) Clean fresh bedding(with 2/3 clean fresh bath sheets to lay on and a couple of hand towels (for sweat !! lol)

A large glass of Iced water at each side of the bed!!!

Yankee Candles and Smooth Radio on (in the background)

Aromatherapy Oil for a relaxing back neck & shoulder massage after

Fruit platter to eat in between/after soooo refreshing!!!

Offer coffee/latte etc or a cold drink when they arrive

Make sure they're OK with Dogs(mine are fussy)If not,move them to any room or put them in the garden,until they have left x

Offer a shower!!

Light Lunch if they're hungry

Always like to clean them after with wetwipes and a towel(my meets love this touch and find it very loving (like a GF meet x "
omg this is perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As im one of those who can't accommodate.

I always offer to pay my way if we meet at a hotel and buy drinks and munchies too

I also do the same of being invited over to my friends house for fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clean tidy home(as usual) Clean fresh bedding(with 2/3 clean fresh bath sheets to lay on and a couple of hand towels (for sweat !! lol)

A large glass of Iced water at each side of the bed!!!

Yankee Candles and Smooth Radio on (in the background)

Aromatherapy Oil for a relaxing back neck & shoulder massage after

Fruit platter to eat in between/after soooo refreshing!!!

Offer coffee/latte etc or a cold drink when they arrive

Make sure they're OK with Dogs(mine are fussy)If not,move them to any room or put them in the garden,until they have left x

Offer a shower!!

Light Lunch if they're hungry

Always like to clean them after with wetwipes and a towel(my meets love this touch and find it very loving (like a GF meet x "

This is a similar thing I do except the lunch unless they are true friends and i don’t have dogs. To be honest I’m getting fed up of making the effort from now on I don’t think I will accommodate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on how long they are going to stay. I'd make a bit of an effort - a particular type of beer or coffee for example. You're kind of hosting aren't you? I'd try and rein it in a bit but I like feeding people.

I guess I’m always finding people who don’t or won’t host pees me off

Take your own snacks in your bag! I always carry a flapjack with me and an apple. Meh, people have different ways to 'do' fab. You need to find those that match your way!"

Flapjack and a apple, love it

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