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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it about an older woman that just mmmmmmm really does it for you.

As a teenager I always had a thing for the older woman and had a wank over the thought of many a m8s mum. As a young man I was attracted to and tried to tap (with a decent succsess rate) a good few older women. At 36 I still find the older woman a huge turn on and find nothing sexier than seing a woman in her mid to late forties or even early fifties who carries her self really well and oooozies sex appeal.

Weres all the milfs and cougers at then???????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol im here..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol im here.."

Oooooow hell yes

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

At the moment I'm in my jammies about to get ready for a day of revision, but I'll be having a bath later if that helps!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At the moment I'm in my jammies about to get ready for a day of revision, but I'll be having a bath later if that helps!"

hahaha ern no luv it dont help at all really as I have not posted this topic to wank off over the replies lol I aint perverted sweetheart.

Any milfs out there who like the idea of being looked at as they walk through the city centre into the office or board the train etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i hate the expressions milfs and cougers, if a guy messages me with either of these words i just instantly know we never going to meet lol

however i think lots of younger guys like older women simple because of their experience, as you get older you loose you inhibitions, learn about yourself sexually and arnt afriad to go for it, where as a lot of younger girls just accept whats offered and offen walk away dissopointed because they to shy to ask for what they like

i also think a lot of young guys want older women to learn off so they better for the younger women

so tho i dont look as good as i did when i was 18 i know im a lot better in the sack lol to to lots thats a turn on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally i hate the expressions milfs and cougers, if a guy messages me with either of these words i just instantly know we never going to meet lol

however i think lots of younger guys like older women simple because of their experience, as you get older you loose you inhibitions, learn about yourself sexually and arnt afriad to go for it, where as a lot of younger girls just accept whats offered and offen walk away dissopointed because they to shy to ask for what they like

i also think a lot of young guys want older women to learn off so they better for the younger women

so tho i dont look as good as i did when i was 18 i know im a lot better in the sack lol to to lots thats a turn on"

You look abit of alrighty to me woman lol and I deffo dont need you to teach me anything as I could match you round for round in the sack hahaha. Good points tho I no exactly what you mean. Besides most young girls arnt sure what they want are they. At least with an older woman if they want it they will let you no it and probarbly take you to bed and almost shag you to death, for a yound guy that can be a huge turn on lol I no it was for me as a young guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im sure i couldnt teach you anything but then i wouldnt class you as a younger guy

i was more on about guys in their early 20s not someone 1 year younger than me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im sure i couldnt teach you anything but then i wouldnt class you as a younger guy

i was more on about guys in their early 20s not someone 1 year younger than me lol"

Thanx well im sure I could deffo teach you a thing or two hun hmmmm I maybe start with a sense of humour tho first haha x

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By *ours BlancMan
over a year ago

east mids


"im sure i couldnt teach you anything but then i wouldnt class you as a younger guy

i was more on about guys in their early 20s not someone 1 year younger than me lol"

haha just stumbled across this thread and ive seen this lady in action! and i can honestly say the confident cheeky sort of fella i am! i just sat with a smile on face and gazed on didnt dare do anything else lol ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the more sultry yet mature lady is a cougar, what is the name for the male type? If the youngsters are chasing them, does that mean they are cubs?? Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the more sultry yet mature lady is a cougar, what is the name for the male type? If the youngsters are chasing them, does that mean they are cubs?? Just a thought."

Cubs lol dont no about that hun as a young lad I was just a naughty little get with a great cheekiness and tons of confidence lol aint changed much at all just got older thats all and aint a young lad any more haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it I'm too old for cougars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I am too old to be a milf - so I guess that makes me a cougar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I take it I'm too old for cougars "

I wonder what the young female population would call us m8 I mean we aint sugar daddies are we lol and not dirty old men either are we lol I hope not anyhow as I shower twice a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I am too old to be a milf - so I guess that makes me a cougar. "

mmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it I'm too old for cougars "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it I'm too old for cougars

"

woohoo I'm in your age range

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had a real crush on my English teacher at school she was probarbly early 30s at the time and was stunning. I seen her about 5 years ago with her husband and she still looked fit as fook.

she had probarbly no idea who I was or that I was even there untill the ladder gave way and I almost broke mi back on the the lawn hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im must agree, being a young lad myself there is nothing better than a beautiful older women !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im must agree, being a young lad myself there is nothing better than a beautiful older women !! "

They are the best m8 lol make the most of it while you can as when you get abit older then so too do the older women lol but your all stunners really arnt ya girls bingo wings n all haha

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By *ohn_d57Man
over a year ago

Bedlington


"lol im here..

Oooooow hell yes "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooo confused

Sits in the corner twiddeling her curlers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think i qaulify ..im a granny

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By *ong_legs2Couple
over a year ago

essex

we love 'em! x

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By *lirty and fun maleMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Can't beat the older lady, there fantastic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am i too young then....;-) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it I'm too old for cougars

woohoo I'm in your age range "

You certainly are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any sexy older women like to chat to a young la, feel free to message me :D xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im must agree, being a young lad myself there is nothing better than a beautiful older women !! "

good job you think that cause at your age all women are older lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it I'm too old for cougars

woohoo I'm in your age range

You certainly are "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think theres lots on fab its just looking and seeing if you click. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my men 28-32, just enough experience and plenty of stamina. Of course there are exceptions either side !!

My regular FWB is 30 which proves my point

But, apart from the sex, I can't see in a million years why guys would want a saggier/wrinklier woman than a firm,toned,fresh faced one their own age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like my men 28-32, just enough experience and plenty of stamina. Of course there are exceptions either side !!

My regular FWB is 30 which proves my point

But, apart from the sex, I can't see in a million years why guys would want a saggier/wrinklier woman than a firm,toned,fresh faced one their own age.

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when i get saggie or wrinklie i am having work done .... yes alot may not wish it ...... but i will have everything over the years as thing go down hill . So far not had it but there will be no stopping me .. I cant get over how some woman look years younger with nips and tucks .. and lifts .

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

no there called hamsters lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it, I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no there called hamsters lol"
Thats a new one on me , lol

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

and what makes you think older women are wrinkly and saggy,oh the youth of today lol

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

hamsters i made it up,but have you ever seen a hamster on a wheel,he just keeps going and going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do it, I did"
When my time comes to do this i will .Some will say why be vain why not do other things but i have always know this will be me one day. My mum looks 40/50 and 70 she has had work but not loads. she had nothing untill 57 .. as good skin and fit body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and what makes you think older women are wrinkly and saggy,oh the youth of today lol"
well its on offer so why not when you need it , lol And not all older are wrinkly and saggy i never said thay was . lol some age better then others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like my men 28-32, just enough experience and plenty of stamina. Of course there are exceptions either side !!

My regular FWB is 30 which proves my point

But, apart from the sex, I can't see in a million years why guys would want a saggier/wrinklier woman than a firm,toned,fresh faced one their own age.

when i get saggie or wrinklie i am having work done .... yes alot may not wish it ...... but i will have everything over the years as thing go down hill . So far not had it but there will be no stopping me .. I cant get over how some woman look years younger with nips and tucks .. and lifts . "

and some women look like monsters too ..if you are going to have surgery do it with grace ,dont get carried away

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

my friends just had fillers and botox looks amazing but she cant smile,therefore no bjs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like my men 28-32, just enough experience and plenty of stamina. Of course there are exceptions either side !!

My regular FWB is 30 which proves my point

But, apart from the sex, I can't see in a million years why guys would want a saggier/wrinklier woman than a firm,toned,fresh faced one their own age.

when i get saggie or wrinklie i am having work done .... yes alot may not wish it ...... but i will have everything over the years as thing go down hill . So far not had it but there will be no stopping me .. I cant get over how some woman look years younger with nips and tucks .. and lifts .

and some women look like monsters too ..if you are going to have surgery do it with grace ,dont get carried away "
when i do .. be 10 years i hope before I will go make sure its one of the best .. as have read some storys about things going wronge xx

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

ask around and make sure its very well verified,my friend was going to the nail salon and they offered to do it!!!!

anyway she then found someone who specialised,they were realy good because they talked her out of what she thought she needed,and told her what she realy needed,they were right she looks great and realy natural.im tempted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The plastic surgeon who did my 'body work' does my fillers

He's genius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if you are looking for milfs/cougars, given your age, does that mean you are looking for someone old enough to be your grandmother or great grandmother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you are looking for milfs/cougars, given your age, does that mean you are looking for someone old enough to be your grandmother or great grandmother "
well alot i could be there mum , lol xx

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

at what age does a woman become a milf/cougar and at what age can a man stop dreaming about meeting one?

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

But of course, the real reason that "most" young men want to meet older women is because they think they have a higher chance of getting a meet! How can these older women turn down some toned man flesh?

That also goes for other types of women as well. We used to meet guys and if you engage them in conversation, it is easy to get the truth from them.

Of course, I am not suggesting that anyone on Fab is like that, God forbid! All the guys on here who meet older, larger or perhaps les aesthetically pleasing women are really into them. Just like the guy who came round to our house at short notice. One of his comments to us as he arrived was… “What a stroke of luck seeing your meet today! I was supposed to meet a really gorgeous girl from *** and she cancelled, but your wife will do, it’s a shag, eh?”

Loved his honesty, but he couldn’t understand why he found himself outside with the door closed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The plastic surgeon who did my 'body work' does my fillers

He's genius

"

i guess im quite lucky not to have needed any "body work " and i actually quite like to be aging disgracefully i look better now than i did when i was 40 and thats the truth ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the label "MILF" extremely unattractive.

I'll behave and not go into one of my usual rants about the terminology

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I find the label "MILF" extremely unattractive.

I'll behave and not go into one of my usual rants about the terminology "

does that mean you prefer cougar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me an old cynic, but speaking as a bloke who was "young" once, but most young guys like older women because they are easier to pull.

Some older ladies feel "honoured" by the attention from younger guys.

I know my comment might infuriate some of you on here, but cast your mind back to "Grab a Granny" night down your local club, then come and tell me I'm talking bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me an old cynic, but speaking as a bloke who was "young" once, but most young guys like older women because they are easier to pull.

Some older ladies feel "honoured" by the attention from younger guys.

I know my comment might infuriate some of you on here, but cast your mind back to "Grab a Granny" night down your local club, then come and tell me I'm talking bollocks"
well i am no granny , lol and i get over 100 letters a day alot of days here i am very very picky xx and had one or two i have meet even asked me to run away with them god how would that look , lol to my family , lolol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok lets put this into perspective..back in the day as you like to put it,it was very rare to know any older women with younger men,but very common the other way round...now the tables have turned and older women are choosing what they like..the problem is a lot of middle aged men cant accept this.

why shouldent an older woman who looks after herself,and a lot of the time much better than a man does choose exactly what she wants without the implications that you imply.

I wonder if it were the other way round would it be called grab a grandad ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Call me an old cynic, but speaking as a bloke who was "young" once, but most young guys like older women because they are easier to pull.

Some older ladies feel "honoured" by the attention from younger guys.

I know my comment might infuriate some of you on here, but cast your mind back to "Grab a Granny" night down your local club, then come and tell me I'm talking bollocks"

Brave man lol funny tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me an old cynic, but speaking as a bloke who was "young" once, but most young guys like older women because they are easier to pull.

Some older ladies feel "honoured" by the attention from younger guys.

I know my comment might infuriate some of you on here, but cast your mind back to "Grab a Granny" night down your local club, then come and tell me I'm talking bollocks

Brave man lol funny tho "
It is true you men have been doing this years and think its good to pull ladys alot younger ... loads of men have done this over the years and thay get called studs , lol never Grandad ... LOL I meet most ages just find i get on with younger men too .

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"ok lets put this into perspective..back in the day as you like to put it,it was very rare to know any older women with younger men,but very common the other way round...now the tables have turned and older women are choosing what they like..the problem is a lot of middle aged men cant accept this.

why shouldent an older woman who looks after herself,and a lot of the time much better than a man does choose exactly what she wants without the implications that you imply.

I wonder if it were the other way round would it be called grab a grandad ???"

Grandad here willing to be grabbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok lets put this into perspective..back in the day as you like to put it,it was very rare to know any older women with younger men,but very common the other way round...now the tables have turned and older women are choosing what they like..the problem is a lot of middle aged men cant accept this.

why shouldent an older woman who looks after herself,and a lot of the time much better than a man does choose exactly what she wants without the implications that you imply.

I wonder if it were the other way round would it be called grab a grandad ???

Grandad here willing to be grabbed "

Granny here willing to grab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok lets put this into perspective..back in the day as you like to put it,it was very rare to know any older women with younger men,but very common the other way round...now the tables have turned and older women are choosing what they like..the problem is a lot of middle aged men cant accept this.

why shouldent an older woman who looks after herself,and a lot of the time much better than a man does choose exactly what she wants without the implications that you imply.

I wonder if it were the other way round would it be called grab a grandad ???"

If this post is a reply to my post, I'd like to make it clear that there is nothing wrong with anyone going out with anyone else.

The OP asked why so many young guys liked older women and my reponse was a reply to that question.

You are right when you say that it used to be quite common for younger ladies to be seen with older guys, but in most cases it was because the guy was well off. They both knew what they were getting from being together. Of course it happened with rich ladies and guys too, but it was nowhere near as common.

On a personal note, I'd love to have a liason with a young lady, but being an ugly old twat, it's a wish that probably wont be fullfilled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LABELS: are OK if the person whats to be 'labelled' in that manner, I just dont treat everyone with the same label, one mans slut is an another mans wife,sister,granny etc etc etc

Problem is when people start thinking they can call anyone the same thing theyd call others....now where is that TRAMP usually found around these forums...I only call her that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i would like more babys myself its just getting john into my way of thinking more woman 40s having babys he say no more school fees , lolol love babys dont get me thinking babys , lol i was thinking dirty sex kinky sex , lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i would like more babys myself its just getting john into my way of thinking more woman 40s having babys he say no more school fees , lolol love babys dont get me thinking babys , lol i was thinking dirty sex kinky sex , lolol "

yep practicing making em is fun enough, whether ya do or don't

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i would like more babys myself its just getting john into my way of thinking more woman 40s having babys he say no more school fees , lolol love babys dont get me thinking babys , lol i was thinking dirty sex kinky sex , lolol "

well Game lets have lotsa sex and make it dirty as hell...as for the baby we could post our pics and have a baby doll sculpted with our looks...

I mean with my looks and ur...er...em...well...

anyway how scary are these:-

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TkuwjTZRYKo

amazing the amounts of women buying them!!!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"ok lets put this into perspective..back in the day as you like to put it,it was very rare to know any older women with younger men,but very common the other way round...now the tables have turned and older women are choosing what they like..the problem is a lot of middle aged men cant accept this.

why shouldent an older woman who looks after herself,and a lot of the time much better than a man does choose exactly what she wants without the implications that you imply.

I wonder if it were the other way round would it be called grab a grandad ???

Grandad here willing to be grabbed

Granny here willing to grab lol "

whats your grid reference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i would like more babys myself its just getting john into my way of thinking more woman 40s having babys he say no more school fees , lolol love babys dont get me thinking babys , lol i was thinking dirty sex kinky sex , lolol

well Game lets have lotsa sex and make it dirty as hell...as for the baby we could post our pics and have a baby doll sculpted with our looks...

I mean with my looks and ur...er...em...well...

anyway how scary are these:-

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TkuwjTZRYKo

amazing the amounts of women buying them!!!

"
I think i will keep to the kinky sex , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger men are often better in bed: It is said that guys reach their sexual peak between the ages of 18 and 25 whereas women tend to reach their sexual peak mostly around ages 35-45. Older men mostly get disinterested or less eager in bed with time whereas younger men are eager and more satisfying in bed.

Do you think its true ?? Well my younger men have been mind blowing in bed ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger guys are more open minded and older women find them a breath of fresh air.

I do find this to be true ..a alot up for new things .. as older men can be set in there ways .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jo, just imagine I'm 27 and I'll shag you twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jo, just imagine I'm 27 and I'll shag you twice

"
lol ok jack i will hold you to that ... two times over how long hours i hope x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jo, just imagine I'm 27 and I'll shag you twice

lol ok jack i will hold you to that ... two times over how long hours i hope x "

Come on now Jo, I never said anything about twice in one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jo, just imagine I'm 27 and I'll shag you twice

lol ok jack i will hold you to that ... two times over how long hours i hope x

Come on now Jo, I never said anything about twice in one day"
ok 3 or 4 i will go on top do the work , lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jo, just imagine I'm 27 and I'll shag you twice

lol ok jack i will hold you to that ... two times over how long hours i hope x

Come on now Jo, I never said anything about twice in one day ok 3 or 4 i will go on top do the work , lol "

Jo im 36 luv and will shag you all night lol and do all the work as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jo, just imagine I'm 27 and I'll shag you twice

lol ok jack i will hold you to that ... two times over how long hours i hope x

Come on now Jo, I never said anything about twice in one day ok 3 or 4 i will go on top do the work , lol

Jo im 36 luv and will shag you all night lol and do all the work as well "

Go on son, warm her up for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have played with a few younger guys, and I have to say that in my experience, they were not better in bed than guys older than me. Whilst they might have stamina, they had minimal oral skills and thought good sex was just banging in and out.

Give me an experienced 50 year old any day. I'd rather have 10 mins of good sex than half an hour of pounding away boring sex.

I find that older men have learnt to read a womans body language and is able to differentiate what she likes and is enjoying by listening to how her body reacts. In my experience younger men don't really care as long as they get their end away.

In relation to why young men like older women, I think its down to confidence. Yes when you hit your 40s you may have wrinkles and all of our bodies will be further south, but I'd honestly prefer that to having my cheeks pinned back behind my ears and have a body full of scars when its been pulled and tightened. Noone can stop the aging process, why try and look like a 30 year old when you could be relishing in your older but experienced, confident and sexy self. Its down to how you perceive yourself, noone can go on chasing youth, its unachievable.

Of course that's not to say that you shouldn't take care of yourself. As you get older you do have to moisturise more, eat healthily and try not to smoke as this will be evident on your skin, and always keep groomed to within an inch of your life. But its naïve to think a surgeon is the key to everlasting youth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Younger men are often better in bed: It is said that guys reach their sexual peak between the ages of 18 and 25 whereas women tend to reach their sexual peak mostly around ages 35-45. Older men mostly get disinterested or less eager in bed with time whereas younger men are eager and more satisfying in bed.

Do you think its true ?? Well my younger men have been mind blowing in bed , "

yes and no

its a fact young guys have more stamina and yes they are more keen and egar to plase but i find a lot are still learning and dont have their technique quite sorted yet

i guess that just comes with age and experience

but my the time they have found it they lave lost their egarness and stamina lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tho i have to add to that i met a 24 year old a while back that was probably the best sex ive had in years

good looking, great body, assertive, good at oral, lots of stamina but knew not to go on to long before going back to the oral WITHOUT being told lol loads of variety

but meets like that are very ew and far between for a guy any age never mind a 24 year old i was well happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"tho i have to add to that i met a 24 year old a while back that was probably the best sex ive had in years

good looking, great body, assertive, good at oral, lots of stamina but knew not to go on to long before going back to the oral WITHOUT being told lol loads of variety

but meets like that are very ew and far between for a guy any age never mind a 24 year old i was well happy "

hmmmm well 4 possible 5 out of 6 there for me aint bad for me there hun lol will let you decide if im good looking or great body or not tho yeah for a full house haha

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By *ild Bill Thickcock.Man
over a year ago

Wet Beaver Creek


"Younger men are often better in bed: It is said that guys reach their sexual peak between the ages of 18 and 25 whereas women tend to reach their sexual peak mostly around ages 35-45. Older men mostly get disinterested or less eager in bed with time whereas younger men are eager and more satisfying in bed.

Do you think its true ?? Well my younger men have been mind blowing in bed ,

yes and no

its a fact young guys have more stamina and yes they are more keen and egar to plase but i find a lot are still learning and dont have their technique quite sorted yet

i guess that just comes with age and experience

but my the time they have found it they lave lost their egarness and stamina lol"

I feel like an artist who's lost his paintbrush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fifty and get a wee bit worried that younger men chat me up lol but that is not to say I haven't been with younger and enjoyed it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive always had mixed feelings about younger guys who approach me

i never see what a 20 odd year old lad sees in some over weight middle aged woman

i do sometimes think are they mailing me because they think i will be easier to meet than some slim 21 year old and i really do think a lot do

which is why as a rule i tend to avoid young gujys

i have met a few, some have been good meets some not so, but its not offen i meet guys under 30

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"ive always had mixed feelings about younger guys who approach me

i do sometimes think are they mailing me because they think i will be easier to meet than some slim 21 year old and i really do think a lot do

which is why as a rule i tend to avoid young guys"

I'm totally with you there! I am a born cynic though and always wonder why a 21 year old would want to meet me....

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Well we only meet younger guys so I guess some would call me that although mist don't seem bothered about wanting older...just like me. I wouldn't be particularly bothered if my age attracted them or not though. I think most guys would agree we are not easier to meet or particularly grateful....and hopefully jack, having met at a party you wouldn't call me a granny! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i think my young-men are lucky i give them somthing to think about for years after and thats good sex. Seen some 5 times and some known years now . we do allsorts live out all sorts of kinky games have fab times i am loving it. Takes me one two days to get over it at times .. and i am on a sex high for days after. I dont meet loads just the ones i have been lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have played with a few younger guys, and I have to say that in my experience, they were not better in bed than guys older than me. Whilst they might have stamina, they had minimal oral skills and thought good sex was just banging in and out.

Give me an experienced 50 year old any day. I'd rather have 10 mins of good sex than half an hour of pounding away boring sex.

I find that older men have learnt to read a womans body language and is able to differentiate what she likes and is enjoying by listening to how her body reacts. In my experience younger men don't really care as long as they get their end away.

In relation to why young men like older women, I think its down to confidence. Yes when you hit your 40s you may have wrinkles and all of our bodies will be further south, but I'd honestly prefer that to having my cheeks pinned back behind my ears and have a body full of scars when its been pulled and tightened. Noone can stop the aging process, why try and look like a 30 year old when you could be relishing in your older but experienced, confident and sexy self. Its down to how you perceive yourself, noone can go on chasing youth, its unachievable.

Of course that's not to say that you shouldn't take care of yourself. As you get older you do have to moisturise more, eat healthily and try not to smoke as this will be evident on your skin, and always keep groomed to within an inch of your life. But its naïve to think a surgeon is the key to everlasting youth. "

Feebs I think thats quite possibly one of your best posts ever, very well put and I am in total agreement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no longer a milf - but a gilf here...

where did i leave my knitting, slippers and hearing aid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no longer a milf - but a gilf here...

where did i leave my knitting, slippers and hearing aid?"
Around your Toy -boys house .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god i wish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Feebs I think thats quite possibly one of your best posts ever, very well put and I am in total agreement! "

Thank you.

Of course there are exceptions. I've had great sex, amazing oral and my first and only DVP experience with a 24 year old guy.

The other fantastic memorable oral session was with a 26 year old woman.

But in the main older guys have years of experience. They also know they may not have the stamina of a 25 year old, though most older guys have techniques to delay cumming. But older guys tend to realise that maybe the erection may take a little longer second time around, so they put their heart and soul into great foreplay.

I'm not a gangbang hard pounding sex kind of girl. I like soft, gentle, sensual and erotic. I find older guys are better at this and therefore suited to my needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"god i wish!"

Your wish is granted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it about an older woman that just mmmmmmm really does it for you.

As a teenager I always had a thing for the older woman and had a wank over the thought of many a m8s mum. As a young man I was attracted to and tried to tap (with a decent succsess rate) a good few older women. At 36 I still find the older woman a huge turn on and find nothing sexier than seing a woman in her mid to late forties or even early fifties who carries her self really well and oooozies sex appeal.

Weres all the milfs and cougers at then??????????? "

even early 50s - bldy cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby has always liked older women. He was having an affair with a married 54 yr old when he was 18!!!

The last couple of times he has played, they have both been in their 60s!!

Its a nightmare taking him through the M&S underwear section, all the mature women looking at heavily patterned bras!! He almost has a coronary!!

xx

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over a year ago

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By *xxmale76xxxMan
over a year ago

inverness

love an older woman myself!!! have been with a few now. the first time, was with a woman i met in a pub one night. she was loaded, in inverness for business, and i got rapped and loved every second of it ha ha ha!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby has always liked older women. He was having an affair with a married 54 yr old when he was 18!!!

The last couple of times he has played, they have both been in their 60s!!

Its a nightmare taking him through the M&S underwear section, all the mature women looking at heavily patterned bras!! He almost has a coronary!!

xx"

Ive met quite a few gorgeous mid 50's women...its got nothing to do with wanting something older...just plain attraction...helps if they are filthy fuckers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"!

Ive met quite a few gorgeous mid 50's women...its got nothing to do with wanting something older...just plain attraction...helps if they are filthy fuckers lol"

Its not simply their age, he just finds maturer women more attractive and sexy. He says its somthing about how they hold themselves, how they seem more at ease with who they are. He just seems to find them more appealing. Haha, I have even seen him get a hard on over the posh lady who won the lottery and is now on Eggheads!!

xx

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

So, on one side we have the guys saying that they really do like the older, larger, less aesthetically pleasing women and on the other, women saying that it is just the extra confidence that attracts them!

If that was the case, why aren't these same guys married to the many older, larger, less aesthetically pleasing women we see in our everyday lives? Why are they all looking for that slim thing with big tits when they are out on the pull?

There are certain types of women who will be targetted because they are perceived as being "easy"! Generally though, that is not the case, but they are flattered by the attention of younger guys and some undoubtedly do fall into the trap!

BUT... So what? If the women want younger guys and the younger guys want a shag and they woo a older, larger, less aesthetically pleasing lady, why worry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"!

Ive met quite a few gorgeous mid 50's women...its got nothing to do with wanting something older...just plain attraction...helps if they are filthy fuckers lol

Its not simply their age, he just finds maturer women more attractive and sexy. He says its somthing about how they hold themselves, how they seem more at ease with who they are. He just seems to find them more appealing. Haha, I have even seen him get a hard on over the posh lady who won the lottery and is now on Eggheads!!

xx

"

yeahhh ive wanked at that filthy posh rich brainbox too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If that was the case, why aren't these same guys married to the many older, larger, less aesthetically pleasing women we see in our everyday lives? Why are they all looking for that slim thing with big tits when they are out on the pull?

There are certain types of women who will be targetted because they are perceived as being "easy"! Generally though, that is not the case, but they are flattered by the attention of younger guys and some undoubtedly do fall into the trap!

BUT... So what? If the women want younger guys and the younger guys want a shag and they woo a older, larger, less aesthetically pleasing lady, why worry!"

In our case, Im the only person hubby has ever been with who is his own age. And despite all my wishes to Santa, I have never been and never probably will be stick thin with big tits lol!! Actually, dont want to be thin but if you are reading this Santa, big tits would be lovely!!

I think sometimes, in the same way that us girls are pressured by society to behave certain ways, guys have the same pressures. Whenever Hubby tells people his preference, he has the mick taken out of him. Luckily he doesnt care what other people think. Lots of other men will be more susceptible to fitting in, so can and will only admit their true preferences in an environment such as swinging.

But preferring older women doesnt mean ONLY older women. When you marry someone, you would like to think its for them rather than their age.

I like rough handed real men, all tattoos and stubble and muscles and scars - doesnt mean I wont enjoy the company of a well manicured pretty boy if the moment takes me!!

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nothing to do with wanting attention,that is not the reason i choose younger guys, many i see for repeat meets,and trust me they can pull any young girl they like...theres just some thing taboo and exciting about the younger man older woman scenario and the sex is amazing...possibly because we are both at our sexual peaks..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could pull at any age, you look gorgeous in your pics!!!

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could pull at any age, you look gorgeous in your pics!!!

xx"

well thankyou so much for yr compliment ..kisses for you xxx

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Have read all the posts in this thread and can agree with parts of most of them. Personally, I've had experience over the years with about 20 years younger to 20 years older (always kept it legal!) Some young guys - mindblowing without direction, others needed a nudge in the right direction, then bingo! Similar age and older - most often knew exactly what to do and good long lasters - one or two nightmares (!). Best oral and foreplay EVER was with a guy my own age, but close 2nd/3rd were a 25ish year old and a 54ish year old when I was in my late 30s - so no real conclusion - if I were to hazard any advice, I'd say suck it and see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, on one side we have the guys saying that they really do like the older, larger, less aesthetically pleasing women and on the other, women saying that it is just the extra confidence that attracts them!

If that was the case, why aren't these same guys married to the many older, larger, less aesthetically pleasing women we see in our everyday lives? Why are they all looking for that slim thing with big tits when they are out on the pull?

There are certain types of women who will be targetted because they are perceived as being "easy"! Generally though, that is not the case, but they are flattered by the attention of younger guys and some undoubtedly do fall into the trap!

BUT... So what? If the women want younger guys and the younger guys want a shag and they woo a older, larger, less aesthetically pleasing lady, why worry!"

Well said, your logic could give competition to the Dali Lama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, on one side we have the guys saying that they really do like the older, larger, less aesthetically pleasing women and on the other, women saying that it is just the extra confidence that attracts them!

If that was the case, why aren't these same guys married to the many older, larger, less aesthetically pleasing women we see in our everyday lives? Why are they all looking for that slim thing with big tits when they are out on the pull?

There are certain types of women who will be targetted because they are perceived as being "easy"! Generally though, that is not the case, but they are flattered by the attention of younger guys and some undoubtedly do fall into the trap!

BUT... So what? If the women want younger guys and the younger guys want a shag and they woo a older, larger, less aesthetically pleasing lady, why worry!"

As for larger aesthetically pleasing ladies i do not consider myself one of these....and do i want to marry or runaway with a toyboy....most definitely not..i am under no illusion as to what i want....and i get it,so heyho why not...can you say the same ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me an old cynic, but speaking as a bloke who was "young" once, but most young guys like older women because they are easier to pull.

Some older ladies feel "honoured" by the attention from younger guys.

I know my comment might infuriate some of you on here, but cast your mind back to "Grab a Granny" night down your local club, then come and tell me I'm talking bollocks"

...I agree, equally flattered but highly insulting also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and im a damn good 30 year old for propertiny too not complaints here hehehe "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like my men 28-32, just enough experience and plenty of stamina. Of course there are exceptions either side !!

My regular FWB is 30 which proves my point

But, apart from the sex, I can't see in a million years why guys would want a saggier/wrinklier woman than a firm,toned,fresh faced one their own age.

"

"gotta love this propertiny im her 30 flirt animal x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and im a damn good 30 year old for propertiny too not complaints here hehehe

"
you look yumm and like me into horses not sure about the showing jacket lol i can hold on tight had to over the years . We have jumping working hunters here .. so you into older woman , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is quite a difference between who men would like to fuck and who they would like to marry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have played with a few younger guys, and I have to say that in my experience, they were not better in bed than guys older than me. Whilst they might have stamina, they had minimal oral skills and thought good sex was just banging in and out.

Give me an experienced 50 year old any day. I'd rather have 10 mins of good sex than half an hour of pounding away boring sex.

I find that older men have learnt to read a womans body language and is able to differentiate what she likes and is enjoying by listening to how her body reacts. In my experience younger men don't really care as long as they get their end away.

In relation to why young men like older women, I think its down to confidence. Yes when you hit your 40s you may have wrinkles and all of our bodies will be further south, but I'd honestly prefer that to having my cheeks pinned back behind my ears and have a body full of scars when its been pulled and tightened. Noone can stop the aging process, why try and look like a 30 year old when you could be relishing in your older but experienced, confident and sexy self. Its down to how you perceive yourself, noone can go on chasing youth, its unachievable.

Of course that's not to say that you shouldn't take care of yourself. As you get older you do have to moisturise more, eat healthily and try not to smoke as this will be evident on your skin, and always keep groomed to within an inch of your life. But its naïve to think a surgeon is the key to everlasting youth.

Feebs I think thats quite possibly one of your best posts ever, very well put and I am in total agreement! "
I soo have to agree too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing so sexy as a mature, sophisticated, confident woman.

Janet knows my tastes. The big smile on her face when we meet a lovely couple & the lady matches that description is a fantastic turn on...

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and im a damn good 30 year old for propertiny too not complaints here hehehe

you look yumm and like me into horses not sure about the showing jacket lol i can hold on tight had to over the years . We have jumping working hunters here .. so you into older woman , lol"

" that showing jacket has lots of history family wish and i rebuilt it with my memories added to it holdontight has meaning for me and only one person has found out where it came from"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have played with a few younger guys, and I have to say that in my experience, they were not better in bed than guys older than me. Whilst they might have stamina, they had minimal oral skills and thought good sex was just banging in and out.

Give me an experienced 50 year old any day. I'd rather have 10 mins of good sex than half an hour of pounding away boring sex.

I find that older men have learnt to read a womans body language and is able to differentiate what she likes and is enjoying by listening to how her body reacts. In my experience younger men don't really care as long as they get their end away.

In relation to why young men like older women, I think its down to confidence. Yes when you hit your 40s you may have wrinkles and all of our bodies will be further south, but I'd honestly prefer that to having my cheeks pinned back behind my ears and have a body full of scars when its been pulled and tightened. Noone can stop the aging process, why try and look like a 30 year old when you could be relishing in your older but experienced, confident and sexy self. Its down to how you perceive yourself, noone can go on chasing youth, its unachievable.

Of course that's not to say that you shouldn't take care of yourself. As you get older you do have to moisturise more, eat healthily and try not to smoke as this will be evident on your skin, and always keep groomed to within an inch of your life. But its naïve to think a surgeon is the key to everlasting youth.

Feebs I think thats quite possibly one of your best posts ever, very well put and I am in total agreement! I soo have to agree too!"

"its not all about pleasuring sexually with oral and intercourse if your willing to spend time with a women for a few hours socially you can find her weakest and vulnerable points on her body and in her mind that would drive them wild trust the brain is more powerful sexually than you think the softest of touch to parts of a body other that sexual organs is mind blowing and out of this world but you have to be willing x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and im a damn good 30 year old for propertiny too not complaints here hehehe

you look yumm and like me into horses not sure about the showing jacket lol i can hold on tight had to over the years . We have jumping working hunters here .. so you into older woman , lol that showing jacket has lots of history family wish and i rebuilt it with my memories added to it holdontight has meaning for me and only one person has found out where it came from"
Yes i have one or two jackets like that too xx and boots had some over 20 years and will not part as thay have memories of winning things with my horses .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and im a damn good 30 year old for propertiny too not complaints here hehehe

you look yumm and like me into horses not sure about the showing jacket lol i can hold on tight had to over the years . We have jumping working hunters here .. so you into older woman , lol that showing jacket has lots of history family wish and i rebuilt it with my memories added to it holdontight has meaning for me and only one person has found out where it came from"

And who might that be??

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I love meeting younger guys, but hate the fact that they have unrealistic expectations. I might be the same age as Julia Roberts, but I am not the same shape, and the look of disappointment on some guys faces when they meet me puts me right off. At least act like you want to shag me!

Also, younger guys conversation stinks. I hate lying next to someone who hasn't said a word to me since the initial 'hello'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what a cougar is to me ..I have always got on with younger men.

A woman who for some unknown reason, is attracted to men she finds out are younger than she is, often significantly so. She looks younger than her age, acts younger than her age, and has the confidence she didn't have when she was younger - which younger men apparently find appealing. She most often has her life in order and has earned her independence. She probably not had a conventional life and she ok with that. Many of her friends dont get it and tell her to find people her own age to play with as thay could be her sons . But she knows lifes to short and you have to make the most of it and do the things that make her happy. She does not "prey" on younger men, and she does not have to be single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and im a damn good 30 year old for propertiny too not complaints here hehehe

you look yumm and like me into horses not sure about the showing jacket lol i can hold on tight had to over the years . We have jumping working hunters here .. so you into older woman , lol that showing jacket has lots of history family wish and i rebuilt it with my memories added to it holdontight has meaning for me and only one person has found out where it came from

And who might that be??"

"Propertiny to her time to find out what im all about hehehe "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Propertiny enjoys finding things out about goflb !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ihave been known to look and meet at younger men x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Meeting younger guys was a phase i went through, lasted about a year, i have grown out of it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there is quite a difference between who men would like to fuck and who they would like to marry."

serves em bliddy right then.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

What a shame! I think you are a very attractive woman and will give any young girl a run for their looks.

Just wish you saw what I see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dnt watt it is they are just sexier know wat they want and how to get it xx

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