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How much do you weight honesty and correctness in swinging?

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By *ipi2001 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We noticed that some couples are not honest as well as correct. In simple worlds they dont know what they like and they just jump in playing. We are a bit fed up in meeting these couples.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you mean they start playing then say they don't like it?

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By *ipi2001 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We mean that they dont have clear ideas. Plus the female part was very passive.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We wouldn't play with anyone if we didn't have an attraction and feel comfortable with ourselves or who we were meeting with.

We always have a social first to see how we all get on and if that attraction is there.

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By *ipi2001 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

You are right. Attraction is important as well as being swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have expectations or a list of things I will do when I have sex.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"We noticed that some couples are not honest as well as correct. In simple worlds they dont know what they like and they just jump in playing. We are a bit fed up in meeting these couples."

Am sure lots are not honest.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"We noticed that some couples are not honest as well as correct. In simple worlds they dont know what they like and they just jump in playing. We are a bit fed up in meeting these couples."

That’s cool , and you are perfectly entitled to feel like that .

However , we feel it’s best to be honest too , and if you don’t just jump in playing , how do you know what you will like ?

We’ve always found this is the best way to find out , no dilly dallying , just crack on

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"We noticed that some couples are not honest as well as correct. In simple worlds they dont know what they like and they just jump in playing. We are a bit fed up in meeting these couples.

That’s cool , and you are perfectly entitled to feel like that .

However , we feel it’s best to be honest too , and if you don’t just jump in playing , how do you know what you will like ?

We’ve always found this is the best way to find out , no dilly dallying , just crack on "

So true! Why loads of rules? We just go with the flow, you can always say no to something, has never caused a problem!

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By *ipi2001 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

To all participants... Shall we write down a rule of honesty and correctness or its better to go with the flow?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"To all participants... Shall we write down a rule of honesty and correctness or its better to go with the flow? "

The thing is that once you get the whole list of rules thing , we will have walked away and said thanks but no thanks .

It’s supposed to be fun , and there’s no fun to be had when you are trying to remember this that and the other that other people don’t want .

A quick chat outlining the no way on stuff is fine , but long lists ? No thanks .

So go with the flow for us .

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