FabSwingers.com forum: Can't Accommodate

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying

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over a year ago

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

As parents ourselves who can't always accomodate, we don't judge anyone that can't accomodate. We've come across people still living with parents, shared houses etc. Surprised with the attitude of some people on here around this when they are generally so tolerant of other things.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying "

Fair point well made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tis tru

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facts!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preach it

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black Magic for Prime Minister

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I totally agree OP furthermore I don't like strangers in my home !Someone I know lives with his elderly parents !For couples and single ladies is okay not to accommodate but single guys is because they are cheating !

A load of BS !

Each person run their profile the way they please !!!

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London

Most of the time, it's safer and more comfortable to meet up in a hotel.

Who wants to bring strangers to their home on the first meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said. Some people are very self-absorbed and can't see the absurdity of the demands they make. It actually says a lot about them by making demands and huge assumptions ... such people are best left alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because they live with their mums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And, some married men, or men in relationships, accommodate when the partner is out/at work/away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well said. Some people are very self-absorbed and can't see the absurdity of the demands they make. It actually says a lot about them by making demands and huge assumptions ... such people are best left alone."

agree .. old saying but .. horses for courses ... springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's because they live with their mums!"

What's wrong with that? I live with my son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah! You tell em!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The time when it's suspicious is when they cannot accommodate, cannot meet at weekends, can only meet during work hours... Oh and expect discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can’t always accommodate now due to family commitments so either meet at a pub or club for a social, or club for play meet if nobody can accommodate. It’s no big deal if you can’t accom, we don’t live together so if there is anytime we can accommodate it’ll always be at my fella’s place because I don’t want people knowing where I live and not sure I’d want to let people that I don’t really know come into my family home! There is only a few people that we are friends with that meet at my place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's because they live with their mums!

What's wrong with that? I live with my son

Well we'll have to be extra quiet when I visit then, won't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway, there are plenty of men who know it raises suspicion and hence pretend to accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's because they live with their mums!

What's wrong with that? I live with my son

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I cannot accommodate as I work away from home but live in Single accommodation provided by my employer as a condition of my role at work.

But as I work in Hotel Management, I tend to separate my Work and Personal lives.

I can get very generous room rates but a lot of people won't meet at hotels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the time, it's safer and more comfortable to meet up in a hotel.

Who wants to bring strangers to their home on the first meet?"

I have done but I live with 5 guys so it’s pretty safe. Plus I get to know people for a very long time before meeting.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying

Fair point well made."

Totally agree! Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nailed it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying "

There is some generalization here,

I can't always accommodate and that can be as simple as house renovations, heating/plumbing emergency or children staying over.

None of these normal situations are even a possibility in some women's minds. Men are cheats and that's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying "

Never going to happen, OP think of it this way. Those people you've mentioned must be that way due to past experiences. As such they now have insecurities which leads to lack of confidence and lack of confidence can turn a social dire. Save yourself the hassle, go with those not so insecure

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The way to be productive is surely to just speak for yourself, stating your predicament on your profile, rather than telling people to get over themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying "

We don't make assumptions or judge. If we want to know the reason we ask a question.

But I do understand where you're coming from OP.

Mrs

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying "

People always jump to the worst assumptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying

People always jump to the worst assumptions"

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

It's not just a problem for single people, couples have that too.

We've a 20 something offspring at home, does their own thing and are liable to change plans at a drop of a hat.

We'd love to accommodate, but have accepted that isn't going to change anytime soon.

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Doesn't make a jot of difference, if I van accom or not, no one turns up around here anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. My profile says I can't accommodate technically I could during school hours or I do have girly friends over but I'm never going to put that on my profile or its expected. It would take a lot for me to feel comfortable to let someone in my home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother us at all. We can’t accommodate as even if we offloaded the teens who live in the house, we still have a 20something living in the annex who goes nowhere and is very nosy!

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I live with my 22yr old son in a very small welsh village ... so really wouldn’t want random strangers dropping in and out of my home ... would I really want to anyway ?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Very few men have their kids living with them all the time, just saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying

Totally agree. No confidence is a major turn off. However insecurity is another issue, one which I have sympathy for. We all have insecurities, but how we choose to show them is another matter.

I've been on Fab long enough to know all the pot falls. Just love having a "JustSaying" rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very few men have their kids living with them all the time, just saying

This is fab swingers, rarities are easier to find on here than (rest its book soul) the yellow pages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very few men have their kids living with them all the time, just saying

This is true I had a social with a guy recently that couldn't accommodate because his kids stayed there every other weekend but thinks it ok to come to mine where mine live all the time ... ermmm sorry no respect!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The way to be productive is surely to just speak for yourself, stating your predicament on your profile, rather than telling people to get over themselves "

I was speaking for myself, and the majority of people who agreed on this thread...

Productive

I think it's more productive to stay away from threads that people don't agree with. The forum is the place to put the world to rights, and people's sensitivity gets in the way of productive dialogue.

Some of us definitely need to get over themselves and lighten up, it's not always that serious...

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying "

The amount of mess and noise we make totally makes meets at home not viable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very few men have their kids living with them all the time, just saying

Well I'm one of them... Hence the reason for the post.

Granted, there are more single mums than dads, but believe it or not it does happen.

Does that make me a unicorn???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know quite a few guys that have kids living with them, some of them don’t get a break other than when kids are at school- sometimes the mothers can’t be arsed with the kids or have a health/mental problem which prevents them having the kids either at all or at a contact centre say!

My partner has full custody of his kid, does see the mother but will get dropped just like that! Makes no difference to us as at an age where they can be left for a few hours so we can still get out regardless of whether they’re at home or not!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only just recently finished university and im living back with my parents until I can afford my own place. I get a few odd days free to host, but they are rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't jump to conclusions but I do like to ask if someone is single; so there's no flopping it on me just before we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying "

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Double standard of fab sadly

Not accommodating alone doesn't mean anything, Jack and I don't accom either at min due to moving home etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Black Magic for Prime Minister

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Single guys get a real bad rep on here, but when we’ve played in clubs or parties it hasn’t been single guys trying to shove their cocks and fingers up Mrs L2 without asking it’s guys from couples who think it’s acceptable to come over uninvited and try it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's because they live with their mums!

What's wrong with that? I live with my son

Both myself and my children live with my mum.

Although even when i had my own home i would never meet men there - it was at hotels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God dam right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't accommodate as my son lives with me and that's why I can't get naked much at home

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Dont worry over it OP .... arrange a social in a public place first ..

..who wants a stranger in their home ......not me

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Speaking as someone that can, and has accommodated - I can totally understand, especially on a first meet, not accommodating - you never really know you’d want that person to know where you live until you meet them!

I’ve had meets I’m very pleased they don’t know where I live afterwards!

Having a hotel or club meet for the first one or two meets is probably the best and then if it’s clear you get on and it might be regular meeting at your own home is fine then

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying "

There are many reasons some members can’t accom. Myself included, I’m very much single though, but with family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying

There is some generalization here,

I can't always accommodate and that can be as simple as house renovations, heating/plumbing emergency or children staying over.

None of these normal situations are even a possibility in some women's minds. SOME Men are cheats and that's it"
spot on (after fixing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The way to be productive is surely to just speak for yourself, stating your predicament on your profile, rather than telling people to get over themselves "

You expect people to have common sense - oh get over yourself. Stated totally tongue in cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The time when it's suspicious is when they cannot accommodate, cannot meet at weekends, can only meet during work hours... Oh and expect discretion

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Yep

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Fair point op but some of us don't ask why they can't accommodate. None of my business and I prefer a hotel room anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As parents ourselves who can't always accomodate, we don't judge anyone that can't accomodate. We've come across people still living with parents, shared houses etc. Surprised with the attitude of some people on here around this when they are generally so tolerant of other things. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do not have these discussions during the meeting process then it is your own fault!

Don't try passing the blame for your own incompetence!

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Thank you ! Someone had to say it

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"I totally agree OP furthermore I don't like strangers in my home !Someone I know lives with his elderly parents !For couples and single ladies is okay not to accommodate but single guys is because they are cheating !

A load of BS !

Each person run their profile the way they please !!! "

x storm x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Black Magic for Prime Minister

What that man said

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Very few men have their kids living with them all the time, just saying

Well I'm one of them... Hence the reason for the post.

Granted, there are more single mums than dads, but believe it or not it does happen.

Does that make me a unicorn???

Yes...fancy a fuck ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man can’t accommodate there could be a selection of reasons. But probably ‘living with partner’ is probably the most usual reason, especially with men over a certain age. So if people feel it makes their swinging life easier by sticking to those who can accommodate, then why not? My personal pet hate is when single men look to the couple to sort the accommodation, and make no effort to be proactive. Which is my fear with guys who say they can’t accommodate.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible. well your right there to a point but some case could mean other thing what you do for a living and where you live were most in your area are like to talk about who live by them.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying "

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By *am shovelMan
over a year ago

blackwater

changing the subject slightly...there seems to be quite a few people who say they can accom but actually cannot ever ...i find that quite annoying.

sam.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

yeah I agree or when you say travel is hard because you share a car with family people instantly think cheating like no my brother uses the car as well

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying "

You are right some men are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone.

However, time and time again it has been proven most single men who cannot accommodate it is because they are not really single. Based on that you can understand why women and couples are suspicious of single men who cannot accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty, i don't automatically judge a guy who can't accommodate, as cheating. I know that there are single parents, some who house share etc. In all honesty, i don't feel comfortable accommodating, even if my little one were not home, as i don't want someone to know where i live. It is my safe space, completely seperate from fab. It's perfectly reasonable for men to have those same reservations.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

All the points....ok, most of the points made in this thread are valid ones. But let's just say it like it is....lots, but not all, guys who can't accommodate ARE "playing away"....(shields up captain)

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By *river88Man
over a year ago

wigan

I have I can accommodate on mine but at the moment my home is a building site so I would be ashamed to have anyone around, should probably update my profile actually

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"All the points....ok, most of the points made in this thread are valid ones. But let's just say it like it is....lots, but not all, guys who can't accommodate ARE "playing away"....(shields up captain)

100% correct. Not all single guys are cheating but a lot are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong I completely get how it works and the concept of playing away, I'm sure alot of women are cheating on partners on Fab too and can't accommodate for the same reason.

I'm not speaking for them. A cheat is a cheat regardless, and nobody knows the circumstance so it's none of my business.

However I do speak for myself who is a single father, who has my brother living with me for a while whilst he gets going again.

The point is many of us swerve the truth when meeting people on Fab. Many of us are on for different reasons, not just sex. The beauty of Fab is that you can express these sexual adult thoughts and actions.

Even if I could accommodate I wouldn't, as it's my sanctuary. Alot of my threads are angled towards the "good" single guys that get put in the "all men are..." bracket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you OP. I'm a single woman and have "can't accommodate" on my profile becuase I generally don't unless I get to know someone quite well.

What gets on my double G's is being messaged by people who can't accommodate either is.. well where are we going to fuck ?

It clearly says on my profile I'm looking for repeat offender so unless you have money to throw away I don't see a weekly hotel being a thing and I'll also not willing to split the cost of one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a rule about hosting at my place...

Single women I always host

Couples I never host....

If that’s not cool , we don’t meet...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree with you OP. I'm a single woman and have "can't accommodate" on my profile becuase I generally don't unless I get to know someone quite well.

What gets on my double G's is being messaged by people who can't accommodate either is.. well where are we going to fuck ?

It clearly says on my profile I'm looking for repeat offender so unless you have money to throw away I don't see a weekly hotel being a thing and I'll also not willing to split the cost of one. "

I'd like to get your double G's

I completely get that and often suffer from the same issue.

However I play with regular friends which do accommodate, and where trust has been built from regular meets at clubs or hotels and I am then able to play at their property. (I always being the drinks and snacks)

I am more than happy to meet at local clubs or even split costs, with potential new play mates

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a rule about hosting at my place...

Single women I always host

Couples I never host....

If that’s not cool , we don’t meet..."

If I could accommodate I think this would be my approach too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think it would be helpful though if people who can’t or won’t accomodate explained on their profiles where they do like to play. Men message us who can’t accomodate and thats fine we respect that. But many don’t offer a solution to where we might play.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with you OP. I'm a single woman and have "can't accommodate" on my profile becuase I generally don't unless I get to know someone quite well.

What gets on my double G's is being messaged by people who can't accommodate either is.. well where are we going to fuck ?

It clearly says on my profile I'm looking for repeat offender so unless you have money to throw away I don't see a weekly hotel being a thing and I'll also not willing to split the cost of one.

I'd like to get your double G's

I completely get that and often suffer from the same issue.

I am more than happy to meet at local clubs or even split costs, with potential new play mates

My double G's would like to get familiar with those hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying "
yes God aren't we all so judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus there are those who could accommodate but don't want to, like us.

Can't accommodate can mean don't want to, which is totally ok.

Jem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying "

Sounds to me your the one that needs to get over it.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying

Sounds to me your the one that needs to get over it. "

Do you care to elaborate? Or is that just a random comment...

Although, I have just read your profile and it seems a little clearer to why you may of heard something that wasn't said

What do you think I need to get over, if you don't mind me asking...

I'll wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying

Sounds to me your the one that needs to get over it.

Do you care to elaborate? Or is that just a random comment...

Although, I have just read your profile and it seems a little clearer to why you may of heard something that wasn't said

What do you think I need to get over, if you don't mind me asking...

I'll wait

She probably means just forget about it. Don’t worry about. Focus on those who don’t make a judgement on whether or not someone can accomodate. Cos let’s face it, those who won’t meet someone who can’t acconodate (whether for reasonable or unreasonable reasons) are probably not going to do what you suggest and ‘get over it’. Reason being is that they don’t have to. As long as they are finding what they are looking for on a Fab there will be no need for them to get over anything.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying

Sounds to me your the one that needs to get over it.

Do you care to elaborate? Or is that just a random comment...

Although, I have just read your profile and it seems a little clearer to why you may of heard something that wasn't said

What do you think I need to get over, if you don't mind me asking...

I'll wait

Mrs"
exactly supply and demand

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over a year ago

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"Most of the time, it's safer and more comfortable to meet up in a hotel.

Who wants to bring strangers to their home on the first meet?"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying

Sounds to me your the one that needs to get over it.

Do you care to elaborate? Or is that just a random comment...

Although, I have just read your profile and it seems a little clearer to why you may of heard something that wasn't said

What do you think I need to get over, if you don't mind me asking...

I'll wait

Mrs exactly supply and demand

Supply and demand is so vague and used in appropriately.

If you had to pick one good apple would you rather pick from a segment size of 10 (who can accomodate all the time and are genuinely single) or a segment size of 50 (which has a mix of those that can and those that can't but are also genuinely single).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a single man can't accommodate.

Some women and couples seem to think it's down to him cheating???

Some of us are single parents, have full time jobs or living with someone so it's not plausible.

Can some of you women and couples get over yourself please.

#JustSaying

Sounds to me your the one that needs to get over it.

Do you care to elaborate? Or is that just a random comment...

Although, I have just read your profile and it seems a little clearer to why you may of heard something that wasn't said

What do you think I need to get over, if you don't mind me asking...

I'll wait

Mrs exactly supply and demand

Supply and demand is so vague and used in appropriately.

That’s probably how we govern ourselves on Fab. We don’t as such have strict rules as to what we might look for on a profile. But we will go for what is most likely to be the easiest and most straightforward option. If we failed to find suitable playmates then we would might well take greater risks in our searches,or make choices that give us reduced play options. But usually we don’t need to broaden our horizons.

Mrs

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