FabSwingers.com forum: Will we find the illusive bi female?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have been on the site for a couple of months now and are struggling to find a single female to join us. We have had plenty of intrest from couples which we are greatful of but wonder whether we should maybe look else where for the female touch. Please feel free to check our profile and see if we may be going wrong on there.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it reads all about you 2, your fantasy... you may want to beef out what the 3 of you will get from it.

good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And maybe say what type of lady you are interested in- size, experience age etc- I'm sure you will find someone with a little more info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience, all I can say is don't be pushy when you do find her! That put me off meeting couples and now I will only meet them with Sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those women are here

I actually prefer to meet cpls on my own..... I never give the can I being my fb line or whatever. But it is rare.....actually very rare for me to meet, click and connect with both people in the couple. Socials are the best way for me to work that out.

That being said I have the best and most wonderful experiences with cpls who I have went on to be really good mates with. I am not however there to make a fantasy come to reality. I am there to enjoy and be with another one....As hard as you think it is, meeting another female who will meet a girl on her own is ever harder.

xxxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

why not meet the couples from that you might find the odd one or two who play alone and you then might be lucky enough to have your ffm meet you so want .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be patient and it will happen and it,s definately worth the wait...

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I think I saw her earlier... she was behind the sofa hiding from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hope im not speaking out of tearms here but here goes

i find it quite suprising that you have managed to find 3 single females who have all spoken to you on the phone yet not one of them have took it further and met you

it does make me wonder why none of them have decided met you after speaking to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Our reason for not meeting the 2 ladies who we have spoken to is that the first lovely lady that we spoke to will only play one on one and the secound lady lives 5hrs away, said that she would wait a couple of weeks then deleted us then tried to get back in contact weeks later. so it has been abit hard to travel that far but i suppose that at least shows that we are geniune. We hope that this answers your question.

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

It took us 7 months to meet and play ffm. It was a long 7 months wait but well worth it.

You just have to be patient.

We are now looking again and to be honest realise that it might take another 7 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow you must be looking in the wrong adds as me then as at one point on here I was sick of seing profiles from single fems who I was unable to msg as they are looking for couples only to munch fems rug as hubby/partner/dam right lucky bugger I just hate and envy takes them hard from behind hahaha THERE ARE TONS of single bi fems on here young and old

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice positive advice.Good luck with your second search.

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

"Wow you must be looking in the wrong adds as me then as at one point on here I was sick of seing profiles from single fems who I was unable to msg as they are looking for couples only to munch fems rug as hubby/partner/dam right lucky bugger I just hate and envy takes them hard from behind hahaha THERE ARE TONS of single bi fems on here young and old

Most couples only want to meet the female ALONE and that is why the bi-female is elusive

I agree thats there are plenty that will meet with Hubby watching or a f/b to play too but thats not a single bi-female.

Also, we have been lucky enough to chat to some very sexy females but they never seem to be close enough to us to meet. Another reason it takes a bit of time ... sometimes you have to look outside your 'local' area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As hard as you think it is, meeting another female who will meet a girl on her own is ever harder.

xxxx"

You're telling me! It's almost impossible!

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a bi fem , 1/2 of a couple and we have been trying to arrange a meet for me alone with a couple for over a year, It would have to be with people we have both met though, for safety reasons. We always see posts about how rare the bi fem is...well we are around guys...xx

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

"It took us 7 months to meet and play ffm. It was a long 7 months wait but well worth it.

You just have to be patient.

We are now looking again and to be honest realise that it might take another 7 months

Pleased to report it didnt take that long and we had a great night last night with a bi-female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why not meet the couples from that you might find the odd one or two who play alone and you then might be lucky enough to have your ffm meet you so want .

It's a longshot though isn't it? And equally pretty rde to suggest it.If we meet a couple it is with the _iew that we will play as a couple. If we were approached after a social meet suggesting Boho_j played alone then I think we would be both quite offended at the suggestion and more than a little pissed off to have wasted time on a social meet with a couple who weren;t honest with what they were looking for.

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By *ong_legs2Couple
over a year ago

essex

"We have been on the site for a couple of months now and are struggling to find a single female to join us. We have had plenty of intrest from couples which we are greatful of but wonder whether we should maybe look else where for the female touch. Please feel free to check our profile and see if we may be going wrong on there.

well we've been on here for 11 months and still haven't found a single female...so ddn't worry it could be worse, 2 months is nothing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well we've been on here for 11 months and still haven't found a single female...so ddn't worry it could be worse, 2 months is nothing lol"

Ditto!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works both ways I'm afraid. I am sure you won't just jump into bed with every single bi-female that comes along. The same goes for me with couples. Having been let down twice now by genuine couples with verifications I must admit I am disappointed but not despondent...like the previous poster remarked it has taken them 11 months...I can wait lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Works both ways I'm afraid. I am sure you won't just jump into bed with every single bi-female that comes along. The same goes for me with couples. Having been let down twice now by genuine couples with verifications I must admit I am disappointed but not despondent...like the previous poster remarked it has taken them 11 months...I can wait lol."

Well, if you are getting let down there is simply no hope for me! Good luck !

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By *ong_legs2Couple
over a year ago

essex

gee...that makes us feel sooo much better lol oh and its 11 months and still going lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is our 2nd time on here...left first time because of the time wasting from the single girls we've contacted...we did meet one girl on here but have sent hundereds of emails over the last few years...we've been chatting to one girl recently,she was happy with the pics and the chat was going fine then nothing...the chat just stopped...no replies....this typifies our experiences with single girls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe i just live in the wrong town...i am that elusive bi fem i've played with one couple on here, been let down by another couple and as for the rest its either just the guy that wants to play or when i ask for pics of the guy i hear no more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is our 2nd time on here...left first time because of the time wasting from the single girls we've contacted...we did meet one girl on here but have sent hundereds of emails over the last few years...we've been chatting to one girl recently,she was happy with the pics and the chat was going fine then nothing...the chat just stopped...no replies....this typifies our experiences with single girls!"

After being on here 18 months we have found exactly the same. Even got as far as adding some on MSN but as per here they are never online or very rarely respond to a polite opening message. We have found the younger bi-fems (say 18 to 25ish) to be the worst which is ironic considering Nicole's age. We would also be happy to meet a couple, though finding one in which Nicole finds both partners attractive is a struggle. Hey-ho, all things come to those that wait..

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

We've had a similar problem.

My partner is bi and we have a couples profile as well as our own seperate ones.

She is looking for a lady to play with on her own - or for her to play with as i am tied/gagged/plugged and unable to do anything about it (this is one of her fantasies!)

We are having a daft amount of difficulty finding that lady, even to the point of my partner being stood up when she went to meet one particular 'lady'.

TBH it's put her off the whole scene a little even though she would dearly love to meet a similar-minded girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our reason for not meeting the 2 ladies who we have spoken to is that the first lovely lady that we spoke to will only play one on one and the secound lady lives 5hrs away, said that she would wait a couple of weeks then deleted us then tried to get back in contact weeks later. so it has been abit hard to travel that far but i suppose that at least shows that we are geniune. We hope that this answers your question."

You have 2 verifications from the females in question so the second one cant have deleted you as it still shows on your profile. And trust me there are a few bi females in barnstaple lol i should know lol

but you are a bit young for me, but i do know others in the area your age xx feel free to message me

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By *ovCpl40sCouple
over a year ago

coventry

We have been here for an eternity in comparison to some posting on here and have MET lots of single females and played with a VERY small number of them .............. would have loved more but attraction, distance etc etc etc

They do exist and patience is a virtue so we keep hoping and waiting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The second lady has deleted us from her friends list but her verifications still stay on our profile. We seemed to be getting on then out of the blue she deleted us becouse we were busy moving house and had no contact for a week. About 6 weeks later she text Sam out the blue. Time wasting. We hope that this clears it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt she was time wasting, as a single fem on here i can let you know that we recieve about fifty mails a day, so its not easy to keep in touch with everyone, and she knew you were moving house so perhaps she thought you were the timewasters (ive had couples tell me there moving house) but yet they havent, they like to talk about what they want to do, but dont actually go ahead with the meet. 9 times out of ten its the hubby and the wife knows nothing about the proposed meet. So please just be patient and you can still mail her if she is on your verifications as she hasnt blocked you only had a clear out of friends list, which is something many of us single fems do on a reguluar basis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your points of _iew,this is Sam writing this reply i totally understand that yourself and single bi fems get bombarded by messages,my prob with the fem in question was that we were chatting on here exchanged phone numbers and numerous texts and phone calls were made as she said in verications we got on v well and knew we were genuine,the contact was getting to know each other ect not cheap turn on messages as i'm /we like most people on here are not going to jump into bed with the first person who shows intrest for me there would have to be trust 100% .i feel that a message/text just to say hi and then if we didnt reply then delete us i feel there was alot of game playing going on and thats not us(well in that way anyway). I can asure you that we are on this site because i want to be and under no pressure as this is my main desire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't quite understand the elusive as I'm a bi female but you are just too far for me to get to. Perhaps that's the problem that there are none in your area

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

"Don't quite understand the elusive as I'm a bi female but you are just too far for me to get to. Perhaps that's the problem that there are none in your area"

There are not many in Suffolk either

Our last meet was from South East. Think you just have to look outside your area sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is our second thread on this topic as we deleted one but people commented so some of our replies are on the other thread. We dont just look for ladies in our area as we are more than happy to travel for the right lady,but would obviously need to arrange a meet even social, with no pressure, due to family and work commitments.

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By *ytraCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

I have to say we are lucky in this, we have a bi friend on Fabs who lives just a couple of mile from us needless to say we dont have to look too far for a bi fem.

However, if we hadn't met her i would like to bet it would have taken us a while to meet the elusive bi

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By *ong_legs2Couple
over a year ago

essex

well its been almost a year for us n still no luck...but the search continues!

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

The first time we met a bi female for a 3some actually happened by chance on a night out (it was a gay bar/ club though). We weren't even looking for a meet at the time lol.

Have you tried meeting girls for a 1-1 meet first and building up a friendship with them? That may work best and make the other girl feel more comfortable, which can be the most important thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve been lucky to indulge ourselves with a ffm threesome quite a few times, one way we have found of achieving this is by going to house parties and being the last couple standing! We have found that there are quite often a couple of naughty ladies that have more stamina than their partners and are happy to join us! xxx

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