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Being blocked just before a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems to be a theme of late that I arrange meets and then the night before or even the day of the meet I get blocked.

Anyone else experiencing this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my one is in get blocked for just texting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very common. Some people must prefer the chase to the kill so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, unfortunately.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not had it myself ,but seems to happen judging by forums

People would rather block than say they've changed their minds sadly,or may be they never intended to meet.

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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago

De12 area

Happened a few times for me. Or they leave site after a meet has been arranged and blocked on phone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's just so frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just so frustrating.

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been here two weeks arrange two meets both cancelled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me a few times, it's why I tend to arrange meets at clubs nowadays so if they don't show I at least get to flirt at the club and maybe still get some action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me twice. Only thing to add is I had booked and paid for hotel rooms and was actually waiting in the room for them to turn up. They both went as far as to message up to 30 mins before the meet then suddenly blocked!! Takes the piss, and guys have the bad reputation on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were social meets where I was going anyway so if they were no shows was no big deal one guy has asked me 3 times to meet then radio silence the next day lol

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

Sorry you've experienced this, especially when all seemed well and geared up for a meet. Lots, I think, like the thought and fantasy of it. I think they even believe it and they love the thought of going through with it. Then, the night before reality kicks right in, and that excitement turns to anxiety for whatever reason and they can't go through with it.

I had someone not block me, but on the day just go off the face of the earth without any explanation. Lo and behold I had a message the following morning giving the most elaborate reason for not being able to make it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a girl tell me she was bite by a hamster

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By *izzaMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"It seems to be a theme of late that I arrange meets and then the night before or even the day of the meet I get blocked.

Anyone else experiencing this?"

If I was lucky enough to have a meet with you I would 100% turn up!

I would never block you!

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Had the opposite. Had a meet which went well bit after I got home he had blocked me.

I usually say I don't do 1 offs prefer regular meets so only thing I CD think was he told.me what I wanted to hear bit only wanted a 1 off. The only thing i thot was how immature. This time iv counter blocked cos it happened 2 years ago Then guy messaged me months later "Hey babe up for another night of amazing sex" Obviously ran out of options so unblocked me. No thanks pal ( felt like saying u weren't that Good but would have made me as immature as him ) x

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By *ock.sucker300Man
over a year ago

nr wellington

twice both with straight guys, guess they just got cold feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes happens regularly and sometimes get messaged reply and they block

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Sadly it’s so often the case on here these days .

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No never blocked the night before just stood up on the actual day.

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By *n_thy_kneesMan
over a year ago

Ipswich


"It's just so frustrating.

been here two weeks arrange two meets both cancelled "

Hey, their loss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just so frustrating.

been here two weeks arrange two meets both cancelled

Hey, their loss! "
im arkward enough anyway it doesn't help ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not been blocked, but had several short notice let downs recently.

Never used to happen. I guess as Fab gets bigger we’ll all see more of this?

The great people I have met, more than make up for the time wasters though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people get nervous and end up backing out. It seems quite a rude way to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had that happen to me last weekend. It's a pain really. Had been chatting ages and felt like we really clicked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this quite a few times. Once when hotel was booked and everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked before a meet, cancelled on at last min and just stood up! All are equally frustrating!

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By *ustylustybbwbabeWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Thats so disgusting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh to many times OP think others like the chase but not got the bottle to go through with it ,time wasters in short

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"It seems to be a theme of late that I arrange meets and then the night before or even the day of the meet I get blocked.

Anyone else experiencing this?"
They must be mad to block you. There loss not yours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had this quite a few times. Once when hotel was booked and everything. "
thats terrible who does that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

several times, when we agree to a day and time they don't reply and block,

weve had 2 agree to meet at theirs then when the time arrives they refuse to send address or number then blocked us,

theres some funny ones on here for sure

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By *he honey dipperMan
over a year ago

Anywhere but not there

It's those sort if people that give us genuine ones a bad name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had this quite a few times. Once when hotel was booked and everything. thats terrible who does that "

An arsehole lol

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"No never blocked the night before just stood up on the actual day."

Same here! Just radio silence on the day and they don’t reply to messages!

Not sure if some women and couples are just as unreliable - guessing they are!

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Cant not believe, all you sexy ladies on here have been blocked or stood up. What is wrong with some guys on here, There loss not yours.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I've had this quite a few times. Once when hotel was booked and everything. "

For this reason I never book the hotel!

I have countless verifications to prove how genuine and reliable I am! If they want to meet in a hotel - they book it! If finances allow i’ll Happily pay half when we get to the room! Xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Happens all the time, hence why I don't meet new people now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had this quite a few times. Once when hotel was booked and everything.

For this reason I never book the hotel!

I have countless verifications to prove how genuine and reliable I am! If they want to meet in a hotel - they book it! If finances allow i’ll Happily pay half when we get to the room! Xx"

I don't do at all now

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"It seems to be a theme of late that I arrange meets and then the night before or even the day of the meet I get blocked.

Anyone else experiencing this?"

We had this last week! We think maybe the hubby was doing all the arrangements and then when Mrs got involved instead of saying we’ve changed our mind it was just a straight block. Was weird as we’d been chatting for weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *nglishdoodMan
over a year ago

Morristown

Cold feet & no manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just so frustrating.

been here two weeks arrange two meets both cancelled "

whoever cancelled on you must have been mad you so damn sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant not believe, all you sexy ladies on here have been blocked or stood up. What is wrong with some guys on here, There loss not yours."

It happens fairly regularly to us women probably just as much as it does to you men! Either way it's awful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had it happen to me twice by the same guy on here realdeal83 after hooking up a couple of times and trying to get me arrange a ffm meet for him at the last minute blew me out and then asked me to give him another chance and he said I could go to his on the Saturday and he cook a BBQ as sorry for messing me about on the Saturday morning message him and he takes hours to grow some balls and message back to blow me out again absolute waste of space with the most pathetic excuse which was lies, just makes me angry as if they were up front we could change our plans and rearrange our night "

That's shit! And so frustrating as much as I think he should be named and shamed it's against forum rules so you may get a ban xx

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