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"It's damn near impossible for me to cum from a blowjob. I was away for a dirty weekend, and I just couldn't cum from one. She was fantastic, so it's not her fault. Just wondered if any guys are the same? Also, I know it frustrated the lady, so how do ladies feel about it when it doesn't happen?" I never cum just from sucking Angie loves it and is very very good but no joy | |||
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"I’m not the only one then...I really enjoy it, and it does happen, though the theory that blokes just want to have their cocks sucked, for myself is flawed...it’s just part of the bigger picture, an aspect of sex that I embrace, but don’t just live for! " Exactly this. I would rather eat a woman out than get my cock sucked | |||
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"It’s frustrating if you can’t make a guy come during a BJ" you probably could but it would involve alot of wanking, just from a bj i cant cum | |||
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"I’ve only had one guy I couldn’t from sucking" is that a challenge? xx | |||
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"Same here. I can get off by wanking while my balls are being sucked, but never been able to get off from a blowjob. The upside is I get so frustrated from that, the sex that follows tends to be really rough " Exactly the same. Phew | |||
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"You are not alone, lots of guys can't cum from A bj. If someone is like that then I never make cumming the focus. Just lie back and enjoy the pleasure and experience of receiving without pressure. It works wonders!" Exactly! I’ve no hang ups, but there’s many ways to enjoy one another | |||
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"From a woman’s perspective , we actually say on our profile that if guys struggle to cum we don’t want to meet them . My Mrs loves cum , it’s the man reason we meet and I love to see her happy . She certainly isn’t here for meeting guys who have issues with not being able to cum, and the majority if guys who can’t cum from a bj either wank too much or are thinking about holding back for penetration . Some also think they shouldn’t cum too quickly and that stops it too . It should be a natural release when they want to cum , sometimes it’s only a few minutes , others up to twenty minutes , with hands used too , but ultimately a fun and enjoyable experience for both parties . I would guess that she has got over a thousand guys off from a bj in the time we have been swinging so it’s not really a common problem ! " Could just be that those of us who struggle arent having it done for long eough | |||
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"From a woman’s perspective , we actually say on our profile that if guys struggle to cum we don’t want to meet them . My Mrs loves cum , it’s the man reason we meet and I love to see her happy . She certainly isn’t here for meeting guys who have issues with not being able to cum, and the majority if guys who can’t cum from a bj either wank too much or are thinking about holding back for penetration . Some also think they shouldn’t cum too quickly and that stops it too . It should be a natural release when they want to cum , sometimes it’s only a few minutes , others up to twenty minutes , with hands used too , but ultimately a fun and enjoyable experience for both parties . I would guess that she has got over a thousand guys off from a bj in the time we have been swinging so it’s not really a common problem ! Could just be that those of us who struggle arent having it done for long eough" That could be the case , and maybe the giver doesn’t want to spend an inordinate amount of time sucking a cock either . | |||
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"From a woman’s perspective , we actually say on our profile that if guys struggle to cum we don’t want to meet them . My Mrs loves cum , it’s the man reason we meet and I love to see her happy . She certainly isn’t here for meeting guys who have issues with not being able to cum, and the majority if guys who can’t cum from a bj either wank too much or are thinking about holding back for penetration . Some also think they shouldn’t cum too quickly and that stops it too . It should be a natural release when they want to cum , sometimes it’s only a few minutes , others up to twenty minutes , with hands used too , but ultimately a fun and enjoyable experience for both parties . I would guess that she has got over a thousand guys off from a bj in the time we have been swinging so it’s not really a common problem ! " | |||
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"Get her to stick a finger up your arse " that’s the secret for me as well. | |||
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"Get her to stick a finger up your arse that’s the secret for me as well. " Yeah, not gonna happen! | |||
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"Get her to stick a finger up your arse that’s the secret for me as well. Yeah, not gonna happen!" hahahaha | |||
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"Get her to stick a finger up your arse " That works every time x | |||
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"It’s really frustrating ! And to be honest I lose interest if it’s not going to happen and I LOVE sucking cock. Floppsy." | |||
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"It wouldn't bother me at all,just let me know beforehand it may not happen and, I'll be quite happy just doing my own thing with you. " Cool, when can you get here? | |||
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"If I couldn't cum from a blowjob I would be gutted. It's the most amazing orgasm ever as you cum into a ladies mouth, the intensity of it actually makes me scream, much better than penetrative orgasms. " Totally agree | |||
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"I love sucking cock so whether he comes or not whilst i’m doing it i’m not that bothered, so long as he comes at some point. I have made the mistake of going all in on a blowjob early in a meet and the guy has come quickly and then been unable to get a second wind, before i’ve even taken my bra off, nevermind my knickers! " I never have a problem with second wind. But you always have to make the lady cum first, it's just manners! I have cum from a blowjob before, so I do know the intensity (that's why I said damn near,and not just impossible). Guessing I'm just missing something. I even said to the lady, I know a way we could cheat, but she refused! Guessing that's just determination on her part then! | |||
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"I love sucking cock so whether he comes or not whilst i’m doing it i’m not that bothered, so long as he comes at some point. I have made the mistake of going all in on a blowjob early in a meet and the guy has come quickly and then been unable to get a second wind, before i’ve even taken my bra off, nevermind my knickers! " To be fair, you could have got your bra and knickers off, it’s just that I’d fallen asleep by then | |||
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"I love sucking cock so whether he comes or not whilst i’m doing it i’m not that bothered, so long as he comes at some point. I have made the mistake of going all in on a blowjob early in a meet and the guy has come quickly and then been unable to get a second wind, before i’ve even taken my bra off, nevermind my knickers! " Im The same. Even had a fb that as my blow jobs were so good he cdnt last long. Wdnt bother me either if he didn't cum but never had that problem. Even the guy that sd no way will it happen. Now why would u give a stubborn woman a challenge like that. | |||
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"It's damn near impossible for me to cum from a blowjob. I was away for a dirty weekend, and I just couldn't cum from one. She was fantastic, so it's not her fault. Just wondered if any guys are the same? Also, I know it frustrated the lady, so how do ladies feel about it when it doesn't happen?" I have a mixed response it tends to help whilst my head is in fantasy, watching others in a shared room or when it is as part of other play. I tend to find hand and mouth works better but at a slow rate. Not sure if this is normal though, what's normal lol. My wife is fine now that she knows it isn't as a result of her work and that slow is better. | |||
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"A little finger around that bum hole always as men shooting they loads xx " Oh indeed but is amazing how many women think your gay if you like that. | |||
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"I love sucking cock so whether he comes or not whilst i’m doing it i’m not that bothered, so long as he comes at some point. I have made the mistake of going all in on a blowjob early in a meet and the guy has come quickly and then been unable to get a second wind, before i’ve even taken my bra off, nevermind my knickers! Im The same. Even had a fb that as my blow jobs were so good he cdnt last long. Wdnt bother me either if he didn't cum but never had that problem. Even the guy that sd no way will it happen. Now why would u give a stubborn woman a challenge like that. " Haha, perseverance in its finest form I'd say! | |||
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