FabSwingers.com forum: Couples looking for a guy?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many couples actually look for a guy to join them?

I’m looking for a couple to join over a single female, and whilst I sometime have a little chat it seems to drift off and nothing really comes if it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are. We have arranged a few meets and almost all of them have let us down at the last minute. It’s getting really annoying

Floppsy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t understand why someone would arrange to meet and then let anyone down. It’s common courtesy to show up when you arrange a meeting.

It gives us honourable males bad press.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agreed it is very annoying, and I too do t understand why people would let others down.

I always try to treat others how I would like to be treated myself, however I do get that not everyone thinks like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are. We have arranged a few meets and almost all of them have let us down at the last minute. It’s getting really annoying

Floppsy "

They must be fantasists - very nice profile and pics.

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

Know there are many couples on here looking for that.

Confess that on the occasions when we plan to meet guys, we usually look for more than one (greedy I know). That seems to put off many guys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look for guys all the time, we prefer MMF. However, like most couple a we have been let down so many times at the last minute, and I do mean the last minute.

We were all ready in the car and the dreaded cancel message came through.

When find someone reliable and good we tend to stick with him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Know there are many couples on here looking for that.

Confess that on the occasions when we plan to meet guys, we usually look for more than one (greedy I know). That seems to put off many guys....

Sounds good to me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don’t get it!

If you arrange to meet somone then do so, but I also get if “real” things come up, but sorry I’d never arrange a meet unless I 100% know that I can turn up.

It’s hard enough to get a couple to agree to meet, let alone arrange one then not turn up or cancel very last minute!

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Most of our meets are with single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We now tend to arrange a social in a pub close to us so that when they inevitably cancel we have a night out anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting sounds like a great idea until the nerves hit. I'll admit, I've bailed at the last minute before.

Now I try to make a point of chatting for a fair bit, maybe on the phone, then meeting for a drink first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet single guys. We’ve had a fair few let downs but we've also met some great guys.

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

Nearly all of our meets are in our favourite club. We seldom arrange to meet single guys as there are plenty in the club already. Some become friends though and we will happily arrange to meet them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The let downs are getting more frequent now, just can't understand what these guys, and couples get out of it. Frustrating to say the least.

We should be able to list timewasters somewhere on FAB. That way you can decide whether to make contact or not. If they appear on the list more than 3 times they're profile should come with a warning

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"We only meet single guys. We’ve had a fair few let downs but we've also met some great guys."

This has also been true for us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’d like to try a MMF but very nervous as we don’t want pressure nor expectations.

We’d like to fulfill the dream of my fella and another man in an army outfit to do a little role play.

But don’t want to feel pushed or pressured into having fun.

The perfect senario would be to purely have a social, have some banter with no expectations and maybe have the option to play that night, or even better leave the build up to the next meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a few single guys off here and 90% have been great. Only met one who was very pushy and kinda stalkerish

Safe to say we blocked him from contacting us.

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many couples actually look for a guy to join them?

I’m looking for a couple to join over a single female, and whilst I sometime have a little chat it seems to drift off and nothing really comes if it.

In the early days we chatted to loads of guys, most of which it would drift and we’d meet one or two. It’s just not possible to meet everyone we chatted to.

Mrs

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"We are. We have arranged a few meets and almost all of them have let us down at the last minute. It’s getting really annoying

Floppsy "

Wow. Find it hard to believe any man would not follow through with meeting you both. I certainly wouldn’t!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many couples actually look for a guy to join them?

I’m looking for a couple to join over a single female, and whilst I sometime have a little chat it seems to drift off and nothing really comes if it.

I’ve met some awesome couples from fab. They all have a unique dynamic. Hotwifing. It’s one of my favourite things

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

"We’d like to try a MMF but very nervous as we don’t want pressure nor expectations.

We’d like to fulfill the dream of my fella and another man in an army outfit to do a little role play.

But don’t want to feel pushed or pressured into having fun.

The perfect senario would be to purely have a social, have some banter with no expectations and maybe have the option to play that night, or even better leave the build up to the next meet

Kx"

A nice social is the best opening. Some beers and a warm char to get up the mood. Then play you both and the other man just watching. Everything will come eventually at its right time. You must trust each other

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

There are lots of couples looking for single guys (the good single guys)

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By *bc 2017Couple
over a year ago

horsham

its possibly because you are bi curious. just guessing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds like it’s your chat which is off if it drifts ....

We get a lot of attention, and will chat initially to a few who catch our eye ....

... but won’t meet everyone ....

It’s like an interview process. You don’t invite everyone in you do a phone call with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its possibly because you are bi curious. just guessing"

It won’t be that. Couples who object to meeting bicurious guys wouldn’t have cause to chat with him in the first place. And besides loads of couples meet bicurious guys, so that would only stand in the way of him meeting some couples.

Mrs

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By *extoy82Man
over a year ago

Beverley

My main desire is to meet couples on here, I have met a few but i find it takes forever to find ppl who are willing to meet, I understand there are rubbish single guys here ruining it for most but after we have I hardly ever get a veri, I know it’s not mandatory but a lot of ppl won’t meet due to my lack of displayed veris, I do have faith but even that is tested regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My main desire is to meet couples on here, I have met a few but i find it takes forever to find ppl who are willing to meet, I understand there are rubbish single guys here ruining it for most but after we have I hardly ever get a veri, I know it’s not mandatory but a lot of ppl won’t meet due to my lack of displayed veris, I do have faith but even that is tested regularly "

Rubbish guys don’t stop couples from meeting. Nobody pays any attention to rubbish guys.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our main aim on here is to meet with single guys, be that 1 2 or more, but it is very hard work finding just what we are looking for, and for them to them to turn up

We think decent single guys are rarer than bi fems

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

"We think decent single guys are rarer than bi fems"

You do mean single bi fems right? In our experience there are far more couples with bi fems than any other combination.

We take your point about single guys though. Good ones are rarer than snow at Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think decent single guys are rarer than bi fems

You do mean single bi fems right? In our experience there are far more couples with bi fems than any other combination.

We take your point about single guys though. Good ones are rarer than snow at Christmas."

Yeah sorry single bi fems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a few couples, and love the dynamic of a threesome . The key is being respectful and relaxed I find !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many couples actually look for a guy to join them?

I’m looking for a couple to join over a single female, and whilst I sometime have a little chat it seems to drift off and nothing really comes if it.

We aren't looking continuously but occasionally we advertise for a single man. We do tend to make it a long term arrangement so not often look for a new one.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's part of the swinging world I'm afraid..we look.for guy to have fun with her and have been let down a few times..

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