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By *rankyandbenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belgium

Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no ????? we wouldn’t have stood you guys up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's impressive.

And people moan about the single male. x

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford


"Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours "

,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, If only you met short male jewish perverts!!!!!!!!!!

I wouldn't let ya down!

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By *rankyandbenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belgium

thank you, very kind of you! we are not upset or annoyed (fabswingers has this reputation), just thought it is funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours "

That's pretty impressive, sorry to hear it though

C

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By *rankyandbenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belgium

oh well this is London being London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh well this is London being London "

Would have thought London would be no problem meeting people

C

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By *rankyandbenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belgium

more people, but poorer commitment keeping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thank you, very kind of you! we are not upset or annoyed (fabswingers has this reputation), just thought it is funny "

It's the same on all internet sites. It's the people's fault not the site.

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By *rankyandbenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belgium

fair point, but in our experience even craigslist users were more commited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They must be fucking mad standing you up!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours "

we would say its their loss, you both look great,

mrs has the most beautifull tits I have seen on here and the rest is is pretty fine too

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By *4tCouple
over a year ago

warrington


"Oh no ????? we wouldn’t have stood you guys up. "

Nor us

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By *iveshowcoupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Sadly that is typical of fab. And many of these time wasters are serial offenders.

Pity fab will not allow some type of name and shame system.

Unofficially of course people talk and trade names. For good and negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours "

We're you meeting them all at the same time

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I was chatting to a couple last night who were saying the same thing. I think Fab has changed in the two years I’ve been on xx.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I was chatting to a couple last night who were saying the same thing. I think Fab has changed in the two years I’ve been on xx. "

It has , and not for the better .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on, you didn't ask me OP... Not all Londoner's are bad.

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By *rankyandbenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belgium

No, of course not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours "

You either have a talent or a magnet for timewasters. Did you arrange by phone call? Were they verified? Were you talking a few days before the meet? I dont get it how people fail to spot the timewasters...

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By *ee7345Man
over a year ago

Ceredigion

Wow! Their loss, you look great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTF is wrong with people?! Maybe the heat has got to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My record is 2 in one day, so you have me beat!

Ask for a social meet first, sorts out the dreamers without the frustration.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours

You either have a talent or a magnet for timewasters. Did you arrange by phone call? Were they verified? Were you talking a few days before the meet? I dont get it how people fail to spot the timewasters..."

For so many busy people , a site such as this is an ideal platform for simple and straightforward hook ups . Not everyone has the time nor the inclination to spend ages talking , phoning and taking all manner of efforts to out timewasters .

We certainly don’t , and never will . So we may have to accept that we will attract lots of timewasters . Hence the fact that we always have a back up plan , and choose to go dogging or meet in public places like pubs or clubs . This way we always have a good night anyway .

But the bottom line is that it’s a bloody shame that so many people come onto sites like this , just to waste people’s time . To blame people who aren’t here to waste anyone’s time is not right .

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Could it be that they don’t know where to meet you? They see your profile and wonder how you figure Belgium is in London!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different values for some! I imagine that you pair would be an appointment to keep...

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours "

Unlucky!

Just interested what the logistics of this one were going to be. Did you have three back to backs arranged? Or were the other couples back ups for the first?

Maybe have another look at your selection process.

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By *LkinkyfunCouple
over a year ago

stockport

It’s actually really hard to find people who really want to meet not just a quick time

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By *rankyandbenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belgium

Agree, social meet first would have helped, but we were in London for the weekend only.

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By *rankyandbenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belgium

We scheduled one meeting for the early afternoon, one for the late evening, and one for the next morning. We knew from the past experiences there was 0% chance all three would materialise, 1% chance two would happen, but were hoping at least 1 out of 3 would still happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours "

Thats because your not in the north where we keep our word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We scheduled one meeting for the early afternoon, one for the late evening, and one for the next morning. We knew from the past experiences there was 0% chance all three would materialise, 1% chance two would happen, but were hoping at least 1 out of 3 would still happen."

I’m really sorry for you guys...

I hope you were still able to enjoy your weekend in London

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By *rankyandbenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belgium

Thank you. The weather was glorious and there were lots if things to do in London in any case, so the weekend was still a success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. The weather was glorious and there were lots if things to do in London in any case, so the weekend was still a success."

Next time you're over you're more than welcome to visit Bristol

Good luck on Thursday with the football x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours "

Wtf did you do/say lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's impressive.

And people moan about the single male. x"

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Sadly that is typical of fab. And many of these time wasters are serial offenders.

Pity fab will not allow some type of name and shame system.

Unofficially of course people talk and trade names. For good and negative."

There's a very good reason why naming and shaming isn't allowed.

Its way too open to abuse.

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London


"Agree, social meet first would have helped, but we were in London for the weekend only."

Maybe next time you should plan for at least one meet to be in a club. If nothing happened then you would have still had some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had 3 cancellations for social meets in a week same guy twice does that count

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By *rankyandbenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belgium

this is not a competition, but we are winning so far, sorry

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By *iveshowcoupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Sadly that is typical of fab. And many of these time wasters are serial offenders.

Pity fab will not allow some type of name and shame system.

Unofficially of course people talk and trade names. For good and negative.

There's a very good reason why naming and shaming isn't allowed.

Its way too open to abuse."

I agree but on the other hand people who make arrangements to meet but dont turn up are a disgrace.

They are guilty of abusing the trust of genuine members and frankly deserve no favours.

I have previously suggested a way of posting concerns about someone but allowing them the right of reply. Let everyone else arrive at their own judgement.

In the meantime I will rely on the unofficial black list where some members share info about people to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours

You either have a talent or a magnet for timewasters. Did you arrange by phone call? Were they verified? Were you talking a few days before the meet? I dont get it how people fail to spot the timewasters...

For so many busy people , a site such as this is an ideal platform for simple and straightforward hook ups . Not everyone has the time nor the inclination to spend ages talking , phoning and taking all manner of efforts to out timewasters .

We certainly don’t , and never will . So we may have to accept that we will attract lots of timewasters . Hence the fact that we always have a back up plan , and choose to go dogging or meet in public places like pubs or clubs . This way we always have a good night anyway .

But the bottom line is that it’s a bloody shame that so many people come onto sites like this , just to waste people’s time . To blame people who aren’t here to waste anyone’s time is not right . "

Communication is not just about ing out the timewasters. For some people its also essential to get to know who they’re fucking?

But I guess not everyone is the shame...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We scheduled one meeting for the early afternoon, one for the late evening, and one for the next morning. We knew from the past experiences there was 0% chance all three would materialise, 1% chance two would happen, but were hoping at least 1 out of 3 would still happen."

I start not believing your story?

Its either you have zero inteligence or you’re just seeking attention in a peculiar fashion.

Can you name the timewasters here?

If not, I just dont buy your story...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We scheduled one meeting for the early afternoon, one for the late evening, and one for the next morning. We knew from the past experiences there was 0% chance all three would materialise, 1% chance two would happen, but were hoping at least 1 out of 3 would still happen.

I start not believing your story?

Its either you have zero inteligence or you’re just seeking attention in a peculiar fashion.

Can you name the timewasters here?

If not, I just dont buy your story..."

Why don’t you believe them ?

couples cancel a lot ..... it could be the ladies time of the month, babysitting issues , sick child , and they could have gotten into a fight...

This is just a part of swinging......

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Thank you. The weather was glorious and there were lots if things to do in London in any case, so the weekend was still a success.

Next time you're over you're more than welcome to visit Bristol

"

Or Reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours "
damn you're good

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"We scheduled one meeting for the early afternoon, one for the late evening, and one for the next morning. We knew from the past experiences there was 0% chance all three would materialise, 1% chance two would happen, but were hoping at least 1 out of 3 would still happen.

I start not believing your story?

Its either you have zero inteligence or you’re just seeking attention in a peculiar fashion.

Can you name the timewasters here?

If not, I just dont buy your story..."

Strange response...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. The weather was glorious and there were lots if things to do in London in any case, so the weekend was still a success.

Next time you're over you're more than welcome to visit Bristol

Or Reading "
reading looks like a great place to be

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By *rankyandbenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belgium


"We scheduled one meeting for the early afternoon, one for the late evening, and one for the next morning. We knew from the past experiences there was 0% chance all three would materialise, 1% chance two would happen, but were hoping at least 1 out of 3 would still happen.

I start not believing your story?

Its either you have zero inteligence or you’re just seeking attention in a peculiar fashion.

Can you name the timewasters here?

If not, I just dont buy your story..."
you are too kind

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By *iveshowcoupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"We scheduled one meeting for the early afternoon, one for the late evening, and one for the next morning. We knew from the past experiences there was 0% chance all three would materialise, 1% chance two would happen, but were hoping at least 1 out of 3 would still happen.

I start not believing your story?

Its either you have zero inteligence or you’re just seeking attention in a peculiar fashion.

Can you name the timewasters here?

If not, I just dont buy your story...

Strange response..."

Just check their other posts on other topics. Lol

You might just see a pattern of behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We scheduled one meeting for the early afternoon, one for the late evening, and one for the next morning. We knew from the past experiences there was 0% chance all three would materialise, 1% chance two would happen, but were hoping at least 1 out of 3 would still happen.

I start not believing your story?

Its either you have zero inteligence or you’re just seeking attention in a peculiar fashion.

Can you name the timewasters here?

If not, I just dont buy your story...

Strange response...

Just check their other posts on other topics. Lol

You might just see a pattern of behaviour.

"

Yes there is a pattern. No tolerance for liars, uneducated and people who cant participate in a rational dialogue.

Oh...and people who eat any shit they give them and say thank you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s not good but that’s the bad side of sites. Hope you’re luck changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the 3 couples where one person playing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There loss dnt give them a second chance x

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By *humper9erMan
over a year ago

Rocklin


"Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours "

Geeepers, you're batting a negative 2! BUMMER

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By *rankyandbenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belgium


"That’s not good but that’s the bad side of sites. Hope you’re luck changes "

thank you

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"We scheduled one meeting for the early afternoon, one for the late evening, and one for the next morning. We knew from the past experiences there was 0% chance all three would materialise, 1% chance two would happen, but were hoping at least 1 out of 3 would still happen."

Ah, that’s why. Couples in London prefer to meet in the evening. Maybe drinks and if all goes well, sex. So really you had 1 in 3 chance of meeting.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"Somehow managed to get stood up by three different couples within 24 hours

Thats because your not in the north where we keep our word"

Very true. Northerners are more honest and upfront. That’s why swinging in theNorth is much more refreshing and fun. No stupid games..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we’re not sure about a couple we arrange to meet at a club, at least then if they don’t turn up/cancel or we’re just not feeling it with them we still get a good night out

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