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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What have you learnt on here that you simply had never known about in every day life?

I learnt the other day that the difference between bi and lesbian is that lesbians sleep with women with no male presence Who knew?!

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading


"What have you learnt on here that you simply had never known about in every day life?

I learnt the other day that the difference between bi and lesbian is that lesbians sleep with women with no male presence Who knew?! "

Lots of women enjoy being sluts and like a good hard fucking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Lots of women enjoy being sluts and like a good hard fucking "

Are you being sarcastic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt about the Mexican lamp shade.

Then told a mate at work what it was and he laughed so hard

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

It’s ok to have lots of cocks at onc Either all together or seeing them all separate ... and they all know ... and it’s fine ... who knew ... I’ve wasted all these years !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I learnt about the Mexican lamp shade.

Then told a mate at work what it was and he laughed so hard "

Do tell?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"What have you learnt on here that you simply had never known about in every day life?

I learnt the other day that the difference between bi and lesbian is that lesbians sleep with women with no male presence Who knew?! "

Oh my god, does that mean I'm actually a lesbian?! But what about my husband?! I should probably tell him... Didn't realise if been doing it wrong all this time!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What have you learnt on here that you simply had never known about in every day life?

I learnt the other day that the difference between bi and lesbian is that lesbians sleep with women with no male presence Who knew?!

Oh my god, does that mean I'm actually a lesbian?! But what about my husband?! I should probably tell him... Didn't realise if been doing it wrong all this time!!! "

Pfft, you’re a proper dyke you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What have you learnt on here that you simply had never known about in every day life?

I learnt the other day that the difference between bi and lesbian is that lesbians sleep with women with no male presence Who knew?! "

I'm guessing a man told you that truth

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"What have you learnt on here that you simply had never known about in every day life?

I learnt the other day that the difference between bi and lesbian is that lesbians sleep with women with no male presence Who knew?!

Oh my god, does that mean I'm actually a lesbian?! But what about my husband?! I should probably tell him... Didn't realise if been doing it wrong all this time!!!

Pfft, you’re a proper dyke you! "

And you're a cheeky brat! Who knew!

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By *V-AliceTV/TS
over a year ago

Ayr

"Straight" doesn't mean diddly for a lot of men - who message bi and gay transvestites, wanting sex with them.

It's a convenient label for avoiding putting off those who only want to meet genuinely straight men.

It's a ploy you can see straight through.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s ok to have lots of cocks at onc Either all together or seeing them all separate ... and they all know ... and it’s fine ... who knew ... I’ve wasted all these years !!! "

Absolutely this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a site full of supposedly open-minded liberated people, there's a LOT of judgement and small-mindedness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think you are sex hungry. Then you see some of the profiles on here

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"For a site full of supposedly open-minded liberated people, there's a LOT of judgement and small-mindedness."

Apropos of nothing, your disclaimer amuses me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'll agree about the closed mindedness though. Lots of slut shaming, "I'm not into any of that weird stuff", homophobia, etc. Like, there's plenty I'm not into, and approaches that wouldn't work for me, but whatever happened to "I hope you have fun, more power to you"? (I mean obviously assuming everything is safe, sane, consensual, etc)

And the number of guys wanting to sleep around but slut shaming women. That just seems to work against their interests?

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading


"

Lots of women enjoy being sluts and like a good hard fucking

Are you being sarcastic? "

Not at all . It’s what we have learned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll agree about the closed mindedness though. Lots of slut shaming, "I'm not into any of that weird stuff", homophobia, etc. Like, there's plenty I'm not into, and approaches that wouldn't work for me, but whatever happened to "I hope you have fun, more power to you"? (I mean obviously assuming everything is safe, sane, consensual, etc)

And the number of guys wanting to sleep around but slut shaming women. That just seems to work against their interests? "

No shame in being a slut, more power to them. More likely its the guys who are rejected by aforementioned sluts that do the bashing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt a Nympho is not a fictional creature from an imaginary land!! They actually fucking exist . Also whenever you go on the chatrooms be careful on who's cam you click on. I've seen some very scary sights which I cannot erase from my memory.

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

That being called a slut is acceptable some.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'll agree about the closed mindedness though. Lots of slut shaming, "I'm not into any of that weird stuff", homophobia, etc. Like, there's plenty I'm not into, and approaches that wouldn't work for me, but whatever happened to "I hope you have fun, more power to you"? (I mean obviously assuming everything is safe, sane, consensual, etc)

And the number of guys wanting to sleep around but slut shaming women. That just seems to work against their interests?

No shame in being a slut, more power to them. More likely its the guys who are rejected by aforementioned sluts that do the bashing."

Oh sure. It's a loaded word and one I find I'll either embrace or be repulsed by depending on context. It's just, the guys who seem to want to shag everything that moves (more power to them), but are horrifically homophobic and are horrified by women who sleep around. How the heck do they think that works? (the guys who post repulsive sexist statuses, ditto. I don't know about other women, but I see them and I'm not a fan of meeting guys with low opinions of women in general. Shouting themselves in the foot)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

* shooting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll agree about the closed mindedness though. Lots of slut shaming, "I'm not into any of that weird stuff", homophobia, etc. Like, there's plenty I'm not into, and approaches that wouldn't work for me, but whatever happened to "I hope you have fun, more power to you"? (I mean obviously assuming everything is safe, sane, consensual, etc)

And the number of guys wanting to sleep around but slut shaming women. That just seems to work against their interests?

No shame in being a slut, more power to them. More likely its the guys who are rejected by aforementioned sluts that do the bashing.

Oh sure. It's a loaded word and one I find I'll either embrace or be repulsed by depending on context. It's just, the guys who seem to want to shag everything that moves (more power to them), but are horrifically homophobic and are horrified by women who sleep around. How the heck do they think that works? (the guys who post repulsive sexist statuses, ditto. I don't know about other women, but I see them and I'm not a fan of meeting guys with low opinions of women in general. Shouting themselves in the foot) "

I did a thread about this the other day. I find it weird that they think a woman is a slut but shag her anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You think you are sex hungry. Then you see some of the profiles on here"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh sure. It's a loaded word and one I find I'll either embrace or be repulsed by depending on context. It's just, the guys who seem to want to shag everything that moves (more power to them), but are horrifically homophobic and are horrified by women who sleep around. How the heck do they think that works? (the guys who post repulsive sexist statuses, ditto. I don't know about other women, but I see them and I'm not a fan of meeting guys with low opinions of women in general. Shouting themselves in the foot) "

At least they have the stupidity to advertise the fact

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I learnt about the Mexican lamp shade.

Then told a mate at work what it was and he laughed so hard "

I just googled that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I learnt about the Mexican lamp shade.

Then told a mate at work what it was and he laughed so hard

Do tell? "

If performing oral sex in the 69 positio and the sucker complains the light is too bright the reciver stretches his scrotum over the suckers eyes hahaha i was bad laughing when i heard this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I learnt about the Mexican lamp shade.

Then told a mate at work what it was and he laughed so hard

Do tell?

If performing oral sex in the 69 positio and the sucker complains the light is too bright the reciver stretches his scrotum over the suckers eyes hahaha i was bad laughing when i heard this. "

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"It’s ok to have lots of cocks at onc Either all together or seeing them all separate ... and they all know ... and it’s fine ... who knew ... I’ve wasted all these years !!!

Absolutely this! "

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"* shooting"

Totally agree with your above comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a site full of supposedly open-minded liberated people, there's a LOT of judgement and small-mindedness."

I noticed that. Funny how peeps in an activity such as swinging, that most in the UK would find disgusting and depraived, still can't help themselves from finding a smaller fringe group within to look down upon. Human nature I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt a Nympho is not a fictional creature from an imaginary land!! They actually fucking exist . Also whenever you go on the chatrooms be careful on who's cam you click on. I've seen some very scary sights which I cannot erase from my memory. "

Too hot in the kitchen???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt a Nympho is not a fictional creature from an imaginary land!! They actually fucking exist . Also whenever you go on the chatrooms be careful on who's cam you click on. I've seen some very scary sights which I cannot erase from my memory.

Too hot in the kitchen???"

It was a stupidly hot kitchen

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ve learnt that the term sexy is overly abused!

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

I've learnt that I really hate the word 'panties'.

Katie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learnt that a lot of ladies fantasize about gangbangs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That a lot of men like to call women babe / Hun

Oh and that people will literally put anything in their orifaces, take a picture and happily put it on the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I learnt about the Mexican lamp shade.

Then told a mate at work what it was and he laughed so hard "

What is the Mexican lampshade?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt that I really hate the word 'panties'.

Katie."

Me too I dnt know y i just find it a weird word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I learnt about the Mexican lamp shade.

Then told a mate at work what it was and he laughed so hard

What is the Mexican lampshade?"


"I learnt about the Mexican lamp shade.

Then told a mate at work what it was and he laughed so hard

Do tell?

If performing oral sex in the 69 positio and the sucker complains the light is too bright the reciver stretches his scrotum over the suckers eyes hahaha i was bad laughing when i heard this.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That Sidney Uni is perving over all of our profiles and pics

Would love to know what course uses this material and is on Open University.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What have you learnt on here that you simply had never known about in every day life?

I learnt the other day that the difference between bi and lesbian is that lesbians sleep with women with no male presence Who knew?! "

Well bugger me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How lots of people are ignorant, cant even say sorry not for me thanks

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

That getting a wink or message could give me such happiness

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"How lots of people are ignorant, cant even say sorry not for me thanks"

In this vein I learned I'm apparently better than many at reading and understanding site rules.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

1. A lot of people, especially men, are in denial about their sexuality

2. That there are lot more people than I first expected who are riddled

3. A lot of non-swingers join swinging websites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Riddled with what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve learnt that the term sexy is overly abused! "

Conversely, the terms subjective and objective are underused in a similar way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learbed that some men think they can convert a straight man with the words “Meet now!” And they get very angry when you tell them you’re not interested.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I’ve learbed that some men think they can convert a straight man with the words “Meet now!” And they get very angry when you tell them you’re not interested. "

Faf?

- him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve learbed that some men think they can convert a straight man with the words “Meet now!” And they get very angry when you tell them you’re not interested.

Faf?

- him"

I only know one acronym for Faf, and I don’t think so.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I’ve learbed that some men think they can convert a straight man with the words “Meet now!” And they get very angry when you tell them you’re not interested.

Faf?

- him

I only know one acronym for Faf, and I don’t think so. "

Well how dare you, you homophobic piece of .... I wouldn't have fucked you anyway, you're nothing but a...

(Sarcasm)

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"How lots of people are ignorant, cant even say sorry not for me thanks

In this vein I learned I'm apparently better than many at reading and understanding site rules. "

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By *irtywildsideMan
over a year ago

Barry

I’ve learned that there are hundreds of females and even female halves of couples who are on fab for the sole purpose of fucking me on command when I politely ask ‘u ok, wanna 121 meet now?’

True story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What have you learnt on here that you simply had never known about in every day life?

I learnt the other day that the difference between bi and lesbian is that lesbians sleep with women with no male presence Who knew?! "

Most everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a site full of supposedly open-minded liberated people, there's a LOT of judgement and small-mindedness.

I noticed that. Funny how peeps in an activity such as swinging, that most in the UK would find disgusting and depraived, still can't help themselves from finding a smaller fringe group within to look down

upon. Human nature I guess "

Tis a strange world we live in! In many ways quite amazing and much more accepting of certain lifestyles than we used to see. But still we find groups of society who find it difficult to accept that their way is not the only or best way! Apply it in here or anywhere you like!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"How lots of people are ignorant, cant even say sorry not for me thanks"

I've learnt that most men and couples are incapable of reading the faq section of fab on joining.

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