FabSwingers.com forum: Do you ladies always have to cum during sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know some women who don’t always “need” to cum to enjoy sex. I have often wondered what you get from it? Does it just feel good to have him inside you or be fucked? Is that sometimes enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know some women who don’t always “need” to cum to enjoy sex. I have often wondered what you get from it? Does it just feel good to have him inside you or be fucked? Is that sometimes enough? "

It’s great to feel him inside but I also like to cum if possible

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Erm

I find that odd OP.

I know some ladies struggle to orgasm, but that’s different to how you put it.

Not me though. I cum many times during a session and yes i do need to, or I’d be very frustrated after.

Do you as a man ‘need’ to cum during sex?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

If porn has taught us anything, women totally get off on a bloke splashing them with baby batter, they don’t need any more than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re doing it right I’ll need to cum

What I don’t need is a guy trying to make me cum when I’m not feeling it or choosing not too (a bit of edging is fun too).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If porn has taught us anything, women totally get off on a bloke splashing them with baby batter, they don’t need any more than that

I need a plumber’s tool belt and anal... oh lots of wet, sloppy dick sucking too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do men always need to cum? What you get from it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Erm

I find that odd OP.

I know some ladies struggle to orgasm, but that’s different to how you put it.

Not me though. I cum many times during a session and yes i do need to, or I’d be very frustrated after.

Do you as a man ‘need’ to cum during sex?"

Yeah I do and that why I asked because for example, And maybe I should of phrased it differently, during a quickie girl bends over guys gives her a seeing too and cums and then back to work. Girl doesn’t cum but is still satisfied?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Erm

I find that odd OP.

I know some ladies struggle to orgasm, but that’s different to how you put it.

Not me though. I cum many times during a session and yes i do need to, or I’d be very frustrated after.

Do you as a man ‘need’ to cum during sex?

Not this lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Erm

I find that odd OP.

I know some ladies struggle to orgasm, but that’s different to how you put it.

Not me though. I cum many times during a session and yes i do need to, or I’d be very frustrated after.

Do you as a man ‘need’ to cum during sex?

Not this lady

Fair enough, I love making a girl cum BTW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If porn has taught us anything, women totally get off on a bloke splashing them with baby batter, they don’t need any more than that

I need a plumber’s tool belt and anal... oh lots of wet, sloppy dick sucking too

A plumbers tool belt you say.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don’t always have to cum during sex. I often don’t, and that’s fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, I don’t always have to cum during sex. I often don’t, and that’s fine by me.

So I’m curious.... as a guy the climax is that feeling when I shoot my load, where does your climax to sex come in if you don’t cum or is it just the total experience of having sex that’s enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d assume it’s the same as if a bloke fucks and she finishes before he cums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a difference between sexual satisfaction and enjoyment. I generally don’t cum on meets but I can still enjoy myself. It’s not frustrating because I don’t even come close, if there was the build up and I didn’t cum then I’d be frustrated. In general for me, the sensation of sex is pleasurable, then after a while there’s the build up to an orgasm and then the orgasm. If the last two parts don’t happen then I will still have enjoyed the first part.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There’s a difference between sexual satisfaction and enjoyment. I generally don’t cum on meets but I can still enjoy myself. It’s not frustrating because I don’t even come close, if there was the build up and I didn’t cum then I’d be frustrated. In general for me, the sensation of sex is pleasurable, then after a while there’s the build up to an orgasm and then the orgasm. If the last two parts don’t happen then I will still have enjoyed the first part."

Great reply and makes sense it’s just strange how a guy almost always needs to come and in fact I’d say most women expect a guy to cum. Would I be right in saying if you had a meet and the guy didn’t cum you’d be disappointed or maybe think it was strange?

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Turn the tables men when having sex do you need to cum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love having sex and can get just as much enjoyment if I don’t cum.. the feeling of being fucked and the whole experience is so sexy as well as hoping the other person is getting just as turned on... so it wouldn’t bother me at all!!

That been said I have recently had the amazing experience of someone being able to make me cum over and over which has only happened with one other person.... which was pretty mind blowing!! Makes me wonder if it can any better??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn right I need to cum during sex or else I'm left frustrated and unsatisfied and have to finish myself off.

I'm really lucky though in that I'm very orgasmic and easily have multiplie orgasms throughout a hot session.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love having sex and can get just as much enjoyment if I don’t cum.. the feeling of being fucked and the whole experience is so sexy as well as hoping the other person is getting just as turned on... so it wouldn’t bother me at all!!

Maybe is me feeling guilty after I’ve cum and the woman hasn’t but that’s nice to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe is me feeling guilty after I’ve cum and the woman hasn’t but that’s nice to hear. "

It all depends on the woman as some find it hard to cum... if you just climbed on top and thrust in a few times and came then that might be disappointing... but if you’ve made the effort ... even ask her what could you do to make her cum... just to make sure!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe is me feeling guilty after I’ve cum and the woman hasn’t but that’s nice to hear.

I’m definitely not a pump pump squirt haha if she doesn’t cum I try with my hands and mouth but often women will say it’s ok you don’t need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m definitely not a pump pump squirt haha if she doesn’t cum I try with my hands and mouth but often women will say it’s ok you don’t need to.

Probably because there’s nothing more awkward than a guy trying to get you off when you know it isn’t going to happen! You have to stop somewhere I guess when there isn’t a natural end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they’re just telling you that so they don’t hurt your feelings

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know some women who don’t always “need” to cum to enjoy sex. I have often wondered what you get from it? Does it just feel good to have him inside you or be fucked? Is that sometimes enough?

Maybe they’re just telling you that so they don’t hurt your feelings

Your probably so right ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bloody disappointed if she doesn't come. That's what it's all about for me, seeing a woman in the throes of coming, that wide eyed loss of control....amazing!

One fwb told me she had only ever come from fingering herself, not even by someone else, and when we met she was so nervous, so we went slow. I didn't even go beyond oral and fingering the first time and yes, she orgasmed. A few meets later she was coming like a train from most play!

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

"Erm

I find that odd OP.

I know some ladies struggle to orgasm, but that’s different to how you put it.

Not me though. I cum many times during a session and yes i do need to, or I’d be very frustrated after.

Do you as a man ‘need’ to cum during sex?"

You mean 'before' sex? Right! Haha

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I don't always cum when having a session other times I may cum 2 or 3 times whichever happens I enjoy it. I do like to hear/ feel a woman cum if she don't I feel like I have not done it right but have meet woman that don't cum but get very wet & are totally happy when we are finished so it depends on the person. As long as you both had fun and at the end are both satisfied I don't think cuming matters.

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

"No, I don’t always have to cum during sex. I often don’t, and that’s fine by me.

Often don't?

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Seduce the mind and the body should follow

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

"I’d assume it’s the same as if a bloke fucks and she finishes before he cums."

I'd much rather prefer the woman to cum so I know she's satisfied before me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's not always in my control, or that of anyone I'm with. It comes down to factors outside enjoyment or skill, like nerves or mood outside the encounter. I enjoy sex, the sensations during and surrounding sexual activity, the electricity in the air, giving other people pleasure. If I think about orgasm it reduces the likelihood that I will (although in the right circumstances I can cum and cum and cum). This includes if I'm aware that the person I'm with is treating my orgasm(s) as a thing to tick off the list.

I'd prefer to orgasm during sex, but I don't have to, and dwelling doesn't help at all.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

The original question sounds a wee bit Alan Partridge.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I like the feel of being fucked, sometimes cumming too soon dissapoints me. I like to build up and up.

Love doggy style which never makes me cum - I don't care, I love it

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

"I like the feel of being fucked, sometimes cumming too soon dissapoints me. I like to build up and up.

Love doggy style which never makes me cum - I don't care, I love it"

Being bent over and getting licked out in the doggy style position. Can do wonders

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I cum constantly during penetrative Sex so it’s not something I have to consider really!

If a guy doesn’t make me cum then something’s going very, very wrong! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don’t cum during sex it’s because I’ve chosen not to!

Ultimately I always have the option to play with myself and bring myself to climax - I only cum during sex in certain positions.

However I do enjoy getting fucked and I don’t need to cum for that to be enjoyable - in fact sometimes it’s the fucking that I’m craving, not an orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I get far too sensitive when I cum. I always wait until the final hurrah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never cum, I just enjoy the intimacy and the feeling of having sex.

There being no end result for me isn't a big deal as I get my satisfaction from seeing who I'm with, enjoying what I'm doing to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I don’t cum during sex it’s because I’ve chosen not to!

Ultimately I always have the option to play with myself and bring myself to climax - I only cum during sex in certain positions.

However I do enjoy getting fucked and I don’t need to cum for that to be enjoyable - in fact sometimes it’s the fucking that I’m craving, not an orgasm "

This is what I was curious about. Women who just get off by being fucked and not actually cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cum constantly during penetrative Sex so it’s not something I have to consider really!

If a guy doesn’t make me cum then something’s going very, very wrong! X"

I love women who orgasm a few times during sex, turns me on no end to feel them writhe and tense up time and time again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I don’t cum during sex it’s because I’ve chosen not to!

Ultimately I always have the option to play with myself and bring myself to climax - I only cum during sex in certain positions.

However I do enjoy getting fucked and I don’t need to cum for that to be enjoyable - in fact sometimes it’s the fucking that I’m craving, not an orgasm

This is what I was curious about. Women who just get off by being fucked and not actually cumming "

I love fucking but mainly cum from playing with myself or being played with

My vibrator always makes me cum if I rub my clit with it for long enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Food for thought chaps, don’t cum during sex. I’ve never seen anything make a woman more frustrated/horny. Makes for great sessions after, works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 60% of women don't or cannt cum from just sex alone. The majority of women can only cum by Clit Stimulation whether they do it themselves whilst having sex or after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An orgasm isn't the be all and end all for me. Nor is penetration. I get pleasure in so many other ways. Including his reactions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm

I find that odd OP.

I know some ladies struggle to orgasm, but that’s different to how you put it.

Not me though. I cum many times during a session and yes i do need to, or I’d be very frustrated after.

Do you as a man ‘need’ to cum during sex?

Not this lady

Fair enough, I love making a girl cum BTW

Too late card is marked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However on here if im meeting someone,an orgasm is high on my list of things I need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t need to cum, I very rarely cum, it’s frustrating but it’s just my body. When I do cum though it is fucking needed and wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 60% of women don't or cannt cum from just sex alone. The majority of women can only cum by Clit Stimulation whether they do it themselves whilst having sex or after. "

I cum 99.9% of the time during sex with hubby, just struggle to cum by any means, even my own, on a meet. Entirely the inability to switch off and let it happen I know

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I cum constantly during penetrative Sex so it’s not something I have to consider really!

If a guy doesn’t make me cum then something’s going very, very wrong! X

I love women who orgasm a few times during sex, turns me on no end to feel them writhe and tense up time and time again. "

A few times? I cum about 6-8 times a minute! Feels gorgeous but it’s exhausting after a long session! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I don’t cum during sex it’s because I’ve chosen not to!

Ultimately I always have the option to play with myself and bring myself to climax - I only cum during sex in certain positions.

However I do enjoy getting fucked and I don’t need to cum for that to be enjoyable - in fact sometimes it’s the fucking that I’m craving, not an orgasm "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to cum with clit stimulation but then love a bloody good fuck whilst I’m still pulsing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If porn has taught us anything, women totally get off on a bloke splashing them with baby batter, they don’t need any more than that

Just the sight of a cock makes me cum. Cock pics are like being in heaven.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If porn has taught us anything, women totally get off on a bloke splashing them with baby batter, they don’t need any more than that

Just the sight of a cock makes me cum. Cock pics are like being in heaven. "

First person ever to say that

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

I don’t always have to cum.

Sometimes I just like to have Mr P fuck me hard and throw me around ... I get enjoyment from him cumming hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always ladies first

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I find it utterly frustrating if I don't cum which made me very selective who I met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can very easily and I just find it rude if someone doesn't make the effort to ensure I do a few times before they finish.

~Mia

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkley

As many of the ladies have said, i can enjoy the sex anyway, but if i don't cum i end up feeling disappointed...

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

Its not easy to make me cum. I still enjoy act itself a lot.

I dont have to cum, and i can still leave with a smile on my face.

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