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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a single guy who’s had a couple of profiles over the years I can say it was harder early on to even get a reply from those I’d message, add to that many profiles have the minimum age set to 30 and it seemed like I was fighting a losing battle.

But the question is this...

Is it as simple as most women and couples find the majority of under 30s here immature or rude?

I have found since turning 30 so many people will now take me serious on here which is nice but not great news for the younger guys

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I can't speak for others, but I found that allowing under 30s and over 60s to message me was too much hassle. Much higher proportion of stupid (rude, presumptuous, sexist, etc) messages. While I'm sure there are lovely people under 30 here (and over 60 I know there are), I do what causes me less grief.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think our lower age limit is 38. It suits us and that's all there is to it.

Socially we're happy to mix with any age group, sexually is a different matter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't speak for others, but I found that allowing under 30s and over 60s to message me was too much hassle. Much higher proportion of stupid (rude, presumptuous, sexist, etc) messages. While I'm sure there are lovely people under 30 here (and over 60 I know there are), I do what causes me less grief. "

It’s understandable, the volume ladies and couples must get to their inbox, I’m happy finding one message when I wake up haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think our lower age limit is 38. It suits us and that's all there is to it.

Socially we're happy to mix with any age group, sexually is a different matter."

Would never argue against genuine preference age wise

Just finding out if some folks started with a lower age and became jaded and upped it over time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't speak for others, but I found that allowing under 30s and over 60s to message me was too much hassle. Much higher proportion of stupid (rude, presumptuous, sexist, etc) messages. While I'm sure there are lovely people under 30 here (and over 60 I know there are), I do what causes me less grief.

It’s understandable, the volume ladies and couples must get to their inbox, I’m happy finding one message when I wake up haha "

I'll fix that and send you two !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't speak for others, but I found that allowing under 30s and over 60s to message me was too much hassle. Much higher proportion of stupid (rude, presumptuous, sexist, etc) messages. While I'm sure there are lovely people under 30 here (and over 60 I know there are), I do what causes me less grief.

It’s understandable, the volume ladies and couples must get to their inbox, I’m happy finding one message when I wake up haha

I'll fix that and send you two ! "

Now it all makes sense, wish I’d read this before opening your mail haha bravo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and conversely...far too many profiles have filter set to too low a maximum age limit - some of us silver foxes are fitter than most two second pump n squirt young wannabe studs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single guy who’s had a couple of profiles over the years I can say it was harder early on to even get a reply from those I’d message, add to that many profiles have the minimum age set to 30 and it seemed like I was fighting a losing battle.

But the question is this...

Is it as simple as most women and couples find the majority of under 30s here immature or rude?

I have found since turning 30 so many people will now take me serious on here which is nice but not great news for the younger guys"

For me, basically yes. I’m also not attracted to men my own age

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single guy who’s had a couple of profiles over the years I can say it was harder early on to even get a reply from those I’d message, add to that many profiles have the minimum age set to 30 and it seemed like I was fighting a losing battle.

But the question is this...

Is it as simple as most women and couples find the majority of under 30s here immature or rude?

I have found since turning 30 so many people will now take me serious on here which is nice but not great news for the younger guys

For me, basically yes. I’m also not attracted to men my own age"

Guys around 18-25 are a bit of a muddy issue, general percived as immature and most don’t help themselves ha I know I only really started coming into my own around 26/27

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