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Still need to get back to you. It’s the Bank holiday weekend, so not sure yet.
But your email invite looked very professional - so well done.  | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions...." oooh I'd be a host and judge looking for pass grades. Enthusiastic approach definitely required. X | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions...." love it and wish I could come lol. I'd be bringing multiple wigs to keep having to 'take the test'   | |||
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Still need to get back to you. It’s the Bank holiday weekend, so not sure yet.
But your email invite looked very professional - so well done. "It's my evil side fighting to break through to the surface lol Oh and thank you, would be good if you do make it  | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions....oooh I'd be a host and judge looking for pass grades. Enthusiastic approach definitely required. X" Enthusiasm matters a lot  | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions...." This has to be a joke can't do that | |||
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"Sounds fun I doubt being sucked by a TV would put many off. I get a lot of messages from straight men" Oh so very true | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... love it and wish I could come lol. I'd be bringing multiple wigs to keep having to 'take the test' "What's stopping you? | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... This has to be a joke can't do that " It’s his party. He can make what rules he wants to. So long as everyone is warned in advance I don’t see a problem. | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... This has to be a joke can't do that " "It's my party and I'll cry if I want to....." | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... This has to be a joke can't do that "It's my party and I'll cry if I want to....."" 'it's my party and you'll suck if I want you to...'  | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... This has to be a joke can't do that It’s his party. He can make what rules he wants to. So long as everyone is warned in advance I don’t see a problem. " It's forcing people to perform a sexual act to get entry wrong on so many levels. | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... love it and wish I could come lol. I'd be bringing multiple wigs to keep having to 'take the test' "Haha, best post of the day so far!!!! | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions...." I would pass the test with flying colours! | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... This has to be a joke can't do that It’s his party. He can make what rules he wants to. So long as everyone is warned in advance I don’t see a problem. It's forcing people to perform a sexual act to get entry wrong on so many levels. " He's not forcing them to go. Its comparable to fab wanting full nude photos before you can join. I wouldn't expect either scenario to enter Tesco. But this ain't tesco... | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions...." every male should suck a cock when they get in. | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions...." Why not have them suck the TVs off and/or have the black guys suck them off? | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... This has to be a joke can't do that It’s his party. He can make what rules he wants to. So long as everyone is warned in advance I don’t see a problem. It's forcing people to perform a sexual act to get entry wrong on so many levels. He's not forcing them to go. Its comparable to fab wanting full nude photos before you can join. I wouldn't expect either scenario to enter Tesco. But this ain't tesco..." No not forcing them to go but it's saying do this or no entry that's wrong anyone should be allowed to extend a club party etc without having to play it may someone's first time at an event why pressure people | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... This has to be a joke can't do that It’s his party. He can make what rules he wants to. So long as everyone is warned in advance I don’t see a problem. It's forcing people to perform a sexual act to get entry wrong on so many levels. He's not forcing them to go. Its comparable to fab wanting full nude photos before you can join. I wouldn't expect either scenario to enter Tesco. But this ain't tesco... No not forcing them to go but it's saying do this or no entry that's wrong anyone should be allowed to extend a club party etc without having to play it may someone's first time at an event why pressure people" Pretty simple, if it's your first time at an event and you're not comfortable doing it, don't go to that particular event. We're also talking hypothetical here and if everyone was in agreement of what happens before the event then consenting adults do what consenting adults do... | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... This has to be a joke can't do that It’s his party. He can make what rules he wants to. So long as everyone is warned in advance I don’t see a problem. It's forcing people to perform a sexual act to get entry wrong on so many levels. He's not forcing them to go. Its comparable to fab wanting full nude photos before you can join. I wouldn't expect either scenario to enter Tesco. But this ain't tesco... No not forcing them to go but it's saying do this or no entry that's wrong anyone should be allowed to extend a club party etc without having to play it may someone's first time at an event why pressure people" Then he's invited the wrong people. | |||
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"Excellent idea. Will this apply every time anyone nips out for a fag too? "I suspect some would nip out for a fag on purpose | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions...." I think some guys would fall to their knees immediately lol | |||
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"I’m assuming this is a joke . I hope it is , because even though , (as others have said) , no one is forced to attend , this is exactly what makes outsiders think that swinging is disgusting and dirty . On another thread running at present , an organiser for swinging socials is saying her last one was spoiled by idiots who think swinging is s a free for all sex fest . People think swingers don’t care who they have sex with etc.... so if this isn’t a joke , I’m certainly not impressed at all . And this is from a couple who certainly aren’t prudes . " Couldn't agree more. | |||
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"whatever happened to being able to choose who you play with? " Agreed As a newbie to this side it would put me off attending any event | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... This has to be a joke can't do that It’s his party. He can make what rules he wants to. So long as everyone is warned in advance I don’t see a problem. " So anyone considering going to a party would have to have sexual contact with someone that the host instructs them to? Imagine a party host telling all of the female guests that they couldn't attend unless they sucked him off? | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... This has to be a joke can't do that It’s his party. He can make what rules he wants to. So long as everyone is warned in advance I don’t see a problem. So anyone considering going to a party would have to have sexual contact with someone that the host instructs them to? Imagine a party host telling all of the female guests that they couldn't attend unless they sucked him off?" He is trying to arrange a private party. From memory you guys have a similar rule on your private meets? | |||
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"whatever happened to being able to choose who you play with? Agreed As a newbie to this side it would put me off attending any event" It wouldn't happen at normal events. This isn't a normal event. Its not an event for newbies really either. Unless you are confident in your bisexuality and role as a cuckold. | |||
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"whatever happened to being able to choose who you play with? Agreed As a newbie to this side it would put me off attending any event It wouldn't happen at normal events. This isn't a normal event. Its not an event for newbies really either. Unless you are confident in your bisexuality and role as a cuckold. " Also I would only expect this party to be of interest to people that LIKE black people, which I’m not sure is the case for some people in thread  so those that don’t, can calm down as it won’t affect them.
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"The OP has found an interesting, amusing and seemingly controversial method of promoting his upcoming party. Hats off to him I think. It is not compulsory but please feel free to leave your sense of humour behind when you enter the forums. "Finally lol. If my first posting wasn't enough I thought that me saying.... "It's my party and I'll cry if I want to....." ….would have been enough of a clue to how seriously one should have taken my post. The whole point of my party is to create an environment where some of us bi swingers can confidently socialise or be naughty safe in the knowledge that they won't in any way be judged negatively for their sexual preferences. Its rare enough as it is. So the last thing I'm going to do is impose anything on my guests that makes them feel in any way uncomfortable. If the possibility of humour can't even be considered as a possibility I'm not going to let myself be drawn in on such conversations...….oh man tough crowd. | |||
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"whatever happened to being able to choose who you play with? Agreed As a newbie to this side it would put me off attending any event It wouldn't happen at normal events. This isn't a normal event. Its not an event for newbies really either. Unless you are confident in your bisexuality and role as a cuckold. Also I would only expect this party to be of interest to people that LIKE black people, which I’m not sure is the case for some people in thread so those that don’t, can calm down as it won’t affect them.
You going to this then Clem?"Hopefully, I'll never find myself at a party that's open for discussion on these forums. | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... This has to be a joke can't do that It’s his party. He can make what rules he wants to. So long as everyone is warned in advance I don’t see a problem. It's forcing people to perform a sexual act to get entry wrong on so many levels. He's not forcing them to go. Its comparable to fab wanting full nude photos before you can join. I wouldn't expect either scenario to enter Tesco. But this ain't tesco... No not forcing them to go but it's saying do this or no entry that's wrong anyone should be allowed to extend a club party etc without having to play it may someone's first time at an event why pressure people Pretty simple, if it's your first time at an event and you're not comfortable doing it, don't go to that particular event. We're also talking hypothetical here and if everyone was in agreement of what happens before the event then consenting adults do what consenting adults do..." What if you don't fancy the particular guys on offer???? | |||
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"The OP has found an interesting, amusing and seemingly controversial method of promoting his upcoming party. Hats off to him I think. It is not compulsory but please feel free to leave your sense of humour behind when you enter the forums.
Humour is essential - particularly on a site like this
Finally lol. If my first posting wasn't enough I thought
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"It's my party and I'll cry if I want to....."
….would have been enough of a clue to how seriously one should have taken my post.
The whole point of my party is to create an environment where some of us bi swingers can confidently socialise or be naughty safe in the knowledge that they won't in any way be judged negatively for their sexual preferences. Its rare enough as it is.
So the last thing I'm going to do is impose anything on my guests that makes them feel in any way uncomfortable.
If the possibility of humour can't even be considered as a possibility I'm not going to let myself be drawn in on such conversations...….oh man tough crowd." | |||
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"At my bi/pansexual party I used to have social munches to verify people. Now I just check profiles. If anyone random comes to the door, I look them in the eye and ask if they like sucking cock. That's all I need to know "Nice touch. I love socials but the people interested in attending my party are too widely scattered. I do have a private KiK group though so some of them are still getting a bit of chance to get to know each other beforehand. | |||
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"whatever happened to being able to choose who you play with? Agreed As a newbie to this side it would put me off attending any event It wouldn't happen at normal events. This isn't a normal event. Its not an event for newbies really either. Unless you are confident in your bisexuality and role as a cuckold. " | |||
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"sorry but not all cuckolds are bi but guess tbe people who are going to this party are agreeing to this if it makes yiu happy why not lol whatever happened to being able to choose who you play with? Agreed As a newbie to this side it would put me off attending any event It wouldn't happen at normal events. This isn't a normal event. Its not an event for newbies really either. Unless you are confident in your bisexuality and role as a cuckold. " Then those guys are welcome to go to more suitable parties. | |||
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"The OP has found an interesting, amusing and seemingly controversial method of promoting his upcoming party. Hats off to him I think. It is not compulsory but please feel free to leave your sense of humour behind when you enter the forums.
Humour is essential - particularly on a site like this
Finally lol. If my first posting wasn't enough I thought
that me saying....
"It's my party and I'll cry if I want to....."
….would have been enough of a clue to how seriously one should have taken my post.
The whole point of my party is to create an environment where some of us bi swingers can confidently socialise or be naughty safe in the knowledge that they won't in any way be judged negatively for their sexual preferences. Its rare enough as it is.
So the last thing I'm going to do is impose anything on my guests that makes them feel in any way uncomfortable.
If the possibility of humour can't even be considered as a possibility I'm not going to let myself be drawn in on such conversations...….oh man tough crowd."Ah well in that case I missed the point. | |||
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"I do hope there'll be a range of choices available from "I could take two of those easily" to "oh my fucking God can I open my mouth that wide?" "I hope so too. I haven't sucked cock in what feels like ages | |||
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"I do hope there'll be a range of choices available from "I could take two of those easily" to "oh my fucking God can I open my mouth that wide?" "Exactly. I like cocks i can deepthroat  | |||
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"What a great addition to the interracial scene this is. I really hope it takes off and that I visit one day soon. I'd definitely take the entry test! x" If you fail you could keep trying till you pass ) | |||
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"I do hope there'll be a range of choices available from "I could take two of those easily" to "oh my fucking God can I open my mouth that wide?"
Exactly. I like cocks i can deepthroat "Finally we agree on something | |||
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"I do hope there'll be a range of choices available from "I could take two of those easily" to "oh my fucking God can I open my mouth that wide?"
Exactly. I like cocks i can deepthroat
Finally we agree on something"Cocksuckers united | |||
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"What a great addition to the interracial scene this is. I really hope it takes off and that I visit one day soon. I'd definitely take the entry test! x" Yes you would you dirty boy! | |||
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"I do hope there'll be a range of choices available from "I could take two of those easily" to "oh my fucking God can I open my mouth that wide?"
Exactly. I like cocks i can deepthroat
Finally we agree on something
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"I’m assuming this is a joke . I hope it is , because even though , (as others have said) , no one is forced to attend , this is exactly what makes outsiders think that swinging is disgusting and dirty . On another thread running at present , an organiser for swinging socials is saying her last one was spoiled by idiots who think swinging is s a free for all sex fest . People think swingers don’t care who they have sex with etc.... so if this isn’t a joke , I’m certainly not impressed at all . And this is from a couple who certainly aren’t prudes . " I totally agree ! The reasons I give parties a pass ! One thing is the party rules ! Another is to suck who you don't fancy ,to prove something! As was mentioned before nobody is forced to go but a party , a party shouldn't be about pressure or made to do stuff. Sometimes I go to clubs and I don't fancy to play . I watch and enjoy the facilities! I wouldn't be happy if people made do something,I don't fancy. Not because people are bi they are happy to suck anybody's cock! I think is wrong ! | |||
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"What a great addition to the interracial scene this is. I really hope it takes off and that I visit one day soon. I'd definitely take the entry test! x" Thank you its very much appreciated. I wanted the theme to be sufficiently different to add to the variety of peoples choices. Especially for some bi males in the weekends. If people were to read some of my earlier comments you will see that its not really a serious idea and that it would only have been considered for implementation if the guests took it in the spirit in which it has been intended. I have made a conscious decision to not directly address anyone from the love to be offended for the sake of being offended brigade because quite frankly. If threads are not properly read etc its a waste of my time and energy. I am very carefully vetting people before sending them ticket invites. These invites make a point of stating that this is a party in which the whole point is to be free to be as laid back and social or as wild (while respecting the boundaries of others) as one wants to be. I have a very private KiK group linked with this event that has been growing organically for some months now. Its a little different from the norm because all adult media is banned but conversation is encouraged. Why? because I'm trying to create welcoming environments where bi males are free to be themselves. I hope this settles the issue once and for all. If anyone still feels an overwhelming urge to be offended. Please read my profile and my statements here in full first. If you're still offended well at least we can agree to disagree on something with substance and not hot air......my morning glory has gone now.....damn it!! | |||
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"I’m assuming this is a joke . I hope it is , because even though , (as others have said) , no one is forced to attend , this is exactly what makes outsiders think that swinging is disgusting and dirty . On another thread running at present , an organiser for swinging socials is saying her last one was spoiled by idiots who think swinging is s a free for all sex fest . People think swingers don’t care who they have sex with etc.... so if this isn’t a joke , I’m certainly not impressed at all . And this is from a couple who certainly aren’t prudes . " Couldn't agree more. And, in our opinion, it gives bisexual hosted parties a very bad name. We would never dream of doing something like this at one of our parties. In fact we openly invite straight people to attend, so they can learn that they are not going to be gang banged by the bi/gay crowd! | |||
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"I’m assuming this is a joke . I hope it is , because even though , (as others have said) , no one is forced to attend , this is exactly what makes outsiders think that swinging is disgusting and dirty . On another thread running at present , an organiser for swinging socials is saying her last one was spoiled by idiots who think swinging is s a free for all sex fest . People think swingers don’t care who they have sex with etc.... so if this isn’t a joke , I’m certainly not impressed at all . And this is from a couple who certainly aren’t prudes . I totally agree ! The reasons I give parties a pass ! One thing is the party rules ! Another is to suck who you don't fancy ,to prove something! As was mentioned before nobody is forced to go but a party , a party shouldn't be about pressure or made to do stuff. Sometimes I go to clubs and I don't fancy to play . I watch and enjoy the facilities! I wouldn't be happy if people made do something,I don't fancy. Not because people are bi they are happy to suck anybody's cock! I think is wrong !"
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"What a great addition to the interracial scene this is. I really hope it takes off and that I visit one day soon. I'd definitely take the entry test! x Thank you its very much appreciated. I wanted the theme to be sufficiently different to add to the variety of peoples choices. Especially for some bi males in the weekends. If people were to read some of my earlier comments you will see that its not really a serious idea and that it would only have been considered for implementation if the guests took it in the spirit in which it has been intended. I have made a conscious decision to not directly address anyone from the love to be offended for the sake of being offended brigade because quite frankly. If threads are not properly read etc its a waste of my time and energy. I am very carefully vetting people before sending them ticket invites. These invites make a point of stating that this is a party in which the whole point is to be free to be as laid back and social or as wild (while respecting the boundaries of others) as one wants to be. I have a very private KiK group linked with this event that has been growing organically for some months now. Its a little different from the norm because all adult media is banned but conversation is encouraged. Why? because I'm trying to create welcoming environments where bi males are free to be themselves. I hope this settles the issue once and for all. If anyone still feels an overwhelming urge to be offended. Please read my profile and my statements here in full first. If you're still offended well at least we can agree to disagree on something with substance and not hot air......my morning glory has gone now.....damn it!!" | |||
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"The whole idea is wrong in every way. Ran many parties and socials over the years and putting any kind of pressure on your guest is not a good thing to do. Word spreads and your parties will get a name for themselves not s good thing " Any bad name will be a result of people like yourselves not bothering to understand and read the thread for how it’s meant. Sad really | |||
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"The whole idea is wrong in every way. Ran many parties and socials over the years and putting any kind of pressure on your guest is not a good thing to do. Word spreads and your parties will get a name for themselves not s good thing Any bad name will be a result of people like yourselves not bothering to understand and read the thread for how it’s meant. Sad really "I just assumed it was Sheldon copper writing | |||
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"The whole idea is wrong in every way. Ran many parties and socials over the years and putting any kind of pressure on your guest is not a good thing to do. Word spreads and your parties will get a name for themselves not s good thing " This all started with a little fantasy in the bi-versity kik group,it's not going to happen really,nobody is going to be forced to do anything on entry,As the OP has said a few times in the thread,people that read the first comment of the OP in threads,and skip to comment,don't really get a full picture of what it's about
New hosts/New parties can get a little bashing in forums for comments they make,for those that realised this wasn't serious,come along and see the bi-versity host is a cool guy after all,his dream is for bi-curious and bisexual blackmen to meet play with other likeminded people in a relaxed atmosphere,not hidden in dark corners/rooms of regular clubs,which is the case most of the time,ok there are many bi events,this is the first aimed at the interracial scene,which is great so it gets my full support | |||
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"For those getting hot under the collar the OP and others have made it clear several times that the thread was tongue in cheek and not to be taken seriously - I don't think or a minute anything would be forced on anyone and if it were I'm sure word would get out and the parties would not be a success. I personally welcome anything new that aims to further break down barriers, cater to bi males and those that welcome us, and even though I'm precluded from the event by the rules (which I fully accept and respect) I wish it every success "If you dress like a lady you make the entry requirements  | |||
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"For those getting hot under the collar the OP and others have made it clear several times that the thread was tongue in cheek and not to be taken seriously - I don't think or a minute anything would be forced on anyone and if it were I'm sure word would get out and the parties would not be a success. I personally welcome anything new that aims to further break down barriers, cater to bi males and those that welcome us, and even though I'm precluded from the event by the rules (which I fully accept and respect) I wish it every success
If you dress like a lady you make the entry requirements "Do I have to do the Little Britain "I'm a laydee" voice too?!
Second thoughts with my bandy legs I'd not wish that sight on anyone!! | |||
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"For those getting hot under the collar the OP and others have made it clear several times that the thread was tongue in cheek and not to be taken seriously - I don't think or a minute anything would be forced on anyone and if it were I'm sure word would get out and the parties would not be a success. I personally welcome anything new that aims to further break down barriers, cater to bi males and those that welcome us, and even though I'm precluded from the event by the rules (which I fully accept and respect) I wish it every success
If you dress like a lady you make the entry requirements
Do I have to do the Little Britain "I'm a laydee" voice too?!
Second thoughts with my bandy legs I'd not wish that sight on anyone!!"Wear a long dress | |||
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"For those getting hot under the collar the OP and others have made it clear several times that the thread was tongue in cheek and not to be taken seriously - I don't think or a minute anything would be forced on anyone and if it were I'm sure word would get out and the parties would not be a success. I personally welcome anything new that aims to further break down barriers, cater to bi males and those that welcome us, and even though I'm precluded from the event by the rules (which I fully accept and respect) I wish it every success
If you dress like a lady you make the entry requirements
Do I have to do the Little Britain "I'm a laydee" voice too?!
Second thoughts with my bandy legs I'd not wish that sight on anyone!!" brilliant. You’d go down a treat | |||
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"What a great addition to the interracial scene this is. I really hope it takes off and that I visit one day soon. I'd definitely take the entry test! x Yes you would you dirty boy! "You know me too well! Good to see you still kicking around the site. | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions...." FAIL | |||
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"So very very very very tempted to complete the Club BiVersity bi male vetting process by subjecting all male party guests to an oral test on party night. Every male guest could be required to either give one of the black guys a blow job or have one of the TVs suck them off. Perhaps I could try to find a couple of co hosts for this task. Hmmmm decisions decisions.... FAIL" Yes you did. So now go and read the thread properly | |||
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"Naive question - never mind all the banter about whether or not this is OK. What if you can't decide between sucking and being blown by a TV? I mean - could you both suck and get a TV BJ at the same time? "I don't see why not | |||
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