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By *ornysquirtingcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

somerset

We are new to swinging. We had a MFM and my wife wanted other guy to wear condom for a BJ. Is that over the top. Obviously condom for penetrative sex.

Just a noob asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do how you want but just make sure that the meets are aware of your rules. Condoms for everything is the best way for safer sex (no sex is 100%safe) but most choose not to for oral.

Personally I don't use Condoms for oral but I don't let guys (unless Im in a relationship with them) cum in my mouth, it helps reduce the risk slightly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry. i was distracted with your wifes arse and the fact she squirts! i wouldnt last to even get the condom on

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As mentioned above you do it the way you want to. If your partner wants guys to use condoms for oral then that's fine. You should also ensure you have dental dams if she receives oral to reduce risk that way too.

There isn't an etiquette as such when it comes to safer sex. Its best discussed beforehand though so everyone knows what to expect. When we first started swinging we assumed everyone used condoms for penetration.

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By *ornysquirtingcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

somerset

Yes we agreed condom for oral and penetration beforehand. I just wanted to know if its the norm or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we agreed condom for oral and penetration beforehand. I just wanted to know if its the norm or not"

Does it matter? It's norm for you. And some others. But it isn't for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms are good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should do what you are comfortable with. Just discuss it before hand with potential meets and make sure you have plenty of condoms yourself in case the male doesn't bring them. Also keep them under the pillow or somewhere very close by, so the mood doesn't get broken. XXX

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes we agreed condom for oral and penetration beforehand. I just wanted to know if its the norm or not"

There is no norm. Some people will tell you there is but there really isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do what you feel comfortable with. If you want the guy to wear condoms for bj, anal, vaginal, clit/bell end humping, or even handjob, you tell them, if they don't want to, piss on their cocks.

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