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It confused the hell out of me to begin with, especially as I'd had a previous ex who I caught in bed with another woman (he did not have my blessing.) The insecurity of being cheated on stayed with me for many years, along with feelings of being humiliated, so you can imagine my surprise when underlying thoughts of my husband being with another woman started to surface and was paired with extremely erotic thoughts on my part. We have explored this new fantasy and things have progressed somewhat, which in turn has turned me into a bloody nympho 
I decided to have a read up of this delightful new fantasy and see if I could learn more about it, cuck queen seems to be the closest match, apart from the being humiliated part, it's the complete opposite, I feel at my most powerful and reading the messages he sends or listening to him telling me about what he's done is blowing my mind lol the sex we're having feels like a different level and I'm loving it... as is he lol
Its kind of confused me tho, as most things I've read associate a cuck queen with humiliation/jealousy etc and that's certainly not the case, I don't actually need to label it and it is what it is, but I'd really like to hear other womens experience of this, is it the power that turns you on? If it's not the humiliation side of it, what is it?! Would you say cuck queen is the right description? And if past experiences have made me so insecure, why does something like this now make me feel so different? It's pickled me a bit Thanks for taking the time to read this, hope it makes sense xGx | |||
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"Not every cuckqueen likes humiliation, I certainly don't! (I love being a cuckcake too) For you, I suspect you're enjoyment and love of it is a little bit like those of us who have in the past been r aped and enjoy role play and fantasy around that. We become the ones in control in those situations, which allows it to be erotic, but also helps with the healing process..." Now that makes sense, maybe the word I was looking for was control rather than powerful, it's a very interesting concept and one that I'm looking forward to exploring more and more, thank you for taking the time to reply x | |||
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"Not every cuckqueen likes humiliation, I certainly don't! (I love being a cuckcake too) For you, I suspect you're enjoyment and love of it is a little bit like those of us who have in the past been r aped and enjoy role play and fantasy around that. We become the ones in control in those situations, which allows it to be erotic, but also helps with the healing process... Now that makes sense, maybe the word I was looking for was control rather than powerful, it's a very interesting concept and one that I'm looking forward to exploring more and more, thank you for taking the time to reply x" Also, what's a cuck cake?! | |||
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"I may be wrong but I always thought a cuckold was because he couldn't satisfy the wife, so wouldn't the cuckqueen be the same? That's obviously not what's happening with you two! I'd maybe call it a 'hot-husband' scenario! "Its so confusing!!! And like I said, I'm not looking to label it, but understanding it would be nice as i felt a little awkward broaching the subject to him, and I'm sure it was awkward for him to begin with too, he soon got over that tho 
There's certainly no issue of not being able to satisfy him I'm actually preparing myself for him asking me to give him a break, I'm like a dog on heat
And I much prefer the term 'hot husband'.... he's pretty fucking sexy I'm sure you'd agree | |||
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"I may be wrong but I always thought a cuckold was because he couldn't satisfy the wife, so wouldn't the cuckqueen be the same? That's obviously not what's happening with you two! I'd maybe call it a 'hot-husband' scenario!
Its so confusing!!! And like I said, I'm not looking to label it, but understanding it would be nice as i felt a little awkward broaching the subject to him, and I'm sure it was awkward for him to begin with too, he soon got over that tho
There's certainly no issue of not being able to satisfy him I'm actually preparing myself for him asking me to give him a break, I'm like a dog on heat
And I much prefer the term 'hot husband'.... he's pretty fucking sexy I'm sure you'd agree"It is confusing indeed, but whatever it is, it's good for you both and for any lucky ladies who get to meet your hot husband!
And yes I do agree | |||
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"I may be wrong but I always thought a cuckold was because he couldn't satisfy the wife, so wouldn't the cuckqueen be the same? That's obviously not what's happening with you two! I'd maybe call it a 'hot-husband' scenario!
Its so confusing!!! And like I said, I'm not looking to label it, but understanding it would be nice as i felt a little awkward broaching the subject to him, and I'm sure it was awkward for him to begin with too, he soon got over that tho
There's certainly no issue of not being able to satisfy him I'm actually preparing myself for him asking me to give him a break, I'm like a dog on heat
And I much prefer the term 'hot husband'.... he's pretty fucking sexy I'm sure you'd agree
It is confusing indeed, but whatever it is, it's good for you both and for any lucky ladies who get to meet your hot husband!
And yes I do agree "I'm glad I can't wait for him to come home and describe his erotic encounter, I must get him to arrange something very soon | |||
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"I may be wrong but I always thought a cuckold was because he couldn't satisfy the wife, so wouldn't the cuckqueen be the same? That's obviously not what's happening with you two! I'd maybe call it a 'hot-husband' scenario!
Its so confusing!!! And like I said, I'm not looking to label it, but understanding it would be nice as i felt a little awkward broaching the subject to him, and I'm sure it was awkward for him to begin with too, he soon got over that tho
There's certainly no issue of not being able to satisfy him I'm actually preparing myself for him asking me to give him a break, I'm like a dog on heat
And I much prefer the term 'hot husband'.... he's pretty fucking sexy I'm sure you'd agree
It is confusing indeed, but whatever it is, it's good for you both and for any lucky ladies who get to meet your hot husband!
And yes I do agree
I'm glad I can't wait for him to come home and describe his erotic encounter, I must get him to arrange something very soon " | |||
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"I may be wrong but I always thought a cuckold was because he couldn't satisfy the wife, so wouldn't the cuckqueen be the same? That's obviously not what's happening with you two! I'd maybe call it a 'hot-husband' scenario!
Its so confusing!!! And like I said, I'm not looking to label it, but understanding it would be nice as i felt a little awkward broaching the subject to him, and I'm sure it was awkward for him to begin with too, he soon got over that tho
There's certainly no issue of not being able to satisfy him I'm actually preparing myself for him asking me to give him a break, I'm like a dog on heat
And I much prefer the term 'hot husband'.... he's pretty fucking sexy I'm sure you'd agree
It is confusing indeed, but whatever it is, it's good for you both and for any lucky ladies who get to meet your hot husband!
And yes I do agree
I'm glad I can't wait for him to come home and describe his erotic encounter, I must get him to arrange something very soon "Far too turned on at the thought | |||
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"I may be wrong but I always thought a cuckold was because he couldn't satisfy the wife, so wouldn't the cuckqueen be the same? That's obviously not what's happening with you two! I'd maybe call it a 'hot-husband' scenario!
Its so confusing!!! And like I said, I'm not looking to label it, but understanding it would be nice as i felt a little awkward broaching the subject to him, and I'm sure it was awkward for him to begin with too, he soon got over that tho
There's certainly no issue of not being able to satisfy him I'm actually preparing myself for him asking me to give him a break, I'm like a dog on heat
And I much prefer the term 'hot husband'.... he's pretty fucking sexy I'm sure you'd agree
It is confusing indeed, but whatever it is, it's good for you both and for any lucky ladies who get to meet your hot husband!
And yes I do agree
I'm glad I can't wait for him to come home and describe his erotic encounter, I must get him to arrange something very soon
Far too turned on at the thought "I can imagine! am I a cuckcake then? | |||
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"I may be wrong but I always thought a cuckold was because he couldn't satisfy the wife, so wouldn't the cuckqueen be the same? That's obviously not what's happening with you two! I'd maybe call it a 'hot-husband' scenario!
Its so confusing!!! And like I said, I'm not looking to label it, but understanding it would be nice as i felt a little awkward broaching the subject to him, and I'm sure it was awkward for him to begin with too, he soon got over that tho
There's certainly no issue of not being able to satisfy him I'm actually preparing myself for him asking me to give him a break, I'm like a dog on heat
And I much prefer the term 'hot husband'.... he's pretty fucking sexy I'm sure you'd agree
It is confusing indeed, but whatever it is, it's good for you both and for any lucky ladies who get to meet your hot husband!
And yes I do agree
I'm glad I can't wait for him to come home and describe his erotic encounter, I must get him to arrange something very soon
Far too turned on at the thought
I can imagine! am I a cuckcake then? "Indeed you are.... I'm really looking forward to him telling me how much he's pleasured you, and how much you've pleasured him.... his cock is amazing | |||
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" Indeed you are.... I'm really looking forward to him telling me how much he's pleasured you, and how much you've pleasured him.... his cock is amazing "Excellent, I'm excited too. | |||
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