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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok i know im going to get ripped for this but im a gay guy yet over the time on here i find wanting tp try being with a lady

I literally have no clue where to start and how tp approach this and knowin me will be as nervous as hell but its becomin something i really want....help haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve often thought about this too but worry I wouldn’t be able to get hard and would hate to not be able to pleasure her

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By *SD 2000Couple
over a year ago

andover

To be honest a flaccid penis is not a worry compared with someone not feeling it. Consent can be given at any point. So my advice is try this with a female you have created a rapport with. Eyes wide open all round.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh id defp get turned on and wud enjoy it all and all that

Jst kinda dont knlw how to approach haha

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"To be honest a flaccid penis is not a worry compared with someone not feeling it. Consent can be given at any point. So my advice is try this with a female you have created a rapport with. Eyes wide open all round."

this! have a social first and get to know her so you can relax more... get a nice one and just play around so what you like and what you dont like.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Go to a social. I found the girls love to take you under their wing & if you’re a good looking guy/good dancer/easy to get in with they can fancy gay guys just as much as straight guys. If there’s a mutual attraction it will happen. If not, it won’t. If you can push your own boundaries without feeling awkward & just relax then fun will unfold & take care of itself. It can & does happen OP. Good luck & just enjoy. What’s for you won’t go by you.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

If i were you, I'd save myself a lot of time and cough up the £80 or so necessary to try with a pro. She won't get upset if you don't perform well either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If i were you, I'd save myself a lot of time and cough up the £80 or so necessary to try with a pro. She won't get upset if you don't perform well either. "

I couldnt im a connection kinda guy sad i kno but has to b a click there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you found any ladies that ya find attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i were you, I'd save myself a lot of time and cough up the £80 or so necessary to try with a pro. She won't get upset if you don't perform well either.

I couldnt im a connection kinda guy sad i kno but has to b a click there"

Make friends with a woman first.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"If i were you, I'd save myself a lot of time and cough up the £80 or so necessary to try with a pro. She won't get upset if you don't perform well either.

I couldnt im a connection kinda guy sad i kno but has to b a click there"

Fair enough, just be prepared to put in a lot of time to get a meet via fab. Good luck with it, tits are awesome

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"If i were you, I'd save myself a lot of time and cough up the £80 or so necessary to try with a pro. She won't get upset if you don't perform well either.

I couldnt im a connection kinda guy sad i kno but has to b a click there

Make friends with a woman first."

Bad advice imho. Be upfront with women as early as possible. Don't pretend you want a friendship, when what you really want is a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you found any ladies that ya find attractive?"

Yep pretty much most ladies on here haha

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Have you found any ladies that ya find attractive?

Yep pretty much most ladies on here haha"

My younger brother is gay and I don't know if he ever tried with a woman before, have you ever tried may I ask?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Have you found any ladies that ya find attractive?

Yep pretty much most ladies on here haha"

Sounds like you're fab-gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a male gay friend tell me the same thing. He said I'm his type that he would love to have sex with.

I turned him down because I didn't want our friendship to break down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you found any ladies that ya find attractive?

Yep pretty much most ladies on here haha

My younger brother is gay and I don't know if he ever tried with a woman before, have you ever tried may I ask? "

No no im gay out etc etc lol its sounds bonkers i know but im a very sexual person and love sex with men and kinda wana try all kinds of sex includin women....but im a str8 virgin haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with trying to find a woman to play with. I think some women may not want to be used for your curiosity. Stick to guys I would suggest.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Have you found any ladies that ya find attractive?

Yep pretty much most ladies on here haha

My younger brother is gay and I don't know if he ever tried with a woman before, have you ever tried may I ask?

No no im gay out etc etc lol its sounds bonkers i know but im a very sexual person and love sex with men and kinda wana try all kinds of sex includin women....but im a str8 virgin haha"

Like I said, it's not a conversation I have had with my brother, he is 14 years younger and lives in another city and at the time he was coming out he sounded more like he was trying to convince himself, not us, he has had several boyfriends since, but he never seems to have ever grown up if you know what I mean, but I think they may just be him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck with trying to find a woman to play with. I think some women may not want to be used for your curiosity. Stick to guys I would suggest. "

The majority of people on this site have different curiosities that they’re wanting to explore. We all have a “first time” at some point.

I get what you’re saying though, I’m not sure I’d be involved in this sort of scenario but I know some would find it quite hot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gosh does it really sound awful of me? People usin the term "using" etc....im really not that kind of person and tbf it is just sex both people wud have to always agree etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gosh does it really sound awful of me? People usin the term "using" etc....im really not that kind of person and tbf it is just sex both people wud have to always agree etc "

It doesn’t sound awful at all, the whole point of communities like this is to explore new things and find what you like. If mutual consent is there then it’s all fair game, no one is getting used x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It might help OP if you updated your profile to reflect what you're looking for and even possibly consider changing it to reflect "bi-curious" (there's nothing to say you can't be curious about playing with a woman from a gay standpoint) - at the moment your profile reads very gay-centric and may deter some, as they'll think that's all you are looking for. If you do change it though, be honest about your true sexuality and that this would be a first for you.

Public pics and an avatar pic would also help.

Other than that it's all the usual things about creating a profile that is appealing and writing respectful and courteous messages.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gosh does it really sound awful of me? People usin the term "using" etc....im really not that kind of person and tbf it is just sex both people wud have to always agree etc

It doesn’t sound awful at all, the whole point of communities like this is to explore new things and find what you like. If mutual consent is there then it’s all fair game, no one is getting used x"

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I note from your profile that you have no public pics and your blurb is probably more geared up to attract men, if you seriously want to try a female you have to be female friendly and attract them by their minds as well as there bodies, the gay world is no way like the straight one, you have to put the work in if you want any success just an observation

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