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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’d like to hear views about the emotional outcome, feelings and impact of your first experience from both sides of the couple, the preparation, the sex and the aftermath ... whether it’s a cuckold dynamic or hotwife or just a 3sum ...

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Are you including MMFF in this analysis?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes !

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Ok then, leading up to it we were concerned that it would ruin our relationship. We didn't know if we'd have jealousy issues or if it would feel like watching your partner cheating. We'd done soft swap so had an idea what we were getting into, but full swap was a big step, mentally.

Our first full swap was a bit spontaneous as it happened in a club and we'd only planned to soft swap. But afterwards there were none of the issues we worried about. It was a lot like losing your virginity, not the best sex you'll ever have but leaves you wanting to try it again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like the spontaneous first time in a club ! I too had a similar first time with my ex partner, we felt again like teen-agers and as you say despite quality not being super, it left us wanting more!

Did you discuss it in the club or just went with the flow ?

Were there any worries or forms of jealousy?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I like the spontaneous first time in a club ! I too had a similar first time with my ex partner, we felt again like teen-agers and as you say despite quality not being super, it left us wanting more!

Did you discuss it in the club or just went with the flow ?

Were there any worries or forms of jealousy? "

We were chatting to a couple with a view to soft swap. They were a bit more experienced and said they were only interested in full swap. Then they asked my wife directly, if it's something she wanted to do. She said yes and so the four of us went to a room and did it! It happened pretty fast so i do remember thinking 'wow is this really happening' but no jealousy never set in or effected us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m trying to imagine how long you felt that moment between asking your wife and she agreeing and how long or quick was the walk to a room ... were you focused on your partner at the beginning or wanted to properly observe and witness that first cock penetrating your wife ?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I’m trying to imagine how long you felt that moment between asking your wife and she agreeing and how long or quick was the walk to a room ... were you focused on your partner at the beginning or wanted to properly observe and witness that first cock penetrating your wife ? "

They asked her and she replied instantly. From there i was mainly concerned about putting in a good performance with his wife, something i failed miserably to do. I didn't really get a good view of when they started since i was focussed on the other women. But the second full swap i did and it gave me one of the best erections of my life! Now she always stops to make sure I'm watching the first penetration.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sexy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us there we're no real issues meeting guys.

We always started the play and invited them to join us.

We then had a guy who was a regular meet that Mrs started playing with first and that threw me as we'd not discussed it. Yes I was little jealous at the time. But now I love to see her playing with another guy and then joining them myself. That first time was just unexpected but it caused no real harm, we all had fun in the end.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For us there we're no real issues meeting guys.

We always started the play and invited them to join us.

We then had a guy who was a regular meet that Mrs started playing with first and that threw me as we'd not discussed it. Yes I was little jealous at the time. But now I love to see her playing with another guy and then joining them myself. That first time was just unexpected but it caused no real harm, we all had fun in the end. "

Jealous of him or her ? You were worried that he’d please her more or you wanted his cock too ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We spoke about it very little before our first meet. We had visited a club first so we knew we were both comfortable with another person in the mix before we invited anyone to our house. I specifically didn't want to say I wanted x y and z to happen....I just wanted for us all to be comfortable and for it to just go with the flow. The only thing I made sure of was who we picked was really easy going and to this day it's what I predominately look for in a meet. I wanted either myself or Mr to take the lead so it just flowed better which to this day is what we go by. The only thing we really discussed was if anyone wasn't comfortable to just say and move on and not dwell on it. I'm lucky that Mr is as laid back as me in that sense. I find immediately after a meet the sex between me and Mr is more intense and we talk about it from time to time. It's not made our sex life any better but I do like the parts that it adds x

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By *ouplewhoshareherCouple
over a year ago

shardlow

Send you a pm. Lots of various feelings, good and bad sadly. It was a lot more difficult to actually see than I imagined.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Send you a pm. Lots of various feelings, good and bad sadly. It was a lot more difficult to actually see than I imagined. "

It's really not for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had our first MMFF recently. After me meeting alone quite a few guys and going to clubs a few times, we went to Cupids and we were playing the couples room. Another couple was there and asked us if we swapped. We said yes (we had discussed this before) so they then asked if we wanted to find a room to play. I never thought I'd accept to do same room swapping but I was very d*unk and to be honest, felt a bit more at ease having hubby not far. The other couple (fbs) were both very respectful. She even asked me if I was ok with this before doing anything. We all had lots of fun. I won't lie, the following day, as I sobered up, I realised more what had happened. Didn't regret it, was just a really big steWe had our first MMFF recently. After me meeting alone quite a few guys and going to clubs a few times, we went to Cupids and we were playing the couples room. Another couple was there and asked us if we swapped. We said yes (we had discussed this before) so they then asked if we wanted to find a room to play. I never thought I'd accept to do same room swapping but I was very d*unk and to be honest, felt a bit more at ease having hubby not far. The other couple (fbs) were both very respectful. She even asked me if I was ok with this before doing anything. We all had lots of fun. I won't lie, the following day, as I sobered up, I realised more what had happened. Not regretting it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for feedbacks, mitigated emotions which why we are all here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us there we're no real issues meeting guys.

We always started the play and invited them to join us.

We then had a guy who was a regular meet that Mrs started playing with first and that threw me as we'd not discussed it. Yes I was little jealous at the time. But now I love to see her playing with another guy and then joining them myself. That first time was just unexpected but it caused no real harm, we all had fun in the end.

Jealous of him or her ? You were worried that he’d please her more or you wanted his cock too ? "

I think I just felt out of place.for a short time. Like minutes, it was just a scenario we'd not discussed and it threw me off a bit.

It ended the usual 3 way fun we always have

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We spoke about it very little before our first meet. We had visited a club first so we knew we were both comfortable with another person in the mix before we invited anyone to our house. I specifically didn't want to say I wanted x y and z to happen....I just wanted for us all to be comfortable and for it to just go with the flow. The only thing I made sure of was who we picked was really easy going and to this day it's what I predominately look for in a meet. I wanted either myself or Mr to take the lead so it just flowed better which to this day is what we go by. The only thing we really discussed was if anyone wasn't comfortable to just say and move on and not dwell on it. I'm lucky that Mr is as laid back as me in that sense. I find immediately after a meet the sex between me and Mr is more intense and we talk about it from time to time. It's not made our sex life any better but I do like the parts that it adds x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting...

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Ok then, leading up to it we were concerned that it would ruin our relationship. We didn't know if we'd have jealousy issues or if it would feel like watching your partner cheating. We'd done soft swap so had an idea what we were getting into, but full swap was a big step, mentally.

Our first full swap was a bit spontaneous as it happened in a club and we'd only planned to soft swap. But afterwards there were none of the issues we worried about. It was a lot like losing your virginity, not the best sex you'll ever have but leaves you wanting to try it again. "

Excellent description and exactly the same as our first time too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok then, leading up to it we were concerned that it would ruin our relationship. We didn't know if we'd have jealousy issues or if it would feel like watching your partner cheating. We'd done soft swap so had an idea what we were getting into, but full swap was a big step, mentally.

Our first full swap was a bit spontaneous as it happened in a club and we'd only planned to soft swap. But afterwards there were none of the issues we worried about. It was a lot like losing your virginity, not the best sex you'll ever have but leaves you wanting to try it again.

Excellent description and exactly the same as our first time too. "

x

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Ok then, leading up to it we were concerned that it would ruin our relationship. We didn't know if we'd have jealousy issues or if it would feel like watching your partner cheating. We'd done soft swap so had an idea what we were getting into, but full swap was a big step, mentally.

Our first full swap was a bit spontaneous as it happened in a club and we'd only planned to soft swap. But afterwards there were none of the issues we worried about. It was a lot like losing your virginity, not the best sex you'll ever have but leaves you wanting to try it again.

Excellent description and exactly the same as our first time too. "

She took to swinging way easier than me. I loved it, but in the beginning i had stage fright issues

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We did a lot of soft-swinging before she felt ready for a full swap in front of me, worried it might ruin our new (only a few months old) relationship. She was OK about me fucking other women in front of her though. Finally during one swap I saw her kneel up, roll a condom onto the man she was with and get onto his cock cowgirl style. I didn't feel any jealousy, just fascination especially later in the fuck when she started cumming. It was wonderful to watch her from a distance (even though I was fucking the guy's wife at that stage) and I just felt deep love for her. She wanted to know after what I felt and was very happy about it! I really love to watch her fucking and she soon became confident enough to do greedy girl sessions with me watching. Love watching her body respond to the sex, how she starts to get noisy, flushed and very excited as her cum builds up, and how she shrieks and often squirts as she cums with her lovers. She likes me to touch her and kiss her while she's fucking which is very erotic!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"We did a lot of soft-swinging before she felt ready for a full swap in front of me, worried it might ruin our new (only a few months old) relationship. She was OK about me fucking other women in front of her though. Finally during one swap I saw her kneel up, roll a condom onto the man she was with and get onto his cock cowgirl style. I didn't feel any jealousy, just fascination especially later in the fuck when she started cumming. It was wonderful to watch her from a distance (even though I was fucking the guy's wife at that stage) and I just felt deep love for her. She wanted to know after what I felt and was very happy about it! I really love to watch her fucking and she soon became confident enough to do greedy girl sessions with me watching. Love watching her body respond to the sex, how she starts to get noisy, flushed and very excited as her cum builds up, and how she shrieks and often squirts as she cums with her lovers. She likes me to touch her and kiss her while she's fucking which is very erotic!"

Yes, the best part of swinging is when you can kick back and really observe your partner having an orgasm, because you don't need to think about what you are doing since you aren't the one creating it.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district


"We did a lot of soft-swinging before she felt ready for a full swap in front of me, worried it might ruin our new (only a few months old) relationship. She was OK about me fucking other women in front of her though. Finally during one swap I saw her kneel up, roll a condom onto the man she was with and get onto his cock cowgirl style. I didn't feel any jealousy, just fascination especially later in the fuck when she started cumming. It was wonderful to watch her from a distance (even though I was fucking the guy's wife at that stage) and I just felt deep love for her. She wanted to know after what I felt and was very happy about it! I really love to watch her fucking and she soon became confident enough to do greedy girl sessions with me watching. Love watching her body respond to the sex, how she starts to get noisy, flushed and very excited as her cum builds up, and how she shrieks and often squirts as she cums with her lovers. She likes me to touch her and kiss her while she's fucking which is very erotic!

Yes, the best part of swinging is when you can kick back and really observe your partner having an orgasm, because you don't need to think about what you are doing since you aren't the one creating it."

Agree, and it's interesting to see how she responds to different techniques and different cock sizes. Watching my wife with BBCs is amazing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We did a lot of soft-swinging before she felt ready for a full swap in front of me, worried it might ruin our new (only a few months old) relationship. She was OK about me fucking other women in front of her though. Finally during one swap I saw her kneel up, roll a condom onto the man she was with and get onto his cock cowgirl style. I didn't feel any jealousy, just fascination especially later in the fuck when she started cumming. It was wonderful to watch her from a distance (even though I was fucking the guy's wife at that stage) and I just felt deep love for her. She wanted to know after what I felt and was very happy about it! I really love to watch her fucking and she soon became confident enough to do greedy girl sessions with me watching. Love watching her body respond to the sex, how she starts to get noisy, flushed and very excited as her cum builds up, and how she shrieks and often squirts as she cums with her lovers. She likes me to touch her and kiss her while she's fucking which is very erotic!

Yes, the best part of swinging is when you can kick back and really observe your partner having an orgasm, because you don't need to think about what you are doing since you aren't the one creating it."

Do you prefer when they look at you when having an orgasm ? Or at the one fucking with ? Or ckosed eyes ?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"We did a lot of soft-swinging before she felt ready for a full swap in front of me, worried it might ruin our new (only a few months old) relationship. She was OK about me fucking other women in front of her though. Finally during one swap I saw her kneel up, roll a condom onto the man she was with and get onto his cock cowgirl style. I didn't feel any jealousy, just fascination especially later in the fuck when she started cumming. It was wonderful to watch her from a distance (even though I was fucking the guy's wife at that stage) and I just felt deep love for her. She wanted to know after what I felt and was very happy about it! I really love to watch her fucking and she soon became confident enough to do greedy girl sessions with me watching. Love watching her body respond to the sex, how she starts to get noisy, flushed and very excited as her cum builds up, and how she shrieks and often squirts as she cums with her lovers. She likes me to touch her and kiss her while she's fucking which is very erotic!

Yes, the best part of swinging is when you can kick back and really observe your partner having an orgasm, because you don't need to think about what you are doing since you aren't the one creating it.

Do you prefer when they look at you when having an orgasm ? Or at the one fucking with ? Or ckosed eyes ? "

Look at me, then close her eyes and lose control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We did a lot of soft-swinging before she felt ready for a full swap in front of me, worried it might ruin our new (only a few months old) relationship. She was OK about me fucking other women in front of her though. Finally during one swap I saw her kneel up, roll a condom onto the man she was with and get onto his cock cowgirl style. I didn't feel any jealousy, just fascination especially later in the fuck when she started cumming. It was wonderful to watch her from a distance (even though I was fucking the guy's wife at that stage) and I just felt deep love for her. She wanted to know after what I felt and was very happy about it! I really love to watch her fucking and she soon became confident enough to do greedy girl sessions with me watching. Love watching her body respond to the sex, how she starts to get noisy, flushed and very excited as her cum builds up, and how she shrieks and often squirts as she cums with her lovers. She likes me to touch her and kiss her while she's fucking which is very erotic!

Yes, the best part of swinging is when you can kick back and really observe your partner having an orgasm, because you don't need to think about what you are doing since you aren't the one creating it.

Do you prefer when they look at you when having an orgasm ? Or at the one fucking with ? Or ckosed eyes ? "

Great question! Great thread OP.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Look at me, then close her eyes and lose control"

And great answer...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's that we are both sex obsessed and enjoy the same types of porn. So our play time feels like starring in our own porno movie. It's fun at the time but honestly the best bit is the emotional connection and amazing sex we have in the days that follow. We have never played with couples or females and I honestly don't think I could watch him have sex with another woman without wanting to kill them both lol

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a great question and hard to rationalise. Whenever we invite anyone else they have to realise it’s our fantasy there is no emotional connection just the image that is the turn on. I know that sounds cold but it’s how we keep fantasy seperate.

Having said that seeing her with someone else is a massive turn on !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So to summarise so far, it’s and depending on the couple’s dynamics:

- emotional VS visual

- during orgasmic volcano, staring at the sexual partner of the moment VS life partner

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By *hy52Man
over a year ago

Kinross

Cant` wait to find out , wife and i have our first proper threesum next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning

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