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"Hope your all tested .." Do you ask for a health certificate before you suck a man's cock without a condom? Probably not. | |||
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"Hope your all tested .." You're not involved so why do you care anyway? | |||
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"Hope your all tested .. You're not involved so why do you care anyway?" Well said!!! | |||
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"Russian roulette (come on, someone had to say it )" They didn't HAVE to, but it's filled my bareback bingo card in | |||
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"Why taking risk in the name of fun.Do you realy trust strangers you met online. Take a trip to std clinic.see people living with incurable std. Complete Crass and dopey" Incurable std? Are you talking about this new Super Gonorrhoea? Or something else? | |||
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"Drop the age to 38!!! " We can do that.... | |||
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"Hope your all tested .. You're not involved so why do you care anyway? Well said!!! " I'll second that | |||
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"We would love to attend future parties x" We’re thinking of 7th July..... | |||
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"Hope your all tested .. You're not involved so why do you care anyway?" Because, as this is a swingers site and an infection can soon be spread - it won't just stay amoungst those at the party. 5 couples attend, all 5 get infected; each then play with another 5 couples (that's 50 people infected) they then play with another 5 couples, that's 500 people, so it could eventually involve them... could involve us all. | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!!" In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own " Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple" Well said Sir | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple Well said Sir " FACT this is an open public forum that ANYONE could post to .... Simple !! | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple Well said Sir " We love these threads, we check who's up for it...Make private notes, move on to their veries...Make notes on them, and then we know who to avoid, it's a great filtering tool. | |||
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"If you wanna go go If it’s not your thing don’t post Simple " Someone else must have written your profile for you then, and you’ve not bothered to read it Why are you posting ? Apparently it’s not your thing either Oh the people in forums who tell others when and where and how or not others can post. | |||
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"Hope your all tested .. You're not involved so why do you care anyway? Because, as this is a swingers site and an infection can soon be spread - it won't just stay amoungst those at the party. 5 couples attend, all 5 get infected; each then play with another 5 couples (that's 50 people infected) they then play with another 5 couples, that's 500 people, so it could eventually involve them... could involve us all." Then never have sex ever again and you'll be fine. Problem solved. | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple Well said Sir FACT this is an open public forum that ANYONE could post to .... Simple !!" I havent seen any barebackers slag off or condem or preach to others on topics concerning safe sex so why do others with no interest in bareback feel they can be judgemental and tell us about health & safety issues etc. | |||
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"I don't bareback and never will with complete strangers. However its not my place to lecture people who do. Everyone here is a grown up and knows the risks involved. Just keep looking after your own sexual health and let everyone else deal with theirs how they see fit. If its not for you and you see a thread stating bareback, why open the thread in the first place knowing full well the reaction the comments would get. Ps. I'm here because I knew what the comments would be and have nothing better to do right now " | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple Well said Sir FACT this is an open public forum that ANYONE could post to .... Simple !! I havent seen any barebackers slag off or condem or preach to others on topics concerning safe sex so why do others with no interest in bareback feel they can be judgemental and tell us about health & safety issues etc. " You haven’t seen barebackers preaching because there’s nothing to pull apart . Freedom of speech pal | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple Well said Sir FACT this is an open public forum that ANYONE could post to .... Simple !! I havent seen any barebackers slag off or condem or preach to others on topics concerning safe sex so why do others with no interest in bareback feel they can be judgemental and tell us about health & safety issues etc. You haven’t seen barebackers preaching because there’s nothing to pull apart . Freedom of speech pal" Or maybe we dont preach to others because we have got more class. Might be freedom of speech but i still dont get why people like you jump over topics like this when you have no interest in it. It clearly says bareback so why join in when you have no interest in bareback????? | |||
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"Hope your all tested .. You're not involved so why do you care anyway? Because, as this is a swingers site and an infection can soon be spread - it won't just stay amoungst those at the party. 5 couples attend, all 5 get infected; each then play with another 5 couples (that's 50 people infected) they then play with another 5 couples, that's 500 people, so it could eventually involve them... could involve us all. Then never have sex ever again and you'll be fine. Problem solved." | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple Well said Sir FACT this is an open public forum that ANYONE could post to .... Simple !! I havent seen any barebackers slag off or condem or preach to others on topics concerning safe sex so why do others with no interest in bareback feel they can be judgemental and tell us about health & safety issues etc. You haven’t seen barebackers preaching because there’s nothing to pull apart . Freedom of speech pal Or maybe we dont preach to others because we have got more class. Might be freedom of speech but i still dont get why people like you jump over topics like this when you have no interest in it. It clearly says bareback so why join in when you have no interest in bareback?????" To quote it’s Simple !! As someone else has said and I have clearly stated . This is a swingers site ..... the diseases and risks don’t just stay with the barebackers !!!! If they did “do good ers” as you put it would have nothing to worry about !! As I said I care nothing for your health , tho I hasten to add I would not wish any ill health on you ...... But I do care about my own , hence why I comment and feel strongly about the bareback head in the sand mentality | |||
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"Ok I know I shouldn’t but I’m howling with laughter now. Stop stop please stop " If you insist | |||
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"If you attend clubs or group sex parties etc, where there is lots of touching sucking licking etc and condoms are worn only for penetration, you are still putting yourself in greatly increased risk. Touch a hole with nasties lurking within, say during fingering/foreplay then touch your own cock, for a play or to roll on a condom for example, or start touching/kissing/licking someone else, and you are spreading those germs. Condom won’t do shit. Think preparing food and constant hand washing, or spreading colds and flu touching door handles then your face. Any swinger is taking a risk joining a high risk group. I’m sorry it’s a fact: If you truly want to avoid all risk of sti’s practice monogamy. " Totally agree with you fella .. but you can edge your bets can’t you ? | |||
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"Similar topic, we’re preached at to wash our hands after going to the toilet, especially if one is preparing food. So why is it you never hear of anyone getting a bad stomach after rimming a friend/lover/casual acquaintance etc? " I can 100% confirm that you can get ill after running a partner, aside from if they have been ill or not it is simple biological science and the makeup of our intestinal systems. | |||
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"HPV is one to watch as it’s the leading cause of ovarian cancer. Rarely any symptoms it just sits and waits in ladies. No test for men, rarely affects guys though cancer of the cock is a possibility. only way to detect in females is a smear. As it is such an easy virus to spread and can live on the surface of the skin, wearing a condom doesn’t reduce risk much as the merest contact, even to a part of the penis or balls not covered is enough to spread. Also fingering wanking oral etc. It’s like a cold and touching your nose. Abstinence is the only way to avoid (though young enough females will have been innoculated at school) As previously mentioned, unless you’re wearing condoms for oral you’re spreading pretty much as much germs as the bareback brigade. If you do this in a group sex setting you are as much as a risk as a barebacker. This is why I like frustrated cheating milfs who’ve recently joined and not strayed in 20 years. Pretty much as good as being a virgin... Unless their frustrated hub been banging prostitutes, oh god!!!!" When we considered swinging, we researched the risks. There have been large scale studies done on possible transmission of Sti's, including HIV, and the risks of doing so through full sex, as opposed to oral. The 're were lots of various combinations, all with different risks, but what it came down to was that whilst there was a small risk, unprotected oral was massively safer than unprotected anal or vaginal sex. One study concluded the average person was more likely to be run over than catch an Sti via unprotected oral. The risks reduce still further if you screen your potential playmates and eliminate anyone from a high risk group. With basic hygiene, the use of condoms for full sex, and a bit of common sense about who you play with, the risk is almost non-existent. However, the more people who indulge in bareback, the higher the risk becomes for everyone who swings. That's why those of us who practice safe sex get a bit wound up when we see others taking the risk. | |||
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"Similar topic, we’re preached at to wash our hands after going to the toilet, especially if one is preparing food. So why is it you never hear of anyone getting a bad stomach after rimming a friend/lover/casual acquaintance etc? " You don’t hear about it after rimming because can you imagine the conversation ..... Doc I’ve got a upset tummy ,, yes but what have you eaten ,,, err nothing but I was running a friends arse last night ...... cmon | |||
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"Similar topic, we’re preached at to wash our hands after going to the toilet, especially if one is preparing food. So why is it you never hear of anyone getting a bad stomach after rimming a friend/lover/casual acquaintance etc? You don’t hear about it after rimming because can you imagine the conversation ..... Doc I’ve got a upset tummy ,, yes but what have you eaten ,,, err nothing but I was running a friends arse last night ...... cmon " I mean rimming | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple Well said Sir FACT this is an open public forum that ANYONE could post to .... Simple !! I havent seen any barebackers slag off or condem or preach to others on topics concerning safe sex so why do others with no interest in bareback feel they can be judgemental and tell us about health & safety issues etc. You haven’t seen barebackers preaching because there’s nothing to pull apart . Freedom of speech pal Or maybe we dont preach to others because we have got more class. Might be freedom of speech but i still dont get why people like you jump over topics like this when you have no interest in it. It clearly says bareback so why join in when you have no interest in bareback????? To quote it’s Simple !! As someone else has said and I have clearly stated . This is a swingers site ..... the diseases and risks don’t just stay with the barebackers !!!! If they did “do good ers” as you put it would have nothing to worry about !! As I said I care nothing for your health , tho I hasten to add I would not wish any ill health on you ...... But I do care about my own , hence why I comment and feel strongly about the bareback head in the sand mentality " A lot of barebackers do state it on their profile. Doesn't take much to block them and to check any veris and block those too, to minimise your chances of paths crossing. No it won't completely eliminate the chances of meeting someone who does, but it will help if your meeting through this site if you block as you go. | |||
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"Just in case anyone's forgot.... Does anyone want to attend a bareback couples party? At least I believe that was what the thread was about " No thanks I’m washing my hair that night | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple Well said Sir We love these threads, we check who's up for it...Make private notes, move on to their veries...Make notes on them, and then we know who to avoid, it's a great filtering tool. " We do the same on every judgemental Post, whether it's something we agree with or not, as in this case, reduces the chances of getting stuck in a locked room or at the bar with preaching bores. | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple Well said Sir FACT this is an open public forum that ANYONE could post to .... Simple !! I havent seen any barebackers slag off or condem or preach to others on topics concerning safe sex so why do others with no interest in bareback feel they can be judgemental and tell us about health & safety issues etc. You haven’t seen barebackers preaching because there’s nothing to pull apart . Freedom of speech pal Or maybe we dont preach to others because we have got more class. Might be freedom of speech but i still dont get why people like you jump over topics like this when you have no interest in it. It clearly says bareback so why join in when you have no interest in bareback????? To quote it’s Simple !! As someone else has said and I have clearly stated . This is a swingers site ..... the diseases and risks don’t just stay with the barebackers !!!! If they did “do good ers” as you put it would have nothing to worry about !! As I said I care nothing for your health , tho I hasten to add I would not wish any ill health on you ...... But I do care about my own , hence why I comment and feel strongly about the bareback head in the sand mentality A lot of barebackers do state it on their profile. Doesn't take much to block them and to check any veris and block those too, to minimise your chances of paths crossing. No it won't completely eliminate the chances of meeting someone who does, but it will help if your meeting through this site if you block as you go. " I think if you go through the posts and check the profiles who have posted in favour of it, you will find most in fact DO NOT mention it in their profiles, in fact one or two even have safe sex listed as an interest! | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple Well said Sir FACT this is an open public forum that ANYONE could post to .... Simple !! I havent seen any barebackers slag off or condem or preach to others on topics concerning safe sex so why do others with no interest in bareback feel they can be judgemental and tell us about health & safety issues etc. You haven’t seen barebackers preaching because there’s nothing to pull apart . Freedom of speech pal Or maybe we dont preach to others because we have got more class. Might be freedom of speech but i still dont get why people like you jump over topics like this when you have no interest in it. It clearly says bareback so why join in when you have no interest in bareback????? To quote it’s Simple !! As someone else has said and I have clearly stated . This is a swingers site ..... the diseases and risks don’t just stay with the barebackers !!!! If they did “do good ers” as you put it would have nothing to worry about !! As I said I care nothing for your health , tho I hasten to add I would not wish any ill health on you ...... But I do care about my own , hence why I comment and feel strongly about the bareback head in the sand mentality A lot of barebackers do state it on their profile. Doesn't take much to block them and to check any veris and block those too, to minimise your chances of paths crossing. No it won't completely eliminate the chances of meeting someone who does, but it will help if your meeting through this site if you block as you go. I think if you go through the posts and check the profiles who have posted in favour of it, you will find most in fact DO NOT mention it in their profiles, in fact one or two even have safe sex listed as an interest! " I didnt say i approved of it , just that its up to other people what they choose to do | |||
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"Why taking risk in the name of fun.Do you realy trust strangers you met online. Take a trip to std clinic.see people living with incurable std. Complete Crass and dopey Incurable std? Are you talking about this new Super Gonorrhoea? Or something else? Just for starters, genital herpes is INCURABLE. And it is a myth that you are only infectious during a breakout... Was discussing this very thing with someone last night. " You can get herpes when using protection so that ones out of the window! Same as warts. You can also contract HIV from oral sex and a vast majority of people on here do not use protection for oral. Just saying You have absolutely no idea if someone you meet has had unprotected sex and is carrying an sti. Pics maybe using condoms but you never know. Look after yourself and let others do their thing. | |||
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"HPV is one to watch as it’s the leading cause of ovarian cancer. Rarely any symptoms it just sits and waits in ladies. No test for men, rarely affects guys though cancer of the cock is a possibility. only way to detect in females is a smear!!" Hpv is connected to cervical cancer not ovarian. It's not always the reason but the most common. All we need to do is check out the threads about smear tests and we can block all the women on them because they've all had bareback sex and got hpv?? Oh by the way hpv is the genital warts virus! | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple Well said Sir FACT this is an open public forum that ANYONE could post to .... Simple !! I havent seen any barebackers slag off or condem or preach to others on topics concerning safe sex so why do others with no interest in bareback feel they can be judgemental and tell us about health & safety issues etc. You haven’t seen barebackers preaching because there’s nothing to pull apart . Freedom of speech pal Or maybe we dont preach to others because we have got more class. Might be freedom of speech but i still dont get why people like you jump over topics like this when you have no interest in it. It clearly says bareback so why join in when you have no interest in bareback????? To quote it’s Simple !! As someone else has said and I have clearly stated . This is a swingers site ..... the diseases and risks don’t just stay with the barebackers !!!! If they did “do good ers” as you put it would have nothing to worry about !! As I said I care nothing for your health , tho I hasten to add I would not wish any ill health on you ...... But I do care about my own , hence why I comment and feel strongly about the bareback head in the sand mentality A lot of barebackers do state it on their profile. Doesn't take much to block them and to check any veris and block those too, to minimise your chances of paths crossing. No it won't completely eliminate the chances of meeting someone who does, but it will help if your meeting through this site if you block as you go. I think if you go through the posts and check the profiles who have posted in favour of it, you will find most in fact DO NOT mention it in their profiles, in fact one or two even have safe sex listed as an interest! " I haven't had time to go through this thread yet, but bloody hell. I've had a few look at my profile who did and stated it, and their veris the same, so I assumed it was the done thing. Ok, still not judging but come on barebackers at least give us the option of deciding by stating on your profile that's how you play. | |||
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"Thinking fabs just just add a new interest “Bareback” simple for everyone to either tick or leave blank if it’s not their thing. If fabs wants to state they won’t list it as they don’t want to be seen to encourage it, then why do they list it on Fab guys? As I read the interests on people pages, safe sex means nothing apart from they will play safe. Doesn’t say they don’t if the mood takes them. Same as anal, does every woman who lists anal as an interest expect to be taking it on every meet? Doubtful, it’s an interest, not a must. Think Fabs should update, an make it easier for all to search and avoid rather than prowling the latest B.B. thread to take notes. " I agree that having bb on 'interests' list would help, but I can guarantee that most guys will not select that option even if they're actively seeking/practising bb sex. It's exactly the same on fab guys. | |||
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"In our experience most couples are only too keen to bareback. Even those who prominently display "safe sex only" messages. " We find opposite in clubs, condoms galore & never been questioned the men just put one on | |||
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"We have met 1 couple where they wanted to do bare. We all went to the clinic together and got tested then played when the results came back clear. We still ended up using condoms because it didn't feel right to us. We would never go to a party and do it but each to there own way isnt it " Hahaha...cheers, you made my day. | |||
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"Why has a great post, posted with a view to arranging what promises to be a fun meet, been ruined by the usual bullshit about who is clean or not? To the original posters, hope things are going well" I totally agree, it should have been left with the original intent | |||
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"Why has a great post, posted with a view to arranging what promises to be a fun meet, been ruined by the usual bullshit about who is clean or not? To the original posters, hope things are going well" All is going well. Your right it is bull shit. Everything is a choice and our choice is th play bareback. We always have and always will. We know the risks. We also know what we like. | |||
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"Why has a great post, posted with a view to arranging what promises to be a fun meet, been ruined by the usual bullshit about who is clean or not? To the original posters, hope things are going well" All is going well. Your right it is bull shit. Everything is a choice and our choice is th play bareback. We always have and always will. We know the risks. We also know what we like. | |||
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"Why has a great post, posted with a view to arranging what promises to be a fun meet, been ruined by the usual bullshit about who is clean or not? To the original posters, hope things are going well All is going well. Your right it is bull shit. Everything is a choice and our choice is th play bareback. We always have and always will. We know the risks. We also know what we like." It is your choice... but your choice and others who play bareback can impact on people who don't, and that's why people like us get a little bent out of shape about it. If you are going to start a forum thread about it, it would be naïve to expect that it would go all your way, that's the whole point of forums, for people to debate subjects. | |||
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"Why has a great post, posted with a view to arranging what promises to be a fun meet, been ruined by the usual bullshit about who is clean or not? To the original posters, hope things are going well All is going well. Your right it is bull shit. Everything is a choice and our choice is th play bareback. We always have and always will. We know the risks. We also know what we like. It is your choice... but your choice and others who play bareback can impact on people who don't, and that's why people like us get a little bent out of shape about it. If you are going to start a forum thread about it, it would be naïve to expect that it would go all your way, that's the whole point of forums, for people to debate subjects. " The original post isn't the start of a debate though. It's an invitation to join a party. | |||
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"Why has a great post, posted with a view to arranging what promises to be a fun meet, been ruined by the usual bullshit about who is clean or not? To the original posters, hope things are going well All is going well. Your right it is bull shit. Everything is a choice and our choice is th play bareback. We always have and always will. We know the risks. We also know what we like. It is your choice... but your choice and others who play bareback can impact on people who don't, and that's why people like us get a little bent out of shape about it. If you are going to start a forum thread about it, it would be naïve to expect that it would go all your way, that's the whole point of forums, for people to debate subjects. The original post isn't the start of a debate though. It's an invitation to join a party. " Well said | |||
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"Why has a great post, posted with a view to arranging what promises to be a fun meet, been ruined by the usual bullshit about who is clean or not? To the original posters, hope things are going well All is going well. Your right it is bull shit. Everything is a choice and our choice is th play bareback. We always have and always will. We know the risks. We also know what we like. It is your choice... but your choice and others who play bareback can impact on people who don't, and that's why people like us get a little bent out of shape about it. If you are going to start a forum thread about it, it would be naïve to expect that it would go all your way, that's the whole point of forums, for people to debate subjects. The original post isn't the start of a debate though. It's an invitation to join a party. " Its a thread in a forum, a place to debate, to argue (hopefully good-naturedly) to swap ideas and opinions, with a view to "putting the world to rights". If you want to invite people to a party without having to argue the pros and cons... maybe private messages is the way to go lol? | |||
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"HPV is one to watch as it’s the leading cause of ovarian cancer. Rarely any symptoms it just sits and waits in ladies. No test for men, rarely affects guys though cancer of the cock is a possibility. only way to detect in females is a smear. As it is such an easy virus to spread and can live on the surface of the skin, wearing a condom doesn’t reduce risk much as the merest contact, even to a part of the penis or balls not covered is enough to spread. Also fingering wanking oral etc. It’s like a cold and touching your nose. Abstinence is the only way to avoid (though young enough females will have been innoculated at school) As previously mentioned, unless you’re wearing condoms for oral you’re spreading pretty much as much germs as the bareback brigade. If you do this in a group sex setting you are as much as a risk as a barebacker. This is why I like frustrated cheating milfs who’ve recently joined and not strayed in 20 years. Pretty much as good as being a virgin... Unless their frustrated hub been banging prostitutes, oh god!!!!" that sounds like me! i am a frustrated, cheating gilf who has recently joined and just strayed after 24 years. | |||
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"Any news on this?" I think they're all down the local clinic getting tested before play | |||
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"Hope your all tested .. You're not involved so why do you care anyway?" bimbos | |||
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"Any news on this? I think they're all down the local clinic getting tested before play " No need for testing. A glass of pure orange juice and a wash with Listerine (not the smooth one) after sex and you’re safe for life. You got to know the right tricks to enjoy bareback. | |||
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"Sunnylovers I would love to join you " Me too! | |||
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"If bareback is right here on fab.The government and medical association must be wrong lol.I presume barebackers on fab most have carry out some medical research with solid authenticated evidence showing std is a myth. Someone with the right frame of mind will not undergo such a deadly mission all in the name of fun. I have lost two of my friends to aids.I know why I am preaching on safe sex on this topic.if you like bareback sex do it your spouse or boyfriend not with a complete stranger. " Oh bore off ! They're consenting adults. They know what they're doing. | |||
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"Why taking risk in the name of fun.Do you realy trust strangers you met online. Take a trip to std clinic.see people living with incurable std. Complete Crass and dopey Incurable std? Are you talking about this new Super Gonorrhoea? Or something else?" You can only catch genital herpes once.. | |||
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"I have met this sexy couple for bareback fun and they are amazingly sexy. I cant speak highly enough of them for they are a true filth loving couple. Whoever meets them will have such a filthy experience. As for the do gooders, why do you preach your health and safety all the time????? Do you see those who play bareback preach to you about using condoms? In my opinion condoms were made to be d*unk from!!! In a lot of respects I agree it’s each to their own .... but ,,,,,in this crazy medium of cross pollination it’s not that simple as each to their own is it ? I’ve been put off many times when I’ve read verifications on a woman’s profile from a barebacker particularly a barebacker that’s dabbling with both men and women .... I don’t give a shit about your health fella but I’m concerned for my own Then dont come on a topic that involves bareback.................simple Well said Sir We love these threads, we check who's up for it...Make private notes, move on to their veries...Make notes on them, and then we know who to avoid, it's a great filtering tool. " Each to their own but I wonder how many who have shown an interest have been blocked by numerous people reading the thread. Your all adults but in my opinion it’s not worth the risk, also will you tell other people you meet that insist on safe sex that you have been to a bare back party? | |||
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"I just love the arguments. Nothing splits swingers like this topic! " no nothing splits the forums more ..real swingers just get on with there own thing hence most swingers on fab never come into these forums ... and no we dont bareback before you all message but then we dont judge either | |||
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"We are planning to arrange a couple only B/B party. Any genuine couple interested. Strictly over 40s. Please let us know if your interested xx" 250 miles away! Dammit! | |||
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"Hope your all tested .. You're not involved so why do you care anyway? Because, as this is a swingers site and an infection can soon be spread - it won't just stay amoungst those at the party. 5 couples attend, all 5 get infected; each then play with another 5 couples (that's 50 people infected) they then play with another 5 couples, that's 500 people, so it could eventually involve them... could involve us all." If you don’t play bareback yourself then why are you bothered ? | |||
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