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By *r Username OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in cornwall

After being on here on and off for a few years you tend to see certain patterns and one in particular I've noticed is that athletic/toned women don't generally go for athletic guys. Never asked before but always wondered why?

Could anyone shed some light on this please

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

What do athletic/toned women go for then?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Strange who do they go for then?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’m not a toned gym bod but I tend to meet people that I have amazing meets with. They have to be good at kissing as well. You don’t always get that with the guys who look like Adonis!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So that's where I'm going wrong!

Right, off to Maccies!

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By *r Username OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in cornwall

Must be the 'dad bod' types?I'm not sure really but I've noticed it too many times for it to be coincidence...

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"After being on here on and off for a few years you tend to see certain patterns and one in particular I've noticed is that athletic/toned women don't generally go for athletic guys. Never asked before but always wondered why?

Could anyone shed some light on this please"

A lot of 'model type' guys on here find meets relatively easy, hence they want quick meets and can't be arsed to chat and get know someone properly so they drift onto the next person if they think they are getting a better offer. I've met a couple of gym fit type guys who like to watch themselves perform in the mirror and one who blocked me immediately after leaving my front door, he unblocked me months later and asked to meet again, no surprise I said no!

I am sure not all come into this but it's my experiences so I tend to steer clear of the muscle bound Adonis xx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I would have thought they would to be honest,shared interest and all that.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I would go for athletic, toned or muscular if I have a choice

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Everyone has their own perspective of what is attractive.

You say potatoe....

Ss

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By *r Username OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in cornwall


"I would have thought they would to be honest,shared interest and all that."

Me too, which is why this confuses me. I can only really say from my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer athletic or toned men. Sadly I'm neither of those so I can't shed any light either. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has their own perspective of what is attractive.

You say potatoe....

Ss "

That's what makes it work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe opposites attract ? I'm neither toned nor athletic so I wouldn't know but gimme a dad bod anyday ! A slight podge on an otherwise average body. Add a lorra lorra height.. you're winning !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP how have you noticed ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP how have you noticed ? "

He messaged a toned/athletic woman once and she didn’t reply.

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By *r Username OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in cornwall


"OP how have you noticed ? "

By all the people I've talked to over the years and the responses I get (or not haha) as well as the meets I've had. I have met with athletic types on a couple of occasions so not typecasting but it does seem to be more the case than not

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

As an athletic/toned man, are you only looking for athletic/toned women?

If so, why? Do you feel that great NSA sex can only be had between two people of similar body type?

Cus, I've met both, and in my experience, meets have been more fulfilling when they've been with the average-to-dadbod guys. The gym-fit guys seemed to think that all that was required of them was to turn up, show off their athletic performance in bed, and leave again. The average-to-dadbod guys were much more able to have a laugh (in and out of bed), good conversation, and a cup of coffee afterwards.

Feel free to point out that, since I'm neither athletic nor toned, my opinion is irrelevant to you

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By *r Username OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in cornwall


"As an athletic/toned man, are you only looking for athletic/toned women?

If so, why? Do you feel that great NSA sex can only be had between two people of similar body type?

Cus, I've met both, and in my experience, meets have been more fulfilling when they've been with the average-to-dadbod guys. The gym-fit guys seemed to think that all that was required of them was to turn up, show off their athletic performance in bed, and leave again. The average-to-dadbod guys were much more able to have a laugh (in and out of bed), good conversation, and a cup of coffee afterwards.

Feel free to point out that, since I'm neither athletic nor toned, my opinion is irrelevant to you "

My opinion is that sexy does not have a dress size and I've never gone for a particular type because that's missing out on a lot. Maybe the guys you've met were ego types and I can't stand any of that nonsense!

You're opinion is as valid as any other as I do not possess a female brain lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's handsome, charming, and it feels right...I'll shag a fitty, or a fatty.

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