FabSwingers.com forum: friend request without a message

By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

we all get them but, we got a friend request from a couple from here no message so we sent them a nice we message, how good their profile was nice to see people that know what they like ect, and very sexy pix and they were and ask do they meet for drinks and friendly banter ect, nothing came back look at us few times for few days till we blocked them i mean what was the point, has any1 else had this i find it very weird hope their readin this lol

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By *leaminglarssonCouple
over a year ago

ruslington

get it all the time fake profiles me thinks just block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its pretty simples.... they just wanna see yer pvt pics.......happens all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we all get them but, we got a friend request from a couple from here no message so we sent them a nice we message, how good their profile was nice to see people that know what they like ect, and very sexy pix and they were and ask do they meet for drinks and friendly banter ect, nothing came back look at us few times for few days till we blocked them i mean what was the point, has any1 else had this i find it very weird hope their readin this lol

Had exactly the same thing 6 months back. They still look at me all the time, (twice today even!), and we are still 'friends', but they've never contacted me, and I haven't contacted them since the initial message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its pretty simples.... they just wanna see yer pvt pics.......happens all the time

I've heard that before, yet I have no pics!

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

we just delete the friends request and don't bother to send a message.

If they can't be bothered to read profiles properly we just ignore.

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By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

just weird realy weird

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

We get it..and we dont even have any private pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but do you feel offensive that a man (or a woman or a couple, whatever...)sends you a friend request after a couple of messages about a clear meet opportunity?

I mean, is there anything wrong in seeing more pictures to make yourself an opinion about the attraction you can have for someone?

Just asking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Predicting this will be a long thread!! We all get them, yes! Never, ever accept them - usually a bloke wanking over a pot noodle in a bedsit is the perpatrator! oops, thats me..

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By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"but do you feel offensive that a man (or a woman or a couple, whatever...)sends you a friend request after a couple of messages about a clear meet opportunity?

I mean, is there anything wrong in seeing more pictures to make yourself an opinion about the attraction you can have for someone?

Just asking...."
its a bit rude to ask to be a friend and not respond to a message from the people u have ask

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By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

what i am askin or sayin is, we all get friend requests, but how many take the time to message the person only to be ignored by the person that ask to be friend!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but do you feel offensive that a man (or a woman or a couple, whatever...)sends you a friend request after a couple of messages about a clear meet opportunity?

I mean, is there anything wrong in seeing more pictures to make yourself an opinion about the attraction you can have for someone?

Just asking....its a bit rude to ask to be a friend and not respond to a message from the people u have ask

As far as I remember, I never done that.... So, yeah, some people are definitely trying to wank over your pics then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get them alot, and some are from couples, verified too... the male ones too from far off places do my head in lol- if im unlikely to meet a male from scotland, straight or bi..im fuckin even more unlikely to meet one down south haha.

my profile is pretty open, theres not much different from my private pics either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the profiles with pictures that are copied of of other sites and used int he small hope that no one notices them... well kinda annoying but its fun reporting them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what i am askin or sayin is, we all get friend requests, but how many take the time to message the person only to be ignored by the person that ask to be friend!!!!

stop wanking over my pics lovinit!...on my face is fine x

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By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"what i am askin or sayin is, we all get friend requests, but how many take the time to message the person only to be ignored by the person that ask to be friend!!!!

stop wanking over my pics lovinit!...on my face is fine x"
hahaha bold boy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love the profiles with pictures that are copied of of other sites and used int he small hope that no one notices them... well kinda annoying but its fun reporting them lol "

im paranoid...are u implying something....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what i am askin or sayin is, we all get friend requests, but how many take the time to message the person only to be ignored by the person that ask to be friend!!!!

stop wanking over my pics lovinit!...on my face is fine xhahaha bold boy x

hehehhhe no i use Vanish

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By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"We love the profiles with pictures that are copied of of other sites and used int he small hope that no one notices them... well kinda annoying but its fun reporting them lol "
have seen that a few times here and an other ssite we were on we eeven had a friends pic sent to us lol that was funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked a couple recently that only ever requested friendship, no message, no wink nothing, 4 times over one weekend they requested friendship. The thing is that at the last time, their status was that one of their kids had gone to uni so they had a free house and were looking for Saturday afternoon fun, had they bothered to message me I would have told them I was working and therefore not free. Just seemed easier to block them especially as I really wasn't interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our profile says please don't send them as a first contact

we still get shitloads

we wait til they're offline,accept them,have a perv at their pics then delete and block

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By *amescoupleCouple
over a year ago

north walsham

Ah the fun filled friend requests that are just out to perv our private pics. Which in reality arent any saucier than our normal ones and can be found elsewhere on the interwebs.

Only time we reason to accept a friend invite without message is if we have spoken in chat or sometimes if we have winked them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so easy to send a "Friends Invite" by mistake.

I've done it a few times, but I do write to tell them it was a mistake.

No doubt it happens to others too but they can't be arsed to say so.

We had one today actually, so I just deleted it.

I was perving some public pics a few weeks back and inadvertantly pressed the "send friends invite" button. I wrote and said sorry and they wrote back and said no probs and accepted our invite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No body loves me every body hates me im going down the garden to eat worms!

Or maybe I may start sending the odd msg instead so I may get some friendssssssssssssssssssssssss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No body loves me every body hates me im going down the garden to eat worms!

Or maybe I may start sending the odd msg instead so I may get some friendssssssssssssssssssssssss

oi!!!! I do the songs tch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No body loves me every body hates me im going down the garden to eat worms!

Or maybe I may start sending the odd msg instead so I may get some friendssssssssssssssssssssssss

oi!!!! I do the songs tch

tch?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I send them back a note saying that I am flattered and I would like to know them better...

if they get back.. good...

if they dont.... I wait till they are offline... I then go in, accept the friends invite... look at their private pics... and then take them off my friends list!!!

I know... I'm a bad man... I am going to hell!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just got blocked right this minuet for snding a msg never mind a friend request lol booooooooooooo I dont think I will sleep now tonight. Anyone got any night nurse or would a night nurse like to come round in person and sooth my brow etc etc haha

You just cant win with some folk can ya lol bless um

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

yep get them also even though we mention this on our profile ffs.

have been sending a quick email recently saying 'why do you not read people's profiles'??

but what is the point cos they dont want to meet, just 'picture wankers'

they should look on porn sites, much younger and prettier people on there than us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's an obvious fake profile or miles away I just leave it unaccepted so they can't resend it.

If they are local then they get a message along the lines of not accepting random friend invites but happy to chat and get to know them. Ultimately if that isn't replied to after a few weeks they'll be blocked. Rightly or wrongly I assume them to be a picture collector and don't want to waste time in the future messaging them.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Being in possession of short fat fingers, I have occasionally hit the friend invite link instead of the hotlist or wink link when accessing the site on my phone.

and I'll stick to that story even while they are dragging me away to the cells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats it!

Mods, arrest Tobleton and Jack!! lol

If admin place an upper limit on how many profiles u can block, im screwed!!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"If admin place an upper limit on how many profiles u can block, im screwed!!

ditto

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Being in possession of short fat fingers, I have occasionally hit the friend invite link instead of the hotlist or wink link when accessing the site on my phone.

and I'll stick to that story even while they are dragging me away to the cells

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We just file any random friend requests in the B.I.N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to get really pissed off with it and then i thought why!!!!!

so i do what i do i look when they are offline and delete afterwards

after all they have sent no message and no time to get to know me and be rude not to accept it and have a perve at theirs

after all they took the time to click the add friend button

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

lol @ Fabio and Jacqs

Think we might have to do that next time we get one

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By *ucktruckCouple
over a year ago

derby

They are just after perving at your private pics. If they can't be bothered to send a nice message what sort of friend will they be anyway. Just delete em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep i get that all the time, it is annoying when all it takes is a quick message nothing to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol @ Fabio and Jacqs

Think we might have to do that next time we get one

i did it and deleted afterward and i sent a message saying thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Predicting this will be a long thread!! We all get them, yes! Never, ever accept them - usually a bloke wanking over a pot noodle in a bedsit is the perpatrator! oops, thats me..

Bugger thats it, me an pot noodles are finnished for ever

lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

All my pics used to be public,and it said on our profile not to send a friend request to perve pics as they were all there for everyone to wank over,still got the requests

So i dont have a clue why ppl do it... is it cos you have to be friends to hotlist someone,i know i have more requests when i have been on cam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So i dont have a clue why ppl do it... is it cos you have to be friends to hotlist someone,i know i have more requests when i have been on cam?"

my messages go up my friends requests do and winks do when im on cam

if im playing up they go through the roof

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"All my pics used to be public,and it said on our profile not to send a friend request to perve pics as they were all there for everyone to wank over,still got the requests

So i dont have a clue why ppl do it... is it cos you have to be friends to hotlist someone,i know i have more requests when i have been on cam?"

No you don't need to be friends to put someone in your hotlist.

Not that I add people regularly to ours or anything

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

So i dont have a clue why ppl do it... is it cos you have to be friends to hotlist someone,i know i have more requests when i have been on cam?

my messages go up my friends requests do and winks do when im on cam

if im playing up they go through the roof

Yup,after mopping up its mass delete time

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"All my pics used to be public,and it said on our profile not to send a friend request to perve pics as they were all there for everyone to wank over,still got the requests

So i dont have a clue why ppl do it... is it cos you have to be friends to hotlist someone,i know i have more requests when i have been on cam?

No you don't need to be friends to put someone in your hotlist.

Not that I add people regularly to ours or anything

Ty,goes in the nowt as queer as folk category then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So i dont have a clue why ppl do it... is it cos you have to be friends to hotlist someone,i know i have more requests when i have been on cam?

my messages go up my friends requests do and winks do when im on cam

if im playing up they go through the roof

Yup,after mopping up its mass delete time

and some of the messages actually make u cringe LOL

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