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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone you thought was decent shares a picture of you with someone off the site and asks if their mate can join in.

What happened to discretion? Or respect

So angry right now! Shared a face pic with a single guy who could have been a potential meet, and then he tells me today he’s shown his mate and his friend wants in. WTH? Then when reply that’s not cool and why, he’s got the cheek to say I’m drama!

What an idiot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately we all have to be very careful on here. We would never show a face picture.

We insist upon a face picture in order to have any chance of meeting us. No Picture, no meet, but we would never ever share that picture with anyone else!

Slightly double standard, but that is how it must be for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly some people on here literally are here to fuck and go!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

This happens I'm afraid. A good reason never to show your face in nudes.

Unfortunately some people get carried away when they join fab and don't realise that they're dealing with real flesh and blood people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Under no circumstances should he be sharing your personal pictures... I agree with above meet him for sure order the most expensive wine eat your meal then slip through a side door

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sadly some people on here literally are here to fuck and go! "

I absolutley agree but he said he was looking for a swinging partner, group fun and to make videos etc. Keep it fresh as he put it lol

I said that’s strange as most guys want fuck and go. Hmmmm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is bang out of order. He should be booted from the site. Can he not be reported for this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This happens I'm afraid. A good reason never to show your face in nudes.

Unfortunately some people get carried away when they join fab and don't realise that they're dealing with real flesh and blood people "

So true. I just can’t believe how he behaved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dump him, block him and meet me instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone you thought was decent shares a picture of you with someone off the site and asks if their mate can join in.

What happened to discretion? Or respect

So angry right now! Shared a face pic with a single guy who could have been a potential meet, and then he tells me today he’s shown his mate and his friend wants in. WTH? Then when reply that’s not cool and why, he’s got the cheek to say I’m drama!

What an idiot! "

Have you met him before?

If I were you I'd meet him, punch him in the face and then leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and report/block etc etc etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone you thought was decent shares a picture of you with someone off the site and asks if their mate can join in.

What happened to discretion? Or respect

So angry right now! Shared a face pic with a single guy who could have been a potential meet, and then he tells me today he’s shown his mate and his friend wants in. WTH? Then when reply that’s not cool and why, he’s got the cheek to say I’m drama!

What an idiot! "
bang out of order. I wouldn’t show anyone else if u meet me?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Is be totally pissed off!!!

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By *WfuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

uk

It’s idiots like him that stops some of us from sending face pics. It’s scary x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is be totally pissed off!!! "

Thank you! Amen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That is bang out of order. He should be booted from the site. Can he not be reported for this?"

I’m not sure as this all happens off the site. Next time I should put a disclaimer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone you thought was decent shares a picture of you with someone off the site and asks if their mate can join in.

What happened to discretion? Or respect

So angry right now! Shared a face pic with a single guy who could have been a potential meet, and then he tells me today he’s shown his mate and his friend wants in. WTH? Then when reply that’s not cool and why, he’s got the cheek to say I’m drama!

What an idiot! bang out of order. I wouldn’t show anyone else if u meet me?"

Thanks you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly some people on here literally are here to fuck and go! "

Nothing wrong with that - some are specifically requesting that on their profiles. I'm afraid people have to have thicker skins.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Under no circumstances should he be sharing your personal pictures... I agree with above meet him for sure order the most expensive wine eat your meal then slip through a side door "

Haha that’s so naughty

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By *lasgowTommyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If someone you thought was decent shares a picture of you with someone off the site and asks if their mate can join in.

What happened to discretion? Or respect

So angry right now! Shared a face pic with a single guy who could have been a potential meet, and then he tells me today he’s shown his mate and his friend wants in. WTH? Then when reply that’s not cool and why, he’s got the cheek to say I’m drama!

What an idiot! "

You're right to be angry. Complete betrayal of trust irregardless of motive. Sorry to hear that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone you thought was decent shares a picture of you with someone off the site and asks if their mate can join in.

What happened to discretion? Or respect

So angry right now! Shared a face pic with a single guy who could have been a potential meet, and then he tells me today he’s shown his mate and his friend wants in. WTH? Then when reply that’s not cool and why, he’s got the cheek to say I’m drama!

What an idiot! "

We always check the box that only allows the recipient to see it once, would be fuming if someone shared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone you thought was decent shares a picture of you with someone off the site and asks if their mate can join in.

What happened to discretion? Or respect

So angry right now! Shared a face pic with a single guy who could have been a potential meet, and then he tells me today he’s shown his mate and his friend wants in. WTH? Then when reply that’s not cool and why, he’s got the cheek to say I’m drama!

What an idiot!

We always check the box that only allows the recipient to see it once, would be fuming if someone shared"

They can still screen shot it then they have a copy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone you thought was decent shares a picture of you with someone off the site and asks if their mate can join in.

What happened to discretion? Or respect

So angry right now! Shared a face pic with a single guy who could have been a potential meet, and then he tells me today he’s shown his mate and his friend wants in. WTH? Then when reply that’s not cool and why, he’s got the cheek to say I’m drama!

What an idiot! "

That's horrendous. Zero respect. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone you thought was decent shares a picture of you with someone off the site and asks if their mate can join in.

What happened to discretion? Or respect

So angry right now! Shared a face pic with a single guy who could have been a potential meet, and then he tells me today he’s shown his mate and his friend wants in. WTH? Then when reply that’s not cool and why, he’s got the cheek to say I’m drama!

What an idiot!

You're right to be angry. Complete betrayal of trust irregardless of motive. Sorry to hear that x"

It’s not okay but I’ve blocked him and hopefully we don’t cross paths again. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone you thought was decent shares a picture of you with someone off the site and asks if their mate can join in.

What happened to discretion? Or respect

So angry right now! Shared a face pic with a single guy who could have been a potential meet, and then he tells me today he’s shown his mate and his friend wants in. WTH? Then when reply that’s not cool and why, he’s got the cheek to say I’m drama!

What an idiot!

That's horrendous. Zero respect. x"

I’m glad I never met him. I think I dodged a bullet. Thanks for your reply. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys i kids you not!! I just got a message on what’s app from a random number and my face pic saying my face is on Twitter and I’m a wrong on and that I’m exposed! Lool!

Im now being harrassd by the guy I was talking to. Silly sod and you know what I was expecting it

What should I do?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I know it's difficult but try not to repond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys i kids you not!! I just got a message on what’s app from a random number and my face pic saying my face is on Twitter and I’m a wrong on and that I’m exposed! Lool!

Im now being harrassd by the guy I was talking to. Silly sod and you know what I was expecting it

What should I do? "

Ignore him. Hopefully he will get bored and go away. Don't delete any of his messages. Save them all and if he carries on, speak to the police.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Keep the whatsapp message and any correspondence on here and take them to the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep the whatsapp message and any correspondence on here and take them to the police.

"

^^ this^^

He will have a wake up call when the cops call him about his messages

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"If someone you thought was decent shares a picture of you with someone off the site and asks if their mate can join in.

What happened to discretion? Or respect

So angry right now! Shared a face pic with a single guy who could have been a potential meet, and then he tells me today he’s shown his mate and his friend wants in. WTH? Then when reply that’s not cool and why, he’s got the cheek to say I’m drama!

What an idiot! "

Awful behaviour.

Might it be covered under the revenge porn laws?

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2015/2/section/33/enacted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone you thought was decent shares a picture of you with someone off the site and asks if their mate can join in.

What happened to discretion? Or respect

So angry right now! Shared a face pic with a single guy who could have been a potential meet, and then he tells me today he’s shown his mate and his friend wants in. WTH? Then when reply that’s not cool and why, he’s got the cheek to say I’m drama!

What an idiot!

Awful behaviour.

Might it be covered under the revenge porn laws?

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2015/2/section/33/enacted"

Harassment and malicious communications act I think

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By *lbaLadMan
over a year ago

Fort William

If the pic is just your face and nothing naughty I'd suggest ignore it, anybody with a graphics app could put a pic of anybody in a fab message no problem. Bullies get off on the response and get bored when there isn't one, and if you do respond you confirm the circumstances. But do keep all the evidence in case by chance it does escalate.

What a horrid wee shite doing that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally out of order. Don't blame you for being angry

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Out of order..simple as that.

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