FabSwingers.com forum: Are you a swinger or not a swinger??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious as to what some may consider swinging to be on here?? I have chatted to quite a few who consider themselves not to be a swinger and others who embrace the idea of being a swinger. I believe that most things you can't really label them and with such a diverse culture we can be bits of everything. Thanks to the internet it has allowed us to embrace ourselves and what we do more freely without prejudice. That's why I'm a professional arse hole and occasional twat!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were not swingers as we don't full swap, we just enjoy a little bit of naughty fun infront of others and watching others and love being naked outside and infront of other naked people,

not that the word itself bothers us in anyway, we are what we are and we don't need a title or lable to justify our likes

does this mean we have to leave this site now ?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Yes we are swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm a couple or single I only play with proper swingers that enjoy couples, singles and group scenes be it soft or hard, not into unicorn hunters at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty sure the definition is Sexually liberated, or something similar. So I guess if you are on this site then you are most likely a swinger.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes we consider ourselves to be swingers

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Yep. 100%

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm a swingle, does that count?

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By *vesham cplCouple
over a year ago

Evesham

One hundred percent swingers

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

If you're single I guess you're not technically a swinger

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"If you're single I guess you're not technically a swinger"

Tricky one, without singles where would couples get their 3 somes?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I have played as a couple and met with other couples. So yes I swing and I’ve had threesums.

Mostly I meet single guys though.

I’m here for the fun and frolics.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Out and out swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not out in the scene, so no. I don't class meeting my friend and her boyfriend/husband as swinging either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're single I guess you're not technically a swinger"

True, and the couples who only meet singles aren't swingers.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I’m pretty sure the definition is Sexually liberated, or something similar. So I guess if you are on this site then you are most likely a swinger.

That’s very generous , albeit misguided

Looking at some of the posts on here and comments from singles looking for exclusivity ,the fact that they are on the site is the ONLY thing that makes them swingers .

Oh and yeah we are swingers

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"If you're single I guess you're not technically a swinger

True, and the couples who only meet singles aren't swingers. "

I’m glad we meet the odd couple now and again then

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

We dabble

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

I,m a threesome without a couple at the moment, but yes a fervent swinger.

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

"If you're single I guess you're not technically a swinger"

Although some would disagree I think it depends on the mindset rather than if you are part of a couple. When I was single and looking for love I wanted to find a partner who was open to embracing the lifestyle.

I think if one is single and the idea of sharing sexual adventures with a loved one horrifies or repels then that person is not a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep swingers all the way here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers here! Lol

Although I hate the word swinger haha

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By *lackitncoCouple
over a year ago

brownhills

We just cam not sure what that makes us lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Nope,clearly.

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

"If you're single I guess you're not technically a swinger"
well i consider myself a swinger and I'm single but only usually meet couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're more swayers than swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re swingers. We attend swing clubs and parties. We might do a partner swap but tend usually play with singles because it’s easier that way. The singles we play with are also swingers, and it would be out of our comfort zone to play with people who are not swingers.

Mrs

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm a swingle, does that count?

Yes as I was about to say the same

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We're swingers!

M and M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're single I guess you're not technically a swinger

True, and the couples who only meet singles aren't swingers.

I’m glad we meet the odd couple now and again then

How odd are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a loose woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a loose woman

Would love to know what the definition of loose is !

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"If you're single I guess you're not technically a swinger

True, and the couples who only meet singles aren't swingers.

I’m glad we meet the odd couple now and again then

How odd are they?

Really , really odd ... they have to be to want to meet us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an ex swinger. I don't class myself as one anymore, as I'm no longer actively involved on the lifestyle

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I'm an ex swinger. I don't class myself as one anymore, as I'm no longer actively involved on the lifestyle

Have you returned your membership card?

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

We are not proper Swingers as we meet others separately x

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"We are not proper Swingers as we meet others separately x"

We meet solo too but I'd still class us as out n out swingers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm an ex swinger. I don't class myself as one anymore, as I'm no longer actively involved on the lifestyle

Have you returned your membership card?"

No. I've laminated and framed it, in memory of those times. It expired 2 years ago anyway

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I'm an ex swinger. I don't class myself as one anymore, as I'm no longer actively involved on the lifestyle

Have you returned your membership card?

No. I've laminated and framed it, in memory of those times. It expired 2 years ago anyway

Something to show the grandkids

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I don't think we consider ourselves 'swingers'. I'm not sure if it's the 70's image of the classic 'keys in a bowl with the neighbours' that the word conjures up. Also we're still very hesitant when it comes to involving others and I think proper swingers would have far fewer limits?

I'd say we were more sexualy adventurous than our friends when it comes to having sex in front of others and in having some soft play fun in clubs.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Who needs labels? I'm me.

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

We call ourselves swingers, but we're still learning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I enjoy sensual, adventurous sex but I'm happy with just one like minded woman,........and maybe her best girlfriend on occasion....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I so like the verb “to be” it should be banned from English language.

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By *vesham cplCouple
over a year ago

Evesham

Hmmmm, judging by some of the posts on here no wonder it is so hard to get a meet with real couples b

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swing between those two terms depending on my mood and the weather

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

Yes we are ..and loving it x

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I dislike the attachment of labels but I do appreciate that they provide a common understanding.

So no today I’m not a swinger in the true sense of the word because I’m a single women hooking up with others for fun, sex, and perhaps a deeper emotional relationship if I get lucky. If that happens and we both have sex with other people then I would describe myself as a swinger.

V x

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Well given Google refers to a swinger as:

informal

a lively and fashionable person who goes to a lot of social events.

"one of the oldest swingers in town"

informal

a person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.

"a twilight world of swingers and wife-swapping"

And it refers to it as A PERSON then yes I am

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

The old fashioned term used to be wife swapping, in a literal way. Now swinging incorporates all sorts of different scenarios, so I think anyone who interacts sexually with other people, are swingers.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"The old fashioned term used to be wife swapping, in a literal way. Now swinging incorporates all sorts of different scenarios, so I think anyone who interacts sexually with other people, are swingers.

So universities are just giant swinging clubs then?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

So universities are just giant swinging clubs then?"

They could be, I've never been

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

So universities are just giant swinging clubs then?"

I should have said, people who meet through these sites or at swinging clubs

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