FabSwingers.com forum: Am I saying something wrong?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been here a while and I have to say that I see alot of people online in my area but it happens all the time that my messages ars ignore, deleted, get blocke or all of the above together.

I start of with saying hi,asking how are things, maybe try some conversation like how I like the pictures or talking about the status they left.

Any advices?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Change your avatar pic.

It might just be us but we check profiles before reading messages. If the avatar is a cock pic we don't even look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change your avatar pic.

It might just be us but we check profiles before reading messages. If the avatar is a cock pic we don't even look."

I agree with this. If someone only has a picture of their dick, i have no interest in knowing more about that person, unfortunately. It already tells me all i need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics always get a reaction

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Cock pics always get a reaction

Cock pics are fine, we wouldn't meet a guy without seeing one but as an avatar pic it suggests that it is the most important thing about the person.

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

Few spelling mistakes in your profile blurb. I'm not grammar police, and I'm guessing they're typos, but there are lots that will mark you down for it as it can show lack of effort/attention to detail. You may not want to start with I'm not good at this, and try a more positive angle. A little humour always helps too.

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Your profile text actually doesn't say much.

Your profile pic is a cock, your only public image is a cock.

I wouldn't reply either unless you sent a stellar message with photos attached that aren't your cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We delete messages from pictures of cocks I’m afraid. It tells us that the man doesn’t really understand women sexually if that’s his starting point.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cock pics always get a reaction

Cock pics are fine, we wouldn't meet a guy without seeing one but as an avatar pic it suggests that it is the most important thing about the person."

Not everyone can have a face pic avatar, so what would people prefer to see?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"I've been here a while and I have to say that I see alot of people online in my area but it happens all the time that my messages ars ignore, deleted, get blocke or all of the above together.

I start of with saying hi,asking how are things, maybe try some conversation like how I like the pictures or talking about the status they left.

Any advices?"

The hi, how are You, like your pictures messages might be the problem....can't give you a winning formula but we receive those messages from 90% of the guys that contact us so it doesn't stand out. Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only pic is your cock. Profile tells us bugger all except you didn't use spellcheck.

If someone messages me with a cock as their profile picture it'd be instantly deleted.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Change your avatar pic.

It might just be us but we check profiles before reading messages. If the avatar is a cock pic we don't even look."

Totally this. Dick profile pics are as bad as no profile pic in our book and get an instant ignore.

The missus is looking for guys she fancies, not just a cock. Every guy has a cock.

Of course, if your cock is the best part of you and you're a fugly with a horrible body perhaps you're limited in what you can show;-)

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"We delete messages from pictures of cocks I’m afraid. It tells us that the man doesn’t really understand women sexually if that’s his starting point.

Mrs"

This is absolutely on the money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cock pics always get a reaction

Cock pics are fine, we wouldn't meet a guy without seeing one but as an avatar pic it suggests that it is the most important thing about the person.

Not everyone can have a face pic avatar, so what would people prefer to see? "

A top less body picture maybe a good start as an avatar. Maybe a full length body shot but with his back turned will give you a good idea of his body shape. There has to be more than one picture as well and by that I don't mean the same picture twice.

I like a well dressed man so a fully clothed picture will watch ny eye.. especially if he's wearing jeans.. a fitted tucked in shirt and a belt to finish off.. Oooft !

OP - Cock pics are unremarkable. This may come as a surprise to most men but they're not the be all and end all of attraction.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"...I like a well dressed man so a fully clothed picture will watch ny eye.. especially if he's wearing jeans.. a fitted tucked in shirt and a belt to finish off.. Oooft!... "

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cock pics always get a reaction

Cock pics are fine, we wouldn't meet a guy without seeing one but as an avatar pic it suggests that it is the most important thing about the person.

Not everyone can have a face pic avatar, so what would people prefer to see? "

Not wishing to give an anatomy and physiology lesson, but I think a man had a variety of body parts to choose from, not just a cock or a face

Mrs

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

All of the above is great advice OP

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cock pics always get a reaction

Cock pics are fine, we wouldn't meet a guy without seeing one but as an avatar pic it suggests that it is the most important thing about the person.

Not everyone can have a face pic avatar, so what would people prefer to see?

Exactly, I much prefer a pic of a guy fully dressed, even if the face is covered. When I look at a guy in public it’s the whole package that draws me in, not his dick. That’s the exciting destination lol

Not wishing to give an anatomy and physiology lesson, but I think a man had a variety of body parts to choose from, not just a cock or a face

Mrs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cock pics always get a reaction

Cock pics are fine, we wouldn't meet a guy without seeing one but as an avatar pic it suggests that it is the most important thing about the person.

Not everyone can have a face pic avatar, so what would people prefer to see?

Not wishing to give an anatomy and physiology lesson, but I think a man had a variety of body parts to choose from, not just a cock or a face

Mrs"

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Change your avatar pic.

It might just be us but we check profiles before reading messages. If the avatar is a cock pic we don't even look."

This totally,I even state it in my profile ,not that it's read lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have changed my profile pic after this thread. Is this newer one more acceptable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have changed my profile pic after this thread. Is this newer one more acceptable? "

Would be better if it was a recent pic.. not a few years old. That’s just me. Had too many bad experiences with guys using old pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have changed my profile pic after this thread. Is this newer one more acceptable? "

Yes it’s fine, as was your previous avatar showing you in underpants. Nobody has criticised your previous avatar.

Mrs

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By *anandLeia72Couple
over a year ago

St. Helens

"Cock pics always get a reaction

Cock pics are fine, we wouldn't meet a guy without seeing one but as an avatar pic it suggests that it is the most important thing about the person.

Not everyone can have a face pic avatar, so what would people prefer to see? "

Weve never had a face pic avatar, not even on our old profile. Get creative. If much prefer a nice ass in nice underwear or a torso. Cock pics for avatars also put us off too unless done in a very attractive way.

Leia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get all the negative comments about avatar cock pics? I've had one for years and never struggle getting meet? Some like them some don't the same as everything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've still managed 4 meets more than me though OP!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you very much,

Im here trying to figure out what i've done wrong when its clear as day that everything gotta be fixed. Really does help using the Forum.

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