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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Oh lord

Did I fall asleep and wake up in the 19th century.

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By *tothetMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

And how dare they vote as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quite happy just fucking people to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just being honest .....I think most men complain on here about being blocked etc ...cos they are messaging another guy pretending to be female/couple and showing off pics of his unsuspecting wife/gf !!!!!!!....

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By *il.redCouple
over a year ago

ashford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being honest .....I think most men complain on here about being blocked etc ...cos they are messaging another guy pretending to be female/couple and showing off pics of his unsuspecting wife/gf !!!!!!!...."

That’s not why men get blocked....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause some of us aren't looking to date or have a relationship

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Bugger.....and I thought I was on here because I enjoy sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bugger.....and I thought I was on here because I enjoy sex "

Another fake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are liberated these days. Why can they just not have sex without commitment.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Bugger.....and I thought I was on here because I enjoy sex

Another fake! "

And here. I must be a man too. Fuck me I never knew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being honest .....I think most men complain on here about being blocked etc ...cos they are messaging another guy pretending to be female/couple and showing off pics of his unsuspecting wife/gf !!!!!!!...."

The men I block tend to be coarse, crude and have little in the way of social skills.

Oh, and then there's the general lack of sexual experience.

Screaming sexism is often a factor too

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Bugger.....and I thought I was on here because I enjoy sex

Another fake! "

Damn....caught out...better go unlos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! Thanks for telling me what I want, coz I just didn’t have a clue...being just a mere woman who absolutely loves sex in ‘most’ forms and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure there many women that like sex with nsa .... what a silly quote from OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bugger.....and I thought I was on here because I enjoy sex

Another fake!

And here. I must be a man too. Fuck me I never knew. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being honest .....I think most men complain on here about being blocked etc ...cos they are messaging another guy pretending to be female/couple and showing off pics of his unsuspecting wife/gf !!!!!!!....

The men I block tend to be coarse, crude and have little in the way of social skills.

Oh, and then there's the general lack of sexual experience.

Screaming sexism is often a factor too"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

such a narrow minded view on woman to be honest there man, rethink what your doing on here with that kind of comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And how dare they vote as well"

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Bugger.....and I thought I was on here because I enjoy sex

Another fake!

And here. I must be a man too. Fuck me I never knew. "

Wait! Who WAS that person I met at Remix then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are we all doing out of the kitchen anyway????

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Bugger.....and I thought I was on here because I enjoy sex

Another fake!

And here. I must be a man too. Fuck me I never knew.

Wait! Who WAS that person I met at Remix then? "

God knows. A fake woman? Ps I’m going this Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not most ladies.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"What are we all doing out of the kitchen anyway???? "

I'm doing his ironing at the moment then I have socks to darn.....then I suppose I had better give him his conjugal right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m trying to stick up for genuine women / couples on here !!!...what I’m saying is I personally think a lot of single ladies / couples profiles are really guys pretending....that’s why men are always moaning on here about having no success!!!!....no way am I getting at genuine people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bugger.....and I thought I was on here because I enjoy sex "

You're not a single lady though. Put your hand down

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Bugger.....and I thought I was on here because I enjoy sex

You're not a single lady though. Put your hand down "

Put it down where

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I’m trying to stick up for genuine women / couples on here !!!...what I’m saying is I personally think a lot of single ladies / couples profiles are really guys pretending....that’s why men are always moaning on here about having no success!!!!....no way am I getting at genuine people on here"

That is so not what you said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????"

Wow. I refer back to a previous thread about feminism....

This is why we need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m trying to stick up for genuine women / couples on here !!!...what I’m saying is I personally think a lot of single ladies / couples profiles are really guys pretending....that’s why men are always moaning on here about having no success!!!!....no way am I getting at genuine people on here"

Are you reading a different thread to the rest of us??? that’s not what you said at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What did I say then ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m trying to stick up for genuine women / couples on here !!!...what I’m saying is I personally think a lot of single ladies / couples profiles are really guys pretending....that’s why men are always moaning on here about having no success!!!!....no way am I getting at genuine people on here

Are you reading a different thread to the rest of us??? that’s not what you said at all"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m trying to stick up for genuine women / couples on here !!!...what I’m saying is I personally think a lot of single ladies / couples profiles are really guys pretending....that’s why men are always moaning on here about having no success!!!!....no way am I getting at genuine people on here

That is so not what you said. "

Nope. Its nowhere near what you said OP

As to men having little success, see my post above.

Alot are bloody clueless, to be frank

Both in and out of the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did I say then ??

"

It’s at the top. Scroll up and read it

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????"

Just to make it easy for you. This is what you said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did I say then ??

"

You are gonna need a bigger shovel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did I say then ??

"

The first line of your address,my lovely.

Go back and read it

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I’m trying to stick up for genuine women / couples on here !!!...what I’m saying is I personally think a lot of single ladies / couples profiles are really guys pretending....that’s why men are always moaning on here about having no success!!!!....no way am I getting at genuine people on here"

Whilst it's true that "some" single lady/couple's profiles are fake, I don't think that's the main reason "some" men moan about lack of success - they moan because they fail to see they approach the site wrongly and with false expectations and feel let down when they don't get anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck! I think I may have been doing this all wrong! Must've joined here by mistake when I tried to join Findahusbandyasadbinthowdareyoubesingleandhappy.com!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Meaning genuine women /couples on here are up against loads of fake profiles...and it will always be like that on a site like this...I’m not having a go at anybody...visit a swingers club etc...you meet genuine ladies/couples face to face...on a website you dont

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Saying “most ladies want more than sex” sounds more like an assumption than an actual fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pedal faster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meaning genuine women /couples on here are up against loads of fake profiles...and it will always be like that on a site like this...I’m not having a go at anybody...visit a swingers club etc...you meet genuine ladies/couples face to face...on a website you dont"

Please stop digging.......

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Jesus .... we have got the vote haven’t we ... I don’t want a relationship thank you ... 2 failed marriages and the love of my life dying ... think I’ve had my fill .,.,, life is wonderful being single thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I give up !!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meaning genuine women /couples on here are up against loads of fake profiles...and it will always be like that on a site like this...I’m not having a go at anybody...visit a swingers club etc...you meet genuine ladies/couples face to face...on a website you dont"

I've met plenty of men from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I give up !!!! Lol"

Suppose a fuck is out of the question then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you genuine tho ?????....only joking

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I give up !!!! Lol

Suppose a fuck is out of the question then "

Only if you promise to Marry him

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I give up !!!! Lol"

Scares easy. Must be a girl in disguise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At least it got everyone talking !!!!...men /women and who knows what

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By *razysexysingleWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Wow that backfired somewhat!!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I'm not most ladies. "

I'm not a lady.

I'm just here for the kinky fucked up shit

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By *unninglinguist600Man
over a year ago

belfast


"What are we all doing out of the kitchen anyway???? "

Carefull op will have you barefoot as well in the kitchen.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I'm not most ladies.

I'm not a lady.

I'm just here for the kinky fucked up shit "

And I know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huh??!!! Really OP....I can't believe you are asking such a question. Maybe us single ladies should just head off to the local nunnery...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When in a hole, stop digging ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having sex and dating is not and never will be swinging.

Owners of this site will take your money, but this site has lost its original focus.

Can’t blame them but swingers site it is not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having sex and dating is not and never will be swinging.

Owners of this site will take your money, but this site has lost its original focus.

Can’t blame them but swingers site it is not.

"

I use this site for swinging, as do many, many others.

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

Between threads like this, Brexit and Tommy Robinson supporters I've come to the sad realisation that much of Britain is as thick as mince.

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By *tothetMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

I feel mate you may be a bit of a tit and that's why you get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having sex and dating is not and never will be swinging.

Owners of this site will take your money, but this site has lost its original focus.

Can’t blame them but swingers site it is not.

I use this site for swinging, as do many, many others."

Single people swinging = oxymoron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having sex and dating is not and never will be swinging.

Owners of this site will take your money, but this site has lost its original focus.

Can’t blame them but swingers site it is not.

I use this site for swinging, as do many, many others.

Single people swinging = oxymoron"

But what if two singles join forces and swing as a couple?

Also the high demand for single men for MMF and ladies for MFF, I think this site would severely struggle without singles.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I just presumed they were all on here to meet guys like me, if they want more than sex I'll happily let them make me a sandwich.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having sex and dating is not and never will be swinging.

Owners of this site will take your money, but this site has lost its original focus.

Can’t blame them but swingers site it is not.

"

This...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are we all doing out of the kitchen anyway???? "

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????"

I heard a crazy rumour recently that some women actually enjoy sex, and others can even have orgasms!

I don't believe it myself.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Having sex and dating is not and never will be swinging.

Owners of this site will take your money, but this site has lost its original focus.

Can’t blame them but swingers site it is not.

I use this site for swinging, as do many, many others.

Single people swinging = oxymoron"

Ooops quick singles. The swinging police are out deciding how it should be done. Fuck me.... a single woman, not fake, likes swinging (but apparently I’m not allowed).

What’s a girl to do

Vx

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????

I heard a crazy rumour recently that some women actually enjoy sex, and others can even have orgasms!

I don't believe it myself."

If you would be willing to lend me your woman for the evening I will be happy to put this rumour to the test.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????"

I want more than sex but I want a swinging relationship, how so I approach that on a dating site? I’ve tried and not found anyone willing to try so trying my luck here also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my goodness.

Clearly I would have responded earlier but I was doing the laundry, baking some cookies and preparing tomorrow’s homework project for the small humans.

There’s quite a bit more to Fab fun than a leg over OP, and even us damned fillies can find some fun and frippery along the way.

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I’m trying to stick up for genuine women / couples on here !!!...what I’m saying is I personally think a lot of single ladies / couples profiles are really guys pretending....that’s why men are always moaning on here about having no success!!!!....no way am I getting at genuine people on here

Are you reading a different thread to the rest of us??? that’s not what you said at all

"

*Looks down at self* ah right that's where I've been going wrong I'm actually a single male.

Who knew! I'm fake!

*Rolls eyes*

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Many women just want fun and in my experience lots of men look for more ,even on here .

Why not just let people get on with what works for them .

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"What are we all doing out of the kitchen anyway???? "

Exactly. There won’t be much washing up and ironing getting done if these women are all having sex.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????"

Does that go for single men as well? I originally joined here for threesomes and parties,done that so now my needs have changed and I am looking for more. Preferably a bi guy for bi mmf's it's a bit hard to state that on dating site's.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ..."

Haha I totally agree, in my opinion most women DO want a relationship, far more than men - don't listen to all these ne'ersayers.

Of course there will be some that don't, and they will naturally gravitate somewhere like here, but I bet you even so it's not the majority, even on a swinging site.

So why do women who want a relationship end up here?? Because the dating sites are actually full of losers and sheisters pretending they want a relationship in order to con women into casual sex, or even just a phone wank, and so many of us have given up and just come to a site like this looking for fwb/fb 'meanwhile' because we don't want to do without sex, and we want it to be decent sex. You can talk about what you want and check out the goods much more openly on fab, it's all a bit taboo on dating sites, so you're going in blind as it were lol! I had some totally rubbish sex off dating sites!

Oh and newsflash folks - most women want a fb/fwb because that IS a relationship of some kind, there is familiarity and continuity even if there is not commitment or monogamy.

In my experience fab is a much better place to find fwb/fb.

The single women who want sex with as many random strangers as possible are very few IMO, there are far more men in that category.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand where the OP is coming from, but I would extend his question to single men too. I too have often wondered why this site is often considered better than dating sites in the pursuit of one-to-one nsa sex. When I was single I used dating sites for nsa fun. Would I have had a more fruitful experience if I had used a swingers site instead? I’ve no idea, but I think it’s an interesting question the OP asks.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you ....at last someone’s not taken it the wrong way and been over sensitive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you ....at last someone’s not taken it the wrong way and been over sensitive"

Over sensitive? Hilarious!

People were responding to the words you wrote OP.

Words that you have still yet to clarify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you ....at last someone’s not taken it the wrong way and been over sensitive"

Why was your OP directed at single women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Clarify !!!!....people must understand it the way they are going off ...u included

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because single women is what most people on here are trying to meet....just making people aware of fake /dodgy profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here cos I don't want a relationship. or am I a man. who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clarify !!!!....people must understand it the way they are going off ...u included "

As a single woman who wants sex without commitment fabswingers is perfect for me .

The reason men get blocked (the ones who message me i may add ) are flipping idiots! !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because single women is what most people on here are trying to meet....just making people aware of fake /dodgy profiles"

I'm confused by this. Are you saying that the women on here are fake, because all women really want a relationship, so therefore would not be on a swinging site? But dating ones?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You are probably genuine...good luck to you ......but it’s my opinion that a lot of ladies /Cpls profiles are men pretending....that’s all....why do so many meets fall through at last minute...???....cos they are not who they say they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because single women is what most people on here are trying to meet....just making people aware of fake /dodgy profiles

I'm confused by this. Are you saying that the women on here are fake, because all women really want a relationship, so therefore would not be on a swinging site? But dating ones? "

Im confused too OP

Perhaps you could clarify further?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m trying to stick up for genuine women / couples on here !!!...what I’m saying is I personally think a lot of single ladies / couples profiles are really guys pretending....that’s why men are always moaning on here about having no success!!!!....no way am I getting at genuine people on here"

So all the people that have met them and written them verifications are fake as well and fab is just one big conspiracy??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn’t say all women.....a lot...not all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are probably genuine...good luck to you ......but it’s my opinion that a lot of ladies /Cpls profiles are men pretending....that’s all....why do so many meets fall through at last minute...???....cos they are not who they say they are"

It happens to us women also. People who bottle it or are all talk. There are fakes on most sites, you just need to be more savvy and maybe change the way you have contact leading up to a meet. I only meet people that I’ve chatted to via phone or text, that way I know them much better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The percentage of actual meets to how many people are online is very small I bet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP is asking why single ladies choose to look for fun on a swingers site as opposed to a dating site. No doubt there will be plenty of valid reasons why women make this choice, and that would make an interesting discussion. But I don’t understand why that question is offensive. He also makes a statement that most single ladies want more than sex. People can disagree with that statement, but it’s not an offensive statement surely? He is also asking if most single female profiles are fake. I think we have all seen many forum threads discussing and warning people about men posing as women, so again I’m uncertain why that is an offensive question.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The percentage of actual meets to how many people are online is very small I bet....."

Some of us are very fussy and won’t meet just anyone. Some people do very well and have lots of fun. We are all looking for something different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP is asking why single ladies choose to look for fun on a swingers site as opposed to a dating site. No doubt there will be plenty of valid reasons why women make this choice, and that would make an interesting discussion. But I don’t understand why that question is offensive. He also makes a statement that most single ladies want more than sex. People can disagree with that statement, but it’s not an offensive statement surely? He is also asking if most single female profiles are fake. I think we have all seen many forum threads discussing and warning people about men posing as women, so again I’m uncertain why that is an offensive question.

Mrs

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It’s the way he asked I guess. It was as clear as mud to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t say all women.....a lot...not all"

If you made original comment to get noticed you succeeded.

Are you a pic stealer ?

Are you really a woman .?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP is asking why single ladies choose to look for fun on a swingers site as opposed to a dating site. No doubt there will be plenty of valid reasons why women make this choice, and that would make an interesting discussion. But I don’t understand why that question is offensive. He also makes a statement that most single ladies want more than sex. People can disagree with that statement, but it’s not an offensive statement surely? He is also asking if most single female profiles are fake. I think we have all seen many forum threads discussing and warning people about men posing as women, so again I’m uncertain why that is an offensive question.

Mrs

It’s the way he asked I guess. It was as clear as mud to start with. "

Well I’m either thick skinned as woman, or I give people the benefit of the doubt when something comes badly with the written word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The percentage of actual meets to how many people are online is very small I bet....."

Primarily because there are far fewer women on here than men, OP. Some men will get meets. Some won't. I agree that there a lot of fake female profiles on here. Also couples profiles where there is only a male masquerading as a couple. Over time you'll be able to spot the red flags. You do need to also understand that women are capable of having NSA sex. In fact, even sex with strings are an option for some, even on fab. I wouldn't write a woman off, and assume she's fake, just because she's on here. We do exist OP. There's just less of us than men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look on here because men are ashamed to be looking for sex on a site like this and so will be more likely to be discreet.

An ashamed man won't be admitting to his mates that he fucked some slag of a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The percentage of actual meets to how many people are online is very small I bet....."
Are you suggesting that they are here just for a chat and not to meet? I’ll like to say I’ve met some nice ones off here and chatted to a few that I might meet in the future.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Classy swingers.....thank you....seems I’ve stirred a hornets nest....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judgeing from what I’ve learnt on the forums there are a huge amount of fake female and couple profiles. Are most female profiles fake? Maybe. Maybe not. None of us really know what percentage of female profiles are real and what are fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????"

Most dating sites are full of men asking for a fuck. I am only looking for sex xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am really a female and single XXX

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????"

I’ve news for you. There are some lovely single ladies on here. I know this to be true as I have met some of them.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

From my experience the majority are very discerning about who they meet and are wanting far more than just sex but not a full relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????

I’ve news for you. There are some lovely single ladies on here. I know this to be true as I have met some of them. "

He wasn’t disputing that that there aren’t lovely genuine ladies here. He was asking if most female profiles are fake. The answer to that nobody knows and can only speculate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my experience the majority are very discerning about who they meet and are wanting far more than just sex but not a full relationship. "

And that is probably why he asked the question why these ladies, who are looking for more than sex, choose to find it from a swingers site and not a dating site. Many have given their reasons, but it’s not an unreasonable question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my experience the majority are very discerning about who they meet and are wanting far more than just sex but not a full relationship.

And that is probably why he asked the question why these ladies, who are looking for more than sex, choose to find it from a swingers site and not a dating site. Many have given their reasons, but it’s not an unreasonable question. "

I think it's a very good question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare you ladies just enjoy sex

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee


"What are we all doing out of the kitchen anyway???? "
came out to take my man's coat and shoes off and give him his slippers

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Because single women is what most people on here are trying to meet....just making people aware of fake /dodgy profiles"
but a lot of the men are either pot ugly . ..live with there motheres or don't know how to talk to a woman so takes the numbers down .chances of getting a nice decent guy are slim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi single ladies in london i accom and travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????"

I'm single, a woman and not a man pretending on fab lol.

I'm here because I tried dating sites but became so tired of guys sending me dick pics or trying it on for sex. Even on a first date a guy shoved his hand up my dress.

Over and again dating turned into a disaster. I went into two relationships but one turned out to be a violent man who attacked me infront of my son. He was a hard working professional man whereas no one could tell what kind of man he really was. Behind closed doors was a different story.

I felt dragged down by all the effort in dating so gave up. Two of my friends told me about Fab. Considering I miss male company and abit of the other , FAB seemed the perfect choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because single women is what most people on here are trying to meet....just making people aware of fake /dodgy profilesbut a lot of the men are either pot ugly . ..live with there motheres or don't know how to talk to a woman so takes the numbers down .chances of getting a nice decent guy are slim"

Haha this is fab to a T from my experiences. Most of the guys I've met have looked little like their photos or live with mummy / friends/ wifey.

One even filtered his dick pic to the max. Now I wasn't hoping for massive but no way was his dick as big in person as he showed it to be within his photos. Can't believe some guys do that lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m quite happy just fucking people to be honest "

Makes a change from the rest of the time wasters on the site then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m trying to stick up for genuine women / couples on here !!!...what I’m saying is I personally think a lot of single ladies / couples profiles are really guys pretending....that’s why men are always moaning on here about having no success!!!!....no way am I getting at genuine people on here"

I'm not a guy pretending, and prefer this to conventional dating sites because I find it easier and more straightforward

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I’m trying to stick up for genuine women / couples on here !!!...what I’m saying is I personally think a lot of single ladies / couples profiles are really guys pretending....that’s why men are always moaning on here about having no success!!!!....no way am I getting at genuine people on here

I'm not a guy pretending, and prefer this to conventional dating sites because I find it easier and more straightforward "

Hmm...could you give me a minute to run some tests. There may be some doubt regarding your authenticity...

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Can’t imagine owt worse than a dating site.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

The blokes on dating sites only e we wanted sex anyway and a lot would lie through their teeth to get it

At least here you know that's what they've come for off the bat

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"The blokes on dating sites only e we wanted sex anyway and a lot would lie through their teeth to get it

At least here you know that's what they've come for off the bat

"

Yes. This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The blokes on dating sites only e we wanted sex anyway and a lot would lie through their teeth to get it

At least here you know that's what they've come for off the bat

"

very true the only similarity is the hounding of cock pics haha!!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

The blokes on dating sites only e we wanted sex anyway and a lot would lie through their teeth to get it

At least here you know that's what they've come for off the bat

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By *hilipepperWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What are we all doing out of the kitchen anyway???? "

can't believe some men actually hold views like this

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????"
. If woman didn't come on sites like this .who would u men message ...wouldn't need a swinging site if it was just men

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm at a strange place in my life, I am looking for more than just sex, however I joined a dating site of late and men's social skills are as shocking on there as it is here

Not quite sure where I fit just now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at a strange place in my life, I am looking for more than just sex, however I joined a dating site of late and men's social skills are as shocking on there as it is here

Not quite sure where I fit just now "

this site is a lot better than the dating sites,it’s a case of finding the right people for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????. If woman didn't come on sites like this .who would u men message ...wouldn't need a swinging site if it was just men "

Couples maybe

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"From my experience the majority are very discerning about who they meet and are wanting far more than just sex but not a full relationship. "

Yay! There’s a guy that gets it! . Well done that man and my sentiments entirely

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

The ‘dating’ site I used throws up some of the most boring (but not all I hasten to add!) men and those in my age group look 10/15 years older and are there for kicks more than anything

Fab is a fun place, some great sexy men here with superb mindset. It suits my needs at present, it’s addictive, I can chose who I do or don’t see and most important NO DRAMA!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????"

I want more than sex!

I want fucking fantastic sex.

And if there were no single ladies here. The site would take a dip. Think about it. Unless you were a couple wanting another couple/single male, there wouldn't be much else going on.

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????. If woman didn't come on sites like this .who would u men message ...wouldn't need a swinging site if it was just men

Couples maybe "

ha ha then it should just be a couples only site

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"The ‘dating’ site I used throws up some of the most boring (but not all I hasten to add!) men and those in my age group look 10/15 years older and are there for kicks more than anything

Fab is a fun place, some great sexy men here with superb mindset. "

Yes, I've got 10 intro messages in my inbox on POF and none of them appeal...the latest starts with 'Oh my goodness where have you been all my life.......'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t help thinking why would a single lady look for fun on a swinging site like fabswingers ???...most ladies want more than sex ..and I don’t blame them ...so surely they would be better on normal dating sites ??...unless most single ladies / couples profiles are really blokes pretending ?????????"

Im happy with nsa sex i dont want to date or a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ‘dating’ site I used throws up some of the most boring (but not all I hasten to add!) men and those in my age group look 10/15 years older and are there for kicks more than anything

Fab is a fun place, some great sexy men here with superb mindset.

Yes, I've got 10 intro messages in my inbox on POF and none of them appeal...the latest starts with 'Oh my goodness where have you been all my life.......' "

I left POF when they made the decision to only allow people 10 years younger to 10 years older to message. I don't do older and both my regular partners are more than 10 years younger than me.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"The ‘dating’ site I used throws up some of the most boring (but not all I hasten to add!) men and those in my age group look 10/15 years older and are there for kicks more than anything

Fab is a fun place, some great sexy men here with superb mindset.

Yes, I've got 10 intro messages in my inbox on POF and none of them appeal...the latest starts with 'Oh my goodness where have you been all my life.......'

I left POF when they made the decision to only allow people 10 years younger to 10 years older to message. I don't do older and both my regular partners are more than 10 years younger than me."

It's 15 years!! I lost a whole inbox full overnight lol, but they just set up new profiles with a false age half the time anyway!

Got bored of puppies anyway.....

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"The ‘dating’ site I used throws up some of the most boring (but not all I hasten to add!) men and those in my age group look 10/15 years older and are there for kicks more than anything

Fab is a fun place, some great sexy men here with superb mindset.

Yes, I've got 10 intro messages in my inbox on POF and none of them appeal...the latest starts with 'Oh my goodness where have you been all my life.......' "

That’s the one

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"The ‘dating’ site I used throws up some of the most boring (but not all I hasten to add!) men and those in my age group look 10/15 years older and are there for kicks more than anything

Fab is a fun place, some great sexy men here with superb mindset.

Yes, I've got 10 intro messages in my inbox on POF and none of them appeal...the latest starts with 'Oh my goodness where have you been all my life.......'

I left POF when they made the decision to only allow people 10 years younger to 10 years older to message. I don't do older and both my regular partners are more than 10 years younger than me."

It’s a lousy dating site!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Pof deleted my sexy shoe pics as inappropriate lmao!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh lord

Did I fall asleep and wake up in the 19th century.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh lord

Did I fall asleep and wake up in the 19th century.

"

They wore lovely clothes back then.

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