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By *egasus Nob OP   Man
over a year ago

Merton

How do you feel about touchy feeling people when having a conversation rubbing on your arms and shoulder. I have known a couple of women who do this and think to myself does she not know she’s sending the wrong signal...or right signal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to the pick up videos on YouTube, a woman who incites physical contact is always interested. So maybe she isn't sending the wrong signals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a toucher lol. I like to connect on different levels, but if I don’t like, I don’t touch. So the more I like the more I touch. Does that make sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a toucher lol. I like to connect on different levels, but if I don’t like, I don’t touch. So the more I like the more I touch. Does that make sense. "

That makes total sense (he said, reaching slowly forward and holding her gently by the arm)

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By *egasus Nob OP   Man
over a year ago

Merton

I like it, i just see it as either showing interest or manipulating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a tendency to grab people's forearms when I get animated during a conversation. It isn't because I fancy them.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Some people I know are very touchy feely.. even to the same sex.. dont think there is something sexual behind it.. could be that touchy person is comfortable with the other persons company.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

It’s something I dislike although if someone is upset I always have a strong urge to pay there arm and say there there

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Touchy people creep me out. However, I think that’s more my issue than theirs. I don’t like being touched by people during conversation. Weird, I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate space invaders. People who invade your personal space during a conversation and breath and spittle all over you.

If you back off they just move closer....

Yeurghh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it. I'm an all or nothing kinda person when it comes to being touchy feely. If it's someone I want to be affectionate with then I can't get enough but if it's not then I have urges to cause them pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s something I dislike although if someone is upset I always have a strong urge to pay there arm and say there there "

I've a strong urge to come over all upset...can't think why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like being touched unless it’s someone i like touching me.

My old boss frequently used to stand behind me when he was giving me dictation and rest his hand on my shoulder.

In hindsight i should have ripped his hand off and smacked him across the face with it!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I’m a toucher lol. I like to connect on different levels, but if I don’t like, I don’t touch. So the more I like the more I touch. Does that make sense. "

Yup, if I touch someone or allow touch it is usually because I am open to them sexually at whatever level, even if just walking along with a friend brushing shoulders occasionally. If I am not open to them in some way, I never let that happen.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I hate space invaders. People who invade your personal space during a conversation and breath and spittle all over you.

If you back off they just move closer....

Yeurghh!!"

It's your animal magnetism...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if they are fit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate space invaders. People who invade your personal space during a conversation and breath and spittle all over you.

If you back off they just move closer....

Yeurghh!!"

Ha I nearly said "oh I quite liked those 10p crisps" but those were called space raiders.....aherm, anyway...back to the thread subject...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I flirt I'm quite touchy. I think that's quite lucky because it feels like I'm often on the same wavelength with women. None of this confusion on either side. I touch her. She touches me. Next we're kissing and we're off

When she's not into me the body language is as clear as day. So that helps clarify things too. I go to touch. She pulls away. Time to back off completely and ask if I'm interested in her as a friend.

I'd never touch in an inappropriate way or an inappropriate time. It's just a natural part of chilling out, laughing about something, and connecting

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