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By *Jcouplemidlands OP   Couple
over a year ago

Peak District

Hi everyone, we came into this lifestyle a few years ago. We said from the start that we just wanted to watch and be watched and we wouldnt ever do anything with anyone else, It didnt happen like that though haha

How has everyone else changed from when they started?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar situation here. We started out with three rules, now we’ve only got two.

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By *Jcouplemidlands OP   Couple
over a year ago

Peak District


"Similar situation here. We started out with three rules, now we’ve only got two. "

And what rule have you broken? Haha x

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

Ha ha - I’m intrigued as to what the rules were and now are..?

What did you drop..?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We were full swap now we're soft swap with kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started out rarher innocent, now I'm...erm...well not so innocent. Ok I'm damn filthy now but hey ho, it's great fun

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I started out rarher innocent, now I'm...erm...well not so innocent. Ok I'm damn filthy now but hey ho, it's great fun "

And so hot. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started out rarher innocent, now I'm...erm...well not so innocent. Ok I'm damn filthy now but hey ho, it's great fun

And so hot. Ms"

Thank you

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By *Jcouplemidlands OP   Couple
over a year ago

Peak District


"We were full swap now we're soft swap with kink."

Interesting! So you are the opposite of us haha

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Yes we started out with many restrictions, although we only break them for special people

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By *Jcouplemidlands OP   Couple
over a year ago

Peak District


"I started out rarher innocent, now I'm...erm...well not so innocent. Ok I'm damn filthy now but hey ho, it's great fun "

Certainly dont look innocent thats meant as a compliment by the way haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We came on looking for a voyeur to watch us....kinda didn't stop at him just looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We came on looking for a voyeur to watch us....kinda didn't stop at him just looking "

Tut tut...no willpower.....

Just like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I came on here I was looking for one thing from a crowd of people willing to do anything. I now realise I'm willing to do anything but looking at a crowd of people who don't want to do even one thing with me

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We started off with a huge list of no no’s , which gradually ( well not so gradually ) got smaller and smaller .

Now there’s just two things we won’t do and that’s bareback and anal . Pretty much anything else is a possibility or something we’ve done and would do again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think when new people come on here, they are looking for their unicorns. You have an idea of how they will look, their physique, their spelling habits.. (sorry in advance) their preferences, and their attitudes.

Then over time they either leave disappointed, or realise that they set some unrealistic standards.

Turning down someone that meets 7/10 of their want lists, yet maybe stumbling accross a 4/10 that happened to click and turned into one of their best meets.

You can stumble across someone, in say a pub. Initially you think - hmm ok, not great but not bad. Within half an hour you are - we need to get a room somewhere. There is just a connection.

I think online, you are more likely to want everything in place before a meet, and apart from takig out the spontaneity of a meet, it also can set it up for a bigger fall if it doesn't meet woth expectations..

I've forgotten what the question was now...

Ohh, and a good memory helps as well...

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

I used to think id travel hours & miles for a meet

If im not in bed by 10 with a cocoa i come home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was like a kid in a candy shop, when i initially joined, 5 years ago. Private Parties, swinging clubs, threesomes etc. Now I'm a boring old fart who rarely meets

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We didn't so much have rules, more that we wouldn't do things that we hadn't discussed in a lot of detail first. We're still not exactly throwing caution to the wind but we will try things out on the spur of the moment.

I think we've built up enough trust together that we know the other can call a stop to things if it gets uncomfortable.

I suppose one rule we've broken is that we were never interested in single guys. Now they seem to feature in our club visits as much as couples I don't think we'll venture all the way to full swap territory but soft play is proving to be a lot of fun Watching Steph wanking two cocks is quite the sight to behold

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