FabSwingers.com forum: slut/slag

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

would any woman actually classify themselves as a slut/slag.. or is his grossly offensive

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's grossly offensive to me. Other women may feel differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offensive here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not keen but in some situations I’ve let it slide. Say it to me in normal everyday life and that’s going to end badly

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By *ay slut for useMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Im a gay slag.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Not offensive to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't classify myself as a slut at all, but I don't mind the term being used in private in the right scenario, with the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've seen some pictures in here where it's written in permanent marker all over the girls body.

Humiliation / degradation is a kink, porn has heavily assisted that but irl it's a probably a small minority whom enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being called slut in a sexy situation, it's a mild kind of dom/sub thing I guess.

Different connotations though... slut to me describes how you are with one person while slag has more of a promiscuous sense. I don't like being called that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like slut personally but I am very into that side of kink! Slag sounds more gross/common/trashy to me though so I’m really not a fan...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My man can call me his slut. That's fine but if another guy called me a slut he would get a punch on his nose

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not words I like in general conversation BUT in the right situation and if all agreed then it would be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mrs would absolutely hate that word being used to describe her, I think any meet would be ended right away if a guy wanted to call her names like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is offensive unless is a play.

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By *un in WorcesterMan
over a year ago

Worcester

It is not only what you say but how you say it. Text is also very different to spoken word, all the subtle nuances are gone in a text message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is offensive unless is a play."

basically know your female... freak in the sheets lady in the streets

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By *OCKDUDE1Man
over a year ago

TROWBRIDGE/BRISTOL

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By *OCKDUDE1Man
over a year ago

TROWBRIDGE/BRISTOL

"would any woman actually classify themselves as a slut/slag.. or is his grossly offensive"

It's just an offensive word. All it means is a person who likes a lot of sex with more than 1 person. men get called "heroes" while women are labelled "sluts" there is nothing wrong with women or men wanting to do this but women are bashed for it with a grubby sounding word! In the bedroom, a lot of women would like to hear it, just like they like to be controlled by a guy in the bedroom....this however very rearly extends to outside the bedroom! Not many women actually want a controlling boyfriend who thinks she's a slut! lol

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By *aria_aldershotTV/TS
over a year ago

Aldershot

I dont mind it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would earn you a kick in the plums from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where it’s said and who by:

With a meet I know it’s fine and I actually love it.

A bloke I’ve just met it would make me question his attitude to women depending on how it was said.

Joe Bloggs in the street - he’d get a smack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm neither. And quickest way to ensure we never speak, let alone meet, is to address me as either in an opening message.

But some ladies like being called it.

To each their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm neither. And quickest way to ensure we never speak, let alone meet, is to address me as either in an opening message.

But some ladies like being called it.

To each their own. "

Lol yes. In an opening message that would be a definite candidate for the bin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when my hubby calls me his dirty little slut. But only he can get away with it haha xx

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over a year ago

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"would any woman actually classify themselves as a slut/slag.. or is his grossly offensive"

I’m a fan of neither and would find both offensive!

I do, however, love some other terminology which suggests that I might be a little more adventurous than the norm!

I would term myself as a ‘Strumpet’ - it rolls off the tongue and round the mouth so well - don’t you think?

A lot of the old English words are so much nicer and richer than the modern equivalents, don’t you think?

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

Surely whatever words are said behind closed doors with the consent and enjoyment of both parties is totally fine ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"would any woman actually classify themselves as a slut/slag.. or is his grossly offensive

I’m a fan of neither and would find both offensive!

I do, however, love some other terminology which suggests that I might be a little more adventurous than the norm!

I would term myself as a ‘Strumpet’ - it rolls off the tongue and round the mouth so well - don’t you think?

A lot of the old English words are so much nicer and richer than the modern equivalents, don’t you think?

I quite like floozy and wench : )

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm sort of OK with it, after all it was me that created my username

It's all about context - the relationship you have with someone, how and where it's used etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a big difference between the label and the behaviour.

Lots of ladies like to act slutty and sleazy as part of play and lots of guys enjoy it when they do, but that does not make them sluts.

I'd only call a lady a slut or slag if it was an important part of play for her. She would have to initiate it.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"would any woman actually classify themselves as a slut/slag.. or is his grossly offensive

I’m a fan of neither and would find both offensive!

I do, however, love some other terminology which suggests that I might be a little more adventurous than the norm!

I would term myself as a ‘Strumpet’ - it rolls off the tongue and round the mouth so well - don’t you think?

A lot of the old English words are so much nicer and richer than the modern equivalents, don’t you think?

I quite like floozy and wench : ) "

Other good choices - and a friend of mine likes ‘trollop’!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a lady and she loves me whispering it in her ear sends her over the edge ever time took me ages though to say it not a word I like to use

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Surely whatever words are said behind closed doors with the consent and enjoyment of both parties is totally fine ?

Of course!

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

"Surely whatever words are said behind closed doors with the consent and enjoyment of both parties is totally fine ?

Of course!

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Colnbrook Heathrow

My username has slut on it

If you met me, you would never guess

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

The one and only word I can't abide.. Slag

Growing up in a mining village, Slag is the unwanted leftover waste.

Worst insult you could ever use near me.

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I prefer the old fashioned definition of slut. And as someone who uses the hoover to hang coats on and doesn't own a duster...then I suppose I'm a slut too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me xx learnt my lesson x I much prefer the loving ways I get now xx Sue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ms whore sees herself exactly as her name suggests, I'm happy to encourage that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer the old fashioned definition of slut. And as someone who uses the hoover to hang coats on and doesn't own a duster...then I suppose I'm a slut too!"

I love the Pepys quote

https://www.etymonline.com/word/slut

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

"My man can call me his slut. That's fine but if another guy called me a slut he would get a punch on his nose "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to be called a slut during sex

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"I prefer the old fashioned definition of slut. And as someone who uses the hoover to hang coats on and doesn't own a duster...then I suppose I'm a slut too!

I love the Pepys quote

https://www.etymonline.com/word/slut"

So my sons are sluts too!!!

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By *anandLeia72Couple
over a year ago

St. Helens

I don't mind slut, my hubby calls me that, but usually within a certain context. There's a photo where he's written it across my ass but I had been a very naughty girl that week. The word slag makes me shudder. Not quite sure why, perhaps because it was used so much when I was at school as a derogatory name for girls, usually because they were sexually active and, therefore by default, classed as being promiscuous.

Leia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind slut, my hubby calls me that, but usually within a certain context. There's a photo where he's written it across my ass but I had been a very naughty girl that week. The word slag makes me shudder. Not quite sure why, perhaps because it was used so much when I was at school as a derogatory name for girls, usually because they were sexually active and, therefore by default, classed as being promiscuous.

Leia "

I think they are completely different words. Slut to me is all about sexuality and said by the right person at the right time can drive me wild. Slag to me just means someone who will fuck anyone indiscriminately.

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By *n_thy_kneesMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

"I like slut personally but I am very into that side of kink! Slag sounds more gross/common/trashy to me though so I’m really not a fan...

This

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

I quite enjoy being a slut

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm neither and wouldn't be pleased if someone called me one

However some appear to like it judging by usernames etc.

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Leia

So is a slag heap a load of waste from a steel works or an orgy waiting for ne to turn up?

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I actually enjoy being a slut from time to time and like being called one too....when I'm being slutty, that is.

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

offensive to me. hollie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs doesn’t mind slut in a sexy scenario, but never slag!

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"I don't classify myself as a slut at all, but I don't mind the term being used in private in the right scenario, with the right person. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to call myself a slag..I used to be a slag..I loved it..just a word...nothing see here

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Detest them.

Anyone who called me a slut who soon realise their mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone is different and some hate it some love it and some only like it during sex so it differs person depending and the circumstances too.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"would any woman actually classify themselves as a slut/slag.. or is his grossly offensive"

I've seen loads refer to themselves as such. They're not for me but each to their own and we all like variety. World would be boring as anyting if we were all the same.

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

i think there is a big difference between a slut and a slag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think there is a big difference between a slut and a slag"

Explain.

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman
over a year ago

London

I like slut...

Slag to mean sounds like something ‘English ladz’ would say, so I don’t like it.

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"i think there is a big difference between a slut and a slag

Explain."

i kind of see a slag as a girl who gets used by loads of guys for the guys pleasure, a slut i would say is a woman who uses guys for her own pleasure

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"I like slut...

Slag to mean sounds like something ‘English ladz’ would say, so I don’t like it."

i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Met a few sluts here... I mean when visiting their place, it was just a mess and very untidy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"would any woman actually classify themselves as a slut/slag.. or is his grossly offensive

I’m a fan of neither and would find both offensive!

I do, however, love some other terminology which suggests that I might be a little more adventurous than the norm!

I would term myself as a ‘Strumpet’ - it rolls off the tongue and round the mouth so well - don’t you think?

A lot of the old English words are so much nicer and richer than the modern equivalents, don’t you think?

I quite like floozy and wench : )

Other good choices - and a friend of mine likes ‘trollop’!

Yep, Trollop gets it, as does Slattern...doffs cap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love telling hubby that I’m his ‘dirty slut’. Just for fun and pleasure.

Slag, simply no just doesn’t have the same twang in his cockney accent

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"Love telling hubby that I’m his ‘dirty slut’. Just for fun and pleasure.

Slag, simply no just doesn’t have the same twang in his cockney accent

your hubby is a very lucky man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had random guys messaging me for the first time, using those words.. Soon brought out my Domme side!

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"I've had random guys messaging me for the first time, using those words.. Soon brought out my Domme side!

he is mental to use it with out knowing you, although your look and the thought of you being domme is a dream come true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had random guys messaging me for the first time, using those words.. Soon brought out my Domme side!

he is mental to use it with out knowing you, although your look and the thought of you being domme is a dream come true x

Haha thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My girlfriend loves being called a slut! And I love it when she's up to no good and being a naughty cheating slut.

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By *ffinfuntMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Is that how you perseve lady’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definitely not! Quite the opposite in fact!

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By *icouple BuxtonCouple
over a year ago

Buxton/Glossop

I love being called a slut.

It’s a massive turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being called a slut during sexy play, not sure about slag though.

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

I did say from the start, slag and slut are not the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to meet a slut. Don't think I want to meet a slag though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously my Slut takes no offence from being known as such

But it is very much a name we use at the right time and right place - she loves me referring to her that way - but only because it’s done with such affection.

If it was in a derogatory manner then that’s a whole different ball game

Personally though I don’t like the word slag in any situation

Each to their own though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a slag as wouldnt let just anyone shag me .... but for the right guy im all the slut he needs

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

exactly my point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"exactly my point"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think there is a big difference between a slut and a slag

Explain."

The old joke was, what’s the difference between a slut and a slag?

A slut will sleep with everyone, a slag will sleep with anyone but me.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

Yes but they don't know the meaning.

I see lots of profiles who say they are a slut cumsult whore slag. Then have no interest it in.

They just don't know what it really means

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By *isstemptressWoman
over a year ago

york

Love it when a guy calls me his dirty slut when fucking

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By *acey_smWoman
over a year ago

westmeath

All depends on who is calling me a slut and what the words actually means to them. The right person saying it can be such a turn on

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

There is a time, place and mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not offensive to me(H) .... i am one and i love it hehe

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By *ilthy fun bareCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

I like been a slut when having fun.

But not in the day job.... I even wear an anklet with the word slut. Most guys seem to like it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't classify myself as a slut at all, but I don't mind the term being used in private in the right scenario, with the right person. "

That's I always though. Well said xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like slut personally but I am very into that side of kink! Slag sounds more gross/common/trashy to me though so I’m really not a fan...

Straight on the hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the heat of the moment being called a slut would turn me on. Sitting having my dinner...Mr would be on his arse x

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By *oney1999Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Only my partner can call me slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being my husbands slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a submissive and only Sir has the right to call me slut. Im his slut the times I am submitting bit its a very special relationship we have if you read our profile and our statements of each other. I am offended when we get mail and someone refers to me as slut. Im submissive to one man only unless he shares me but that does not justify a stranger calling me a slut if he is the one wanting Sir to share me.

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By *irtyslag1000Woman
over a year ago

Darlington

I dont mind it

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

"I dont mind it

Are you sure

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By *urious and openmindedCouple
over a year ago

under the sea

Everyday use offensive

Kinky environments very horny

It has its time and place

But even then we use slut , slag just ain’t a nice word

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By *eepgliderMan
over a year ago

Chacewater

The problem is with meaning, given misuse in a negative way.

Example:

most of us here use cunt as literally referring what a lady has at the base of her torso / between her thighs.

Why something so nice has been misused for so long as "he's a ****!" mystifies most here and there is no explanation.

"Slut" should be for fun banter. "I had sex with seven different people at the swinging party" might get the cheerful chorus of "Slut!".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a gay slag. "
me too, no other way to describe an insatiable appetite for cock.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

"The one and only word I can't abide.. Slag

Growing up in a mining village, Slag is the unwanted leftover waste.

Worst insult you could ever use near me. "

Similar, there is even a slag lane in the village i grew up in. I did look there when younger, but non around

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