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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have had this happen to me at a couple of meets. When the lady doesn't like to kiss at a meet but just wants sex. Im quite passionate so i enjoy the kissing eliment as much as the sex so it's extremely difficult to have one without the other. I wonder if others have experienced this too??.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no playing for me

Mwah !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen this and generally avoid those that don’t kiss, it’s a huge part of sex for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the person.

I love kissing but I don't mind not kissing if I am only physically attracted to that person.

However, if I am facially and intellectually attracted by that person, I would love to be able to kiss her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women's point of view..

I personally can't have sex with someone if kissing isn't involved. Very passionate women and find kissing such a turn on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried that rule.

First meet upon setting the rule and Mrs MP broke it so scrapped it.

In fairness it's part of the fun.

To us without it, it all just seems clinical.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I love kissing

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't kiss men.

They are so bad at it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We have on our profile that neither of us kiss our casual partners passionately. It makes us easy to avoid. Neither of us is cold, clinical, passionless, like a prostitute, afraid of intimacy, jealous or any of the other things we've been called over the years by people who've never met us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can play without kissing..... I’m more into kink then sensuality...

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By *tarlord6969Man
over a year ago

stockport

Kissing is a very important part of sex for me personally, but I've never had the shoe on the other foot (ie: been in a swinging couple) but I can understand people wanting to "save" something for themselves, and I don't see the idea of letting someone perform oral on you but not kiss you as ironic either like some folks seem to.

I dont imagine its an intimacy issue, as having someone inside you is pretty intimate!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I can play without kissing..... I’m more into kink then sensuality..."

Yes I think that is a big factor with us. Although a tender kiss on the neck can be very erotic when you're completely helpless.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Women's point of view..

I personally can't have sex with someone if kissing isn't involved. Very passionate women and find kissing such a turn on... "

I'm a very passionate woman but I reserve the right to kiss who I want to kiss and when I want to kiss them. I swing to fulfill my fantasies, and kissing doesn't loom large in those fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't kiss men.

They are so bad at it.

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What all of us?!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldnt meet anyone who had it in their profile, too cold and wouldn't be able to do anything more without kissing first.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Well it wasnt that difficult as you have done this more than once.

I would prefer to go out on my bike than have sex without kissing what an absolute no starter for me.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hate meets where there’s no kissing. It’s something that turns me on so much. So very important to me.

XX

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By *leasureherCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

This makes us laugh, they say you can fuck me but you can't kiss me.

You can't get more intimate than fucking someone, kissing adds to the enjoyment and pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i love a good snog with the right man. My last playmate literally made me breathless with his kisses *gazes off and reminisces*

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Kissing is so sensual to me.. Wouldnt contemplate sex if there was no kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too must have kissing, of the tonsil tickling variety XXX

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Whilst I absolutely respect everyone's right to their preferences and even understand why some people prefer not to kiss - it's not for me, happened with the first couple we played with and felt distinctly odd - but then I absolutely adore kissing with the right person and get incredibly turned on by it.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Can't kiss /won't kiss means I give it a miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get claustrophobic so hate the idea of a stranger trying to eat my face but if it's someone I've got to know and I get a good feeling about them I'm not adverse to kissing....and sometimes it's the only way to get someone to shut the f*ck up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is all part and parcel of the fun,we both enjoy it

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Some couples keep kissing between themselves it happens

It not a deal breaker for me but I would prefer we did then didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kiss = No meet. Why wouldn't anyone want to kiss during, before or after sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mixed feelings about this. Kissing to me, as in full on snogging, is way more intimate than sex. Weird as that might sound. I have to fancy someone a lot more to snog them than I do to have sex with them. Also I need to feel much more safe and relaxed, as it has a vulnerability all of its own.

I love kissing when it feels right, but I wouldn't turn down a "no kissing" meet and as a rule I'm indifferent to it.

Also as mentioned earlier, snogging a man is often a very different experience compared to a woman.

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By *aughtynice23Couple
over a year ago

South West

Essential part of sex for us, just doesn't feel right without kissing.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I’m though there is nothing worse than when you kiss someone to find they are a goldfish kisser or do peck kisses....oh the horror

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Kissing is all part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we meet guys i prefer not to kiss them and i definetely dont want the guys to kiss each other (thank goodness g agrees with this).

We only do soft swing anyway so full sex and kissing is saved to be between g and i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't okay without kissing. Kissing is like foreplay for me.

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By *urryfannyfuntimeWoman
over a year ago

East Devon

I love a good kiss. Shock horror with my eyes closed!

I like to sink into the moment and a good snog can make me very wet.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

There has to be kissing...

That first kiss, tells me everything I need to know!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I have had this happen to me at a couple of meets. When the lady doesn't like to kiss at a meet but just wants sex. Im quite passionate so i enjoy the kissing eliment as much as the sex so it's extremely difficult to have one without the other. I wonder if others have experienced this too??."

We won’t meet people who don’t kiss

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