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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always been interested in establishing this intimate and passionate regular relationship with a couple. I have had short term experiences but would now like to dedicate more time and attention to a similar dynamic. Live a particular moment with them, maybe go out in public to vanilla places ? Take the lady out on dates ? Massages ? Cuddles ? Travel ? Would love to also hear from others their views and thoughts. I live in west end London and can accomodate and travel. Xo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want to marry them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha ! Not the objective, I believe that there is something special to a repeated meet, unlike one offs, you will agree sex gets better basically

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By *oisineandAlCouple
over a year ago

limerick

It would, I assume be like a poly relationship, a triad of sorts

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Frankly your age would put us off. Maybe when we're in our 60's yeah you can crack on. But i don't believe someone your age is interested in a fun only relationship. Even if you think that it's all you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could be ... obviously poly contains the word amour, which is a later stage to be discussed ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do agree. We have a regular arrangement with a single man. He comes around weekly, sometimes a couple of times a week. But there is nothing other than great sex.

We don't even think of having holidays together or him taking me out on dates. We don't want him as part of our family life.

Lines must be drawn somewhere.

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By *anandLeia72Couple
over a year ago

St. Helens

I know there are some couples that do this but for myself, my hubby is there for all that kinda stuff. Being a working mum who's also studying, it's hard enough to get quality time with him as it is. I know cuckolding is definitely more popular than it was but I would say having a relationship with a hot wife is probably a rare thing.

Leia

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

We don't let people 'join our relationship'. That's for us.

Although we've had 'regular' guys before.

The problem is, they started to believe they were part of our relationship.

Sometimes guys need to learn that the relationship is between the couple, and you're joining them for mutual FUN, not joining their relationship.

It can happen on a smaller scale to an extent in the club scene. When you play with a guy, then they expect that it's going to happen every week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is, they started to believe they were part of our relationship."

That's exactly the problem we had with one of our "regulars"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

@Mysterygirliow @LolliPine

I may have mistakenly listed some extreme scenarios indeed, however I agree with you that the NSA remains the most appropriate situation, having said this what i am particularly looking for isn’t necessarily the going out part of the scenario but the getting used to each other, feeling secure, comfortable with the intention of building a better sexual relationship once we get more used to each other and understand how to press those buttons. The FUN PART remains the essence of my search

@Leia yes ! Agree

Xo

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I’d love this, but with an older gent...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I certainly don’t want to be part of it, i just want to live quality time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@Mysterygirliow @LolliPine

I may have mistakenly listed some extreme scenarios indeed, however I agree with you that the NSA remains the most appropriate situation, having said this what i am particularly looking for isn’t necessarily the going out part of the scenario but the getting used to each other, feeling secure, comfortable with the intention of building a better sexual relationship once we get more used to each other and understand how to press those buttons. The FUN PART remains the essence of my search

@Leia yes ! Agree

Xo "

Thumbs up for that

Sex definitely gets better the better you know each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes! The more you get used to it, the better you know how to handle it and make it a better experience now we are understanding each other !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes! The more you get used to it, the better you know how to handle it and make it a better experience now we are understanding each other !"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also when it comes to stretching our boundaries, which I love, yes we certainly do things on a one night stand which are beyond our experience, expectations, habits, and it’s great! But unfortunately a night is so short to properly explore untouched areas, hence a regular contact allows dialogue, roleplay, exchange of ideas, to make certain wishes come true, with time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also when it comes to stretching our boundaries, which I love, yes we certainly do things on a one night stand which are beyond our experience, expectations, habits, and it’s great! But unfortunately a night is so short to properly explore untouched areas, hence a regular contact allows dialogue, roleplay, exchange of ideas, to make certain wishes come true, with time "

Also true. You can share fantasies and play them out next time. Can't cram it all in one night and the better you know each other the more daring you can be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wise Sexy words !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bump!

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