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"I’m with you! Same situation here! Everyone has fantasies and needs etc. A lot of people do things which are considered wrong and keep them secret. Cheating isn’t much different! " True...everyone does have fantasies and needs but nobody else is obliged to meet them... | |||
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"Maybe you just don't excite your wife enough for her to be a hugely sexually motivated person. I was in a long term relationship for almost eight years, our sex was very minimum. It was only after we parted ways and I started to explore more and found I enjoyed sex a lot more that I thought. I also have met two cheating married men during my swinging years, the sex was dull and boring and they remained one hit wonders " Does that also explain the reason there's so many married women on here too... | |||
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"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further.. So I am married - happily - I have been with my wife a long time and actually haven’t cheated on her, there’s just one thing that has always made me more horny and enjoy sex more over the years and that’s been cheating. It continues to be a big fantasy of mine (I don’t know why just is) Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been. So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me) Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people " If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her. | |||
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"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further.. So I am married - happily - I have been with my wife a long time and actually haven’t cheated on her, there’s just one thing that has always made me more horny and enjoy sex more over the years and that’s been cheating. It continues to be a big fantasy of mine (I don’t know why just is) Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been. So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me) Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her. " Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage? | |||
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"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further.. So I am married - happily - I have been with my wife a long time and actually haven’t cheated on her, there’s just one thing that has always made me more horny and enjoy sex more over the years and that’s been cheating. It continues to be a big fantasy of mine (I don’t know why just is) Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been. So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me) Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her. Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage? " thank you haha | |||
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"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further.. So I am married - happily - I have been with my wife a long time and actually haven’t cheated on her, there’s just one thing that has always made me more horny and enjoy sex more over the years and that’s been cheating. It continues to be a big fantasy of mine (I don’t know why just is) Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been. So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me) Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her. Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage? thank you haha " You claim you haven't cheated on her but you already have by having a profile on a sex site and discussing your sex life with her behind her back. Emotional cheating is still cheating. | |||
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"Hi op You will get mixed views on this I wouldnt meet someone playing without permission,as I'd hate it done to me. I can't give profile advice as you haven't specifically asked,but to appeal to people it needs worm. " Is that a small penis? | |||
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"BTW you don't have to justify why you are here to people " But if you want to, do so | |||
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"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further.. So I am married - happily - I have been with my wife a long time and actually haven’t cheated on her, there’s just one thing that has always made me more horny and enjoy sex more over the years and that’s been cheating. It continues to be a big fantasy of mine (I don’t know why just is) Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been. So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me) Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her. Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage? " He's giving an opinion. The Op asked for opinions. | |||
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"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further.. So I am married - happily - I have been with my wife a long time and actually haven’t cheated on her, there’s just one thing that has always made me more horny and enjoy sex more over the years and that’s been cheating. It continues to be a big fantasy of mine (I don’t know why just is) Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been. So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me) Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her. Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage? thank you haha You claim you haven't cheated on her but you already have by having a profile on a sex site and discussing your sex life with her behind her back. Emotional cheating is still cheating. " It's the emotional part of the deception that is harder for some people to get over - ie the act is forgivable but context isn't. | |||
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"Hi op You will get mixed views on this I wouldnt meet someone playing without permission,as I'd hate it done to me. I can't give profile advice as you haven't specifically asked,but to appeal to people it needs worm. Is that a small penis? " Ha ha typo! No pics so can't comment | |||
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"Hi op You will get mixed views on this I wouldnt meet someone playing without permission,as I'd hate it done to me. I can't give profile advice as you haven't specifically asked,but to appeal to people it needs worm. Is that a small penis? Ha ha typo! No pics so can't comment" Now now let’s not go starting vicious rumours haha I’m all good | |||
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"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further.. So I am married - happily - I have been with my wife a long time and actually haven’t cheated on her, there’s just one thing that has always made me more horny and enjoy sex more over the years and that’s been cheating. It continues to be a big fantasy of mine (I don’t know why just is) Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been. So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me) Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her. Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage? thank you haha You claim you haven't cheated on her but you already have by having a profile on a sex site and discussing your sex life with her behind her back. Emotional cheating is still cheating. " Heard it all now!! We are on a swingers site, meant to be a bit more chilled and easy going and we have this comment!!! Lol. Best you lock me up cos when somebody nearly takes me out with bad driving I could kill them, I am not a murderer though, and when a pretty lady walks past and I turn round to appreciate her bottom in a subtle fashion does not make me anything else apart from someone who appreciates a nice arse!! Emotions are entirely different to actually doing the deed, I believe. Glad we are all different though. OP, do what you want, when you want, with whomever agrees and shares and try to avoid hurting anyone, one life, live it. | |||
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"Lies and cheating can cause such heart ache. In my opinion it just isn't worth it. I doubt if the tables were turned and it was your other half doing the same to you behind your back, that you'd feel ok with it. You'd feel betrayed and hurt. " Fuck, I want you | |||
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"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites? Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ? Maybe your best friends or work colleagues? Are you cheating on them too . You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same . Come on let’s hear it " That’s not the same lol | |||
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"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites? Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ? Maybe your best friends or work colleagues? Are you cheating on them too . You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same . Come on let’s hear it " What a load of tosh. | |||
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"Hi op You will get mixed views on this I wouldnt meet someone playing without permission,as I'd hate it done to me. I can't give profile advice as you haven't specifically asked,but to appeal to people it needs worm. Is that a small penis? Ha ha typo! No pics so can't comment Now now let’s not go starting vicious rumours haha I’m all good " If i ever ask a guy his size (normally to even the playing field as I get asked boobage ) - the smaller guys tend to say " dunno, haven't measured, but get no complaints" - my response is that ladies are too polite to complain | |||
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"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites? Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ? Maybe your best friends or work colleagues? Are you cheating on them too . You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same . Come on let’s hear it " Some people really do come out with such drivel | |||
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"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites? Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ? Maybe your best friends or work colleagues? Are you cheating on them too . You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same . Come on let’s hear it " And this logic comes from what planet? You're not cheating on any of those people. Are you deceiving them? Only if they have a right to know about your sexlife, WHICH THEY DON'T!!! | |||
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"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites? Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ? Maybe your best friends or work colleagues? Are you cheating on them too . You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same . Come on let’s hear it Some people really do come out with such drivel " You have to wonder if the guy is trying to justify something... I don't care either way but it does seem like "offence is the best type of defence" kind of stuff. | |||
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"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites? Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ? Maybe your best friends or work colleagues? Are you cheating on them too . You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same . Come on let’s hear it " In very simple terms I have no intention of having sex with any of those people so they have no requirement to understand my sexual health. Even if you kick out all morality, the cheated partner is being made to expose themselves to std's that they otherwise would not be exposed to. Would you find it fair for a sexual partner to hide clear sexual risks from you. A life partner makes choices such as not using condoms with the one they love as they understand there to be no risk of infection. If she knew he was having sex with others, even safer sex, she may opt to choose a different form of protection with her life partner. | |||
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"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites? Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ? Maybe your best friends or work colleagues? Are you cheating on them too . You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same . Come on let’s hear it In very simple terms I have no intention of having sex with any of those people so they have no requirement to understand my sexual health. Even if you kick out all morality, the cheated partner is being made to expose themselves to std's that they otherwise would not be exposed to. Would you find it fair for a sexual partner to hide clear sexual risks from you. A life partner makes choices such as not using condoms with the one they love as they understand there to be no risk of infection. If she knew he was having sex with others, even safer sex, she may opt to choose a different life partner. " I couldn't resist | |||
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"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites? Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ? Maybe your best friends or work colleagues? Are you cheating on them too . You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same . Come on let’s hear it In very simple terms I have no intention of having sex with any of those people so they have no requirement to understand my sexual health. Even if you kick out all morality, the cheated partner is being made to expose themselves to std's that they otherwise would not be exposed to. Would you find it fair for a sexual partner to hide clear sexual risks from you. A life partner makes choices such as not using condoms with the one they love as they understand there to be no risk of infection. If she knew he was having sex with others, even safer sex, she may opt to choose a different life partner. I couldn't resist " Its an option. | |||
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"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites? Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ? Maybe your best friends or work colleagues? Are you cheating on them too . You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same . Come on let’s hear it In very simple terms I have no intention of having sex with any of those people so they have no requirement to understand my sexual health. Even if you kick out all morality, the cheated partner is being made to expose themselves to std's that they otherwise would not be exposed to. Would you find it fair for a sexual partner to hide clear sexual risks from you. A life partner makes choices such as not using condoms with the one they love as they understand there to be no risk of infection. If she knew he was having sex with others, even safer sex, she may opt to choose a different life partner. I couldn't resist Its an option. " Depends on Op's ego and ambivalence to potential consequences. The amount of married men who cannot contemplate this is astounding, or that the bored wife is playing away. | |||
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"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further.. So I am married - happily - I have been with my wife a long time and actually haven’t cheated on her, there’s just one thing that has always made me more horny and enjoy sex more over the years and that’s been cheating. It continues to be a big fantasy of mine (I don’t know why just is) Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been. So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me) Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her. Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage? thank you haha You claim you haven't cheated on her but you already have by having a profile on a sex site and discussing your sex life with her behind her back. Emotional cheating is still cheating. Heard it all now!! We are on a swingers site, meant to be a bit more chilled and easy going and we have this comment!!! Lol. Best you lock me up cos when somebody nearly takes me out with bad driving I could kill them, I am not a murderer though, and when a pretty lady walks past and I turn round to appreciate her bottom in a subtle fashion does not make me anything else apart from someone who appreciates a nice arse!! Emotions are entirely different to actually doing the deed, I believe. Glad we are all different though. OP, do what you want, when you want, with whomever agrees and shares and try to avoid hurting anyone, one life, live it. " This is exactly the incorrect idea that most men seem to have about swinging. They just think it's fucking around but it isn't. No emotions? Married men.. I have no words... | |||
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"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further.. So I am married - happily - I have been with my wife a long time and actually haven’t cheated on her, there’s just one thing that has always made me more horny and enjoy sex more over the years and that’s been cheating. It continues to be a big fantasy of mine (I don’t know why just is) Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been. So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me) Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her. Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage? thank you haha You claim you haven't cheated on her but you already have by having a profile on a sex site and discussing your sex life with her behind her back. Emotional cheating is still cheating. Heard it all now!! We are on a swingers site, meant to be a bit more chilled and easy going and we have this comment!!! Lol. Best you lock me up cos when somebody nearly takes me out with bad driving I could kill them, I am not a murderer though, and when a pretty lady walks past and I turn round to appreciate her bottom in a subtle fashion does not make me anything else apart from someone who appreciates a nice arse!! Emotions are entirely different to actually doing the deed, I believe. Glad we are all different though. OP, do what you want, when you want, with whomever agrees and shares and try to avoid hurting anyone, one life, live it. This is exactly the incorrect idea that most men seem to have about swinging. They just think it's fucking around but it isn't. No emotions? Married men.. I have no words..." Lack of emotional intelligence sadly. | |||
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"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites? Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ? Maybe your best friends or work colleagues? Are you cheating on them too . You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same . Come on let’s hear it " My father knows, my daughter knows an my friends know. They all said the same thing, thought you had to be married to swing lol An it’s not cheating not telling them. I don’t share a bed with them. When you share a bed with someone an cheat on them an don’t use protection. You’re putting the other person at risk with out their consent. I don’t need my family’s consent to be here!!! | |||
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"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites? Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ? Maybe your best friends or work colleagues? Are you cheating on them too . You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same . Come on let’s hear it " All my friends and family know what I’m into, I still won’t meet a cheater. | |||
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"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites? Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ? Maybe your best friends or work colleagues? Are you cheating on them too . You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same . Come on let’s hear it " The crayons are sharpened, the crash helmet is polished and the bus is on its way... | |||
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"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites? Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ? Maybe your best friends or work colleagues? Are you cheating on them too . You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same . Come on let’s hear it " Oh my, you’re pretty special, aren’t you? Do you think it’s normal to discuss the specifics of your sex life with these people? Am I cheating on my mum if I don’t text her to let her know I’m having a wee wank? Or, would that just be fucking weird? (Hint; I know the right answer here, but it’s unclear if you do.) Some of my colleagues don’t know how many Lego sets I own. My brother doesn’t know all of the magazines I read. I haven’t told my employer whether or not I enjoy transsexual pornography. Am I cheating on all of them? I have actually met women who have been open about their marriage, although only when it’s apparent that the relationship is over and the only thing preventing a divorce is finances or circumstance. But I would never meet a woman who told me I was cheating on my next door neighbour because I didn’t tell them I’d be having someone I met on the internet around for kissy kissy bedroom fun times, for the simple fact that I don’t meet dribbling morons. | |||
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