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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's your 'looking for' / preferences in age ranges and why xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 to 50 as there are some hot older ladies out there and they know exactly what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't be right to play with a woman young enough to be my daughter,hence me not wanting to meet anyone under 40. I've put 70 as upper limit as I've played with a very hot lady in her late 60's,though she certaintly didn't behave like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 cos who doesn't want to, up until around 60 because a mature lady can still be hot. Some older ladies look hotter than a lot of the younger girls nowadays

Age doesn't really matter, it's the person that counts. Soppy but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 43 my gf is 28 so I can’t really moan and I’ve put my range at 60 as I can be attracted to many ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

44. I've made the age range on my profile a bit wider but I really only want 44.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

35 to 55, I thought it was realistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are 30-50. Ten years either way. Someone in their twenties just feels too young... And the same goes the other way. I look for more than just physical attraction, so they would need to be of a similar age. My usual go to is late thirties/early forties as i genuinely find them more attractive on all levels

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

38 (any lower tend to be immature) to 55 ( any older are really older in years)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older men are always a bonus though lol xxx

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

20 - 48

We’ve met younger , and older but not through messages we’ve received .

To be honest , the 18 and 19 year olds are fine until they want a conversation and that lasts about a minute and a half , by which time I’ve had enough ! I expect they have too to be fair

Older have been when we have been dogging , and only guys . The conversation is great , the sex not so much , but some men in their fifties have been ok . Older women aren’t our thing to be fair , I guess that’s because my wife is twenty years younger than me and prefers to play with women her own age or younger .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our age range is just a presumption that’s who we will be most attracted too. But have found at parties going outside our age range x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a range of 10 years over an 10 years under my age. Just as a guide.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

27-28

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines wide because everyone is different. Some 24 or 60 years olds are more compatible than people my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just have mine set a little below my age and about 15 years above. They are only a rough guide and I will stray out of those ages if someone appeals to me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

ours is 38 to 65. I had to go and look it up though . We chose that range because experience has taught us it suits us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 - 54. Cause I don't want to play with anyone younger than Dorian. Have no interest in it. And upper limit cause some older ladies and men can be hot.

The upper limit gets changed about sometimes when I change my mind on age limit.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"24 - 54. Cause I don't want to play with anyone younger than Dorian. Have no interest in it. And upper limit cause some older ladies and men can be hot.

The upper limit gets changed about sometimes when I change my mind on age limit.

~Mia"

And Dorian isn't fussed about the boundaries so I control them :P

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35-55 because don't want to meet up for fun with someone near my kids age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have a preference 18+ but I have to be able to hold a conversation with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30-55 because 30 is generally going to be the minimum in terms of emotional maturity (though there has been the occasional exceptional 20-something) and 55 because it is very rare that a man that age or older will attract me physically (with a miniscule amount of exceptions)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t remember specifically, mid-thirties to early-fifties I would guess. I picked an age range which covers the ages of people I generally get on with socially in real life and with whom I tend to have things in common.

Also I have major age paranoia and would feel very uncomfortable next to some nubile young lady (this has caused some relatively heated debates with Number One Chap regarding age preference on the couple profile).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t remember specifically, mid-thirties to early-fifties I would guess. I picked an age range which covers the ages of people I generally get on with socially in real life and with whom I tend to have things in common.

Also I have major age paranoia and would feel very uncomfortable next to some nubile young lady (this has caused some relatively heated debates with Number One Chap regarding age preference on the couple profile). "

Why heated? Does he not respect your wishes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t remember specifically, mid-thirties to early-fifties I would guess. I picked an age range which covers the ages of people I generally get on with socially in real life and with whom I tend to have things in common.

Also I have major age paranoia and would feel very uncomfortable next to some nubile young lady (this has caused some relatively heated debates with Number One Chap regarding age preference on the couple profile).

Why heated? Does he not respect your wishes?"

He does and I respect his, that’s why it works. He was frustrated with my anxiety and possibly a little exasperated. I get snappy when feeling paranoid. Hence relatively heated.

See, not every situation is so terribly negative SH.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I now have mine stated (not set) to 35-42’ which seems like a small window, but I have explained that it factors in the facts that a lot of men have already dropped at least 5 years off their real age.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"38 (any lower tend to be immature) to 55 ( any older are really older in years) "
its just a blooming number .there are some fabulous +55s on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone approx +/- 10 years my age ideally, but you never know, someone bit younger or older may have similar interests as myself.

Maturity isnt really related to age, more an individuals state of mind.

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

25 - 40, I prefer younger guys to older guys but only bin with the odd older guy x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I now have mine stated (not set) to 35-42’ which seems like a small window, but I have explained that it factors in the facts that a lot of men have already dropped at least 5 years off their real age."

That is a very good point,one which I hadn't thought off.

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Mine is a wide range, but more interested in experience or an open mind to explore, rather than finding a perfect body or similar age. For me, I’d rather click and get on with the person or people, then see what happens, because I don’t have a perfect body but have certain skills, I’ve been told, so whilst I do have standards, I’m open to more than most.

So far though, the younger end of the age range hasn't yet been as enjoyable but I’d like to meet a fully open younger couple (of legal age, I mean), to show me otherwise, to enjoy as much of each other together, maybe just wanting to be watched to start with, putting on a show as they get more and more into each other, until hopefully I’m invited closer to touch or participate, respecting any boundaries, hoping to be fully included in their activities, to change my mind about the younger (legal age) generation for the future.

I’m always open to anything new with anyone, or doing something again, if a previous time hadn’t been fully enjoyed.

It’s not always easy to find the right person, couple or group, who just want to have a good time without hangups, just enjoyment together or not afraid to experiment or suggest something new or different to try, whether that’s a position or sexual activity, knowing it’s ok to suggest, as it won’t be said in the wrong company or frowned on as inappropriate or kinky. It would be listened to, considered or discussed and either acted upon or politely declined without any offence taken by the suggestion. I’m not talking about anything extreme here, just the normal activities or kinks. I’d like to meet up with couples and others like that, so please get in touch if that you or involved in open minded group play. I’d really like to get blindfolded in such a scenario, where anything goes while I can’t see, introducing surprises and different body contact made between any part of myself and any body part of the men and women there, my mouth and cock both giving attention to them as they want their cock sucked or their pussy teased as they sit on my face. Meanwhile, my genitals get played with too, ready to be gently guided into position and into a woman’s pussy or a guy’s arse, teasing me as I’m unaware of the situation or what’s going to happen next. That’s not a likely scenario though, so don’t worry if it’s not your scene. I’d like to meet for all kinds of fun, not just bi fun with guys too, as I’m straight acting and wouldn’t make a move on a straight guy, it’s only fun if he’s interested too, especially with his partner watching or making the suggestion. I know a lot of women want to see their partner have some kind of sex with a guy, even if It’s just to receive a blowjob. A lot of guys are straight but want to experiment too, without their partner thinking less of them, so it’s a shame this isn’t discussed more openly between a couple, or I’m asked to be involved as his first time in front of her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple it's a bit difficult. Mrs prefers one group of men age while Mr a different group of women age. It's a small overlap between the two. So we have to put the range that covers both

And then get msgs from individuals within the age group in general but not the right one for one of us

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

It is interesting that certain profiles contain validations from people outside of their age stipulations but maybe they met at a club or party. It would have been a shame if the meeting was brilliant but wouldn't have ever materialised if they had tried to message each other first.

Mr Skyeblue is 51 and therefore over the 50 cut off point on many profiles but he's probably fitter than many 30 something's out there. At least with clubs you see each other for who you really are and personalities shine through. A bit more accurate than a photograph of an ankle with a shoe aged 28......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t remember specifically, mid-thirties to early-fifties I would guess. I picked an age range which covers the ages of people I generally get on with socially in real life and with whom I tend to have things in common.

Also I have major age paranoia and would feel very uncomfortable next to some nubile young lady (this has caused some relatively heated debates with Number One Chap regarding age preference on the couple profile).

Why heated? Does he not respect your wishes?

He does and I respect his, that’s why it works. He was frustrated with my anxiety and possibly a little exasperated. I get snappy when feeling paranoid. Hence relatively heated.

See, not every situation is so terribly negative SH. "

If my partner kept on mentioning something that he knew bothered me, I'd find it very disrespectful. I'd know he didn't care about my feelings, he just wanted to fuck younger women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t remember specifically, mid-thirties to early-fifties I would guess. I picked an age range which covers the ages of people I generally get on with socially in real life and with whom I tend to have things in common.

Also I have major age paranoia and would feel very uncomfortable next to some nubile young lady (this has caused some relatively heated debates with Number One Chap regarding age preference on the couple profile).

Why heated? Does he not respect your wishes?

He does and I respect his, that’s why it works. He was frustrated with my anxiety and possibly a little exasperated. I get snappy when feeling paranoid. Hence relatively heated.

See, not every situation is so terribly negative SH.

If my partner kept on mentioning something that he knew bothered me, I'd find it very disrespectful. I'd know he didn't care about my feelings, he just wanted to fuck younger women. "

Did I say he ‘kept mentioning’ it? If I did, or implied that, I very much apologise as that most definitely isn’t the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

32-50..... however realistically those under 40 are really just for looking at coz their immaturity irritates me (generally speaking of course)

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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago

leeds

My partners have always been around the same age or older.So I thought id give the younger guys a whirl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t remember specifically, mid-thirties to early-fifties I would guess. I picked an age range which covers the ages of people I generally get on with socially in real life and with whom I tend to have things in common.

Also I have major age paranoia and would feel very uncomfortable next to some nubile young lady (this has caused some relatively heated debates with Number One Chap regarding age preference on the couple profile).

Why heated? Does he not respect your wishes?

He does and I respect his, that’s why it works. He was frustrated with my anxiety and possibly a little exasperated. I get snappy when feeling paranoid. Hence relatively heated.

See, not every situation is so terribly negative SH.

If my partner kept on mentioning something that he knew bothered me, I'd find it very disrespectful. I'd know he didn't care about my feelings, he just wanted to fuck younger women.

Did I say he ‘kept mentioning’ it? If I did, or implied that, I very much apologise as that most definitely isn’t the case. "

No you didn't say that, I apologise. It was the 'feeling paranoid' comment that made me think it was a repeated question.

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By *hodgeMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

My age range is 20-52, though I’ve sadly not had any luck with older women so far. There’s plenty of profiles where I’ve liked what I’ve read but can’t message them as I’m outside their age range or I am able to message them and they don’t message back. I keep trying but I’ve had no success meeting older women on here sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone please tell my why 39 is Ok but 40 is not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t remember specifically, mid-thirties to early-fifties I would guess. I picked an age range which covers the ages of people I generally get on with socially in real life and with whom I tend to have things in common.

Also I have major age paranoia and would feel very uncomfortable next to some nubile young lady (this has caused some relatively heated debates with Number One Chap regarding age preference on the couple profile).

Why heated? Does he not respect your wishes?

He does and I respect his, that’s why it works. He was frustrated with my anxiety and possibly a little exasperated. I get snappy when feeling paranoid. Hence relatively heated.

See, not every situation is so terribly negative SH.

If my partner kept on mentioning something that he knew bothered me, I'd find it very disrespectful. I'd know he didn't care about my feelings, he just wanted to fuck younger women.

Did I say he ‘kept mentioning’ it? If I did, or implied that, I very much apologise as that most definitely isn’t the case.

No you didn't say that, I apologise. It was the 'feeling paranoid' comment that made me think it was a repeated question. "

I repeatedly feel paranoid. He is kind enough to wobble my head for me and tell me I’m a dafty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

34-60, I prefer men 45+ But realised that most men take anywhere from 2-10 years off on their profiles as most girls tend to have a cut off around 35-40.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

34.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30-46... below 30 not immature enough above 46 is a aesthetic issue but I've done some exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I now have mine stated (not set) to 35-42’ which seems like a small window, but I have explained that it factors in the facts that a lot of men have already dropped at least 5 years off their real age.

That is a very good point,one which I hadn't thought off."

Ummmm, so should I drop 5 years off my age then?!! I'm showing my actual age! This is all very complicated ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is a wide range, but more interested in experience or an open mind to explore, rather than finding a perfect body or similar age. For me, I’d rather click and get on with the person or people, then see what happens, because I don’t have a perfect body but have certain skills, I’ve been told, so whilst I do have standards, I’m open to more than most.

So far though, the younger end of the age range hasn't yet been as enjoyable but I’d like to meet a fully open younger couple (of legal age, I mean), to show me otherwise, to enjoy as much of each other together, maybe just wanting to be watched to start with, putting on a show as they get more and more into each other, until hopefully I’m invited closer to touch or participate, respecting any boundaries, hoping to be fully included in their activities, to change my mind about the younger (legal age) generation for the future.

I’m always open to anything new with anyone, or doing something again, if a previous time hadn’t been fully enjoyed.

It’s not always easy to find the right person, couple or group, who just want to have a good time without hangups, just enjoyment together or not afraid to experiment or suggest something new or different to try, whether that’s a position or sexual activity, knowing it’s ok to suggest, as it won’t be said in the wrong company or frowned on as inappropriate or kinky. It would be listened to, considered or discussed and either acted upon or politely declined without any offence taken by the suggestion. I’m not talking about anything extreme here, just the normal activities or kinks. I’d like to meet up with couples and others like that, so please get in touch if that you or involved in open minded group play. I’d really like to get blindfolded in such a scenario, where anything goes while I can’t see, introducing surprises and different body contact made between any part of myself and any body part of the men and women there, my mouth and cock both giving attention to them as they want their cock sucked or their pussy teased as they sit on my face. Meanwhile, my genitals get played with too, ready to be gently guided into position and into a woman’s pussy or a guy’s arse, teasing me as I’m unaware of the situation or what’s going to happen next. That’s not a likely scenario though, so don’t worry if it’s not your scene. I’d like to meet for all kinds of fun, not just bi fun with guys too, as I’m straight acting and wouldn’t make a move on a straight guy, it’s only fun if he’s interested too, especially with his partner watching or making the suggestion. I know a lot of women want to see their partner have some kind of sex with a guy, even if It’s just to receive a blowjob. A lot of guys are straight but want to experiment too, without their partner thinking less of them, so it’s a shame this isn’t discussed more openly between a couple, or I’m asked to be involved as his first time in front of her.

"

Could you expand on that?

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By *artholomew RobertsMan
over a year ago

Near Diss

There are very many very hot ladies that are WELL over 50 and if you're sticking to 50 you're missing out. Occasionally there appears on these pages a woman in her 60s that has looked after herself very well and that combination is staggeringly sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age range is 29-50

I do like younger men but would feel a pervert if I went younger and older wise my step dad is 55 so it would just feel weird to go older.. I have nothing against more mature men and if Richard Gere was on here or George Clooney then I deffo would...

Maybe I need to rethink because that sounds shallow haha!!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

41

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By *heangelWoman
over a year ago

wonderland

Who care , you’re so hot op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age range is 29-50

I do like younger men but would feel a pervert if I went younger and older wise my step dad is 55 so it would just feel weird to go older.. I have nothing against more mature men and if Richard Gere was on here or George Clooney then I deffo would...

Maybe I need to rethink because that sounds shallow haha!! "

Please rethink ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For fab, 35-47 upper was higher until we realised people lied about their age. In a club we just go by personality and attraction. I do find older men attractive, Suggs is 57 I think?? And I'd not say no to him.

Ginger

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By *kpiercedCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Ours is 30-60 a wide age range considering there a big age gap between us

I know the age gap puts us out of a lot of other people’s range one way or another, it’s why we tend to go to clubs and just see what happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

39 to 55 although my upper limit is negotiable, depending on attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changed my min age to 30 recently as (outside of Fab) got called Daddy during sex - about as softening as a bottle of Lenor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any age range for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really a preferences per se I just love those two numbers 25 and 70. They have always been with me since the beginning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on be honest. Most men wouldn't even check the age if a lady messaged them for a meet.

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Come on be honest. Most men wouldn't even check the age if a lady messaged them for a meet. "

I wouldn't even check for a pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30-50 for me, no particular reason other than its 9/10 years either side of my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I now have mine stated (not set) to 35-42’ which seems like a small window, but I have explained that it factors in the facts that a lot of men have already dropped at least 5 years off their real age.

That is a very good point,one which I hadn't thought off.

Ummmm, so should I drop 5 years off my age then?!! I'm showing my actual age! This is all very complicated .. "

I'm showing my actual age too! If people don't believe it, bad luck (for me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Come on be honest. Most men wouldn't even check the age if a lady messaged them for a meet. "

They really don't care. I still get mail. Says it all.

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By *kbloke_11Man
over a year ago

Hockley


"It wouldn't be right to play with a woman young enough to be my daughter,hence me not wanting to meet anyone under 40. I've put 70 as upper limit as I've played with a very hot lady in her late 60's,though she certaintly didn't behave like it."
Exactly the same with me

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By *entcockslutCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

I do prefer guys 18-30 as the sex is very good and lots of stamina but that doesn't say I don't meet older guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"34-60, I prefer men 45+ But realised that most men take anywhere from 2-10 years off on their profiles as most girls tend to have a cut off around 35-40. "

Wow I've woken up 10 years older but it's all good as so have most men from what I'm reading. Must have been a problem with the space time continuum overnight

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